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there is this girl i liked sinced the first day i saw her i dont know how to tell her and i dont know how to find out if she likes me
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get one of your friends that knows this girl to question her about it. then if the info. that your friend got seems to say that she likes you ask her out! if not then you should lay low for a while and see if she starts likeing you. if she dosent ...drop it.
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april...i was going out with this really sweet guy i mean i think we really liked each other but then this other guy liked me so i broke up thinking the other guy would be a better bf i was totally wrong he broke up wtih me and he said "it just didnt work out" like he would know
he never even talked to me. ok but after we the first person i was telling you about ,broke up my friend had this pool partty and he was just so amazing there but at the last day of school he said he liked another gurl. and now i like him again but now my hopes are way down of asking him beacaue my friend asked him who he liked yesterday and he still said that girl. and so im thinking i should give up on him or what do you think i should do?
signed --bummed
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april...i was going out with this really sweet guy i mean i think we really liked each other but then this other guy liked me so i broke up thinking the other guy would be a better bf i was totally wrong he broke up wtih me and he said "it just didnt work out" like he would know
he never even talked to me. ok but after we the first person i was telling you about ,broke up my friend had this pool partty and he was just so amazing there but at the last day of school he said he liked another gurl. and now i like him again but now my hopes are way down of asking him beacaue my friend asked him who he liked yesterday and he still said that girl. and so im thinking i should give up on him or what do you think i should do?
signed --bummed
This is Tori D uderstadts advice colm...not April's. sorry
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i have to go to this suprise party in 2 weeks but im leaving to go to it next week. i already have a dress. its light blue with some dark blue flowers. it looks great on me but idk what to do with my hair and makeup. and idk what type of shoes that would go with it.. what should i do?
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for the make up
YOUR MAKE UP IS NOT ALWAYS SUPPOSED TO MATCH YOUR CLOTHES!!!!
because sometimes like if you have hazel eves and your dress has blue fowers BLUE EYE SHADOW IS NOT THE WAY!
for the eyes
hazel: black shadow and liner is the best nutral and gold work too.
brown: green shadow and black or brown liner a shimmery clear or tan look goes well also.
blue: blue shadow and black liner. but you have to be careful with blue. it can look way trashy if you use it only go up to the crease in your lid you can use a shimmery nutral or clear to go from the crease to the brow.
green:shimmery gold or brown look the best you can even use a green but like i said with the blue...green can be over done. only go to the crease and use ashimmery nutral or clear from the crease to the brow. brown liner is best for green eyes but back works too.
for blush if you have pale skin use a light pinkish brown.
if you are tan use one shade darker than your natural skin tone it makes you look even more tan and it looks natural.
(always apply to the cheek bones)
for your lips
if you have light skin use a light pink or a red they really go well with your skin tone and your lips will look fuller. for lip liner use a color that is 1 shade darker than the color of you lipstick or gloss.
if you have dark skin dark colors look good so do light pinks and clears. for the liners use 1shade darker than the color of your lip stick or gloss.
if you have thick hair try frizzease products to make your hair shimmery and frizzless hten blow it straight. take a flat brust start at the roots abd pull through with the blow drier so top and the brush on the bottomthen with a straightener go from bottom layer to top later straightening every hair.
if you have thin hair you could easily straighten it and part the front of your hair to the side making a cute classy casual look
if you have wavy hair you could scrunch it. wet your hair and towel dry it just enough so that it dosent drip. use your judgement on the right ammount of gel to use. (ex. sholder length hair you would use 1x1 in.circle)
in a scrunching motion, put gel in your hair until there is no gel left in your hands. put your hairin a tight bun and while hair is still in a bun,blow dry your hair for 30 sec. every 10 minutes for 30 minutes.release hair from bun adn style your bangs if you have any. y ou could also srraighten your hair or even curl it.( if you are any of the hair types above curling may be harder for you but you could try) spray your whole head with hair spray that you know works well.turn the curler on high and curl your hair.( curling is found to be harder than straightening so you may need someone to do it for you.)
pony tails
curly ponys are cute first do the pony tail and then curl the part hanging out.
same with straight or scunched pony tails.
french braids are cutest with bangs hanging out and parted to the sides.
never wear pig tails.
shoes
if it is a very nice party wear a heeled shoe with some sort of criss crossed straps.
if the party is not as formal the flip flop heel shoes are cute too.
if it is very informal just wear a matching flip flop wth some kind of design that goes with the theme of your dress.
the shoes that everyone is wearing now that are sold at hallmark would be great for almost any occasion if the color is exactly right.
thanks for asking fell free to ask about anything else at any time
tOrI
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i like this one guy but he doesnt like me i dont think at least what do i do to get his attention?
