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i am 13/f and i want sex is that wrong

wanting sex isnt exactly wrong but actually doing it is. its okay to think about it but you should really consider waiting until your older and with someone that you know cares and loves you.

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I really like this guy.. but see he has a girlfriend. I know he doesnt like me, but I want him too! lol, well duh. But how can I get him to like me?! See, my name is Acasia and he calls me Asia. Well today it rained, and I was writing my name with my finger on the window, and he said "acasia" and I was like yeah? and He goes "your name is so pretty" I was like really? and he goes "yeah it is" See, hes SOO sweet! What can I do to for him to notice me? I mean he cuddles with all these other girls.. so I dont see how it wouldnt be a problem for me to flirt with him a little.
Sorry its so long!!
IF you give me good answers I will give you a 5!
1 for no good answers.

hey Acasia (that is an awesome name) if he compliments you on your name he knows your their which is a really good sign. take things slow at first and work your way up to a better relationship! its always better to start off slow and easy until it gets a lil more serious! he cuddles with other girls?! hm well thats a sign that he really isnt doin to good with his girlfriend so thats good for you. flirt with him a little and see if he flirts back. if he flirts back work for what you want. it will take some time but just maybe he'll start liking you back! I really hoped I helped.

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This guy and I were going out and he gave me 3 chances but I messed up and now he left me with no sympathy! If I try and talk with him about it, he doesn't listen. How do I get over him?

well thats a really hard thing and your really lucky that you got 3 chances to make the relationship work! some things arnt meant to be and that really sucks but theres nothing you can do about it. all i can tell you is to turn to your friends and to go out as much as you can and meet knew people and you may find someone!

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