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is he controlling me?
Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 5:00 pm
OK so my best guy friend is in a fight with one of my good girl friends. These 2 are always like one minute best friends, one minute he hates her. I put her in my top 8 on myspace and hes like "ewww, take her out now." and i did. I know it was a small little thing, but it kinda scares me now .. am i letting him control me? If i tell him how i feel, he will get mad he is really sensitive. I dont wanna lose his friendship. What should i do?
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friends vs boy friend
Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 4:01 pm
This happened about a month ago, but it still bothers me. I was going out with this guy, we'll call him George. I didn't really like him that much, so I broke up with him after a month and a half. He acted like he was so heart broken, he even sent me a text saying "I'm trying to hard not to cry, I love you so much, I'm going to miss you." But later that day he asked out someone who I thought was my best-friend. I didn't find out about it until the next day when he starte rubbing it in my face saying "please don't be mad at me or her" and all this other shit. She tried to hide it from me because she didn't want any drama. I contronted her about it and this big argument erupted ending with her and I not being friends anymo...
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fight
Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 2:56 pm
My friend is mad at me. The details don't really matter but my main problem is I think she's going to tell my social studies teacher that I didn't help with other project. That is not true but she can be a real bitch sometimes and it's not under her to do something like that. I helped her find most of the information and pick out different things for our project I just couldn't put it together. How can I keep her from telling my teacher that I didn't help? Oh I don't really care if she's mad at me because she's a bad friend anyway.
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Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 12:56 am
Ugh, my huge winter dance is in a few weeks (about 3) and I asked this kid i dont know too well but i mean i talk to him everyday jus sayin Hi or somethin. well, I asked him at 10:57 and then he didnt answer. then at 11:23 i asked if he was there nd he didnt answer (this is all online) then an hour later i saw he went away and then came back. so i IMed him nd asked if he saw what i said. here was the convo when he came back
him: yeah but im leavin soon im readin some stuff on a few sites then goin upstairs what ya need ?
me: did you see what i asked you earlier?
him: yes
me: and .. lol
him: .... ill get bac to u
he's probably goin to make me wait a rea...
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is he trying to use me?
Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 12:44 am
One day, lets just say "Bob", he wrote me a note saying 'hey, and somehow we got into a sexual conversation. He was asking me ?'s such as, who did you make out with and did you ever give head? Later that week, we started talking online alot. We started liking each other. While all this happening, he had a long term girlfriend, although they broke up about 9 or 10 times. They broke up about 2 weeks ago, and have stayed broken up. I talked to a few people and they said that he might be trying to get a fast fuck. They said this because it was a little weird that he just now started talking to me. Before this we never spoke. Do you think that he is being truthful or is he trying to use me? (hes called me several times and has asked me...
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Posted Saturday January 7 2006, 9:06 pm
me and this guy have gone out 4 times today he dumped me and wants to knoiw if we should still be friends i was wondering the same thing. should we still be friends?
**Sleepiesheep**
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Revenge, not Reconciliation!
Posted Saturday January 7 2006, 1:46 pm
I am 16, f, and I once had some friend (pal-friend, not boyfriend) who was in my class. When I got put into another one, he'd just ignore me. What I want now is to trigger some remorse for him, making him want... anything, no matter, as long as he shows he is sorry and at best will talk to me about it. The thing is that I can NOT talk to him before that happens. Since this is not about reconciliation.
How do I do that? Any ideas? PLEEEEEEASE...
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My friend needs help
Posted Saturday January 7 2006, 1:45 pm
One of my friends has been with her bf for ever it seems like. A few years. Anyway, they are in a tuff spot right now and possibly heading toward a break up.
Ive never been w/ a guy for 2-3 years so Im far from knowing how she feels. All i would like to do is be there for her.
Any suggestions to how I can help w/o butting in to there relationship?
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&& and i. . . . . .
Posted Saturday January 7 2006, 11:24 am
at skool there is this boy that i knew a couple yrs ago we used to go to a hangout ova the summer and we always flirted with each other and be around each other and he even told me he wuz goin to the same skool as me the next yr. well he didnt and now 2 yrs later hes at my skool and i want to talk to him but he dont even remember but the semester passed by && my friend told him i like him so he keeps waitin fo me to go talk to him, but im nervous. so yesterday it wuz just me && two of my friends sittin at a table && that boy asks if he could sit in the seat that that wuz sort of next to me && he's there fo a sum time eatin his lunch && i wuz listenin to music && i couldnt say nothin then he le...
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is she changing??
Posted Saturday January 7 2006, 1:02 am
sorta a complicated question
please give advice asap i need it (14/f 8th grade)
ok heres the people i am going to use in my question
Kelli=bestfriend who i tell everything and which i am very close with and she is mature, less than me, but still mature ( friends since 7th )
Kara= bestfriend who's been my friend 6th grade, WAY less mature than me, but shes deffinately one of a kind..i can't talk about sum things with her that'd i like to
ok in school we have teams, four teachers to a team, and 8 total teachers, which means your on one team or the other, the last two years i've been in classes with kelli ( which means were on the same team ) and the last 3 years me and kara have been friends ...
