I'm a cool chico, and I try to help others to love themselves. It's a rough world out there, but grawr, I can handle it.
Since this comes up so often, let's make this very clear: You can not pick and choose where you want to lose fat. Exercising your abs will make your abs strong - but losing tummy fat is dependent on your body fat percentage and genetics.
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Ok so theres this guy and he used to act like i was his girlfriend and i was totally ready for him to ask me out but he never did he just acted like he did... confusing i know haha and he knew i liked him.. so anyways homecoming is next week and i don't have a date i wanted to go with him but he hasnt said anything about it! How do i bring it up so he'll ask me to homecoming or even better ask me out!
(homecoming is friday october 14th.. so i need help quick, especially if i'm gonna make a garder)
thanks guys, and please don't give me a gay answer, its just rude and annoying (link)
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Since he seems to assume you're dating, which is a completely cool thing to do, pretend you're already going to homecoming.
"So, what time are you picking me up?"
If he has half a wit, he'll pick up on it.
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ok, my fiance is 22 and he went to a therapist hte other day. he has a lot of mental problems (he was raped as a young boy) and thigns that other girls have done to him, he is scared will happen again. well the therapist diagnosed him with Bypolar type 2, parnoia, and depression. i don't know how to handle them or to help him out with them. i understand the depresseion, because i myself have lived with depression for a long time. so if anyone can tell me any ways i can help him out or things i can do to take care of him. becuase i love him alot and i want to help out. also could you describe these 3 things to me so that i can get a better grasp on them? thank you! (link)
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I'll recommend to you the same book that was recommended to me: Stop Walking on Eggshells.
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/157224108X/103-7801284-9705429?v=glance&n=283155&s=books&v=glance
I don't believe depression is something we should just settle to "live with". There is hope. Just trust me I've been in a low place before, and I know now there IS hope.
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ok i keep geting boners and their annoying right? even when im not thinkikng of sex but their only annoying when im at school because u know some times i have to stand up... and then ppl stare so yea is their any way to not have them as often? (link)
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Be proud of your erection! Display it proudly!
I jest.
I mastered the art of doing kegels to cause my erections go down. Kegels for guys are the same as they are for girls: The muscle that stops the flow of urine. Clench this FIRMLY when you have an erection until you start to feel it wilt. Might take a while, but it'll eventually "tire" your erection out.
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So me and my boyfriend are having sex and hes been going in me cause im on the pill. Yea I know statistics so please dont lecture me... and we lost our virginity with each other... anyways question is, how do you keep everything in without it all leaking out?
I also get this discharge and when I orgasm its like a waterfall, so it gets everywhere.. how do i control that too? (link)
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What goes in must come out. Semen making it's quaint exit out of the Vagina is called "Flowback". There's no way to "prevent" or "avoid it". Do like everyone else and have a towel handy. *smiles*
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my homecoming dress is strapless and I am a size A in bra but I am going to wear a pretty good push up bra. My concern is my dress slipping while I'm dancing. I just want to know if anyone has been in this type of situation before and has some advice to keep the dress from slipping. thanks in advance (link)
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...Double-sided tape?
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ok i am 13 female and i haven't gotten my period yet! i was wondering if masturbating has something to do with it? because i masturbate about 4 times a month its just that i am scared because i havent goten my period at all yet. please help me if you can.
i rated high for good answers (link)
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You'd need to masturbate to the point of dropping body fat for it to make any difference. Masturbation is healthy. Don't bemoan the delay of your menses.
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Okay well my boyfriend and I have done it all... when it comes to him giving me oral sex sometimes he has to quit because it gets nasty for him. I've noticed its been smelling a lot. He usually doesnt care but it's been like the past month he'll quit and gag, and not even joke about it. He's totally serious with this whole thing. But every time he goes to finger me or eat me out i get discouraged because i feel like he thinks he has to. ANYWAYS...
is there an OTC or anything that'll make me quit smelling. BTW I do wash regualarly. (link)
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Don't douche, it messes with your Vagina's ph. Any mature man can appreciate a woman's scent. Cunnilingus should not be a chore, it should be something he enjoys.
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