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I am now an 8th grader at small and I have the most wonderful friends! And I also Give Great Advice, for anyone who may know! Thanks Terra for Showing me this, your the best! I am a blonde and im like 5'2 and I have green/blue eyes! ;)
E-mail: hotsiehox01@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Austin, Texas
Occupation: 8TH grader At SMALL MIDDLE SCHOOL
Age: 13
AIM: H0lLy X0X0
Member Since: June 4, 2004
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Is it bad for me to give head to a guy im not going out with? (link)
Not really, Its just fun play as some would call it, but why is everyone asking me about head? Am i like the new woman to ask about that...lol But I wouldnt consider it bad.


Ok so i FINALLY am going to get together w/ my boyfriend! but he wants to start holding hands but i don't think im ready for that...my last boyfriend who i held hands w/ that was just the start of something i really really didn't like! What should i do...should i tell him or just go w/ the flow b/c we've been going out for 3 weeks!
Help (link)
Go with the flow, holding hands isnt that bad, its just like giving him a hug, no big.


my boyfriend wants me to give him head... i have before and i didnt find the taste of the cum so great, is there a way to make it any better? i dont want to dissapoint him and wimp out at the end...help!?! (link)
Well, I know it sounds crazy but put coke in your mouth, it give him a tingle and it wont taste as bad, or you could just spit it out....


hey i know ur in 8th grade, well almost 8th, how do u know so much about this sex stuff? i mean most people your age are clueless (link)
I talk to alot of people and I dont know I guess Im just smart if ya know what I mean, lol. Its just something I know and I have and older brother and shit like that, well hope I helped you..maybe?


Hey, i know you are only in 8th grade but one of your favorite topics is sex so i thought id ask. my bf wants me to give him head. Ive never done it before so i dont really know exactly what to do..do u suck the whole time or what do you do??? tips please (link)
Hey, even though I am only in 8th I know alot about this shit. Have you and your boyfriend done anything else besides him wanting you to give him head? If not then start off lower then head I mean I know he wants it but start there. And if ya'll are already to this point then you definetly dont want to gag when you are doing deep throat, a guy hates it when you do. Use lots of tongue and no teeth, try licking the underside from the base of the shaft to the tip of the head some, guys like it alot. definitely get the entire penis wet, however you can, use your hand on the base and middle of the shaft with your mouth on and past the head if you dont want to go too far.change speed some, but keep a steady fast rythm when you want to finish him.stopping or slowing down for a few seconds, then starting back really intensifies his feeling, and tell him to let you know by sounds or telling you when something feels really good, this will give him some part in it. oh yeah, if your worried about the cum, then tell him to tell you when its cumming, and just use your hand at the very end. i hope i helped.


i liked this guy during the school year , and i was going to have my friend try to hook us up , but i never saw him again in the school year , and haven't seen him since . do you think i should still like him ? do you think there'll still be a chance with us next year ? thanks a tonn , holly . you're the sweetest . (link)
Well, if you still like the guy then you should start off slow and take it from there, and if there is a connection between ya'll then go out with him but if not then maybe another guy will come.


heyy, ok my relationships suck, girls dont like me and i dont know why, everyone says just wait you'll find smoeone but thats bullshit my uncle has divorced 4 times and is miserable. I need to know what i can or should do for girls to like me (link)
I know who you are bc you just told me you asked me a ? but you are so sweet and you have so much going for you and hey i think your hott , and just know its not something to totally worry about because youve got your whole life ahead of you and that girl will come along , and hey you never know she just might be right here in austin. I would also suggest maybe giving girls hints that you like them and dont think low of yourself alot. but dont give huge hints were your like hey lets fuck i think your so hot! but I know that girl will come.


hey holly! i have a question! i am going out with one guy but i like his best friend a whole lot more! i think thati am goin to break up with him! should i ? and if i do should i tell his best friend that i like him?? please help me!! (link)
Well then... hmmm.. thats a hard one. Do you truley like your boyfriend or not? Do you think you would do much better with his best friend or with your own boyfriend. The question I would ask myself is if the best friend likes you. If he does, than thats good. But if he doesnt than I would suggest staying with your boyfriend if you still like him that is. If you dont like your boyfriend but his best friend likes you then I would say, break up with your boyfriend, and wait about a week or a few days and then go out with him, but give your boyfriend a good reason for breaking up with him. Hope it works out. Talk to ya later!