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do everything you can.
make plans
flirt
make him jelous
then ask him out!
play hard to get
THINGS N O T TO DO
look desprate
ask him out a jillion times
make it obvious
hope it works out!
tOrI
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do you no any girls who would have sex with an older kid goin into 8th??
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no you sound really desprate and no one likes a desprate guy unless they are desprate too. get a girlfriend your own age...girls also dont want to be with a guy that just wants to get in her pants.
tori
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theirs this guy that ive gone out with 2 times and everyone thinks were the perfect couple..but i think he doesnt like me..so i broke up with him. now i like him again and im pretty sure that he likes me but hes at camp right now and idk if he met someone new,, and i really really like him..what should i do??
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don't asume he met anyone else.that will make you really stressed and it wont be healthy...literally! wait until he gets back from campp and be like who do you like? and if he says noone that is good because you can ask him out again but if he says someone else then obviously he dosent like you..and if he dosent,you cant blame it all on him.you broke up with him and that is why you arent together right now.you have to face the truth. but, if he says he is single then you can try an dwin him back. but maybe not. he could think you are using him juat to have a boyfriend because you broke up with him twice already and he dosent want to get hurt again. but always remember there are plenty of fish in the sea!
hope it works out
tOrI
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i feel like i need to excersise more and be more active...even though i have confidence in the way i look, and i know that im skinny, but i would like to loose some of the fat on my legs..but everything i try doesnt work! do you have any suggestions about how i can loose this extra weight?
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your legs probably don't have fat to lose...if you are skinny...then leave it at that there is nothing you have to do to make yourself thinner.
throwing up wont make your legs smaller so dont do that.i think you sre fine if you are skinny...dont be so insecure about yourself have some confidence.if you want more muscular legs do treadmill or just just evey day.there is really nothing else to do.
thanks
tori
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(dont worry about me) well i relly want to through up... i dont want to blimic jut like onece a week im not gonna get addictied i was trying it w/e my tooth brush cause my finger dosent work and i want to knoo how to casue i canttt im not fat but people thenk im relly skinny but im relly not and i want to *way* less!!
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Thats so stupid work out...go on a diet...but don't throw up, thats discusting .Don't do it for attention. People don't feel bad for ou they think you are NOT smart.And don't ask me how to do it I have no idea how.You said you weren't fat...then you don't need to lose weight.Use your head throwing up to get skinny or to get attention is not the way.
Tori
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do pro active have a website? (link)
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yep. www.proactive.com
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when should i start shaving in my (i dunno what to call it) certain area? lol
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IF YOU ARE ANYWHERE FROM LIKE 11 TO 1000 YOU SHOULD HAVE ALREADY STARTED...IF YOU ARENT WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE LIKE 11. IF YOU ARE OLDER THAN 11 AND HAVENT STARTED START RITE NOW!LOL
GOOD LUCK AND TRY NOT TO VUT YOURSELF!
tOrI
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i like this boy and he is single 2 so how could i be his friend more? (link)
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DON'T TRY TO BE A BETTER FRIEND! TRY TO BE HIS GIRLFRIEND!!!
Flirt alot
call him
make plans
hang out like a few times a week and then pick it up to more that once or twice...once you think he is falling for you ask him out before he loses hope in waiting for you!
it's as simple as that!
thanks and good luck!
tOrI
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Hey, ok first before I say anything I don't mean to sound conceded... but it's true. Ok, I'm pretty and popular, and like guys like me and stuff... it's just I'm kind of incicure about myself because I'm only a 32 A. I'm probably not going to get any bigger because my mom was a 34 A... so... it just makes me feel really small because most of my friends are starting to get big boobs... and it's my small boobs have stopped alot of guys from liking me or anything... it's just kind of depressing. And I want to get a boob job when I'm 16, but I'm kind of scared that something's going to go wrong... so... help! Thanks alot babe. (link)
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uhhh. same problem here i don't even think i am a letter like a b c d..double d!haha. but... this plan thing looks like it is starting to work on me! ok eat alot of fatty food because boobs are just fat but to stay in ahape work out your legs by jogging,abs by crunches and leg -ups&arms by laps in the pool or weights!
good luck babe!
tOrI
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also do they sell pro active in stores (link)
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in the mall by bath and body there is one of those booths that sells everything that proctive has to give.
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im going to a new school and we have to shower in front of girls. got any advice on how i can stop being nervous? (link)
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dont be nervous no one is going to be watching you . everyone is just as nervous as you.you will be fine.have self confidence...it is such an important ting for girls to have!remeber that!
thanks
tori
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my best guy friend is going out with one of my really good friends...problem is that i really love my guy friend. i've known him WAY longer than his girlfriend, & all his girlfriend..lets say..ANNA does is whenever im around her, she's like, i wish "matt" were here. she knows about me loving him, but i kinda feel like shes trying to rub it in that shes dating him and im not. do you think she is? PLEASE HELP!!
