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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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self-mutilation.


Posted Thursday December 8 2005, 5:17 pm

My friend is having a really hard time in her life right now and i just discovered that she started cutting herself. Im the only one that she told, and i don't want to break her trust by telling the school cousiler. The cousiler knows about her having a hard time right now, becuase she talked to her, but now about the cutting. So, like i said, im the only one that knows so if the school counsiler finds out then shes going to know that i told her. I know it 'would be best' if i told the counsiler, but i'll feel like ive betrayed my friend. What is the best way to tell my school cousiler about whats going on, or at least try to help my friend?? THanks for any help.
<3

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Moving.......:'(


Posted Thursday December 8 2005, 4:02 pm

My Best friend in the whole entire world might be moving. I mean FAR away. Like I live in Ky and she might be moving back to Michagan. I don't have any other friends. And it really hurts me cause I am afraid that she will move and I will never see her again. The same thing happend with my old friend Allison. She moved and I haven't herd from her in a year. I don't know what I am going to do. I have no friends but her. Please guys help me. Cause I am so hurt... 13/F

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ohh great


Posted Thursday December 8 2005, 3:32 pm

okay well heres my problem my best friends older sister well has sex a lot and my best friend called her a nympho (a person who has sex all the time i think and like cant stop) and i was with one of my friends and we were talking about her sister and i guess it kinda slid out that i said that she was a nympho and now i think my best friends mad she was like why did you tel her that but i really just said that my best friend said she was..but my best friend doesnt believe me and i think shell tell her sister i said that and her sisters in one of my classes and i think she will like say something to me but its all just a confusing mess. what should i do and say to any of them? i already talked to my friend and she apologized for telling my best friend.. 14 f

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alpha female


Posted Thursday December 8 2005, 1:43 pm

so heres my problem, my boyfriend doesnt like that all my friends are guys... so its hard to talk to him about my friends. he thinks i need some girlfrieds too, i do agree with that but see i have this little problem... im bossy to girls, i cant help it, its always like direct competition with them. im very protective of my friends and im very opinionated... i tell my opinion. im very outgoing and stuff. im just hard to get along with around girls. but around guys im totally different. im not as bossy, im nicer, i dont feel that i have to fight with them and be better than them. but with girls i just do i have this alpha female thing going on. i want a girl best friend too. but its hard for me to be around girls cuz im a tomboy and i like c...

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14/f


Posted Thursday December 8 2005, 11:53 am

hey well i met this guy (a friend of my best guy friend) on msn. and at first things were fine and we had stuff to talk about cause we were getting to know eachother and stuff. now though we always start talking ya kno "hey wats up n2m u?? n2m" and then wat should we talk about??
i'll rate 5's for anything helpful!!xo!

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Best Friend Hates Me


Posted Thursday December 8 2005, 2:38 am

13/f
Me and this boy have been really close friends for a year. Now he's started hanging around the other guys, who are all jerks. They were beating up on a kid one day and it made me mad. I stood up for the kid and the boys all ended up getting in trouble by a teacher. Now my friend is mad at me because I embarrassed him in front of his friends. I was just doing what I think is right! Well, now he says he hates me and is tired of the "bull shit". I love him and I don't want to lose him but I have no idea what to do now. None of his new friends like me (they think I'm a psycho) and I feel like he cares more about what they think than he cares about me. It's really really depressing. Write back soon, please & thank you.

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i feel like she is using me


Posted Wednesday December 7 2005, 9:40 pm

Alright, so I have this friend. Let's call her Diana. Whenever I tell Diana something that I am excited about she just brings me down. She'll tell me "Oh my god, no one cares" or "Does it really seem like I care?", stuff like that. Sometimes she will even hurt me physically also. She always flirts with all of the guys I used to like or even my boyfriend. Diana is very beautiful and she knows it. All of the guys adore here and such. Sometimes she can hurt my feelings so bad that I just want to cry. I really am not trying to be mean about this but how can I help get our friendship back on track? Sometimes when I tell her things I feel like she's jelous. Am I the one doing something wrong? Please help me, this is making me ...

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Penpals


Posted Wednesday December 7 2005, 8:57 pm

i suppose i shall put this here..
I want to find EMAIL penpals?
Were on earth Can i find them at?
sites please?


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Should I be mad?? this is long...


Posted Wednesday December 7 2005, 8:00 pm

Well today me and my friend got in a fight and it was wrong on my part so i was going to apologize the next period until i found out that she had told 2 other girls who are also my friends and 1 is mad at me now and the other isnt because she thinks its stupid.....well the girl who IS mad at me said i have no reason to be mad at her and i said well yeah i do because your talking shit about me behind my back and you cant say it to my face and she said she should be mad at me because i changed "so much" so my question is should i be mad at her for talking about me or should i apologize to the girls talking shit about me....i know i have changed but not the way they think i have and they dont belive me when i try to explain that to t...

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Omg She Is Killing Me!!!


Posted Wednesday December 7 2005, 7:08 pm

Ok. Where Should I start? Ok.
There is this new girl that just moved here about a month ago named Katelyn. She has a little attitude problem. See I have a Best Best Best (i know alot of bests!) friend Sam and she is going out with this guy named Kyle. Kyle used to Like Katelyn and now that Kaytelyn is single she is mad at Sam. Katelyn came up to me today and was like "Uh Whats up with Sam??" and I was like "Nothing. She is just sleepy. Why?" and she was like "Uh Well she has a little problem. Because She saw Kyle looking at me today and started smarting off to me!!" and I was like "So, Who cares." and she was like "Well she better get over it!" and a couple of hours later she keeps as...

