Member Since: June 8, 2005
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omg!! i have a proble i don'tt know what pet to gett a fishh or a hermit crab? can u help me please.. thanxxx
ashleyy xox (link)
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well it depends which you like more with a fish all you can really do is what it swim around a bit and with a hermit crap i think you can play with it a bit more
hope i helped
xox shana and danielle xox
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hey i'm 14 and i love this guy but he won't notice me so i showed him my bra and thong and now everyone thinks i'm a slut.But i'm only trying to get him to go out w/ me cause i want to have sex w/ him. How do u have sex? what is it like? (link)
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i'm really sorry but im 13 and i dont know about sex but why did you show him your bra and thong because that is kinda really gross sorry
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my two best friends are soo popular ( so am i ) but when they hang out togetther sometimes they can get a lil bit mean and bitchy i am happy that they get along but i feel left out sometimes (link)
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you really just need to talk to them about it and let them know how you feel that you are left out sometimes. you cant have a good friendship unless you talk about things and you should be able to tell them anything!
hope we helped
xox danielle and shana xox
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i like this guy ..alot........ and i want to have sex with him really bad but i dont know how to tell him this...........
PLEASE HELP
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well you could start out by saying that you are curious wheather or not your relationship is going anywhere.when you say say that he will hopefully get the clue if not and you really love him and you can tell him anything just tell him how you feel.
hoped we helped
xox danielle and shana xox
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Your 13 years old, yet you think you know how to give advice about love and relationships? Not trying to sound rude, but when your older you might relize how naive you really are about certain subjects. (link)
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thats really rude and actually we give good advice and you can even ask some of the people we gave advice to and the stuff about love and relationships is really good.
xox shana xox
yea i think that is really rude too were not being nieve you are just being plain rude and heres some advice for you that you ovbiously havent learned yet if you dont have anything nice to say dont say it and we werent in thisin the begging to give advice about love we were in it to help people...and here is some advice helping you if you dont like something that people are doing unless it personaly effects you dont say anything and it is always nice to think before you speak and maybe THINK about how you would feel if someone said that to you
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my friend likes this boy and i think and everyone else think hes gay for example he only had girls as friends and he cares tooooo much of how he looks but hes really cool and everyhting everyone loves him as a friend.but is it weird that my friend likes him? (link)
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well when guys are still young sometimes the are confused about their sexuality. he might be a metrosexual , so you should just let your friend like him and if he comes out ot be gay well then im sure she wont like him anymore. i isnt weird that she likes him though!!
hoped we helped!!
xox danielle and shana xox
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Dear Truebluex992,
One of my best friends is going away to camp and i am going to miss her so much i dont know what to do with out her. she is so amazing and cool and i always have such a great time with her. she is my twin and she is also known as so juice. i really cant last 8 weeks without her. please help me survive!
Love Always,
Lowy (12 year old female) (link)
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omg jess i love you too!! you are amazing also and you can survive by writing her im me and i will give you my adress
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well i'm 13/f and after me and my boyfriend got together my bestfriend told me she like him and told me ta break up with him and right away i thought no i'm not gonna give up someone that i know i really like. So she decided she would do anything ta break us up like roumors that i'd been cheating on him and lies that i didn't like at all. she became really 2 faced through out it. and bacically we r not friends no more and i know i'm not tha only one who wouldn't wanna be her friend! so tha roumors never got ta boyfriend but once, and thats when we got into an argument i mean cussin and fussin real bad. so then tha next day at skool infront of everyone he says its over! Well my ex bestfriend was feelin' pretty lucky! Not known' he felt bad for wut he had done and wanted me back! well we got back together and still now shes still spreading shit and makin up stupied lies, i've tried askin my friends but they all said ta kick her ass and if ur advice doesn't work it might just come up to it b/c she ain't that tough (trust me i would know,lol) and she still try's ta call my boyfriend and even wrote him a Damn letter its gettin old 'nd i'm tired of it!!!!!!
Bacically** wut should i do ta ignore all her shit?? (link)
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you should really tell how stupid this all is and how bad she is acting over a boy isnt it friends before guys and dont kick her ass because that is no way to slove a problem like this i really think since you use to be bestfriends you can talk about something like this and make it through because she is obiously reacting like a baby because you should do all of this over a boy!
good luck
xox shana and danielle xox
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okay im 16 years old. and.. like i have alot going on and its making me like really depressed. so.. ever since school has been out my mom has just been like the biggest bitch ever. and shes never ever been like this. ive done everything she expects from me, like for real i have no idea how i can make myself better for her. and i have a job. i work at sephora and whenever i dont work there my mom is making me work at her daycare and i dont even get the money for it. it goes towards my cell phone bill and plus she disconnected my service. then on the other hand.. my really good friend commited suicide the 15th of june and.. im not passing over that very well. like its became a habit to cry every single night before i go to bed at night and i cant sleep til like 4 0'clock in the morning thinking about him and staring at his pictures.
like.. for real i feel like i need to die, and my friend talked to me about all of this stuff last night and we both started crying.