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jelousy can really mess things up.try to move on. tell your friend that you have moved on so that she wont rub it in your face . but you may be over reacting and that could cauuse big problems. you might end up with both "M" and "A" being mad at you.so dont accuse anyone of aything and dont ry to get back at them for hurting you.it will mess things up.
thanks tell me how it works out!
tori
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i broke up with my boyfriend mike and i like his best friend josh. mike sent me an email and said that josh is way out of my league. it mad me soo mad! got any tips on how to get back at him?
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no. but dont be pissed at him for telling you his opinion. if saying he is out of your leauge makes you that mad there is something wrong. i think that your ex, mike, is just jealous cause you have moved on so dont get mad bc he still cares about you. dont sink to his level and be rude back just dont talk to mike anymore until he has decided to just be friends with you if that is what you want. as for josh just try not to talk about him in front of mike you dont want to stir up anything to piss him off which in return he would probably piss you off. just try and control yourself.
thanks
tori
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Hey tori,
Well i want to say first of all thankyou for the great advice you gave me last time. Recently my family has gone through alot. My grandfather died. It has really been hard for me. But really on my grandmother and mom.They loved him alot. when ever they go to church now they cry. I feel like crying at home and stuff but i am afriad that if i cry they might get upset them. What should I do? Also... this is about the same thing. Ever since the death happened when ever someone talks about something or says oh James always said this or always said that. I always think about what good times we had and how we will never have anymore like that. And then i always get upset. I cant really controll not crying. What should i do? one last question about this. Well i dont know if you can help me on this. Unless someone in your family or near to you has died. Well to everyone it feels like it is real. But to me it feels like this is one big nightmare that will never end. And i just cant wake up. But i know it is real but i cant get it into my head that he is gone and he is in heaven.
Thank you,
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just know that your grandfather is waching you and he is really always with you. nothing canerase him. think of the good times and celebrate them instead of dwelling on his death.you will be fine.it could be worse...everything happens for a reason.and now he is resting and happier than ever.
thanks for asking hope everything turns out ok
tori
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tori, im a girl so i guess that makes me a lesbo cause i think your hot and sexy. i want to have sex with you. first i will make you horny by fingering you and make you cum. then il lick it up and spit it out into your mouth. then ill lick your pussy clean. then i will grab your tits and suck on them. then i will let you do that same to me. omg this is making me so horny right now that im cumming in my panties. i saw you with your sister and 2 other people and i thought you were so sexy that i just wanted to eat your pussy out! oh by the way my name is katie...i went to your school but i never really talked to you i just pretended that we were going out
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love you, you sexy girl
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you whore bag. thats not funny...its gross and that didnt make me horny.
*ok yeah your really funny you lil curios mofo. go get a life and stop writing preverted things in peoples advice columns your not cool at all. go watch porn fagggggggg.
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uggh ok my boyfriend treats me like shit sometimes. a bunch of ppl tell me to break up with him but i just do not want to loose him. he can be an awesome person but at times hes just a totally different guy...rude selfish just not himself. im so sick of his attuide but i love him sooooo fing much!!! hes like my perfect guy execpt for the fact that we get in fights literally every day please help me i love him and i dont i want to loose him!! i love him not his bad attuitde to me. what should i do? how do i know if he loves me or not? (link)
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THERE IS NO WAY OF TELLING IF HE LOVES YOJ OR NOT.DO YOU LOVE HIM? IF YOU SAY YES THEN I THINK EVERYTHING WILL GO FINE. DO THESE FIGHTS BRING YOU CLOSER. IF YES AGAIN STAY WITH HIM.AND DON'T LISTEN TO WHAT OTHER PEOPLE TELL YOU.YOU CAN MAKE YOUR OWN CHOICES.JUST REMEMBER WHATS RIGHT.
tOrI
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my friend, lets call her "beth"....i really really am scared for her. shes really thin & thinks shes fat. tori i know you think shes skinny cuz i was there when she told us she thoguht she was fat. OMG im just so scared should i tell her rents' or let it go?
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KATIE IS BEING DRAMATIC.SHE WANTS ATTENTION AND I KNOW SHE EATS A CRAR LOAD OF FOOD AFTER SCHOOL . MAKING EVERYONE THINK SHE WAS ANNEREXIC WAS JUST A WAY TO GET NOTICED AND IT WORKED. DON'T PLAY ALONG IN HER GAMES.IT'S GETTING OLD... TO E V E R Y O N E !
YOU DON'T NEED TO BE WORRIED ABOUT HER IT'S ALL FAKE.SHE WILL BE JUST FINE.
tOrI
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