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im so confused can you please help me


Posted Wednesday December 7 2005, 5:40 pm

Ok i like a girl and we always talk and ive known her for a long time more then 4 years and i just asked her who did she like and then she told me who do YOU like? i sayed you tell me first and i just didint answer it i just kept trying her to say first then i asked her why dont you tell me and she sayed something about she didint want to ruin her freindship with this guy and i really think she was talkin about me and i wanted to tell her somethin so badlybut im shy and now a couple of months past and she has not been acing the same with me shes acting more away from me different and i want to tell her something now ask her out or ask her to me my girlfreinds anything to let her know i still like her alot so can any one help me AS SOON AS...

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best friends


Posted Wednesday December 7 2005, 12:36 pm

ok well i have a best friend and i lov eher so mucha dn weve been best friends from like the first time we met and were always together and everyone is always like 'ur like the olsen twins,always together, always the same, never fighting' and we love that were totally different, shes blond long hair with fair skin and angelic girlie dress sense and im brown hair rock chick.
anyway this new girl has come and totally taken her away! what do i do ignore or say something
thanx
xxx

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Annoying girl with a crush on me


Posted Wednesday December 7 2005, 8:16 am

There's this girl at school that tries to stick to me like glue. We both get to school very early in the morning, and she comes every day to chat. I don't dislike her, but she's rather aggravating and I can tell she has a monster crush on me. Sometimes I can catch her staring at me in he hallway. What should I do about her? She's nice and all, but she doesn't realize how goddamn annoying she is. What would you advise?

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Un-sociable


Posted Wednesday December 7 2005, 8:08 am

I have a very difficult time meeting new people and making friends. For example no one at work ever invites me to go to lunch. I have asked people to go with me, but I always feel like I'm imposing. How can I meet new people and make new friends?

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he acts differently around me...


Posted Wednesday December 7 2005, 3:25 am

A guy that I'm quite good friends with invited me over to his house. We are both adults over 25. We were both watching Dr. Phil on the television. I remembered this one show a long time ago where these young teens were having oral sex parties and thought it was no big deal. Dr. Phil got mad and told them that oral sex was still considered sex because it involved a sex organ. (I agreed with him by the way) I imitated his voice and said in a Dr. Phil tone "but it IS sex because it involves a SEX ORGAN!!".
All my other friends when I told them this burst out laughing because I totally sounded like Dr. Phil. Well after I did this I looked at my friend and he looked really uncomfortable and didnt say anything at all so I ...

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my friends well.. odor?


Posted Tuesday December 6 2005, 10:10 pm

My friend lets say (jesse) jesse smells pretty bad everyday. Like a bad smell as if she doesnt take a bath. How do i tell her she has an odor i dont want to hurt her feelings but i dont want people to talk about her behind her back
seriously.. shes recently had staph too?
does that mean youre not clean? ermm help

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ahhhh


Posted Tuesday December 6 2005, 7:27 pm

hey. Im thirteen and i have this friend who is a boy. Hes like my best friend and we have been best friends for about 2 years. the thing is that i think that i like him. I don't know what to do. If i tell him im afraid how he will react due to the fact that i have dropped no hints and he thinks we are only friends. Also im really afriad on how this will affect our friendship because i don't know what i would do without him. i know this is tough but i really need help on this one!

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I feel Forgotten!!!


Posted Monday December 5 2005, 8:36 pm

Well I have a best friend and we haven't spent time together totally for 3 to 4 weeks. She and I have been busy as heck. Twice she spent the night over this over girl's house. She calls her, her best friend too. But she's told me that I’m number one. Well now I’m starting to feel left out because I also know her other best friend and we get along well. I just can't stand them being together hanging out and I’m never invited like when the other girl invited my best friend, Kay, to sleep over. She doesn't even call me that much anymore. I remember like in the beginning of the year that the other girl, eliz, was not in the picture and now she's treating her as she's been there for her like I have and SHE HASN'T! She's now including her i...

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what is it?


Posted Monday December 5 2005, 7:57 pm

my ex and i are best friends,he has girlfriend and me her dont like each other, but its like now im realizing i still love him but i couldn't ever imagine being more than just his friend, even though we you used to go out,my friends say i should tell him how i feel but i just dont kno has a girl that he loves dearly but i get this vibe that maybe its something he not telling me,so im trying to figure out if its love or friendship. so what should i do should i tell him how i feelor should i just let this friendship "be real"?i also want to have sex with him and i think he knows that but he doesnt want to hurt his girl and i told him what she dont know won't hurt her so what should i do?

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friends or boys?


Posted Monday December 5 2005, 4:56 pm

mah friend used to like this kid named billy, she liked him forever but he never liked her back. Now she has a boyfriend and I like billy. She doesnt know, and she still likes billy also. I think that she cant have her cake and eat it too.. since she has a boy friend she should get over billy. what should i do? billy said that he likes me and might wanna go out with me, should i go out with him and for get about mah friend or what?

please i rate well!
Jackie

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