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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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how to give up friends


Posted Thursday November 3 2005, 5:13 pm

well yeah so this stared like a really long time ago so yeah well i had 3 best friends, one since i was 5, one since i was 7, and one since i was 6.W were really close and would do everything togther.like i mean everything. we would walk home from school and have a sleep over every friday and i would always be over to there houses because i dont live on the same sreet as them. so anyway in the middle of the summer, 2 out of 3 of my friends slept over and soone friend already had her priod and so that night the other 1 did to.so anyway this one girl at school that we used to hate well she started being nice to us.and so we made plans with her to go to lunch and then a near by store. well it turned out one of my friends (the girl who just got...

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Like him or not


Posted Thursday November 3 2005, 4:57 pm

Ok This guy that i like, he's awesome. well my friend JJ was sopossed to help me become his friend. thing is now shes his friend and ain't helpin me any. i feel like shes gonna hook up with him!!! WHAT SHOOD I DO???? HELP PLEASE
*~*Karlie*~*

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OHEMGEE


Posted Thursday November 3 2005, 3:35 pm

ok..im the person who was talking about my crush being abused. well he just made out with a girl who just made out with a guy YESTERDAY!!! she has a rep for the BIGGEST SLORE in our school. well me and my friend (one of the girls whos a mutual friend) was like "im not going to give him any sympothy now about his dad because thats SO stupid and its BULL!!!!" i was like "yea good point.. i wont either!!"

is that the right thing to do though? i still kind of like him..a little..

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Posted Wednesday November 2 2005, 10:23 pm

okay well i used to be best friends with this one girl for like ever. and then we stopped talking for a little bit because we were both really busy and she got all mad and said that i was mad at her and she could never trust me again. that was a few months ago and were still not friends. well i was wondering if i should write her (she blocked me and she lives in another state so i cant call her). because i am just wondering if shes okay and maybe we can patch this thing up. should i even bother?

*i rate 5's*

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Friend Problems


Posted Wednesday November 2 2005, 8:49 pm

I know this girl who is popular but nice at the same time. Everyone likes her. So i decided to talk to her and everything went fine. We became friends, until this month when i became suspicious. She never laughs like usual w/ me and she only laughed w/ other people. When I speak to her all she says is mumbles. I've never been mean to her. I've never spread a rumor about her. But today when I supposedly did something wrong (not really) she immediatly began hating me and gave me the silent treatment. I am soo confused. Any advice?

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friend or not


Posted Wednesday November 2 2005, 7:57 pm

ok so i was really good friends with this guy...lets say his name is..."Dave" ok so me and dave were wicked close and then he asked me out and i said yes,it was ok for a while and then i didnt think it was rite so i said lets go back to being good friends. then he stopped talking to me. i keep asking him to talk to me and lets start being friends again but he says its hard and hes trying to be nice and stuff but is it him or what should i do so things can just...go back to normal? someone please help me thanks

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abuse?


Posted Wednesday November 2 2005, 5:43 pm

ok the love of my life (but he doesn't like me more than a friend) told me last nite that his dad was beating the sh*t out of him by a text message. so i then talked to a mutual friend and she said he said the same thing to her but that he pushed him down a flight of stairs and it really hurt him!! we dont kno weather or not to believe him. like he tells everyone this but none of his guy friends believe him really, just the 3 of his closest "girl friends" (me, and 2 mutual friends). they have different stories (ex: "we were on the phone and he started screaming and crying because he was in the shower hiding from his dad when he heard him coming and had to hang up"). we dont know whether to believe him or not..
...

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Friends Break Apart


Posted Wednesday November 2 2005, 5:12 pm

My two best friends in the WHOLE WORLD are in a totally different class. And the worst part is that nobody in my class this year is my friend. I think they all think I'm weird. I am having trouble making new friends and keeping in touch with my old ones. What can I do?

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Weird Housemate


Posted Wednesday November 2 2005, 12:31 pm

I basically just want to know what people think about this and whether I'm the one with the problem! Last night my male housemate asked me if i wanted to watch a film so i agreed even though it was about 11.30pm as i couldn't think of anything else to do. I started falling asleep in front of it and then waking up and not understanding what was going on so i decided to go to bed and i told him that. So he started saying how the evening had started off really well and now it had been spoilt and how i had agreed to watch it with him and i was breaking my promise. He kept sighing and just acting really unreasonably and going really quiet and pissed off. So i just went upstairs and told my other female housemate that i was not going to be m...

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i need big help


Posted Wednesday November 2 2005, 10:43 am

ok well i have a pretty big crush on a girl at school. But there is a huge problem. Two other girls like me and i dont really like them and i dont want to say no to them cause they would freak out on me... I used to like one of the girls but now i dont and she still thinks i do. what should i do. i really dont wanna go out with them i want to go out with the girl a like. How should i begin to talk with her.

