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Posted Tuesday November 29 2005, 10:03 pm
14/f...My friend Kate and I are crushing on the same guy, named Warren. I've only known him for about 2 weeks but Kate has known him for a whole year because they went to the same school last year. He talks to her way more than he talks to me because they are really good "friends." We both made a PROMISE that whatever happens we won't let him come between us. But whenever I see them talking I can't help but feel jealous. I know that I shouldn't be mad at her but I can't help what I feel. Please help me. I don't know what to do...in all parts of this situation.
<3 ELLE
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FRIENDSHIPS
Posted Tuesday November 29 2005, 8:59 pm
14/f...i just met this new girl named Kate about 2 months ago. She has this whole group of friends that I've gotten to know a little. I've only actually went over Kate's house and that's it. Well she has been spending a lot of time with me lately and she says that some people are jealous of mine and her friendship and I feel really bad. And I have also been getting a vibe from every in her group that they don't like me very much...I don't know what to do. please help.
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The whole freakin male gender!
Posted Tuesday November 29 2005, 6:22 pm
Hey,..like lately i have been inraged at guys. even my friends. Expecially my best friend's boyfriend ((he's my friend as well and my ex.)) And one minutes i'll be laughing and the next i'll either be screaming or giving him ((or any other guy)) the silent treatment. It may be I just start my period for the month ((i've had it before)). And i just dont know what to do so i'm not so angry. i'm usually not. i'm usually very perky and flirty. Tell me something that helps and that i dont know and i'll rate 5's!
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formals 14/f
Posted Tuesday November 29 2005, 5:57 pm
every year our school's 7th graders throw a formal dance for the 8th graders. i am totally against going because i hate dresses and can't dance. all of my friends that were totally against it are suddenly going and renting a limo and everything. they are even having a sleepover and a whole day to get ready for it. i don't want to go but they are pressuring me so much to go. what should i do??? the guy i really like will be there but i am 100% against stuff like this. should i give in? can you give me some tips on how to stay strong under pressure?? thanks...i'll rate high!
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Wants more than friendship?
Posted Tuesday November 29 2005, 5:21 pm
I'm a 13/f and my friend is a 13/m. And lately I've been thinking he wants more than friendship. For awhile I've noticed that he has been staring at my boobs. Not just once, but like between 15-25 times a day. We are in all the same classes and out the corner of my eye, I see him ALWAYS staring at me. Today when he was looking "there" I asked him,if they were nice? I was doing this to see how he would react, thinking he would look away or ask what I was talking about. However, he said that he "loved them"! I'm like so shocked. I asked him why and he said it was because "he's a guy"! OMG. The worst part was that I really enjoy the attention. I put my hand on this inner thigh and was holding his hand and stuff. H...
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advice on talking to people
Posted Tuesday November 29 2005, 4:07 pm
yeah so in some classes i hang out with these people that i'm not really friends with cause idon't have any of my friends in there.. i'm a really shy person so i don't really talk, just sit there you know.. it's easier if i were with just one person- but i'm not.. i'm with a group of people who are already friends.. i don't wanna like seem annoying/ weird and not want them to like me so that they don't hang out with me.. i'm pretty sure they won't not like me but i just can't get that threw my head... i seem very quiet shy and boring i think and i don't want that.. but NOTHING comes to mind of what to say to them at all!
how can i become friends with these people and how can i talk to themm? can you give me some tips that do...
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why's she being so dumb?
Posted Tuesday November 29 2005, 3:48 pm
alright, well i had this bestfriend for a while now and i thought there was trust in it until recently she just randomly called me and started screaming her head off at me and threatening me and saying that ive been "running my mouth" about her. and when i was like "what are you talking about?" she hung up.. so i went down the street to where she was and it turned out that everyone got drunk that night and some one told her that i said that she wanted to a have sex with john.. but i didnt and she just wont believe me.. she would not listen to me.. she just kept screaming at me and i was screaming back that i never said that and then she screamed back "bull!!" but i really DID NOT SAY ANYTHING LIKE THAT.. i mean...
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my friends are getting WORSE.
Posted Tuesday November 29 2005, 1:30 pm
my friendships with my lifelong 'best' friends are really fading away . for example, they were gonna leave me out of this thing we have done every year since grammer school .. some friends :[ when i found this out i broke into tears because i really don't know what to do i want friends but not if they treat me like this and make me so angry & upset and everything . any advice ? i rate fives <3 thanks so much
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Birthday Confusion. 411 helP?
Posted Tuesday November 29 2005, 12:14 am
Ok, this may should a little confusing and such, but please bear with me. I have a little birthday dilemma.
My sweet sixteen birthday is in about... two weeks and since most of my friends are seniors, i want to do something special... since technically this is the last party of the year i can have with them. I wanted to do something on Saturday [my birthday], but it ended up that my parents decided to go to one of their business partner's dinner instead... so I was planning to play laser tag then have everyone go to my house... but now that my parents won't be home... that won't be possible. I can't have my birthday on friday or sunday because everyone, including me has classes those days. And i cant do it the week after...
