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Friendship
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Am i bi?


Posted Monday September 26 2005, 5:11 pm

well...saturday noght I was Iceskating and my friend Brittany was there(I am a girl by the way) and so was the guy I really liked well, brittany said 2 me, want to see how h0rny we can make these guys? and I said yeh so me and her ended up makin out and I kinda enjoyed it (i was drunk, BUT STILL) and it was all 4 show but I think about it now and i am worried and now all of my friends at school are callin me a lezbo but I still make out w/ guys and i like guys more than girls.. But, does all this mean I'm Bi?

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My best guy friend


Posted Monday September 26 2005, 2:55 pm

Hi im 13/f and i have this guy friend who lives down the street from me and we are really tight i mean his parents would trust us both enough that they could leave the house and we could be upstairs alone(i swear we dont do anthing) we spend a lot of time together and i mean i can just like lay on his bed while he plays on the comouter or plays vidio games and we can talk about ANYTHING he is the only guy who i an acually talk to .... but the thing is i think ive developed a crush on him.... wat can i do to take our relationship further????...thanks

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Having Trouble With A Friend?


Posted Monday September 26 2005, 2:45 am

Hear is my problem I was friends with this girl for two and a half years then all of a sudden we are no longer friends. I mean she didn't tell me anything. I waited to see if I was going to hear from her but nothing no phone calls and she never came over my house again. I wrote her a letter and she never responded. I don't get it the last time I saw her was when she had a boyfriend. I use to work in a retail store and everytime I would see her she would be buying some things for a baby. So did she have a baby or is she just picking some things up for a friend. But if she did have a baby why would she want to stop being friends. I have another friend and she was also friends with her too but they keep in touch. I wish I knew what happen and ...

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Spousal Abuse


Posted Sunday September 25 2005, 11:39 pm

So some new neighbors just moved in a couple months ago. I am almost positive that he beats his wife. They have two young daughters. I have no actual evidence.

Is there anyone I could anonymously call to look into it?

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Guy Question


Posted Sunday September 25 2005, 10:30 pm

Girls can answer, but this is a question I want guys to answer even more (since you know, its about how a guy would react). If you know any guys on this site, could you refer them to this question.

Okay then, last year I noticed this really really hot guy in my school, and told my friends about him and such, and I decided he was the hottest guy in the school and it became this sort of joke but not really a joke between us, just a thing to talk about. Well, one of my friends talks to him a bit now, and the other day (oh yeah, I never had talked to him, he doesnt even know I exist, hes a senior I'm a sophmore but my older sister DID tell him I thought he was the hottest guy in school) my friend was standing with him and said &q...

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Confuseddd <3


Posted Sunday September 25 2005, 10:15 pm

Hey! Okay my i've been reallly upset lately because I have a crush on this boy named Jason and he likes my best friend, Gina. All the guys like her and it really sucks for me because Jason is the ONLY boy I like, and I like him so much. Well, i'll say to Gina you're so lucky the one person I like likes you, and she says haha. She doesn't even try to make me feel better about it. I also see him hugging her all the time and it makes me upset, and when we all hang out he doesn't pay attention to me because Ginas always there. I'll also invite Gina over and she'll say "Oh well this person asked me to hang out first so I can't." She does that to me and my two other best friends alot (who are also her best friends). Shes also inviting t...

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how do i make her stooppp


Posted Sunday September 25 2005, 9:44 pm

ok well i have this best friend. i love her to death but she gets annoying. she thinks that all the guys love her, and she lies to make people think she is telling the truth. for instance she would be all like "Yah he hugged me and he grabbed my ass" and i would be standing there watching the whole time and that never happened. this happens ALLLLL THE TiME!!!! i dont want to say anything to her because i kno she will take it the wrong way and blow it out of purportion(sp?) it just makes me soooooooo mad because i would be standing RiGHT THERE and she would say sumthing happened to a group of ppl and it never happened and if i say anything she will be like, "uhm yes it did!!!" and say something to embarass me. what can i do!!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?! i rate 5's!!

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dance


Posted Sunday September 25 2005, 6:29 pm

i have been dancing ballet for about 12 years. i love it. it always gives me something to do and it keeps me in shape. about a month ago i was in a horrific car accident. the car flipped over in a ditch and killed the driver. who was my best friend. i broke my back and now i am parilized from my waist down. i will never be able to walk again. i will never dance again. that is what hurts the most. no i dont feel sorry for myself because i know what happend to my friend casey. i miss her so much and i just feel like there was more that i could have done to keep her from loosing control of the car. and i have a boyfriend that i have been dating for 7 months. he comes to see me everyday and he occaisonally brings me flowers. i am 17 and he aske...

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moving away


Posted Sunday September 25 2005, 5:27 pm

My best friend always gets into arguements with her dad. And now she wants to move back in with her mom. And that means she'll be switching schools, and moving like 30 minutes away. And I don't know what to say to her. I want her to stay, and I've tried everything to get her to stay. Can someone please help me with this? I really don't want her to leave me. Because if she moves, my other best friend is going to move schools to a Lutheran school because she doesn't want to deal with having her move... What should I do?

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FRIEND TROUBLEEEE .