RAHHH i HAVE NO iDEA WHAT TO DO..
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thinking that you need to die is no way to slove a problem but there is nothing wrong with crying crying is a good way to get your feelings out and it was very recent and i am sure your going to get over it..its ok to get over things but you never have to forget him you may not cry ever night but there might be a few nights when you do because you will miss him you may want to consider see someone about this because it seems like it is becoming bad i am sure they can help you get through this a lot eaiser and while your there you can get all your feelings out about your mom but with your mom maybe you want to talk to her and ask her if anything is wrong and say to her youve been acting different latley..you should never be afriad to talk to your mom.
i am sorry about you friend
i hope you feel better
xox danielle and shana xox
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Ok where do I begin....There's this guy I really like and I have a feelin he kinda likes me to ...But there is a few things that make it complicated...1) He has a girlfriend right now but me and his ex girlfriend who is my best friend think it's gonna be over really soon...2) His ex girlfriend is my best friend and I don't know how she would feel if I dated him....3)He has sorta been known for a bad past such as almost havin sex with a few girls and there's this one girl he has been said of doin it with that I absolutly hate..4) My brother is his coach and I wouldn't want that to get in the way of him playin sports..WELL there are good things about him....1) His dad and my dad used to be good friends..2) His parents like me 3)He's a great guy 4) My sister really likes him .. but she is married so she wouldn't go after him ....At night I dream about him and think about him all tht time....I'm afraid to tell my friends I like him but.....I do and it's really hard keepin a secret.....So please tell me if there is any thing I could do.... Signed,,A confused soul (link)
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you sloved your first problem because you think he will be done with his girlfriend now you 2nd problem all you have to do is ask your friend if she would be upset or feel uncomfortable if you went out with him and the 3rd problem you have to think about how you would feel if hit almost had sex with you and if you end up going out you may want to ask him to respect you and take things slow i dont think that your brother being a coach would be a problem because your sister likes him so wouldnt you want you brother to like him and i am sure that he might feel the same way it is great that his dad and your dad were friend and since his parents like you they must trust you. you should never be afraid to tell your friends who you trust anything because in the end you dont really have to care what they says because they are not you you have to do what you want to do not what your friends want or tell you to do
good luck hope i helped if you need anymore advice just ask
xox danielle and shana xox
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ok, well i have this friend that talks to guys online that she doesnt know at all and then she puts in her profiles and xangas that she loves them and everything ((i dont know why but it really is starting to get on my nerves and i like hate her for it)) it sorrta makes me feel left out like i dont have someone to love..and the worst part is when she talks to these people she acts like something she isnt! Can you please give me some advice for this situation?
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well you shouldnt really feel left out because i dout that she really loves them because she never even met them and maybe you need to tell her how you feel i know i always say that but its the truth and tell her that she doesnt even know them because they can be the complete oppiste of what she thinks she probly asks like someone she isnt when she talks to them because she wants them to think that she is so cool you can also tell her you dont like the way shes acting and how she trying to be someone shes not if she really care about your friendship she will listen and try to take your advice i know from experience i am sure shes not going to do this forever because if shoes a good person she will come to her sense and realize its weird but for now you should really talk to her and tell her how you feel because it seems like you really care about yourfriend ship and you want to make it work and i am sure no matter how she acts deep down she probly does too
good luck i hope i helped
xox danielle and shana xox
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hey i am 15 years old and a female and i want to have sexx.. so timesss i do have it but i wish i could have it mmoreeeeee... !!! how can u help me? (link)
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well you can just have it more if you like it that much i am sorry i am not good with sex i am only 13 but you can do it if you want to if that is what makes you happy
good luck
xox shana and danielle xox
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hwey i am 10 years old and veryy over weight.. how can i sovle this problem i tryed to losse weight but it is not working help me..
-fatyyyy (link)
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you can try working out more eating heathier and diet but dont stop eating! eat but maybe cut down the amount of snacks you have during the day or eat more fruits and vegies and they make 100 calorie cookies which are really good actually and you can have healthier lighter food during the day a good person to talk to is a parent or a nutritionist to help you plan what you can eat or you can go to into a weight loss program
good luch
xox danielle and shana xox
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ok .. so i\'m 13...i weigh likee 95-98 lbs... i\'m 5\'1 and ..i play volleyball and swim alot so as a result ; i\'m kinda muscular. so .. is that overweight? all my friends tell me i\'m skinny .. but honestly .. i don\'t believe it ... as a result ... i skip breakfast .. lunch..and sometimes dinner. but if i do eat dinner ... its not alot...my friends tell me i\'m going to develop an eating disorder...but i dont know and i\'ve tried asking other peopless and they either say \"yeah you\'re too skinny\" or \"i dont know what to tell you\" so .. yeah ..help please !
