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Friendship
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Posted Sunday October 9 2005, 1:51 pm

last year i was new to my school i i met my best friend there. but now this year she dosent tellme anyhthing and dosent trust me she ignores me sometimes andwe get into alot of fight, she has new friends and she telles them her secrests but to me she dosent even tell me who her crush is i feel we cant be frineds anymore but me and her are realy close when we are getting along. what should i do? female 13

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Friends Drifting...


Posted Saturday October 8 2005, 11:07 pm

16/m I started Junior year a few weeks ago, and I realised that I was not having as much fun as in Sophmore year... I couldn't figure it out at first, but I realised eventually that I was not talking to my friends as much, and had sunken back behind the plane of quietness once again. I worked hard to get through it Sophmore year, and I probably still would be in it if my scenario hadn't increased.
I have friends. Last year, myself and these friends were closely bonded. Well, 1 of them became drum major. As a result, he became involved with the duties, and with the other drum major. He's gone now, and we rarely talk to him. 2 of them had formed a band with 2 outsiders last spring. They are now just so involved, that all they do is tal...

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she is changing...


Posted Saturday October 8 2005, 10:42 pm

Okay...I have this friend. She has been my friend for about 3 or 4 years but we have come really really close. Now we are Freshmen in high school and never see each other. I see her around the hall and stuff and i can tell how much she it starting to change. She dyed her hair pink, she is always wearing black, and she is hanging out with a whole differnt crowd of people like the punks and goths and stuff. Dont get me wrong i have a lot of friends that are punks and goths and i have NOTHING agenst them but that is just not her type at all. Ever sence she is changing like this i never talk to her...i want to cause i feel like she doesnt want to be friends anymore...but if i talk to her i dont really kno what to say...i need help...

i'll rate 5 for anything good...

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Hidden in the Shadows


Posted Saturday October 8 2005, 8:51 pm

Ok, I've liked the same guy for 3 years now. He just broke up with his girlfriend. I was so relieved, but now he has ANOTHER girlfriend and it's only one day later! AH! It hurts so bad because we've been friends so long & I guess he's just not seeing me in that way. I've droped thousands of hints, but he hasn't been picking them up. What I want to know is..he just recently got AIM (so he could talk 2 his last g/f) He kept it & IMs me whenever I'm on. I love that he IMs me, but he talks to me about how much he likes his new girlfriend and it agrivates the crap outta me! How do I get him to stop talking about her without hurting his feelings?
*Undeniably Unwanted*

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Oops!


Posted Saturday October 8 2005, 7:41 pm

My best friend, ran into a pot holder at my neighbors and now she feels real bad. I got her out as soon as I could. What should she do?

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PLeASE HELP is urgent


Posted Saturday October 8 2005, 5:32 pm

My friend is turning 16 next week and she just found out that shes pregnant.. her boy friend isnt tlaking to her right now and she thinks hes an asshole now. Her mom kinda has a feeling that she is btu doesnt exactly know. Shes coming over in a couple hours and i have no clue what to do how do i comfort her what do i do? please help...

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No ideas for tomorrow.


Posted Saturday October 8 2005, 5:23 pm

I'm having a few of my close friends over tomorrow, about ten or so of them. They will be staying all day, but the thing is, I don't have any ideas whatsoever on what to do. It will be raining all day so we can't really walk anywhere and no one is really bringing money to go to the movies. I have a lot of movies in the house, but they are all horror movies, which my friends aren't into. Suggestions on what to do will be appreciated. If it helps, I am seventeen (although the people who are coming aren't all the same age) and both guys and girls will attend.

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Ok this is the problem...


Posted Saturday October 8 2005, 5:19 pm

One of my best friends is this guy rite? well i dont like him as anything more then just a friend.... but he likes me. He asked me out the other day and i told him that i just cared about him too much to go out with him. That i didnt want to ruin our friendship over something stupid like a highschool romance. He still keeps grabbing my hand and yesterday he kissed me on the top of the head. its getting really wierd and its depressing the hell out of me, plus its giving everyone the wrong impression. He's the sweetest guy ever and i dont want to hurt him. i dont want to tell him that i dont want a bf right now because i DO, just not him. And im hoping this other kid asks me out. Its getting really annoying, like hes being really clingy, i ca...

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friend, boyfriend and mall


Posted Saturday October 8 2005, 3:04 pm

ok so tomorrow i am goin to the mall to meet up with me boyfriend that i havent seen in 3 weeks.. my friend offered to take me because my BEST friend doesnt like my boyfriend.. i would let her take me except see i mostly will be all over my boyfriend and stuck.. nothin sexually but like me and him want to go to the movies and hang out you noe. and i dont know if i should let her take me because then she will feel all left out and sad and then on the way home she will most likely call me a hoe or something like that because the way i acted. even though i noe she doesnt mean it but still.. my question.. should let her take me to the mall or should i walk there. it is about a 20 minute walk but it isnt difficult..

