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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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Friend problems BAD!


Posted Friday December 16 2005, 4:15 pm

There's this girl who I have been best friends with since kindergarden and now im in 7th grade. She is really gross and picks at her nails when she's bored. She eats lunch with me this year and it's so annoying because she's really CLINGY!!! She takes Ritalin which doesn't make you hungry, so the whole time during lunch she sits there and picks at her disgusting 2 inch long nails! She like makes me sit next to her, and when I get up to go to the bathroom or buy something she comes with me. She's nice and all but CLINGY!! I'm going on a cruise with her family in April for her Bat Mitzvah so...i can't stop being friends with her...its booked already!!! i don't know what to do! I'm like her only friend, and i am not being a good friend to her ...

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People Thinks I'm Lebian Beacause I Have A Best Friend!


Posted Friday December 16 2005, 2:03 pm

Hey Guys, I have a HUGE Problem, I know you guys are probably gonna say "You shouldn't care what people thinks!". Well I need to answer that. I can't help it. It all started when Me and My best friend Amber. We Arn't Like That (Lesbian). She has a Boyfriend and yeah I am Single. We act like sisters though. We 'Sometimes' share a drink (pop, etc.). What I mean by that is. She could be drinking something and then I would ask her if I could have a drink and I would take a drink. Now everyone thinks I'm a Lesbain!! What Can I do To Get Them To Shut Up? I'm Not That WAY!!!!!

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MEN!


Posted Friday December 16 2005, 12:55 pm

Well i have a aguy thats liek me...& these is the shit he dose

-calls me
-talks to me all the time
-loves to take me to class
-oves to sit next to me in classes
-always writing me notes...& i write him note...

I can tell he likes me...but i don't like him like that...what should i do if he askes me out??

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2 of my best friends are fighting..


Posted Friday December 16 2005, 12:41 pm

ok, so just yesterday, 2 of my friends got in this big fight over something really stupid, & they said things that didnt need to be said or brought up, & didnt have anything to do with what they were fighting about in the first place!! & then one of the brought me into it, & got one of my friends to think that I talked crap about her, when I really dont!! I mean, they are both my friends, & I dont want them to not be friends because of this, because then I would have to choose. & one of my friends dropped the whole thing, as did I, but my other friend is still mad @ her. I mean, i can see why, but i just want her to drop it!! how can I convince her that its all over?!? please help..

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Please help me... I don't know what to do...


Posted Friday December 16 2005, 3:56 am

Regards,

First of all, let me clear a thing... I'm fairly in the air... I had passed a hard day and for now, I'm exteremly confused, like i have never been before... I just need some help, adivse or anything that could be any of help...

My story begins from two months ago. when I actually decided to start a new PLP type relationship with a girl in my university for the first time in my life... we both are studying electronics engineering. I just have two term to finish the

lessons, while she has 4 terms to go... I dont know if these informations do any help, but in any way, I'm trying to be precise here...

Before this, I had absolutely no idea in dating with girls. I had never ...

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Hes My Best Friend!


Posted Friday December 16 2005, 3:25 am

Hey im a female and im 13. My best friend just happens to be this really hot guy that every girl in school wants, including me. i find im always thinking about him and wanting him. We always talk on the phone and on msn. I havent told him how i feel about him though. Should I or will he just think like im like every other girl in my school? Right now we are talking on msn and im watching him on his webcam without a shirt! I dont want to ruin our wonderful friendship but, i would really like having him as my boyfriend. Should i tell him or conceal it? Please help!

**sleepiesheep**

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Self Conscious All the Time


Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 10:36 pm

All of my friends and family tell me that I am beautiful, and so pretty. But when I look in the mirror, I am like.."eww." I can't take it anymore, I feel disgusted at myself. When I first meet people, they go, "wow you are beautiful!" I don't know if they are telling the truth or not. I have had people come up to me and ask if I model. But when I look in the mirror, I just don't see it. I have a boyfriend, he is wonderful, but he never tells me that I am beautiful. I went to a dance with him and he calls me up after and says, "hey, sorry I forgot to say you looked really nice tonight." and well he never said I look pretty or anything. I just don't know what to do. Is there any way to gain confidence on yo...

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"teenage years are SUPPOSED to be spent looking for BRIDESMA


Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 10:05 pm

OK
sooo Ive been best friends with this girl for about 3 and a half years. I can tell her everything, and i mean, everything. I used to be able to trust her with everything, and when she said " i promise" .. she meant it. Ever since she got her new boyfriend about 8 months ago though, the boy (lets call him "JOn"). has completely taken over. I feel like there is no more rooom for "jaime friendship,".. and that JOn has taken over my spot in her life. We used to hang out like every other day (about), and now , its gotten down to once or twice a every two months. Kinda sad, I think. :(
I dunno.. its adding so much stress to my life. Ive tried explaining to her how much she means to me and everything,...

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Anyone know any good friendship lost songs?


Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 9:08 pm

Does anyone know any songs about lost friendships? I'm kinda going through something right now, and I'd like a song to relate. Thanks!

