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I am now an 8th grader at small and I have the most wonderful friends! And I also Give Great Advice, for anyone who may know! Thanks Terra for Showing me this, your the best! I am a blonde and im like 5'2 and I have green/blue eyes! ;)
E-mail: hotsiehox01@hotmail.com
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Location: Austin, Texas
Occupation: 8TH grader At SMALL MIDDLE SCHOOL
Age: 13
AIM: H0lLy X0X0
Member Since: June 4, 2004
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One of my friends i really like wanted to do stuff with me, but he didnt like me. should i still do stuff or let him go? (link)
hmmm wow I know what your talking about, have you asked him if he still wanted to be friends with you, and things like that? If you still liked him and he says he won't use you, theres nothing wrong with just playing around....if ya know what I mean, lol But yeah if all those things are true than sure go ahead, but if they're not, its your own call but I would have said no.


Do girls like it when i guy makes the first move? also i was wondering what do u think is a romantic thing to do with a guy? (link)
yeah most girls like it when the guy makes the first move, i do .... lol ... hmm i dont really know what i think a romantic thing to do with a guy is....i guess whatching a movie and making out? i have no idea....lol


This girl wants to do stuff with me but how do i know that she wont go spreading stuff and ruining my reputation? (link)
Well, tell the girl you like her in all but (well that is if you do) and tell her that if ya'll did stuff it would have to be kept on the down low...and just be sure you can trust her and ask her if it would be okay if ya'll didn't tell anybody, but don't just use her, trust me that would make you in deep shit. hope i helped..xx00


ok... I asked my boyfriend for him to show me his penis and it was like 4 inches when he was hard. ok and that wasnt the firs penis I haad ever seen believe me. and like i started to laugh because it was SO damn tiny. it was like a 4 year olds dick. what should I do? i dont like small dicks they are such turn offs. i dont know what to do should I brake up with him? or stay with him? please help me!
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Well if you like the guy than don't break up with him and I know he may be small but thats not all that matters in life, you can work your way around it, but just do what you feel is right!


i know everyone's been asking you about head , but you seem to know alot soo.. :

i was just wondering how common it is for a condom to be on when a girl gives a guy head ? and if you don't mind , what would you do ?
thanks .. (link)
Hmmm I don't think I have ever heard about a guy with a condom on when getting head, I mean its probablly possible but he wouldn't get the full effect of the whole tongue and stuff. I hope I helped a little....lol write me back and tell me if you tried it and if it worked! xxoo


Do girls/u prefer a shaved guy or no? and i dont mean face (link)
Haha, its depends on the girl, some liek it and some dont, how ever most like it not. So i hope i could help ya, a little maybe C=


i like this guy Mark alot but i dunno if hes into me hes always staring at me and smiling and winking and holding doors and stuff hes always joking around and stuff ? wut do u think i should do i figured cuz ur near my age u may be able to help me ....should i tell him how i feel ? im just afraid of getting shot down ? (link)
It sounds like hes a little flirtacious and wanting to be around you. Its okay to get shot down it all happens to us in life and I would just take a chance just ask hey woul dyou ever go out with me just out of curiousity. And see what he says. Hope it helped


why won't holly xoxoxo give me her number give me your number
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haha well if you tell me who this might be... i could give it to you, hehe tell me who this is and i will! x0x0 hope it helped ;)


how do u kno if a guy is into you? i was jw cus this guy is so sweet. he jokes around with me and makes me laugh and flirts with me. on the last day of school he gave me the best hug! i have liked him for a while but i dont kno if he likes me and i need to kno. the funny thing is i dont want to go out with him. i don't kno y i just dont think it'd b rite if i like him a lot and he doesnt like me as much as i do him. i dunno. he just sends me mixed signals like we can tell wut the others thinking. we talk with our eyes during class and i was sad on my bday and he made me a card and did a little dance thing(it was soo funny). and then sum days he'll make fun of me and totally b mean. u can't stay mad at him tho. ok sry for the blah blah. i just need a little advice. thanx!
i'm 13 becoming a freshman if that makes a difference. (link)
humm Well thats kind of hard since you like him alot but you dont want to go out with him, so you jut like him as like a play buddy? Or what I mean it sounds like he likes you, I have a couple of guys who do that to me. Its hard to tell with guys, but if you wanted to go out with him you could ask him to go out with you but besides that i dont know what to say, that would be my only suggestion or try having a casual conversation and just be like who do think is hot....and like wow I really wish somebody liked me and just stuff like that! Sorry I couldnt help you much!