Posted Sunday September 25 2005, 3:29 pm

okay, so me and three of my best friends are like really close. we even have a "group". well, im closest with this one girl "Patty" and then "Meghan" and "Karen" are close. patty and i talk about everything and have such a good time together, and we never really get in fights. meghan and karen expect us to invite them everywhere and we invite them a lot of places, but they dont invite us places. they are also rude and bail out on us a lot. they totally take us for granted and act like we have no feelings! what should me and patty do?

ps - me and patty have a lot more friends thatn karen and megahn, so if we took a " break " from them, theyd probably be sitting at home alone or just with each other alot.

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IM


Posted Sunday September 25 2005, 2:50 pm

I was instant messaging my friend and I decided to play a joke with her and I copied the exact font size and color the IM's are and went like this.
(fake s/n's)
Vik-hey
Me- hey
Me-
Vik-(fake message written by me) OMG I'm in love with Jim he's so hott.
Well she got pissed and I tried to tell her I was just kidding and now she won't listen to me and she's acting all stupid so she IMed me and said OMG Kayla, your a fukking whore. What should I do to help convince her I was kidding.
i will rate 5's!

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help


Posted Sunday September 25 2005, 1:58 pm

my best friend hates me!! we were best friends and now she always has plans when i ask if she wants to do something and she flips out over everything that she doesnt like. i asked her if she was mad at me and she totally flipped out! i really cant live without her and its only been a day. please help. what can i do to make her love me again?

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friend called me fat .. ?


Posted Sunday September 25 2005, 12:03 am

OK, so I'm average height, average weight. My best best best best friend is this girl, let's call her Patricia. Well Patricia told my other friend "Lucy" that I was thinking of wearing a leotard for halloween, and that I would look fat in it.

Patricia doesn't know I know she said that, but Lucy told me. I'm scared to talk about it with Patricia because we have such a good time together and we see each other alot, but its kind of eating me up inside. She knows im sensitive to this subject because I was chubbier when I was younger.

What should I do?

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Posted Saturday September 24 2005, 11:50 pm

my bff was asked to go to homecoming by this reallly cute guy..and he asked her out but she said that she had to think about.. and i think i'm starting to like him..and friday at the f-ball game we were like flirting..what should i do if he like asked me out or something before homecoming..i don't wanna make my bff mad..cause i love her to death! thx

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So left out.


Posted Saturday September 24 2005, 11:10 pm

My BFF is always like "Don`t go hang out with miss popular and ditch me" But then when we were all hanging out with Ariel (Miss Popular) my bff totally tries to make me feel left out and tries to hurt me so she`ll be center of attention. Ariel started to notice Haley (my bff)and started to talk to her. Ashley, Ariel, Haley and Me all hung out last night and Ariel said we should hang out again, So ariel called Ashley and Haley to hang out again tonight and didnt call me and Haley even said "dont call Jessica (me)" when Ariel asked if she should.

Now everyone is ditching me and I`m the only girl without plans for Saturday night. Is this a sign that I need a new bff?

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it's weird now


Posted Saturday September 24 2005, 9:05 pm

The guy that I like and I are friends. I thought it was pretty easy to see that but today when we were talking he wanted to know who i liked. So I just told him so he wouldn't keep bugging me. I knew he didn't like me back, but he said "i don't know if we can hook up right now cause I like...whatever her name is." And I think its a little bit weird talking to him know just because. Is there anything I can do to get him to like me more than a friend or for it not to be weird to talk to him?

ps. the girl he likes likes him back but doesnt want a boyfriend right now. and they just went to the movies together with some other friends. so i don't know what to do and it really sucks. someone help me please!

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Im fucked.....


Posted Saturday September 24 2005, 7:38 pm

Ok...so...My (only) best friend is starting to turn on me. shes being a bitch and now shes going out with my ex. she knows i still like him though....And i hate this one chick at school and me and marissa(only best friend) talk about her ALL the time. saying shes a whore and a bitch and shit. but now shes BEST friends with her. she can only have one friend. and she chose her over me. And i have this cutting problem. and shes MAD AT ME for cutting when shes the reason i did it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


any advice!? i rate high!!!!

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Trouble


Posted Saturday September 24 2005, 6:58 pm

My Best Friend ( Katie ) just met this other girl. I totally don`t mind her hangin out with other people, but this girl does drugs and things like that. Katie is startign to hang out with Lauren more and more cause they both like the same "punk" music and they love doing goth-like things ( i dont like lables but thats just how they put it ) I`m more of the preppy, country music, shopping, french manicure type girl. Is it time for me and Katie to move on since were different? Or should I stay and watch her get herself into trouble and fight to keep her.

- need help please.

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football drama


Posted Saturday September 24 2005, 5:17 pm

alright well like any typical teenager i go to the highschool football games, 1 to hang out with my friends and 2 because i know alot of people that play including my brother.. and like my 2 friends are always fighting at the games for something the boy(i call him e) and so last night they once again started fighting so i wasnt hanging out with them i was ssitting and watching the game and the girl(de) can online and told me to remind her to never talk to e again and i was like yeah whatever and then e told me not to get into it because im always in the middle and i dont deserve that and all this and like i told himi had to get involved and then we were talking about something else and i told him i was sorry i didnt come talk to him but all...

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present for ex


Posted Saturday September 24 2005, 5:12 pm

my ex boyfriends birthday is next week,and even though we are not together we are still friends i kind of want to get something but i dont know if i should what should i do?

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