-faty ,13- (link)
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first of all NEVER STOP EATING
that is so dangerous u are well on your way to anerxia y\98 pounds is not a lot your an athlete.. you muscluar and muscle ways a lot more than fat anyway when you skip meals you body keeps every amount of food you get and it makes you fat so dont do that if you honestly think you are fat you can go on a diet by eating healthier dont ever skip a meal that is dangerous and please dont make it a habbit i bet your friends are right you sound skinny more of my friends are over 100 pounds and theres a different weight for every hieght and most of the time your friends wouldnt lie without eating you could get so hungry you can faint please dont stop eating and if you need anymore advice just ask
xox shana and danielle xox
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I am so in love with this guy named Ryen.We have been dating for a while now.And he still has not poped the questtion.How do I Him to?plz help.
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well if you really think that this guy is THE one you have to say in a nice way to him- is the relationship going anywhere or not? if he says yes be prepared for him to ask you. if he says no just break up with him because if he isnt THE one you need to be able to meet more guys that could be THE one!
hoped we helped!
xox danielle and shana xox
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I am so in love with this guy named Ryen.We have been dating for a while now.And he still has not poped the questtion.How do I Him to?plz help. (link)
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well if you really think that this guy is THE one you have to say in a nice way to him- is the relationship going anywhere or not? if he says yes be prepared for him to ask you. if he says no just break up with him because if he isnt THE one you need to be able to meet more guys that could be THE one!
hoped we helped!
xox danielle and shana xox
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ok ... well first of all - i wanted to say thanks for having this online i'm sure its really helpful. noww heres my problem : i have a boyfriend ... and we've been together for about 2 1/2 months now .. and he's really sweet and i lovee him so much. and.. idk he just does really nice things for me like calling me and...always making sure i'm happy and stuff. well ..you see... he asked me out a week after my boyfriend [of 3-4 months] dumped me. i didn't have much time to get over him .. but i was positive i was in love with my current boyfriend. don't get me wrong .. i mean i do love him .. alot. but ..every now and then .. things will remind me of my ex...and i'll remember how much i loved him and how much i miss him now ...and the worst thing is ... my ex rarley talks to me and thinks i'm weird...slutty...but still thinks i'm hott. my love life is so confusing ... and i need to know what to do !! ...stay with my current boyfriend ? or try to get my ex back?? =\
your help would be GREATLY appriciated!!
x3 ..crazy in (link)
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well there are a few things that you could do you can 1. stay with you boyfriend now because it sound like he is so sweet and you love him alot or 2. you can take a break from having a boyfriend for a little and see which one you miss the most
i hope i helped if this doesnt work i will think of more
xox shana and danielle xox
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hey, my mom always tells me that im fat... she doesnt really come up and tell it to my face but she'll say you really need to excercise more or u need to excercise every day or something like that i try and tell her it hurts my feelings when i say it to her but she keeps doing it and sometimes gets really sensitive, im getting sick of it and its driving me crazy... im 13 and weigh around 110 pounds... how can i tell her to stop telling me this without hurting her feelings and her stopping calling me fat? ITS DRIVING ME NUTS! (link)
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you can try telling your mom that 110 pounds is not overwieght for a 13 year old most of my friends weigh around there you should only exercise more if you think that your fat you should sit down with your mom one day and tell her that ...because eat disorders come from problems like this
hope we helped
xox danielle and shana xox
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hi.i am a really wierd kinda kid..i watch porn alot so i really wanna have sex..is it possible 4 a girl 2 feel the same way!??!i wanna taste sum pussy(slurp)
Male,13 (link)
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ok..well you are only 13 and not as many girls are going to feel the same way because your not that old yet maybe some girls will feel the same way as you most girls that age dont want to just have SEX you might have to take it a little slower..
hope we helped,
shana and danielle
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my two bestfriends are spending alot of time together recently. i kind of feel left out, and jealous. every time i talk to one of them like on AIM ,they'll be together. theyre ALWAYS together. its weird because im usually with one of them. but now im just staying home all by myself, while theyre out somewhere together. i feel like in a little bit, theyll be best friends and i wont be included. can you please give me some advice? (link)
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You might what to tell them that you feel left out and tell them you thought you were their best friend too and you can start hanging out with other people because you shouldnt have to sit home and be upset go out and have a good time and dont sit at home and feel sorry i am sure your friends will come to their sences and hang out with you again
hope this advice helps
xox shana and danielle xox
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