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Becoming a Ladies Man :)
Posted Friday January 13 2006, 2:48 pm
Hey, I know the subject is what every guy dreams of, but I need to learn how to get along with girls. I'm 14 year old male. I have some girl friends but I'm not very close to them. The reason is because I moved around so much I'm afraid to make friends because I may have to seperate from them. Because of this, I'm a loner and I sit at home and do nothing all day. Can you PLEASE give me some advice on how to become more people-friendly and get out there and make friends. Please I'm begging you.
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i want to hang out w/ *him*
Posted Friday January 13 2006, 11:03 am
so theres this guy that i really like, we go to the same school, we hang out with the same people, and we only have one class together. when i told him i liked him he pretty much said he doesnt like "like that", but we are still pretty good friends. recently, i've been wanting to hang out with him.. as friends.. no pressure. so i'll just drop a hint like "we should hang out this weekend if you're not doing anything" and everytime he'll be like "definately.. i'm not doing anything" and then we dont talk about it anymore. its soo stupid. i mean, its not like i'm gonna make a move on him. which is what i think he's afraid of and that will just be too weird for him since were just friends. i wanna tell him this but...
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Bad Feelings
Posted Thursday January 12 2006, 5:26 pm
Well, a girl in my school Sara's sister died last summer in a swimming pool accident ( the girl who dieds name was elizabeth but everyone called her boo), Sara and I never had any hard feelings against each other, Elizabeths best friend Sam, and I were becoming really good friends before it happend, and we were supposed to go to Elizabeths house, or Sams house and hang out 4 days after we all talked on the phone, but Elizabeth so happend to die only 2 days later. At that point in time, Sam and I never talked ever again.. Even thou I still would've loved to be friends with her. And then one day, on Sams Xanga, she wrote a huge entry about Elizabeth, and i posted a comment saying "I know how you feel, I lost my best friend too.. Its hard...
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ILL RATE YOUOU
Posted Thursday January 12 2006, 5:15 pm
okk me and my friend use to be so close and were un till this one night and i was at her house with a couple of friends and she was doing disgusting things to me an d my firends im so confused because i was her friend still intill people found out that she did nasty things to me and my friend well i stopped and then ppl started being meean to her and calling her a lesbian and stuff because she is and all this stuff so i stoped being her firend and then everyone started being her firend a gain and so i did and then we had to go to this cheerleading dinner and she was there with my friends and everyone and i had to go the bathroom and the doors didnt have locks but they stood close when you closed them unless you knicked them oped but like w...
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Am I just being paranoid?
Posted Thursday January 12 2006, 4:48 pm
Well, here's my situation. I had a best friend, and we were VERY close. We started growing apart during the summer of 2005, and the last thing I hung out with her was probably some time in September. We rarely ever talk anymore; even in her myspace it says on one of the surveys, "Have any best friends: No" or something like that. As much as it hurts me, I'm starting to get over it.
This situation has left a scar, though.
I am starting to get paranoid about my friends. A friend could act weird, and I freak out, wondering if I did anything wrong. If a friend doesn't talk to me on AIM or call me enough, I start wondering, "Oh man, I must have said/done something wrong to make them do that." Ev...
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to add what i said earlier about my friend's nephew
Posted Thursday January 12 2006, 6:09 am
just to add that between those days of accident i was having those dream of a small child i was suppose to look after run in the sea. i was trying to save her but i just coudn't. i coundn't even reach her.and she dround in big waves on sea shore.
could this been the meaning of my dream?
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What ami suppose to do?
Posted Thursday January 12 2006, 6:01 am
ok I'm on holiday i UK. im from seychelles. im suppose to go back home on Sunday. but the problem is that ive just search for news on the net about my country and i've found out that my very close friend has lost her nephew in a boat accident on the 4th and his brother is in the ICU (i dont really know if his still alive). the accident happened on the 1st.she must be thinking that i dont know. when i go back home i dont know what to do. i mean in the group that we hang out with we are always there for each other. i feel guilty i wasnt there for the funeral plus the girl is still young she is only 13. im just not sure what to say. they always came to me for comfort but now im stuck
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Posted Wednesday January 11 2006, 8:24 pm
My friend likes someone and I know who it is. I want to tell other people, but I'm afraid to tell other people who they like because they might get mad at me and we might not be friends anymore. So should I tell other people or should I keep it to myself?
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He Drives Me Crazy
Posted Wednesday January 11 2006, 7:58 pm
My Ex boyfriend and I are pretty good friends, and I like being friends with him except it really walks on my last nerve when he flirts with my friend Abby. I don't like him that way; thats not even the point. It's that everytime I look at them their always flirting and poking each other and when he's around me it makes me feel like he uses me to get to her. Because he won't talk to me until he is away from her. That really pisses me off. You can't talk to him, or her because they won't listin. She's nutty and he's a crack. So how can I deal with this?
