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what happened to my best friend?
Posted Thursday December 22 2005, 1:16 pm
sorry this is sort of long!! i have been best friends with my friend sammie since about 7th grade. now i'm a junior & i'n not quite sure what to make of our friendship anymore. we are not in any of the same classes this year& we never see each other in the hallways either, so basically i don't see her in school. in the beggining of the year we still did stuff together, but she made a new friend, jane, who she does alot of things with. now i'm not against her making new friends (i have made new ones too) & jane is a very nice person, but i feel almost as if they are beocming best friends. it seems as though they are together alot, & even when there not i deffinetly feel as though sammie & i are nowhere near as close as we...
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Boyfriend = Bad News
Posted Thursday December 22 2005, 12:59 pm
Hey. I am Very Clueless because My Friend Angie is going out with a Guy that Smokes Cigg's, Used to (and Probably still does) smoke Dope, and I'm about sure that he has had his girlfriends come to his house and pressures them to have sex or give hima blow job. Well thats the kind of guy she is going out with. He dumped her the day before yesterday and now they are going back out. Then yesterday I found put that he had asked a Girl that I know, for her phone number and she told him no and that she doesn't do that to her friends. (Cause Angie and her are friends). Well I'm still worried. So I went and asked some guys about what they thought of him and they all said "He's Bad News." or "I don't like to be around him." I ha...
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(dont no what to do)
Posted Thursday December 22 2005, 1:34 am
i have a friend that i work with and he is white (im black) and i really like him and im not racist but ive never really liked somebody like him before and nobody really knows but my best friend and shes a little understanding but the guy i like he drinks and smokes and gets into stuff like that and it scares me and i still like him? am i crazy? and i dont even know if he likes me like that cuz we just been friends and i dont want him to know i like him unless he likes me back cuz i dont take rejection too well... what should i do?
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my BOYFRIEND!
Posted Wednesday December 21 2005, 9:33 pm
Hey well i have this one friend and it seems like she is always pressuring me to do stuff that im not ready 4 like she pressured me into Kissing my boyfriend that i had only been going with 4 a lil bit and yah i didnt really know him that much but she always gettin in my buisness but i don't know how to tell her to stop!!
Like this week end she wants me to go to the movies only so that my bf and i can make out and i don't know wat to do cause i want to do wateva when im ready..!! So can some 1 give a sista advice on how to get her "friend" of her back??
love lissa
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I think my friend cuts...
Posted Wednesday December 21 2005, 8:36 pm
Alright I think my friend is a cutter, But I'm not sure. I've never seen any cuts but she is always wearing long sleeves. How can I tell if she is? Are there other signs?
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Sick of It!
Posted Wednesday December 21 2005, 6:02 pm
Hey Guyz, I know this girl Kate and she has a best friend Abby. They Always hang out and stuff and are like Best friends. I know that its none of MY business (but it's bothering me) but Kate is ALWAYS,(When I say ALWAYS I mean it) Flirts with Abby's boyfriend Zack. Like today we had Club Day and she was like All over him whenever Abby wasn't around. Like Laying her head on his shoulder, holding his hand, etc. What should I do. And My Best friend has even told Abby about it but she wouldn't listin to her! Should I Write her (Sarah) a Letter (without my name)??
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My best guy friend
Posted Wednesday December 21 2005, 5:57 pm
My guy friend and I are both 17 and we've known each other for about 11 years now. He a good friend and everything but sometimes he says things too me that really hurt my feelings.
The other day he was at my house and we got bored and decided to go to star bucks. Well I had just gotten out of the shower so I just had my hair up in a bun and I had very little make-up on. As we were leaving he turned to me and said, "You're going out like THAT?" So I was like, "Yeah, why?" Then he told me that he thought I could have atleast tried to make and effort to look good. How mean is that?
He also feels the need to tell me when I need to start working out again, when my hair needs to be...
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any good idearrs :-] ?
Posted Wednesday December 21 2005, 4:18 pm
Me and my two friends Steph and Michelle are gettin' together for new years. Got any good ideas about things we could do :-] I would really appriciate it .. and I will rate high if you give good ideas :-]
Love,
shattereDxLovE
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pkay to be friends with a drug dealer?
Posted Wednesday December 21 2005, 1:48 pm
There's a guy at my college whom I know and like really well. We have a lot in common (read the same kind of books, etc) and can have long conversations. Problem, though: he deals in chemicals of the illicit kind. And not just on the side -- he does it for a living. I don't have any moral problems with drugs, though I don't use them myself and none of my friends do -- not even the drug dealer, he just sells them. It's just that I'm afraid I will have a taint by association problem. In fact, I sort of already have -- the campus housing people searched my room for drugs once, simply because he had been in it. (They found nothing of course, since I use nothing. He thought it was very amusing, but I was annoyed.) Is it worth it to stay friends ...
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Posted Tuesday December 20 2005, 11:01 pm
YAY :) only two more days left till x-mas break! haha it cant come soon enough! but anywaysss
i seriously wanna have the best break ever!! and i wanna meet alot of new guys but like i dont know how? i dont get invited to that many parties and my best friend goes to a diff school and she has some hotties she knows..but she isnt one to like introduce us. or like even hang out with them! ive been reading your previous answers and like yeah i even try to boost up her confidence! and im gonna be over at her house like everyday haha. but its gettin kinda boring..we sit on the computer the WHOLE time when im thinking jeez i wanna go out and do something! the problem is neither of us have our license.. 5 more months :) haha! but yeah...
