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Q: have you ever seen on like myspace or screen names when people have there name an then a word after that sarts with the same letter or sounds the same (like "mel madness" or someting like that)

what would be good to go with jessica

Uhmm..

Jewely Jessica
Just Jessica.
Jumpin' Jessica..

Wow, I suck at this, sorry.. Haha.

Q: If a guy wears a lot of rubberbands around his wrist, what does that mean?

He either likes the way the rubberbands look, or he is one of those kids that "snaps".

((It's a form of self mutilation, where instead of cutting you pull on the rubberband and let it sting you...))

Q: Can you use your body wash as a shampoo?

Of course you can, but as the other person said, I definatley wouldn't reccommend it.. I imagine it would dry out you hair alot.

Q: I want to learn how to play guitar myself, but I was wondering whether it is really hard...or it it is ok..and in general, just pros & cons about learning it yourself, without teacher.

thanks :)

My sister is self-taught and she's amazing.

If you plan on completely doing this on your own, I'd suggest starting with a base guitar. Since there is only four stings, it's alot easier.

Q: ok i absolutely dread these things i hate them i ahev them all on nose and i try to get rid of them i wash my face every day i use facial masks every once in a while does anyone know anything i could do or get to get rid of them

The best way to get rid of those pesky blackheads is to go to a spa and get a facial. They'll get them all out for you (It doesn't really hurt at all.) and when they're gone, use pore minimizing products (Biore is a great one. ^.^) to make your pores smaller to reduce the chances of getting the blackheads back.

Q: How can I know whether a guy likes me or he's just friendly. My friend asked him who he liked, but he doesn't really tell people. :\
Ok, here are the things he does...
1.I was talking to him in the locker area, and his friend dragged him somewhere so I went to the study room next door, and a few minutes later he came in and said ''Oh I found you, I missed you!'' and pulled me with him.

2. I had a few free lessons in a row, so we hung around together, and we talked a lot.

3. We had an assembly, and he didn't sit with his class, and he came and sat next to me. We would look at each other for a bit, and then make faces.
Also during the assembly he was tapping my knee randomly, and then he was doing that hand tapping thing. I'll try to describe it :) like you put your pinky down first, then the finger next to it, and so on...I hope you get what I mean?

4. We were sitting on a two benches opposite each other, I was sitting next to him and talking to loads of other people and then I left to get a drink, and one of his good friends was sitting next to him, but he made the guy move, so I could sit back.

5. I have known him for 3 days, but he is exactly like me, and I really like him. He talks to me more, than he talks some people he has known for years.

6. It takes us ages to say bye, and I end up hugging him 4 times before we actually go.

7. We were sitting next to each other and he put his head on my shoulder. For no random reason, and he just kept it there.

He has said that he doesn't fancy me..but I think he may. Btw he isn't like that with other girls.

I completely agree with the answer before mine.

No matter how much he says he doesn't, Something about you draws him back, he definatley has feelings for you.

You should stick around, continue flirting, and if he seems to be dropping more hints (Whether conciously, or subconciously on his part..) that he's into you, I think you should let him know that you like him.

If he knows the feeling is mutual, it'll be 10x easier for him to admit his feelings.

Q: I'm auditioning for the fall play at school, and i'm looking for some really good monologues that are fairly serious. Preferably one that is from another play. Any suggestions of monolougues, or websites would be grealy appriciated

THANKS!

http://www.monologuearchive.com/ is my favorite, but if you google it you'll find tons and tons more.

Q: Hey everyone, just wondering if you have any good sites or books for monologs.

Here's a few sites to get FREE monologues online, without the hassle of paying for a book:

((My Favorite)) http://www.monologuearchive.com/

http://www.ispgroupinc.com/monologues/monologues_for_kids_and_teens.htm

http://www.actorpoint.com/free_monologues/x.html

http://www.theatrehistory.com/plays/monologues.html

Q: Does anyone know any like cute romantic movies?
NOT the notebook, titanic, or walk to remember

i watched the truth about cats and dogs and i liked that one... do you know any others?
:D

Tristan and Isolde.

=)

Q: is there any nude parts in halloween? how bad is it?

The new one?

Well, considering it was made by Rob Zombie, Yes. There IS nudity..

It's not incredibly bad, though..It's all female nudity, if I recall.

Mostly there's breasts, but one time a girl is completely naked, but you don't ever really see anything besides her breasts.

Q: Well you see me and my cousin are pretty close. and I love being around him, he makes me laugh and we goof around all the time. It's non stop fun with him and I cant get enough. This past year I have been trying to fight off the fact that I might even have a crush on him. I know that it's wrong but I just can't resist. I would really appriciate it if you would give me your advice on what is going on. Thank you.

People are probably going to think I'm crazy for saying this, but that's perfectly normal.

Not that I'm encouraging it to go any further, because THAT is not normal. It's more common than you think for "crushes" to develop from on relative to another.

But you need to stop and think about this.

Would you ever think of a brother the way you think of your cousin?

I doubt it..

It seems to me that you have a great friendship with your cousin, and that bond will generally lead to a crush... But you need to remind yourself that it is a bond of FRIENDSHIP, nothing more.

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Hi there! My name is Sarah, I'm 14, and I'm a teen adviser who would like to help answer any questions that you may have about teen life and beyond.

If you need help with anything, please feel free to ask me, or visit my friend's website at www.freewebs.com/bt4t You'll receive lots of support there. Also, feel free to join the site. New members are always welcome.

Please note that I am not a professional adviser but I will do my best to answer any of your questions.

Thank You

-Sarah-