Hey I'm Anjela I'm from CA livin it up...started the site so I can give some advice to people. I've been to peer counceling classes so I know how to handle the "hard" questions about mostly anything...so ask away.
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im 15 and well honstly ive only made out with 3 guys, and thats all ive ever sexually done... ive never "masterbated" whatever that means or anything like that but my bf keeps trying to finger me and stuff! if i let him do it..is it gonna hurt? can my "cherry" pop? is it gonna feel really bad? and if i let him do it will i be labled a slut? (me and my bf have been together 10-11 months now) anything? (link)
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Well first off..you will not be deamed a "slut"...you need to know that you're ready to go to the next step sexual wise. Remember that it's only your boyfriend's and your business what you do especially because you've been together for so long. Now your "cherry" can only "pop" when something is put up there so yes it probably will but it DOES NOT mean that you were devirginized...it MIGHT hurt you..it really depends on the guy and you. good luck with the decision
~Anjela
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Okay, i'm a ninth grader, and i can't stand all of the 7th graders, they're all stuck up. i got into a huge fight with one of them cuz they were sayen stuff about me. and then the one girls friends sister got involved and shes 16, and im on 14, she threatened to kick my ass, i duno if she'll actually do it though. i see her alot in the halls , i dont think she exactly knows what i look like either, but alot of people in my school know me, so they might tell her. should i skip school tomorrow, or just go? im soo worried.. thanks!!! and if i do skip school, what can i tell my mom, like what are some good tricks? (link)
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Deffinatly don't skip school...horrible idea. These types of things happen at my school all the time so I feel where you're comin from. If she figures out that you skipped school just because she SAID she wants to kick your ass than she will just feed off that. She'll gain more confidence and will know that you're scared of her. Never let fear slide through your real emotions even if you might be scared NEVER show it that way she won't know what to think...if she confronts you..just keep your head up and remember..never let fear show.
~Anjela
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hola. well you see i take accutane and people who took that were getting depressed (psh like 2 ppl) and the company didnt want to get sued so they put in the booklet "may cause depression" but yeah i feel so depressed and i have for a long time. emphasize the long. I dont sleep, and there are times when i dont eat. im really anxious and EVERYTHING makes me nervous. like standing in line at a store and paying.. cuz i wont b able to put my money away fast enough and i'll hold up the line or i'll get my money out to slow or something like that. its pretty ridiculous as you can see. ANYWHO i dont want to tell my mom how i feel bcuz sometimes im ok, (like sometimes at skool), i dont want her to send me to a psychiatrist, i dont want her to go crazy and be like are you thinking about killing urself?!?!? all the time... She's done that b4.. but the main reason is that i dont want her to try to link it to accutane.. bcuz my skin is lookin ok! ** is anyone else taking anti-depressants or have some of my same problem? what do you take and how does it affect you?
thanks- srry so long (link)
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This sounds like a real problem...you deffinatly need to tell your mom, and if you don't feel comfortable enough then schedule an appointment with a doctor by yourself. Something needs to be done...it doesn't matter that you SOMETIMES feel OK...what matters is that you feel depressed. Depression isn't something to joke around with..my advice is tell a councelor or your parents.
~Anjela
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