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Q: My Ex-Boyfriend absolutely hates me. He thinks I broke up with him for someone else, which is absolutely NOT true! things just happened, :/ . He is SOO fun and he's really talented, but I can't get to him. I cannot go up to him and just say hi because he really hates me, I tell my other good guy friends to just bring me up randomly and tell him the truth, but he just won't listen. His birthday is coming up soon and I want to show him that I still care about him, but I'm still going out with the new guy. I absolutely love my guy and I don't want him to get a wrong idea if I do something special for my ex.
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if your tell your new guy that you huys are friends than he`ll understand .. talk to him first so he doesn`t get the wrong idea.. good luck

Q: My friend asked me out, and i said yes. but i dont like him. im still getting over my last relationship and i feel really guilty by not liking him. im afraid of boys as it is because theres this kid that keeps calling me and saying suggestive stuff...well im getting off track. i dont want to hurt him...what should i do?

tell him that you think that you guys were better as friends , and you wanna let your friendship grow before you guys become a couple

good luckk

Q: okkk so theres this kid i really like him but he doesn't like me (well at least i dnt think he does) and then theres some other kid the first day i met him he asked me out i keep saying i'll tell you later i can only see him on the weekends and thats only if i go to my friends house and he IMs me all the time and says so whats your answer? and i keep saying i don't know what should i do ? because i really like this other kid and i dont really know the one that i see on the weekends cuz i only hung put with him once. please help me !

i think you should try for the one you really like .. becuase this other kid isn`t going to know you as much if you can`t see eachother - so for now just tell him you want to be single

good luck !

Q: ok, there's this girl at school & me & her are or at least were best friends until we all started hanging out with these two other girls that we've have known for a long time but havent really hung out with, but since we have been hanging out with them she has become less my friend and more theirs ? isnt that like wrong? what should i do, should i tell her how i feel or just deal with it?

i don`t think its wrong .. i just think you need to talk to her about it- try not to be mean but just ask her why she isn`t being much of your friend anymore .. good luck

Q: ok so my best friend that i have known FOREVER just like leaves me out of everything lately. she met a new friend. she met her when she got a boyfriend cuz her boyfriends friend was the girls boyfriend. wow that's really confusing, but kind of makes sense. ok anyways i was friends with the other girl before she was but i never left her out of anything. now that my best friend and her boyfriend broke up, i thought things might go back to the way they were, but they didn't. i always used to do everything with her and now i mean absolutely nothing to her. if i try to talk to her she just starts a fight. help me please !

everyone changes over time. she knows that you guys are true friends - she might leave you out right now .. for a little while , stop trying to make plans with her .. don`t wait around anymore ; pretty soon when she sees your not there .. she will come to you .. good luck & i hope everything goes back to the way it used to be for u guys

Q: okay well this is how it goes my best friend is a guy and i have been friends with him since sixth grade and i never thought we would get as close as we are.We are always togther we go out together (just as friends though),go over each others houses every day,do homework together you get the point we do eveything togther.And ever since we became friends i have liked him the whole time never stopped.And i still do and i think he is starting to like me cause when i leave to go home or he leaves he gives me a kiss and a hug and we flirt a lot lik terribly flirt but only with each other and when he likes other girls or says stuff about them i get jealous and visversa and last nite he kissed me and it was filled with passion but he wont go out wit me but i dnt know why i mean im 13 n he is 15 so mayb its dat im not sure so should i tell him i lik him? and do you think he likes me?

if i were you - i would talk to him about it .. see if he likes you - from what your telling me , i think he might - well good luck

hope that helped :)

Q: I THiNK iM iN LOVE WiTH YOU!

uhmm - thatz great ;; but i dno who this is ?

Q: i have liked this kid since 4th grade im now in 7th grade.. he left my school and i had been talking to him for a while online. but lately he hasnt been talking to me but he talks to one of my friends. should i talk to him first or just leave it, cuz i dont wanna look like an idiot and not be able to not talk to him

i think you should talk to him , give it your best shot - good luck :)

Q: Hey, I dont Know You But I Like This Kid and He always Says Im Annoying,I think i am what do i do?and my bff likes him also he said if i wasnt annoying hed like me so do i play hard to get or just plain ignore him?

maybe he thinks your annoying becuase you always want to be with him , in my opinion boys like it better when a girl isn`t throwing herself out at him , give him a little chance and maybe he`ll begin to see the real you , you`ll feel a lot better and so will he. make sure you tell you tell you friend that you also like him - so that she won`t be as suprised to hear it if she hears it from someone else .. good luckk

hope that helped :)

Q: there is this kid that is my best frend and i like him. one day i just blurted out that i liked him and that i only went out with my ex to maybe get him jealous. then when he said he had to go he just gave me a high five and said ill call u later so we can talk. he didnt call me but instead he came over on xmas eve and brought me a present cuz i got him one. so we were hangin out and then he left and i got a hug. when he left he was like ill be over some time this week. so today is friday and i still havent seen him since. i have some of my frends talk to him for me but it doesnt work. im like obsessed with him. wat should i do?

i think you should give a little more time , maybe he wants to keep you waiting to see if you`ll stick around :) good luck