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my quitar teacher makes me nervous
Posted Friday January 6 2006, 10:47 pm
A friend of mine offered to teach me how to play the guitar. He knows I don't have much money and because me and my friends are always helping him out with his business, he told me that he would teach me for free. At first he was really nice and was patient. But when I had my third lesson he YELLED at me and said "YOURE NOT LISTENING TO ME". This was because I told him I wanted to look at my quitar book to see how to play a cord instead of having him move my fingers with his. (this has made me uncomfortable). He is married and I think sometimes he tries to come on to me. He also can get really inpatient with me when I can't play cords right.
I really want to learn to play the quitar but he just makes me so nervous and...
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Myspace Round 1
Posted Friday January 6 2006, 10:37 pm
Myspace ... I no you guys have heard about it. I also know many out there have one! So dooo I!!
So my question to you is ... what is your url for myspace! I would love to add you as a friend!
<33 thanks
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shy
Posted Friday January 6 2006, 9:31 pm
Being Shy is a problem. A BIG problem to me atleast. I havent always been like this. I used to be in the "popular" croud and do everything they would. When highschool hit i am no longer friends with any of them. I can't even go up to any of them and say a word. Its killing me. Its making me lack in friends and i miss all of them.
Help me please! What can i do to be back with them?
What can i do to just talk to anyone!
When Im with my boyfriend, Im all open with him till im around his friends. Then I just sit there. They think i dont like them and thats not it. Im just WAYY TOO SHYY!
i rate well to if you help me!
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is she just using me?
Posted Friday January 6 2006, 8:50 pm
I have a friend that lives in my appartment complex. She's always phoning me and asks if she can borrow one of my DVD's. I always say yes because I own lots and she's pretty good about returning.
Well I just got two movies from my dad, Willy Wonka and The Fog. She asked me already if she could borrow them and I told as soon as I finished watching them.
She just phoned me about a half hour ago and asked if she could borrow one of my movies. I told her sure. When she came over I told her she could watch anything except for those two movies that I hadnt watched yet. Then she got mad and said" well then I guess I won't be borrowing anything because those are the ones I wanted to watch". Then she left!!
I fe...
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Shy?
Posted Friday January 6 2006, 5:48 pm
Being Shy is a problem. A BIG problem to me atleast. I havent always been like this. I used to be in the "popular" croud and do everything they would. When highschool hit i am no longer friends with any of them. I can't even go up to any of them and say a word. Its killing me. Its making me lack in friends and i miss all of them.
Help me please! What can i do to be back with them?
What can i do to just talk to anyone!
When Im with my boyfriend, Im all open with him till im around his friends. Then I just sit there. They think i dont like them and thats not it. Im just WAYY TOO SHYY!
i comment well to if you help me!
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my best friend!
Posted Friday January 6 2006, 5:44 pm
allright im a 13/f
my best friend is a 13/m and... he drinks but i never seen him drink but i was talkin on aim and he seemed like he was drunk the way he was talkin. but i want to know if he really does get drunk or if he was just tryin to impress me or what! see he said to me "why dont you come to my house and get drunk on friday" i was very upset! :( i NEED advice on this
please help me! (cry)!
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12 Text messages...in one day
Posted Friday January 6 2006, 5:36 pm
Ok, my ex-boyfriend and I broke up less than 2 months ago. I still love him a lot (I want to get back together with him) and we are still best friends. Lately he and one of my friends have been text messageing (on their cell phones) a lot. Like 12 times in ONE day. She is my friend and we all used to go out together (when she was with her ex a while ago). They are friends but me and her were much closer friends. But she hasn't phoned me in ever but always text messages him (and he replies just as much). It drives me insane. I will admit I am jealous because I still love him and want him back and angry that they'd both do that to me (it seems like they are flirting with each other). My ex and I made a rule about not going after frie...
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they hate me!
Posted Friday January 6 2006, 5:07 pm
at my school, i do'nt have alot of friends, i recently dated a black kid, btw i just turned 14 yesterday! and btw i'm white, alot of black girls in our school have turned on me, and the one hated me since like 2nd grade, i'd be walkign out of class or w/e in the hallway, and they'd yell bitch and just a whole bunchy of things to me, int he mornings i'd be @ my locker anda all 5 or 6 of thm be'd talking, obviously about me! it gets really annoying, its all day long, oneday me and my brother were talking home and they werere coming and yellijg shit to me, and i caleld them ''name's'' and shit, and they were like call me that again and ill put my fist in your mouth, its hard to explain how it makes me feel. i dont like walking through the h...
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Posted Friday January 6 2006, 3:42 pm
I just got out of a relationship w/ a guy that I didn't talk to much before we started dating. He was a fun guy and I asked him to a dance and we got closer from there. Well, we broke up over a month ago, and he hasn't said anything to me at all really. He's smiled at me, but it's rare. I do want to keep a friendship with him even though he broke up with me. Should I talk to him first, or should I be patient and let it come...or tell him I miss talking to him? What would you do?
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i need advice.
Posted Thursday January 5 2006, 4:43 pm
this will be kind of long but i really need help and will rate high. i basically have no life. i have friends but they all live so far and it's hard to make plans. someone always cancels, or i lose my ride, or something happens. i live in the middle of nowhere and attend a school outside my district. i spend my days and nights alone and i actually got a job so i could feel like i was out for at least a few hours every week. to be honest, i was hoping to make friends at the job but they gave me a job in the back of the store all by myself and that doesn't help either. i try to talk to people at my school and most of them just really don't care what i have to say. i guess i'm just not interesting. three of my friends i have not seen since the...
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