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Friend & Boyfriend
Posted Monday November 28 2005, 9:21 pm
My friend always flirts with my boyfriend. They don't like each other that way, but they always play fight and stuff. When the 3 of us are together I feel left out... I know they're just friends, but I wish they'd stop flirting then. (I'm not the only one who considers it flirting, either.) I've told them it bothers me when they start playing around with each other but they act like I'm just being to sensitive or jealous. I don't know what to do. I'm so tired of them teasing each other saying things like wanting to see each other naked. It's not funny to me at all. I'm fed up with it.
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The trouble with Christmas..
Posted Monday November 28 2005, 7:08 pm
Is finding the right gift! What can I get/make for my friend for Christmas? I have no cash but I want to make something really nice. She's getting me something great for christmas so I want to get her something equally great. No scrapbooking.. she's already done that.. What can I make that's personal? Please help! I rate!
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Robbing the Cradle?
Posted Monday November 28 2005, 3:29 am
A guy that I'm quite good friends with was telling me stories from when he was in highschool. I was curious when all this happened to him so I innocently asked him what year he graduated from grade 12. Well it turned out that it was the same year that I was born!! I started giggling and then told him I was born the year he graduated.
Well this was his reaction: His eyes got huge(like a deer in the headlights) and his face went 50 shades of red. He also couldnt look me in the eye for the rest of the evening.
I felt bad for embarrasing him and never mentioned it again. But I thought it was a strange reaction for just a friend?
Do you think he may be attracted to me? Why else would he get so embarrassed?
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Posted Sunday November 27 2005, 10:48 pm
k so i kno this might sound weird or wutever but i once heard that when you get that ringing in your ear it means someones talking about that.. is that true at all?
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Help?
Posted Sunday November 27 2005, 8:19 pm
I never thought I'd have to ask this sort of question. My best friend has always been my hero and my sorce of joy. And now all of a sudden she's hanging out with another one of my friends who treats her like crap. She cracks and disses on her right in front of my best friend and it hurts her feelings.
Every time I try to say something when we're w/ the other girl, she's like, that's stupid, or why would you say that and almost kinda ignores me. She rolls her eyes at me know, and she's never done that unless she would follow it with a laugh. It hurts cuz I truely love my best friend. Why do you think she's pulling away from me? We know everything about each other and every worry. It hurts that now she's my main worry and she might ha...
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bf/gf or friends?
Posted Sunday November 27 2005, 8:18 pm
I was just wondering, do y'all spend more time with your bf/gf or with your friends?
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I want a social life
Posted Sunday November 27 2005, 4:19 pm
My friend *Agnes and I have never really been close, but I know most of the things that go on in her life. She has a myspace and has tons of people on there that she goes to shows with and hangs out with. I want to be as outgoing as her, but I don't want to do it through myspace. I mean it's harder for me because I am afraid of being rejected. I'm not as pretty or skinny as her and I am not"scene" so people don't make it a point to talk to me. How do I get up the courage to talk to people, mainly boys, and what do I say?
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14/f
Posted Sunday November 27 2005, 3:58 pm
hey ok well i have a sort of huge friendship problem. see i have these two most awesome friends in the world (well more than two but these two are part of the problem here) we will call them x(guy) and z(girl). well x and z and me were really good friends before and me and z have been friends since like we were 5. we met x this summer and he's really great, like i can tell him anything. he doesnt live here, so we don't get to see him all the time but he lives close. well then z and x went out for like a month. i was happy for them but z kept thinking i liked x. and i don't. and i told her that so now its ok. but then they broke up. so now i have to see him w/o her there, cuz it would be weird for them. well to make a long story short i w...
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I'm throwing a partayyyyyyy!!
Posted Sunday November 27 2005, 2:59 pm
Okay, so I'm 14 (female). my friend (15 and female) and I are throwing a christmas/new years party (on new years) and there'll be boys and girls there. We're all 13-15 years old, so no college party stuff. but we dont know what to do. people are bringing b/f's and crushes, all though we dont want to do anything to extreme. does anyone have any good ideas of what to do for the partay???
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Posted Sunday November 27 2005, 1:50 pm
how can i stop careing about what people think of me
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Suggestions
Posted Sunday November 27 2005, 12:22 am
Ok... here is the problem ok... Well I love this boy and like, Him and I got into a fight because I kicked him and now he is all mad at me and like he really likes me and cares about me SOO much, more than anything in the world.. him and I have been friends since 4th grade... but like he wants to be my friend so bad again but he swears at me he ditches me he kicks me and he also pulled my hair out and slapped me.. I don't know if I should be his friend again if he cares about me that much and if I should, Should I be his friend again?
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