Ok...Holly, U're the expert here...I really want to see my boyfriend but my parents can't know that i have one or i'll get in HUGE trouble! I really want to get together with him over the summer, i just don't know how! How can I w/o letting my parents know? Luv Ya Holly! (link)
Heyyyy.....Okay so I am guessing your parents dont like you having boyfriends? In that case, do you ever excersise or jog. You could go meet up with him somewhere and do that or you could always ask your parents if you could go to the mall. That always works, and if your parents work you could go to his house for a little while or have him come there. But besides that I mean I dont know, thats the only thing I can think of, kinda sucks being not able to let your parents know right? Anyways I hope I was a help. Talk to ya later.


my mother is driving me crazy we fight 24/7. I really want to go live with my father but i know i wont be happy with him, im tempted to run away but i know in my heart thats the wrong decision..what should i do??? (link)
Well, definetly DO NOT runaway, that would be a bad thing, trust me I know. If you ran away you be in big huge trouble, one by the police and two, by your parents. You never know your parents could put you in a mental rehab! So you dont want to do that. I would suggest try talking to your mom, and telling her how you feel rather than getting mad. Its like a pro-con sitution, like if you do this it makes me feel like this. You should try that instead of getting mad or sad or whatever. I wouldnt suggest going to your dads if you wouldnt be happy with him, you should try my telling what you feel thing again, and let her tell you how she feels, and you never know she may be going through alot too, ask about her feelings and tell her yours and try to see what ya'll could do to make it better. And if that doesnt work than I would suggest trying your dad.


hey hollz! ok here the question...what should i do if i am in love with this guys personality but when i see him it does nothing for me?....hes such an amazing person and hes everything i want in a bf but hes not the best thing to look at, hes cute dont get me wrong just not my type hes kinda a prep and hes a total metro lol im more into the skater, garage-band, grunge look so hes cute just not my type....so for all those people who say " looks dont matter, its all about personality" are lying...so now im stuck, he is like the perfect boyfriend and when i talk to him he just takes my breath away and makes me laugh like no one else..but hes not my type looks wise! what should i do?? lol i know im in high school and ur only in middle school but still ur so sweet and maybe you can think of something better then what i have lol ttyl lul ur the best! -Danielle (link)
I know exactly what your talking about, and I just think, when you talk to him and if he takes your breath away I just think that is the sweetest thing. And truley looks don't matter, I mean really you shouldnt really care what he looks like and if he takes your breath away like that than that is just so sweet. He might not be your type but still I have a best friend and her step dad and mom are totally opposite for looks but they still love eachother incredibly because of eachother's personality. And to me that is the sweetest thing so I mean I am not the boss of you but my opinion would be, go out with the guy, give it a try and if it doesnt work out than you know that hes not the one! Thanks for writing.
Love, Holly


help! i dont think im that over weight but i still have "baby fat" also im out of shape. please help (link)
Well, I would suggest and this is if you truley think you have "Babyfat" that you should get a running buddy or an excersise buddy and do that once a night or twice a week, also eating salad would help it alot, its good for ya! But start off slow you dont want to get too excited, take it slow and only run once around the block until you feel comfortable doing more.
Write Again!
Love, Holly


aw i love you hollybean !
okay so heres your first question . WHEN ARE WE GOING TO HANG OUT ? (link)
Well, I think my best advice would be, when you get home! And when you call me!
*Holly*Love ya TOO!




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