Q: i lyk the same guy my best friend goes out with and she doesnt even lyk him dat much what should i do ?

i think you should talk to ur friend about it .. try not to be mean about it -- be reasonable -- good luck - i hope everything works out

hope that helped

Q: well i like someone who doesnt like me back.. should i just forget about it or give it some time

i think you should give it more time ;; you never know what might happen in the future : )

Q: okay well.. my friend lieks somone. they asked one of their friends who friends with the kid that they like and the person that they like told them that they didnt like them n he asked if that person that likes him was gunna ask him out n they sed i dno.. n then the person that my friend likes sed " i hope she doesnt because ill feel bad sayin no because i wnna be friends w/ her but i dnt wna say yes cuz i dnt really like her"

well , your not really asking me anything ;; ur just stating the problem ..

Q: i like him. i jsut do i dnt care whut anyone says i lke him alot. they can hate it love it take it or spit it back out, i jsut do. and i really want to go out with him. to get it started, whut the hell should i say ? lol

lol , i would be confused too ! don`t sweat it . just become friends first and just see how it goes from there , and once you 2 feel comfortable enough with eachother , tell him - he will understand ;; if you need anymore help , just ask me

hope that helps, good luck!

Q: i have this friend that i've known pretty much forever. but my two other best friends and me both agree that she i getting wicked annyoing. she wont leave us alone, she calls all the time and has to know everything we are doing but if i tell her something she gets mad then tells me shes sorry but the thing is that my older sister and hers are best friends.. should i tell her how i feel or just leave it?

i think you need to tell her , don`t go straight foreward and say " your annoying" but just let her know , maybe you can talk to your sister about it and she can tell her best friend so that she can tell her . this happens a lot - but be sure that you still include her sometimes because you wouldn`t like it if it was you that was being left out, i know how it feels . good luck

hope that helped :)

Q: ok so theres dis kid i like. but he doesnt like me ; but i reallllllly like him, and i think when we chill more maybe he'll like me? i dnt know. but all i no is i really like him. and everytime i ask him to do something mostly hes busy. what should i do?..

i think that you should make your plans ahead of time & not at the last minute. maybe that`s the problem - if you make plans with him before he has the chance to make plans with anyone else, then you guys will be able to hang out . good luck - and if you need any more help , feel free to ask me

hope this helps

Q: theres this kid, i liked him a lot. i never told anyone i liked him. he left my school and he moved. i talked to him online for a while, then he just stopped talking to me. should i be the first one to im him or should i just sit around and wait for him ? but if i do i dont want him to think i am a loser and cant stand not to talk to him...

girls shouldn`t have to sit around and wait for anyone , just IM him and be like hey, haven`t talked to you in a while , he won`t think that your a loser, maybe he`s worried to IM you because he`s scared that you might think the same thing, so i say , just go for it.. good luck

hope that helps :)

Q: you answered my question before about the boy i really like and he likes me but im afraid to ask him. You see, talking about it here is so much easier. But saying it to his face is alot harder. I get so nervous around him because i dnt want to fall or like look like an idiot which i usually do =) so i mean should i get a friend? or be confident and try to ask him myself but look like an idiot. so any more advice ? lol

being embaressed might be a risk you take. but if he likes you , i`m sure he is embaressed too . so don`t sweat it , i know you`ve probably heard this a million times, but just be yourself, he likes you for who you really are : and he won`t care if you mess up when your talking to him , because the same worries you have are running through his minf too , don`t worry just go for it , if you need more help - just ask me =)

hope that helped

Q: okay well, there is this kid. And i really like him.. alot. I think he likes me because everytime we see eachother he smiles and laughs. We dont really see eachother because we are in different classes but i still think he likes me tho because he tells people you know who is like the best or u kno who i love so much ? and it would always be me. I am totally not bragging im just saying. But one of my like totally best friends used to go out with him and they broke up. SHe was devastated. I dont know whut to do beacause i like him and i really want to be like you kno boyfriend and girlfriend if he likes me i wanna kno, because i really want to go out with him so whut should i do to actually find out for sure that he really likes me? I dont want to go up and just ask him. So whut do you think i should do ?

a lot of people have this same problem. if i were you i would give it a little time, because i`m sure that he is just getting over the break up too. as soon as you feel ready , start to talk to him: you don`t have to go right out and say " do you like me" because that would be awakward for the both of you, just remember to go with whatever feels right, good luck

hope that helps

Q: ok ... so i have my best friend i have known for like ever, and then a newer best friend that i kinda met not to long ago Both of them like each other as friends but behind their backs he always talks sh*t now i dont wanna tell my newer friend becuz i have known my other 1 for so longg but i feel bad that he acts like this nice friend then he talks all bad stuff.

a lot of friends act the same way , in my opinion you really shouldn`t interfer . it takes a long time for a friendship to develop , so maybe your two friends will eventually learn to work it out , && in the mean time : just let it go

hope this helps

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Hey, my name`s Peggy. I stared this thing because I figured sometimes it`s hard to ask people you know for advice & it might be easier to do this. So feel free to ask me antything, that`z right ;; anything you want.