I feel like i want to give a guy head and i cant but is here any way i can satisfy my erge with out toys or a guy? and could i have sme steps or help (link)
haha okay....hmm let me think...I dont know really what to say to that I mean makeout with the guy and get to him and maybe that will give you the urge to just go do stuff with him....lol I dont really know what to say I mean do you masturbate or something? lol You could try that? maybe or just go hang out with guys and shit haha hope it helped!


i am 13 years old and i think i need to diet.....i always try to cut down on my food i eat but i always end up giving in i need a quick way to diet that i wont give up on so fast (link)
Okay well first of all unless you weigh like 160 pounds than you dont need to diet, but some good diets would be eating salad and try not to drink sodas or eat candy that often, have a good balanced meal everytime you eat, like a vegtable a main meal and either a fruit or a salad. water helps alot too, drink alot of water, and try jogging every night or day it helps alot with abs. !! dont get too worked up about the diet we dont want you to skinny now!


This guy who i thaght was my best friend recently asked me out! and i really dont like him that way i dont know if its the way he looks or what but ever since he asked me out it seems like he has been acting really acward but i dont know if it is me or him!what do i do! (link)
Wow okay, that has happened to me many times, so your not the only one out there, well you rejected him right? Try explaining to him that you just want to be good friends and that you dont want to ruin yalls relationship. But be nice about it and just explain to him you didnt really like him that way, but complement him so he wont feel bad too.


I dont know what giving head means could you explain it to me? because im to emmbarresed that i odnt know what it is! (link)
Okay giving head is sucking a guys penis, it is pleasurable to the man and sometimes to the girl, I will just leave it at that, I wrote earlier in my advice column so you could check there!


hi im a 13 yeah old and mmy hair is going gray already! what do i do! (link)
Well you could try talking to your mom and asking her if you could dye it, or try the sun it really helps, but dont worry.


Hi im onley thirteen and i am having lot of stress in my life! i recently got so overwelmed that i tried to cutmyself but it was no biggie it didnt bleed and i havnt done it snice but i need help not from a syiatric freakj! (link)
Mmmmkay one thing you need to know, is flat out dont cut yourself, trust me it is really bad and I know you didnt bleed but still I am strictly saying this, I have been through all of that stuff and you really dont need to cut, even if you only did it once. When you get overwhelmed try doing something you enjoy, or talking on the phone with friends or online. Or you could try talking to your mom, or dad, I know it doesnt sound so cool but just explain to them that you have alot of stress iny your life and you cant quite deal with it the right way, nd trust me I wasnt to hip with talking to my mom but it really helped.


hey i am not too big where the sun don't shine yet and it is starting to piss me off becuz i have the perfect gurl and she wants more but i keep telling her to back off and we get in fights becuz she thinks i'm seeing other ppl and that i don't like her any more i need help please!!! (link)
Dont worry if your not too big down there, if your girl friend loves you than it shouldnt matter that much to her. And if she wont stop backing off than you need to flat out tell her that she needs to stop or maybe it just ownt work out. I know you love her in all but thats the kind of thing you need to think about when it comes to girls, not fighting or anything like that. And just explain to her that you love her and you wouldnt cheat on her even if it were life n death, and tell her that she means alot to you.


hey ok so i have the guy FRIEND and i think he might think of our relationship as more than just a freindship, because he's been doing some inapropriate stuff to me that he never did before and he wouldn't do if he new that i don't like it and that i consider us as freinds, and i know he's not just joking around because trust me i would be able to tell. How do i tell him that i want him to stop doing this stuff? i mean i've just always considered him as a freind and now other people are noticing too. HELP (link)
Well, Im not trying to sound mean but that kind of sounds like you've been teasing him, and that gives the guys the advantage to think tht you like him, maybe you could call him one night and explain to him that you just like having a little fun and that you like your relationship at just being good friends and you dont want to ruin it by being boyfriend and girlfriend.


hey holly me and my old best friend never hang out what should i do!?!?!?!?! (link)
Hey maybe you should call her and hang out with her or maybe chill out your schedule and plan a time to hang out, like old times...:>)


Hi my boy friend keeps trying topressure me into making out with im and im not ready for it! What do i do i have already told him no but he keeps bugging me about it! (link)
I think you should just explain to him that your not ready and that if he doesnt stop pressuring you than you just wont do it at all, and maybe hes never madeout and hes just ready to do it, it couldnt harm anything..but i understand where you coming from.


Im 15 and my penis is just over 5 inches long
is that the average im a little worried what my girlfriend will think. (link)
Yes that is totally average, and dont worry if your girlfriend loves you she wont care! lol but yeah thats definetly average.




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