I'm all what you wouldn't call ordinary. xD
Anyway,I'm 16 years old and I'm in first year of high school.I like a lot of things,I don't hate anything in particular.I am a very nice person,with an attitude though,but I'm always there for people who need me.My friends tell me it's rare for someone to be so kind-hearted,so I'm pretty proud of the way I am. :D
I love fashion,music,shopping and hanging out with friends,as well as giving advice,well that's why I'm here,right? Anyway,if you need some advice on love and friendship,just ask away!
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Okay so I want some opinion's on why guy's only respect certain girls? I'm in high school, 16 years old, and it seems that many girls do have boyfriends. I don't have one. I understand it's not the end of the world..but, it's annoying. Guy's always tell me I'm very pretty (not to sound full of myself), and I'm also smart and kind to everyone. I'm shy sometimes though. Anyway, I've had guys ask me out, but the one's who do..are the one's I don't have a thing for. I'll admit..for some reason, I always go for guy's who are pretty much "players". I don't know why..I just find them cute and stuff. So, recently I liked this guy..he acts totally different around me then he does everyone else though! He acts like a nice guy around me, but then he'll go on myspace or even at school and start calling girls sexy and hit on them and stuff. Why don't I get that? I mean, I know he's had a thing for me for a while..and I kinda like him too..obviously he finds me attractive to like me, you know? Well, I asked my friends, because this happens to me a lot,..and they said he acts different and more like a gentlemen around me because he respects me? I mean, of course having respect is wonderful..but does that HAVE to mean I don't get a boyfriend because I have there respect? Ughh. But anyway, this brings me to my main question..why do guys only respect certain girls? Anyone please give me advice. Thankyou :) (link)
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I'm a year younger than you and I used to have the same problem,but I "made a discovery" lol.Guys may think you are pretty and stuff,but they will always go for a girl who would easily have sex with them,who are easy to get...That's how all teen guys are.They respect you because you're not easy.As for being asked out by guys who you don't like-that always happens,but it will be better.You're the kind of girl a guy would want for a serious relationship,just because you don't give yourself easily,and keep that up.Guys rarely respect girls.I wouldn't take it as a bad thing,on the contrary,I'd be very pleased with myself for that.Oh and it doesn't have to mean you don't get a boyfriend.You're single because the right one hasn't come along yet.Whatever you do,stay as you are,and true love will always find you.
I hope I cleared it up for you.
Best wishes,
solariagirl94
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My friend, Her name is Kelsey.
She is dating this guy who I can't stand at all. Now, A few months or so ago there was this huge arguement between me and my best friend they broke up and Tim told her that I said she cheated on him..wtf? Anyway, A week later Kelsey and Tim got back together and she kept it a secret from me the entire time and our friendshp started going downhill a little bit when I told her I didn't say nothing. Not only did she avoid the problem and not talk to me but our friendship is STILL not the same. She will go awhile without talking to me then call me wanting to hang out and spend the night at my house...not only that but I live in apartment and I have rules to keep the television down after 10pm..she doesn't listen I've talked to her about this on several occasions. I'm fed up, She never listens to me at all and she talks over me.
What should I do (link)
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As cruel as it sounds,let her go.If she doesn't realize that Tim is bad for her you can't help her.And there is something we all agree on-there is no friendship without respect.If she doesn't respect you,and even worse,if it's becausse of a guy,then she doesn't deserve to be called your friend.First rule of friendship-friends don't keep secrets from each other.Basically,just let her be...she'll realise what she had when she loses it.I mean,what a good friend she had when she loses you.There's no point in trying to reason with her since she's so stubborn.Anyway,I hope that all this will be better soon.
best wishes,
solariagirl4
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i have a best friend who is now seventeen years old. we were boyfriend & girlfriend a year ago.. but we lasted about three months. but the thing is that i only saw him as a best friend than a boyfriend, including the fact that i rarely got to see him. and apparently he didn't get over me for a couple of months, but later on he did. he didn't like anybody for a while, only a little crush here and there. he's been single for almost a month now, but i've had a couple of boyfriends after him. i am now in a relationship with my current boyfriend for seven months. and me and my best friend still talks alot like usual. once school had ended, and summer started. i went on vacation, out of the country... and didn't have a computer or any of type of phone, and my best friend went off to new york. but he came back before i did... and ever since, he wasn't interested in anybody. for his seventeenth birthday, i surprised him at the bowling ally. he was happy and everything, and we started to hang out alot more, and talk on the phone more. and did what we always did.
but lately, now when i talk to him, he always says "i hate my life" or "fml" and i always ask him why does he say that, and he says that he's a loser. i asked why, but he said he always looses things. yesterday, i told him to tell me what was wrong cause i had to deal with that for the longest time ever. but he said "i'll tell you when i'm ready, and right now i'm not ready" which made no sense, because he didn't show any clues that he liked me again or anything, he makes fun of me and etc. and when he liked me before, he was always polite and throwing compliments at me. and later on, i kept asking him why wouldn't he tell me what was wrong.. and he said "if you were me, you wouldn't be ready to tell you either... it's harder than you think it is.. plus, it would probably effect everything. what if it involved a special person?" and today, he came over to my house.. i went through his messages cause him and my best friend was talking about something, and he said "did you tell mary (me) anything?" and my friend said "no, why?" so i don't know.
i suck at reading clues... help?! (link)
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it is highly likely that he likes you,from what you've said.And the fact that he hasn't been truly interested in anybody after all the time that has passed after you broke up with him points out the obvious.But I guess he doesn't want it to be that way,he doesn't want you to see that he does love you.Honestly,I feel bad for the guy.And he probably feels a lot worse if he knows you're in a relationship for 7 months with someone or so.And when he said he loses things,he ment how he lost you.I don't know if you like him,but if I were you,I'd question myself about it.Normally,a girl doesn't care if a guy likes her or not unless deep down she likes him too...and I think that is your case.
So,all I can say it...I hope this resolves smoothly and good luck with him!
I hope I helped anyhow.
best wishes,
solariagirl94
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