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Help me!
Posted Tuesday December 20 2005, 8:04 pm
I don't even know if I should be worrying about this...but I've been at a new public middle school for four months now. I have eight friends that I hang out with, and the rest are people I say "hi" to. I'm a really shy person, and I know that's part of my problem. How do I get those people that I just say "hi" to as my true friends? And I'm afraid that I ever try to hang out with these friends they'll think I'm weird or something. I keep getting nervous that I'll never really gain these true friends. I don't want to be forever that new girl that nobody knows or cares about. Please help, I rate fives.
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Friends forever?
Posted Tuesday December 20 2005, 7:17 pm
My best friend really has changed. We both moved into this new neighborhood, me a bit before her. I was very shy, and she wasnt. I was her firt friend here, and soon we became best friends. Thnx to her I started going out more, and we made a lot of friends in the park and stuff. But lately she's been leaving me out. She calls me to go to the park, and as soon as we get der, and she sees the guy she likes she ditches me. She's changed, and lately I've been feeling like she uses me only when she needs me. And I've told her, but she still doesnt change.I was never good at interacting, so she changed me for the good. And I've become kinda dependant on her. Now I feel like if I was blind, then they give me the gift of sight, then they take it aw...
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games?
Posted Tuesday December 20 2005, 7:13 pm
Well this weekend me and my 2 best friends are having a sleepover and were outta things to do!!
Got any ideas?
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how to end a friendship
Posted Tuesday December 20 2005, 5:40 pm
I am a 20-year-old woman and have a friend of eight years whom I'm trying to break it off with. She calls me her "best" friend but lately I've realized I don't even like her -- I mostly stay with her out of habit. I mean, she is an okay person and I wish her the best, but I'm not especially fond of her and I'm tired of having to support her and let her cry on my shoulder all the time (this happens a lot, as she has a rough life and some issues with depression and cutting). She also has a tendency to get angry over very small things, and after I had to apologize for the 100th time for making some little remark which would not have offended anyone but her, I realized I didn't want to be friends anymore -- I am not getting enough out...
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My Friend Died and I'm Depressed
Posted Tuesday December 20 2005, 2:38 am
I had the worst day. I found out this morning that one of my friends died in her sleep at her parents. I hadnt talked to her in a long time so I felt a lot of guilt. I also had to phone another friend who had a falling out with her 6 months ago and she felt so guilty she spent the whole day crying.
The funeral is on wednesday morning and I can't go because I have to work. So I spent 40 dollars to have a bouquet of flowers delivered to the funeral.
I also stubbed my toe, slammed my finger in a door, and got my period today. I don't have a bf to comfort me and all my other friends are too upset over the death of our friend to talk to me. Is there something that I could do to make myself feel better about this situation? I...
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annoyed at my neighbor
Posted Monday December 19 2005, 11:04 pm
I have this really annoying neighbour that lives in my appartment complex.
I feel that she is just trying to use me. This is what happened. I ran into her when I went to check my mail. She asked me if I knew anyone who would want her budgie(a bird in a cage). I said I couldnt think of anyone and that she should put an add in the paper. She told me that would be too expensive. Then she asked me if I could give her and her bird a ride to the SPCA. She doesnt have a car. I really didnt want to and told her it would have to be another day. She told me she would try another person who had a car.
Well she just knocked on my door. She said she couldnt get a hold of this other person and needed a ride tomorrow afternoon. I ...
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no idea what to get my best friend for Christmas
Posted Monday December 19 2005, 3:21 pm
I'm going christmas shopping for all of my friends tommorow. I know what to get all of my close friends that are girls, but I really don't know what to get my best guy friend. It's actually kind of sad because I've known him for almost 5 years, but I am seriously clueless on what to get him. Can someone please tell me what guys like as gifts, that isn't priced over $25, besides gift cards? Thanks!
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cutting
Posted Monday December 19 2005, 3:18 pm
ok me and my friend are really close she is like my sister but a year ago she started to hand out with other people and she gets drunk every night and does drungs and parties a lot (i mean i party to but not like her) and i have notest she has started cutting heself and she has just been mean to me and if any of u read me last advice u kno i just found out that i am pregnet i try to tell her and talk to her but she just wont talk to me......plz help me i dont now what to do i am soo confussed i am scared of lossing my best friend-----thanks
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christmas presents
Posted Monday December 19 2005, 3:12 pm
okayy i have 90$ to spend on christmas presents for 3 girls and 3 boys. The girls i have picked out already and that leaves me with about 40$. This one guy jimmy, i like a real lot and i was thinking of gettin him a 24$ calonge from abercrombie so thats 26$ left. i don't know what i can get my other two friends.
Luke- he's a skater, he's funny, likes sugars and candies and even though he's 13 hes pretty much loving in a 8 year old attitude. like he gets excited over stupid things and the other guy, Tyler if pretty much the same way only hes not a skater i dont know what i can get either of then with 26$ so if anyone had ideas i'd appreciate them so much!
- ill rate if you answer
Thank you,
Alisha
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Trust
Posted Monday December 19 2005, 11:48 am
How does one regain a trust broken!?
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