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I Feel So BAD
Posted Wednesday January 11 2006, 7:43 pm
I just pretty much broke my guy friend's heart. He has liked me for a really long time, and a couple days ago he just told me. I feel so bad because I feel like I lead him on...because he always comes to my locker every day (which kind of annoys me) and i even gave him a friendly hug one day just as a joke. But now I've realized as I've gotten to know him that he is just not what I'm looking for in a boyfriend. I'm not even sure I WANT a boyfriend. So now he is really different after i told him we should just be friends. he's sad, and talking about how hes never going to like another girl again. He'll probably continue to follow me around at school and I am trying to explain it to him the best i can but I've never really broke someones heart before. Any advice?
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What to say at a funeral
Posted Wednesday January 11 2006, 6:49 pm
I haven't been to many funerals, but I am young and expect I'll be attending quite a few over the course of my life. I need advice on two issues that have come up at the funerals I have been to:
1. What do you say when someone asks how you are? To say that you're "doing great" or even "fine" seems disrespectful to the dead person and their family.
2. I am an atheist. What am I to say when someone brings up the afterlife? I feel like a liar when I nod and agree that yes, So-and-so is in a better place, but I can't very well tell the bereaved family members that their loved one is now worm food.
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it may be long but i could use some help.
Posted Tuesday January 10 2006, 7:25 pm
Me and Charliie ( shes a girl too ) were best friends in 6th grade. Charliie changed in 7th grade and became loud and obnoxious. She liked to get into trouble, she started cussing alot, painting her nails black, and wearing all dark clothing. She said it was the "real her" Me and her got into alot of fights about her being fake *cause she sucks up to the populars and is totally diff. online then she is in person* We no longer talked to each other at school and I got a new best friend. Me and Charliie started become friends again but there was always this feeling of lies in the air because we never truly worked out our past fights and I knew we'd never have the same friendship we once had. Charliies bad habits got on my nerves agai...
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no longer miss drama queen.
Posted Tuesday January 10 2006, 5:41 pm
I want to become a nicer person and stop judging people and gossiping about them behind their backs. I constantly find myself doing these things even after I promised my self that I wouldn't. I've lost friends because of me being like this, and I want to be someone others can trust and be someone they can call a good friend. Do you guys have any tips on how to become that type of person?
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this girl is really being messed!
Posted Tuesday January 10 2006, 7:08 am
13/f okay so i have this girl that i was friends with last year then we kind of stopped talking...well a few days ago i found out she made a myspace pretending to be me and said all this personal stuff about me...and admittd it was her...i havent confronted her cuz i dont wat to say....i wana know should i confront her? should i telll anyone? and if i confront her waht should i say?
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rumors
Posted Monday January 9 2006, 11:22 pm
I have this Friend and she told me this secret about her haveing sex, and well being the good friend that I am I didnt tell any one, but the other person she told told the whole school and now the whole school thinks that its me and now they all like hate me. I dont know what to do she keeps blameing it on me and it wasnt me. What should I do tell the other person to confess, let it be, or talk the friend about it. I am so confused please help me.
sincerelly,
LostAtThought77
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Pushy Friends
Posted Monday January 9 2006, 8:14 pm
My best (girl) friends keep bugging me to ask out this guy who is my friend also. I really like him and all but I don't want to lose my friendship with him...but if I don't ask him my friends said that they would ask him out for me. How am I supposed to tell my friends to back off without seeming harsh?
-Confuzzled
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when a friend is sad...
Posted Monday January 9 2006, 6:39 pm
what are some things to do or say when your friend is really sad? he just got a really bad grade on midterms and i am having a hard time cheering him up<33 thanks
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what should i do.
Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 10:22 pm
Ok im in a screwed up situation. Well there is me and this girl i have known since like september of 2002. OK we have been through our ups and down you know. ANd yeah i have tried hooking up with her but am giving up on that. Well me and her talk on messenger off and on or at least used to. But here lately when i say hey or whatever, soon as i put it and send it to her she say logs off. I talk to her sister cause me and her sister are good friends. And was talking to her sister and she had it online to her sister but offline to me. And this didnt happen til some boy named michael got in the picture and they started talking and going out. But her her sister and her mom are like second family to me. I have no problem with the sister and mom t...
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Cancer.
Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 7:07 pm
I recently found out that one of my best friends has eye cancer. If it spreads to her brain, which it probably will within the next year, she'll die. She refuses to do anything about it, surgery or chemo, and is just giving up. I've tried to convince her to do something, and she won't listen. What should I do?
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Posted Sunday January 8 2006, 6:32 pm
so me and this girl used to be like best friends but as we got older and got into high school we like idk, drifted apart. were like not as close as we used to be coz we are both soo differnt, like shes really into church and that kind of thing and im more like into parting and stuff, but i still want to be friends with her, soo what do you think i should do?
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