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Need help


Posted Saturday October 8 2005, 2:16 pm

I'm so depressed my girl left me and I didn't really make many friends when I moved here from NC what can I do to cheer up or meet new friends?

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cliques-preps


Posted Saturday October 8 2005, 2:10 pm

Why do preps call people that aren't preps preps. Sorry kinda confusing but I'm just wondering that. Cause a few of the real preps call me a prep and I deff. don't consider myself or my friends preps.

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BIRTHDAY PARTY


Posted Saturday October 8 2005, 1:06 pm

ok so I'm turning 15 on october 29th (& i'm a girl) .. i'm having a big co-ed party, so far all i got is basketball and music ha.. yea so basically i need some ideas on what i can do at my party, and i don't want to rent one of those moon bounce things that everyone gets.



thanks

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my friends dad just died


Posted Saturday October 8 2005, 9:25 am

14/f my friend's dad just died this morning. what can i do to show her that i care and that i'm here for her? i have no idea what to say to her because i've never experienced a real loss..

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friendship/love life


Posted Friday October 7 2005, 11:36 pm

ok. tonight i was with my friends. there was a bunch of people but the main people are keith and mandy. i like keith... and i went out with him before but then he broke up with me cause he just "wanted to be friends" and then tonight i was out hanging out with my friends and mandy got all mad at me cause i wasnt hanging out with her alot cause i was flirting with keith. i even hooked up with keith. now mandy is really mad at me cause me and keith didnt spend alot of time with anyone tonight except each other... but now i dont know what to do. she seems really frustrated... i cant even describe the whole situation. but maybe people could try to help? thanks...

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Posted Friday October 7 2005, 7:43 pm

Ok, so recently, I've been really distant around most of my "friends". I put that in quotes because I don't know whether I see them as friends or not. Whenever I'm with one of them, they usually talk to me, but when somebody else comes into the picture, they completely ignore me. I'm always getting seperated from them and it makes me mad because I feel pitiful and like a follower. Any suggestions on what I can do to solve this problem?

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Where did my friend go?


Posted Friday October 7 2005, 6:41 pm

I am 17/f and have a male friend I like a lot. both of us have partners, so nothing on that score (except a lot of flirting in the past) and for some time we were pretty close. He doesn't open up to a lot of people (including I think, his girlfriend) but to some extent he did with me.

Anyway, lately things have been kind of strange. He doesn't really contact me much anymore- it's always me who does, though he's pleased to see me when we do meet, but he seems to have closed up on me again, only letting me see this big surface act he has going. It really hurts.

It may be because his girlfriend didn't like the fact we were friends or he felt guilty or something, i don't know.

Any clues as to what's ...

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Posted Friday October 7 2005, 4:20 pm

i like this boy what do i do (13) and he's (14) i rate 5's

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Golf Ball


Posted Friday October 7 2005, 3:50 pm

Ok I have a friend and he 'ACCENDENTLY' hit a guy in the head with a golfball. His head was bleeding terrable and I want to get my friend out of trouble because he already has like 15 more days in detention!! But anyway there are these girls that are preps thats ratting out on him so me and my friends made up a story that he was with us. I don't want my friend suspended and I really want to help him but don't know how. Please Help and sorry iff this sounds weird but NO smartass answerz!

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My BFF moved


Posted Friday October 7 2005, 1:06 pm

Okay, I'm like SO sad because my best friend in the entire world moved! It's not just something I can get over, because she has been my bff since 1st grade, and we're in 9th now!=

She moved about an hour away. I know it's not THAT far, but it seems like it. I used to go to her house EVER night, and now we only see each other about 3 times a month. Not only that, I don't want us to grow apart from this. I couldn't stand to lose my bff to another person. Any advice? I rate 5's.

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my best friend


Posted Thursday October 6 2005, 10:57 pm

Okay so im a sophmore and my best friend is a Senior. Ive been noticing lately that everytime i tell her that i like a guy or that i think this guy is cute she always seems to like flirt with them in front of my face. For an example there is this new guy at our school and hes really hot so i told her that i thought he was cute and they sit at the same lunch table so she always tells me these stories and she sent me their conversation trying to make me jealous. If shes suppose to be my best friend why does she do this? Or am i just being paranoid but if im just being paranoid then i dont know bc I seem to feel this way a lot. Please help me i'll rate

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