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I love to be different
to be
Unpredictable.
Unexpected.
Nothing to plain or boring.
You only get to live life once
so why not have fun.
I love playing football and snowboarding!
I love my boyfriend and my friends and family. What ever makes me happy.
I am above the influence.
above it all.
I am a happy person injoying life
but oh so confuesed.
After all, I'm only human.
my motto: Live life to it's fullest.

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are there any songs about struggling with an eating disorder and not feeling pretty and feeling alone?

two good one I can think of are by
simple plan,
perfect and welcome th my life

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hey you just answered my question about puberty and you sed to talk to a really close friend, well i wud do that but talking to any friend or anybody else is gonna be reall embarrasing. and if i were to talk to a friend tell me wat i wud say.

if you wanted to talk to your friend just know that really, there's nothing to be embarrased about. Cuase every female ends up having a period, it's like the circle of life.

I serously I couldn't talk to my bff face to face at first until we where both comfurtable talking about that stuff.
So ask your friend over the phone. it avoids major embarrassment.
just say hey I got to ask you a personal question and then ask her a question you have and just tell your friend how embarrassed you are. It helps. Tell her your nervous about it and you want to know what it's like, you may also want to tell her that your talking to her about it cuase it would be to hard to talk to your dad.

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ok i'm 13/f (recently turned 13) ok i havn't gotten my period yet, but i have everything like pucic hair, under arm hair, and a little developement of boobs. well lately my voice has been acting weird like when i'm talking to my friends or family my voice is fine but when i talkin front of teachers or in front of class, then my voice goes weird like a need to clear it. also since i live with my dad i dont shave anywhere, and all my other friends do- and they even ask me why i dont shave, and it puts me in a bad position. cause its really weird to talk to him about AND I CAN'T TALK TO ANYONE ELSE! and i need details about period things, any web sites or links will be great as well but please tell me as much as possible. please a.s.a.p. thank u

I had a similar problem. not knowing who to talk to and being embarrassed but it all soon passed.
one website that can awnser some of your questions. http://beinggirl.com/

but as far as shaving, well my mom wouldn't let me start shaving til 6th grade and I really wanted to cause I thought it was a way cool thing but once you start shaving, it just gets oober annoying cuase you have to do it regurally cause your hair will start growing back darker and kinda thicker.

Your period once it starts, for the first couple time may not be in a cycle yet so you may get one at wierd times the first couple times. It doesn't hurt! You can feel it. You may get cramps im like in you abdomen area or head aches.
NO big deal though.


Your voice changing is just another stage of puberty. It may be like this for awhile but your adapt to it.

Also you can always talk to a really good friend about this stuff who has already experienced her period and feel free to ask me questions.

Hope I helped.
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I'm fourteen, and our 8th grade dance for school is coming up soon. Supposably it's not going to be that "formal" but you can still wear a dress. Where can i get some simple but cute dresses for it?


- Something thats not too expensive as well.
Thanks =]

well if you want something cute, not really formal I got this dress. you can get it in different colors with a tank top underneath.
Also you can try kohls, maybe even target, jcpennys and some stores in your local mall.

http://www.aeropostale.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2654585&cp=2284058.2042418.2426335&parentPage=family

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i want band posters evanescence~three days grace~blue october~red jumpsiut apparatus. i cant find a store that sells any good ones. all i can find is websites. does anyone know any store that you can walk into and buy them not over the computer or internet.

you can find most of those bands at hot topic!

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Ok, I'm 16/m, and i was wondering how i can tell if a girl wants me to kiss her. What are the signs or anything i would need to know

a couple ways:
bite her lip

stare into your eyes

look at you and smile

they'll wrap there arms around you

they'll play with there hand, shirt, hair waiting for you to make a move

also if she just acts real comfurtable around you.

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My hair is really straight and wont curl!
I have tried curling mooses and Curling irons
I heard that Curling shampoo works...
Or Curlers..
I just dont want to waste my money on something that doesnt work!
I really need it curly by this wednesday, i have a special event to attend
Any suggestions will work
Thanks
(14/f)

I though my hair wouldn't curl for like 13 years until my friend tried and it curled just fine. Your hair my be harder to curl depending on your hair type so it may not just curl.
But if you get like a conair or a revlon they tend to work. make sure that they have high heat level though cause that is a big factor.

Then to hold the curls you might try biolage curl defineing cream or curl.life may also work for you. Curl.life, you can pick up at eather a beauty brands, if your town has one or some hair solons.
hope I helped!

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how do i look my boobs look bigger? without plastic surgery, or anything like that. How do you stuff your bra without making it look obvious. Thanks.

honestly, don't becuase all the sudden when people see you your boobs will be bigger and most of the time it is obvous! So I would stay away from stuffing pluss that's just a set up for major humilation! Stick to padded bras and stuff like that. once again give it time and the'll grow on there own!

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I read this phrase once and thought it was just a cute phrase but then on Hannah Montana i heard Billy Ray Cyrus singing it. I only remember a few words. The beggining is like:
If we were a movie, id be the best friend

and it ends

and we watch the sunset as it fades to black or something like that. What song is this?

that is called If I where a movie.
you can type in lyrics on google and it will come up with the title!

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This is for anyone who truly considers themself punk, no one who isn't.

I'm kind of interested in starting to listen to punk music but I have no idea where to start. What are some good punk groups? But true punk, not poser bands at all. And if you could kind of stay away from any band that frequents pop music radio stations, that would be great.

ok some goos punkish bands I listen to...
12 summers old
action Item
About last night
hotspur
16th avenue
a great site is purevolume.com
cuase it has mostly like punk bands.
I like to listen to things that most people haven't heard that is good to be different!
check em out.

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What would happen if you devoured like 3 bottles of pills?

it would mainly depend on the kind but I know 13 asprin makes you pass out and depending on your age 6 makes you have to get your stomach pumped.I wouldn't try it if I where you.

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that you have no classes with, barley see, and how do you make a girl laugh? and please dont say tell a story or something it doesn't work.

Well when you are around the girl you like jsut act cuasual and just start talking to her about something casual. But if you know where she is in the mornings before school just find her and talk to her about what ever is on your mind like even hey, did you whatch survivor last night or talk to her about something you have in common with her if you both play hockey then talk to her about hockey! Stuff like that. Just be sure don't be nervous to talk to her and make sure you are comfurtable, if you aren't girls can tell trust me! If you want to make her laugh, be yourself because if you pretend she knows. zBut be sure you smile when you are talking to her there is nothing that is better. Hope this helps!

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