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Girl Drama, Long but Please read


Posted Tuesday November 1 2005, 9:17 pm

15/f- Its really long but if you would take the time, I would really really appreciate your help.

Okay I have 2 best friends, shelby and christa. Well shelby recently got a boyfriend, and all of a sudden started acting very distant to me and christa. She never hung out with us anymore, and barely talked to us at school. She was trying to change herself to fit in with her bf's friends. Well Then she started telling people that me and christa abandoned her and that we were mad and jealous that she has a bf. We never said anything to her. So then we heard it from more people, so we asked her about it, if she said it. She denied it, and got mad at us and walked away. We let it go. Then my friend found a note from her to her bf t...

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Posted Tuesday November 1 2005, 9:05 pm

OK well i have this friend and ive been friends with her since 6th grade ( im in 9th now ) she has these annpying little things about her that tick me off soo bad like her laugh is sooo freaking annoying.a lot of people make fun of her laugh ( it sounds like shes having about 3 asma attacks at once ) and she freaks out saying my laugh isnt annoying.well anyway she is also saying rude comments to me like your soo stupid or stop being a bitch and then shell tell me she is just kidding.is there anyway i can block her out of my mind because its getting the point where i wish i never met her

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friend is driving me crazy


Posted Tuesday November 1 2005, 8:31 pm

I have a friend who is really nice but lately she has been driving me crazy.
Well for example she phones me about 6 times a day. And when she calls she has nothing to say, she'll just start out saying "how's it going", and then she'll be on the phone for about 20 minutes, finally after her not talking and me doing all the talking I'll say I have to go. The she'll phone me back again and ask if I am mad at her!!. This happens EVERY day.
I am too nice to tell her to stop phoning, but it is really getting annoying. Sometimes I get so mad with all the phone calls that I'll just unplug the phone for a couple of hours, but then I miss out on other important calls from either my boss or my parents. And if I don't answer...

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Posted Tuesday November 1 2005, 6:16 pm

ok so i think i may have a thing for a friend of mine i really dont know though anyways i was just wondering how do i get him to see me as more than a friend? thanx bunches!

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Oh no!


Posted Tuesday November 1 2005, 4:00 pm

I like my best friends X. They just broke up and it was only 2 months but i still cant like do that to my gurl. and the guy is still like in love with her how can i get him to see me?n not have my friend get hurt or mad?

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exes.


Posted Tuesday November 1 2005, 3:33 pm

Okay, my best friend kelli was dating this guy mark for a good 4-5 months. Mark broke up with her about early October. Well, even though i was mad he dumped her, me and him still stayed close friends. and so did him and kelli. now kelly is dating this guy named adam. anyways, all of a sudden, mark started being really flirty with me lately.. and people told me he likes me. and the thing is, i like him too. but the other thing is, kelli is not over mark at all! she has a lot of feelings for him still but i dont think thats fair to adam at all. but today when i told her i kind of liked mark, she freaked out on me. and now i feel really bad and im not sure what to do.

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2 questions in one....


Posted Monday October 31 2005, 9:32 pm

14/f.....i just met a new friend named Kate..i've got to know her and she's really nice. she liked this one guy named Phil a few weeks ago but claims she doesn't like him anymore...but you she still sort of does u kno...1/10..anyways i sort of like him now(even though ive never talked to him really; i just think he's really cute). so would it be wrong to start liking him publicly??? and i dont really want to ask her if its ok b/c i am afraid it will ruin our friendship. what should i do??
and my second question is if i do end up liking him publically..how should i get started talking to him?? thanx
<3 Elle


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falling for someone


Posted Monday October 31 2005, 8:26 pm

What does it mean to "fall for someone" i get the general idea but could anyone explain it better for me please? thanks i'd appreciate it!

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i have no friends


Posted Monday October 31 2005, 8:25 pm

ok....im not a very social person, at least not anymore, see...i used to go to this awesome school where i had like tons of friends and stuff but then i had to move so now im at this new school and its sooooooo much different. now i dont have that many friends. i mean like its not like im a nerd or anything, like people like me but theres only like 4 or 5 people that i can really call my friends. all i want to do is just make more friends but i dont really no how. HELP PLEASE.

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there


Posted Monday October 31 2005, 4:32 pm

I have a crush on this girl who is a sevy just like me. She is 1 or 2 years younger than me. I want to let her know i am there for her, but since she is still a kid, she might think it is wierd. I dont want want her to have negative feelings like that, so i was wondering how i could let her know. Not like writing her a note or telling her in a different language or in sighn language.something that is like flirting but not for love. all fives for any answers that dont say anything to do with maturity or that is dumb.

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