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Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 6:50 pm

Well i want to have a great winter break..only like 7 more school days WooP wooP! haha but anyways..i want to do somethin sweeeet for new years ..like go to a party or something..but im not one to get invited to parties. i kinda wanna drink a lil and like kiss some boys ;) trust me im not a slut..dont worry. i just need a boy! lol what can i doo.. because i cant have a party..i wouldnt be allowed but i never get invited to any =( hmm..any suggestions?

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FRIEND


Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 3:26 pm

Alright. I thought since my best friend is such a good friend id make a list of 100 reasons why your my best friend. Can someone give like 25? (its a girl) Thanks I RATE 5!

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i feel so stupid


Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 12:36 pm

my closest guy friend asked me out a few weeks ago and i said no. the reasons i gave him were 1 - we go to different colleges that are 100 miles apart (even though he visits me about every week), and 2 - i plan to leave the u.s. in a couple of years, so i don't want to be involved in anything that might lead to a serious relationship because then it might cause too much pain. but the thing is, even though those reasons are true, i also didn't really want to go out with him because i wasn't sure if i was attracted to him. now i think i'm beginning to have some feelings for him and i don't know what to do. we're both going to be in our hometown over the winter break and we're going to hang out a lot, but i don't know if i should tell him that...

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What do you do if a friend becomes hostile to you and you do


Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 11:49 am

I'm a stay-at-home mom who likes to go to the park with my daughter and baby. I met a man last year who is a great-grandfather who takes his two great-granddaughters to the park every day (well almost). I thought he was really nice and friendly and my daughter likes playing with the girls. I've known him since last year, and we always make pleasant conversation and he offers my daughter and I treats. There is nothing going on between us, I am married and he is just a casual friend. The other day he snapped at me for no reason and I still can't figure it out. What's worse, he did it right in front of one of the kids. My daughter was talking to her friend about another friend from school who called her a "cry-baby" because my daught...

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Posted Wednesday December 14 2005, 10:13 pm

my friend moved away. like, really far away. like, in another country far away. sending mail to her is really expensive, and she's not allowed to have aim or email. she says we'll stay in touch, but how?

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Posted Wednesday December 14 2005, 10:04 pm

right so my freind peirced her ear with a third hole by herself using a needle yesterday. it looks fine today. i want a belly button peircin, but my mom will never let me. should i ask my freind to do it for me? what are some safety measures i should take?

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Posted Wednesday December 14 2005, 8:10 pm

well im goin over to my friends this weekend..and what could i suggest to do..because most of the time we only sit on the computer..and i usually wanna go out and do stuff..hang out with guys and just have a good time!! but now we wont have a ride because yeah so i dont know how we could go anywhere? so any good ideas of what to do without a ride haha . thanks

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Posted Wednesday December 14 2005, 6:33 pm

heyy guys, well my one friend is really short and skinny but thinks shes "fat" (of course thats not the big problem because everyone has insecurities) but anyway she barely eats and obsesses over her weight (but she also has OCD) she takes medicine for her disorder but she wont eat her lunch at school. Well i have 4 or my closest friends and she is one of them. Right now my other close friend let it slip that the other was barely eating and her mom came to our school, and basically embarressed her by making her eat her whole lunch. Well afterward i was walking down the hall and my friends went into the bathroom to put their makeup on and found the other friend sticking her finger down her throat trying to make herself "throw ...

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Birthday Party


Posted Wednesday December 14 2005, 6:11 pm

Hey everyone my 14th birthday is coming up and i want to have a party. See, it's ust going to be one of my closse girld friends..about 6 and i was thinking about renting a limo or something and going into the city...but im not sure. What are some good ideas. I like about 40 min from phily and 2 hour from new york city if that helps.... if u got any good ideas please tell!

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My 'best' friend was talkin about me behind my back


Posted Wednesday December 14 2005, 3:24 pm

My so-called best friend...K,..was talking about me behind my back. And when I confronted her she was like "OMG I SWEAR I DIDN"T SAY THAT!" Because, her boyfriend, my good friend and ex, just broke up with her and she said that he left her for me. I know that doesn't seem like something to get mad about, but it made me furious! Because, I liked him, and I told her too, and she just forgot about it and omg,...do I have a right to be mad? Should I just forget the whole thing? Thanks in advance!


♥

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guy I thought was friend did something really mean


Posted Wednesday December 14 2005, 1:55 am

I have a question about a guy who I'm friends with. He had invited me and some other friends of his to celebrate his wifes birtday at a local restaurant.
Well I was the 3rd person to arrive and from the minute I sat down next to him and his wife he gave me attitude. He asked me a question and I thought he said "where's the gang", I aswered that they hadnt arrived yet. Then he YELLED at me and said "I SAID WHERES THE GIG"!
When everyone else had arrived (there was about 20 people) his wife started opening her gifts. When she opened my gift someone asked where the card was. I didnt get her a card, just a gift and he (her husband) snapped "there IS no card".
Well after this abusive behavi...

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