r u good at giving advice
lol umm yea ??
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ok so theres this girl... her names deufinator... shes super sexyy! and i kinda have a HUUUUGE crush on her... and her sexy neighbor superman
what should i do?
hahah well i gotta say... that deufinator? one hooootttayyyy . && clark kent? well, I heard it might be a disguised ELF! crazy, huh?
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I like this one person but I don't think they really like me what should I do and how do I get the person to like me?
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if they dont like you, then back off for a bit. you dont want them to think you're a stalker or anything, or you're obsessed. so just back off, just be friends or something. if its meant to be, then God will make it happen and maybe closer to high school they will start to like you, but if its not meant to be and nothing has changed, then just give up and move on because if you're focused on this one person forever then u might miss something amazing that comes along.
x.O. love, aly
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I LOVE ALLISON KAPPE DEUFEL!!
yep she's my ghangsta sista man shes awesome
i will b seeing her at rez life tonight..ya i know ur all jealous
luvvvv.....JESSICA!!!!!!
hahah JES i love you to pieces..
the ghetto neighborhood! THEY ARE MURDERERS! they hide the bodies in the slides and the garages! hahah pe rocks
so yeah i love you chica.
this is the best question EVER
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ok so school is putting me under so much pressure i am like getting such a attitude cause im always so mad cause of school. i wish all of it would go away! i dont know if i can take it nemore...help, im about to die!
wow! is it stress? maybe you should try taking half an hour to an hour a day after school just cooling off. whatever the pressure is, act like you are not affected by it, or the pressure might grow! try to keep your cool, and find the fun and happy things about school, like seeing friends and lunch and stuff. stay in there, good luck! xoxoxo!
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okay so i have this one friend that is AMAZINGG but some of my other friends think that i spend too much time with her. i dont think i do, but apparently it bothers my other friends a lot. i just dont know how to help them see that they are just as important as she is ! HELP !
well, definitely DONT drop or start ignore your other friend. if your group of friends dont like her, dont let that affect your friendship with her! maybe try to get all of you guys to be friends. if that helps? or just make sure that you spend enough time with them. if they're just trying to cause drama, let them know its making you mad and hopefully they will stop. good luck! xoxoxo!
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well i have this friend that i love very much, but she has felt very left out lately. i had no idea that she felt this way, && she told me just recently about it. i have tried to convince her that i still want to be her friend, but i'm not sure if she beleives me. how do i keep our friendship strong, && make her beleive me that i want to be friends FOREVER ?
~ want to be friendss
well, do you spend enough time with her ? maybe she just needs time to figure it out. if she's trying to get all this attention, than tell her what you really feel. it might make her a little upset, but she has to be able to realize that you can have other friends and still want to be her bff. good luck, xoxoxo!
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dear alli,
so theres this girl who i am friends with...or used to be. we were really good friends since last year, and well we have different groups of friends. since the beginning of this year she and i have been drifting apart. sometimes she just ignores me like ill be standing next to one of her friends ..she'll say bye to them and not me. ?!? ... so i try ignoring her back and i've tryed talkin to her but it just doesn't go through her head.
and well theres this other girl who dont get me wrong is a veryy nice person but shes only been friends with this girl for a few weeks but this girl treats this 'new friend' better than she treats me.
what do i do?!? and do u think shes worth being friends with?
sorry this is soo long...
signed , confused and ignored and hurt ...
wow. well, try talking to the girl who you used to be friends with. make sure you get her attention , and just talk to her. were you guys in a fight? i dunno . about the other one.. well, try talking to this friend of yours. maybe she has a different perspective! good luck. xoxoxo!
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Well I have some friends who cut and are on these crash diets. one of them has a mom who is abusive and she is really scared that her dad is going to leave. I know that God made me friends with her to help her through this. I ivited her to church and all, but it just dosent seem like enough. I pray for her every night but nothing changes. I just need some advice on how I should address this whole thing and what kinds of things I should say to her. Thanks Luv ya!!
-A Friend in destress
(your sailing sister from camp)
wow. well, i think you should just always be there for her. if you have tried talking to her before, then dont push it. if you want to talk to her again though, then just reassure her that God is always there for her and so are you. try helping her come closer to Him, and make sure she's having a good day. give her little gifts and things to raise her spirits. good luck, keep praying, and put ur trust in God. xoxoxo!
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i moved far far away fromm kansas.. and i miss my friends so much.. its been like 5 flippin months and my feelings still havent changed.. i still hate arizona and i havent gotten over kansas. i have a feeling people are totally gonna forget me, and have tons o fun without me.. i feel so left out && im so sick of everyone saying.. ohh just get over it theres nothing you can do about it , or yah dont worry it'll get better. something tells me i wont be getting my birthday wish this year..
love homesick
I LOVE YOU ANDREA !!
im so praying that you will come back to kansas soon. how are you ?! is everything.. okay, or back to how it waS? dont worry we are NOT gonna forget you . i so wish u could be here in kansas with us right now! i wish there were something i could do about it ! I LOVE YOU BABE ! xoxo
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why are you such a fucking ugly slut?!?answer that u cock suckin bitch
hahahah i love it how people leave these things to try to ruin my life. I LOVE YOU TOO !!!! hahahh. this is so flipping hilarious. && dude, get a life! im the prudest girl uve ever seen! && i dont like female dogs.. hahhah.
