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i have this friend who is only 14, but weighs 140 lbs. she swims for 2 hours 3 times a week and does an hour of Phys.Ed. 3 extra times a week. she might weigh alot because she is like a little less than half muscle, and the rest fat. she eats pretty healthly, but she can't keep her mouth away from junk food. how can i help her?

You want the truth?-A straight forward answer?..here it goes..

You can't help her! You can't control what she eats! It's her life..let her control it. I know you're her friend and you care for her and all..but seriously, screw it. You can't help her..only encouraging advice would help..not even..

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I have some good friends who are younder than me. We will call them A, B, and C. Then there are these two guys who we met a couple of months ago, we will call them D and E. D has never lied to me. E seems like an ok guy. D & E used to drink, do drugs, smoke, and skip school, now they dont. People have told me bad things about D& E. They have a bad rep. Friends A B & C are very jealous of the relationships between us and D&E. We have caught A B and C lying before. I dont know who to believe. A B and C, who I have been friends with for a couple of years, or should I believe D who hasn't every lied to me.(And been caught).

Thanks guys,
Nokomis

Ok Please do not write like that! Just make up fake names or something because alphabet letters can be very confusing!

Also, you seem very immature..Hello this is a guy we're talking about here..he used to do drugs and drink? How do you know he doesn't any more? He may even be lying to you now! All friends lie to eachother..so what! Get over it..dump the guys..Friends will always be there for you..either that, or make new friends!

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i know that this is stupid, but i want people to come see my house, i mean, im not like rich or anything, i live in a middle class house like most other poeple, but when you go inside my house you'll see that we live more comfortable than most people who arent super rich and all out, and i want the people at school to see my house, cause it does look rich and fancy, it seems wrong that i want to be making friends just because of money, especially since ive always been a person who say and believes that its wrong, but for once i just want to have a little attention like everyone else and not because im acting like an idiot,so what do i do?

Yeah I totally understand. Everyone wants/needs attention. Go get yours! Throw a party or something and invite friends! I'm sure they'd love your house!

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ok well i like this girl i have never met her in person.. we were this friday but im not going to be able to because i have a baseball game. and yes i know that doesnt matter. anywho.. we talk on the phone like every night till like 11. she lives about 30 minutes away from me. she is a grade lower then me but i dont care. she likes someone at her school and im not sure if i can do anything about it?! i think she did like me but im not sure anymore. how can i tell? and should i go out with her even though im going to be in highschool next year and she will be in 8th? thank you. i rate high to people who give me good answers.

Ok..I'm going to be straight forward and honest with you here...

You've never even met her and you like her? What if you do meet her and she isn't like what you expect?? How are you ever going to see her if she lives far from you and doesn't even go to the same school?

This is such an immature question. I can't believe it's posted up here.

How do you know she likes you if she's never met you!

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Sorry This is long i have to get it off my chest, Please reaspond what you think...
There this girl lets call her E, Well I went up to E and were not close but i THOUGHT i could trust her. Well a girl A is always rude to me but today she was crying and i went up to E and asked her if her boyfriend broke up with her or somthing and she said No, It was horrible though and she said it like it was like so bad that i should be crying with A, because she said it sounded so dramatic i told E that i realy dont feel bad though because shes always a jerk to me and makes up stuff to me and i didnt even say it rude but next thing i know shes wisspering to A and then A walks up to me and goes we have to talk now and i was talking to my sister and shes like now i am like hold on to my sister and i walk up to her and she blows up in my face saying all this crap. I was so mad at E i started crying but it got worse. Earlier in the school year during cheerleading A walks up to me and my friends and says I know your talking about me and crap so i said no acualy we were working on a formation. and she started crying and she went to school the next day saying she made me cry when i made her cry and i never braged about it. She annoys me so much and i cant stand A or E... I dont know what to do anymore...

Also today someone guy,,, Lets call him P well P said my hair looked like crap and i like egnored him and then hes like im just kidding so i go ok and i wlak about and then i hear him say NOT and it egnored him and just how he said it made me mad (THIS IS ALL BEFORE THE A AND E INSODENT)and im made and then he kept going "Im kidding" and it got on my nerves then he would giggle and stuff so i go P i would ask for your opion if i wanted it
So Then later i told E (STILL BEFORE THE A AND E ACCIDENT) about the insodent with P and she said not to lissen to him and then someone told A that she was fat and shes a TWIG and E was acting like it was a big deal, it was soooo annoying that E thought it was a big Deal but when I had a problem it was egnore him.

Please do not write like that! It's very confusing! Instead of saying "A" and "E" and all those other letters..why don't you just make up names! It'd be easier for everyone to understand!

Now, about your situation...I think that you shouldn't have told E about your situation...she's not your best friend or whatever so why would you confide in her??

About A, avoid as much as you can. I would get revenge on her if I were you. I don't care who she is..I would spread rumors back if it happened one more time.

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