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ok well we used to have a really good friend, and we had so much fun the three of us. That was last year, and now since he has gotten very close to his girlfriend he never has time to hang out with us anymore. He is so caught up with everything else, that he doesn't pay attention to what is happening around him, and his friends. We want him to change, and be our friend again, but we know that will never happen. We have tried talkin and telling him, he says i'm sorry and says i will try to talk to you guys more but, that doesn't happen he just keeps ignoring us, we don't know what to do! please help us.
*the helpless
well , i know this might not be what you think is the best advice, but maybe this girlfriend of his is what he needs. it sounds like you might like this guy friend of yours? maybe u need to let him deal with it. dont try to do it yourself or rule his life. if he doesnt want to change, or if he wants to do his own thing, then let him. dont try to tell him what to do. good luck! xoxox
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first-i've had this friend for quite a while.....has changed sooo much.i feel like this other girl is replacing me. You could never seperate us, and now everything is crumbling to pieces.we r still friends but everything is changing so rapidly. i know people change, but this is not what i thought would happen. we have been on the same basketball and soccer team and have had so many sleep-overs.our parents are friends and now my dad is asking me why she hasn't been coming over as often.WHAT DO I DO?!?
~and please just don't tell me to talk her cause stuff like this never gets through to her.help me
~signed:the one who feels lonely,no one to lean on, no one to cry to......
wow. ive heard a lot about stuff like this lately. well, first, it sounds like she is your best friend. i know this might come as a surprise to you, but it sounds like the person you are talking about is very social. it might be hard to do, but you have to let her make her own choices. if she is very friendly, and has a lot of friends, then let her deal with them but still invite her to things. dont think that she is leaving you behind, because best friends dont do that. even though you dont want to talk to her, maybe its best to tell her how you feel. and maybe you guys have different perspectives! maybe she thinks you two are together all the time and she is trying to stretch out her circle of friends. dont have any harsh feelings against her or her other friend, and maybe invite them both to things so you all three can hang out. you never know? maybe you guys will become a three musketeers friends. hope for the best! xoxo
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well im a guy, lol and thats not wat he said inthe bed last night. so that fucks ur theory bitchhh!!
hah wow there are some really crazayy people out there... are you high?
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k well i love landon...but ur going out with him wat sould i do?!??
wow well im sorry but, my best advice is to give up on him. truthfully, our relationship is strong right now and i know for a fact that he's not gonna fall for another girl. he loves and cares for me a LOT, and i feel the same way. sorry &&, good luck with another guy! xoxo
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hey babe!
i really need help on something reallybad! i have lost this friend and well idk how to get her bac.....she has changed and i think i no y?.... wut should i do?
~~confussed~~
ok guys i thought u would get the picture by now but its the same answer. even if ur nervous or dont want to or whatever, JUST TALK TO HER. it is the best thing you can do . and if she retaliates and gets defensive, then she probably has a good reason. just talk it out! xoxo
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dear deufel, i feel like im losing alot of my friends since the begining of the school year... i dont know why i guess they dont wanna be friends with me anymore? well i still want to be friends with them so how can i fix this? i really dont like losing close friends
this may sound like a consistent answer but... just TALK to them! if they're really close friends and true friends, then they will totally apologize, and im sure they still wanna be your friend. if they turn against you, then they were never good friends in the first place. good luck, hope you get your friends bacK! xoxoxo
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ok so there is this girl my supposed best friend and she was totally my bff untill I cought her and my boy friend totally on top of eachother in MY bed then she said she she was totally sorry and she was really appolgenic so i forgave her then the next thing i knew my boy friend broke up w/ me and the same day asked her out and now they are going out but she appolgised again but idk if i should forgive her or not becuase she totally acts really nice and like bff around me but still she is going out w/ my ex and i cought him cheating please help me ive lost my best friends and my boy friend HELP!
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woah. you should TOTALLY set your best friend straight.. she is no best friend if she was getting it onn with your boyfriend behind your back. plus, the number one rule in friendships is ex boyfriends are off limits! from what youve said, she TOTALLY doesnt sound like a best friend to me. find new friends. you deserve better! xoxo
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alli you are soo sweet and whoever is leaving those mean comments needs to fuck off w.e. and no you arent a witch.. but if your friends are trying to tell you something (by the way im not like one of your greatest friends) but if they are just try listening to them becuase from reading the advice ive been in this situation and maybe your friends are right and are just tryin to help you from getting your heart broken or maybe there wrong but just know that you are such a sweet person and i love ya
hah i have no idea who you are, i have some guesses, but im not sure. anyways, thanks! && im sure i love you too.
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Ok well i have been best frineds with this guy forever like since we were babies and i am in love with his sister. her name is alli too she is absolutly beautiful. i see her all the time and sometimes she acts like we r friends and others like she completely hates me. do i tell her how i feel and risk ruining my friendsip with her bro or just keep quiet? her bro is kinda protective
hmm. well, i think you should tell her how you feel. you never know, maybe she feels the same way? & just because you are in love with this girl doesnt mean if you tell her, her bro is gonna like beat you up. maybe he will understand ! dont keep your feelings bottled up. i'd say, tell her what you feel. good luck! xoxox
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