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best friend
Posted Wednesday January 18 2006, 9:16 pm
i have a really close guy best friend but he's been kinda distant from me nowadays. we used to talk a lot online and on the phone. then we got really far from each other when i started going out with my bf. we hardly talk anymore now and he's been acting kinda depressed too. i asked him what's wrong, but he won't tell me anything. he would always have these depressing messages about love and how his life is messed up and etc.
what's up with him? is there anything i can do to get us to be as close as before again?
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party music
Posted Wednesday January 18 2006, 8:48 pm
hey y'all i'm having a party next weekend and i need some good slow songs. i need some good makeout songs too.
thanks. 5s for all
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party
Posted Wednesday January 18 2006, 6:59 pm
im going to have a party/sleepover but i can only invite 5 people, but i know 6 that i want to invite, so theres that problem. also, none of the six are friends with each other, what should i do???????
please help soon! i need to send out invites!
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Posted Wednesday January 18 2006, 5:35 pm
im looking for a song, or a quote. something like that.. about friendship, about how true friends can make it through anything.. about how best friends are the best thing that can happen. me and my friends have been through rough times and now that its over i know who my TRUE friends are. so, if you can think of something, or know something. can you answer this please? thank you.
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chicks before dicks
Posted Wednesday January 18 2006, 5:33 pm
ok so i havee 2 best friends chelsea and aaron. well they are going out so my 2 best friends are going out. well latley chelsea has been acting weird b/c aarons been messing with her more than usual. she has changed a lot. she thinks shes prettier and a better person than me. and she trys and rubbs aaron in my face. and its just getting on my nerves. i don't know what to do about it. do i tell her how i feel or what?? please tell me what to do about this.
they have put me in this position that i hate.
love
tInkkk
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Friend always in need
Posted Wednesday January 18 2006, 4:59 am
I have a friend (24/f) that constantly asks me for advice. At first, I was flattered that she trusted my judgement. However, now it has got to the point that she calls me for every little thing going on in her life. She seems incapable of making any decision on her own, even if it's a small decision. One day, she actually called from the store to ask what toothpaste to buy. When she calls, she expects me to drop everything and help her figure out a solution for her problem.
She also seems to trust only my advice. At one point, she called me with a medical concern. While I have worked in health care, I am not a doctor. I told her I didn't feel like I was qualified to answer her question and that she should see her doct...
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worried former friend is plotting revenge
Posted Wednesday January 18 2006, 12:08 am
A woman that I used to be friends with is causing problems for me. Well she was a complete bitch to me. She used me, backstabbed me, blackmailed me, tried to control me, and even broke into my email. She made my life a living hell. It got so bad between us that I had to quit working at my old job that we both worked at to avoid her, and I had to put a block on my phone.
Well it's been two years since I've seen her or spoken to her. I got a new job about 3 months ago at a way better company. It got back to me from another friend that she found out I got this new job and wanted the store number! She was also asking one of my friends when my hours were. I'm worried she is plotting something. Should I be worried?
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gay or not gay
Posted Tuesday January 17 2006, 4:54 pm
would you consider someone who
*tap, jazz, and hip-hop dances
*used to listen to britney spears, went to 2 of her concerts, owns her autorgrpah and danced to her songs on his porch
*loves pretty woman & thats so raven
*and gets excited when going to the mall or shopping
gay? do all of those things add up to gay also he gets overly excited about gossip. . . do you think hes gay? he denies it but it seems like he is, i want to believe him since hes my friend but theres so many signs!! aghh
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15 female.
Posted Tuesday January 17 2006, 2:24 pm
Hey. :]
Okay to start out with, I have this friend named Shannon. I wouldn't really consider her a friend, because in the past she's really pissed me off & she's just not someone whom I can relate to. But, I still hang out with her, I don't like getting on bad peoples' sides. I'm always so nice to her, but sometimes she'll take it over the edge and yell at me about something so ridiculous & I just snap, but that happens to everybody.
Well, basically today this kid named Gordon that we had just met yesterday went up to Shannon and started physically pushing her around, and stealing her backpack & "strangiling" her. In front of every body at school, he'd literally just throw her up against t...
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FAST
Posted Monday January 16 2006, 10:58 pm
I need help quick!!
OK i used to be best friends with this one gurl (well call her suzie) for a long time but then she started getting on my nerves and we stopped being friends, then i was best friends with somone esle (well cal her dawn) and am still friends with her and now me and suzie started tlaking and they are tottaly different and HATE each other, i like dawn a lot she rocks but the colser i get to suzie the farther i get from dawn and i dont want to lose dawn!! i love her!! as a friend!! i might lose her and end up with suziea dn then we will stop being friends again because our past will catch up with us and well end up in the same fight we had before. what do i do?
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no forgiveness
Posted Monday January 16 2006, 8:34 pm
im mad at 2 of my friends and i have them in 3 out of my 4 classes tomorrow and i have lunch with one of them. i really dont want to talk to them im really upset and im not forgiving them or talking to them how can i avoid them for tomorrow? i dont want them to bug me asking me questions but i dont know what to do plz help!
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"Best" Friend
Posted Monday January 16 2006, 3:30 pm
So I play basketball and so does my "best" friend Sarah. Well, halfway through the season my coach decided to make her swinger to varsity (she plays both varsity and JV) and I stayed on JV. I was happy for her but ever since she got put up she's been treating me horribly. Like, whenever I try to talk to her or hang out with her she completely blows me off and she told me before she got swinger that she wouldn't act that way cause 2 of our other teamates are acting the same way. I want to be her friend and I'm happy she made varsity but how do I tell her she's acting the same way she said she wouldn't?
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Tell her?
Posted Monday January 16 2006, 2:27 pm
I hooked up with my friends ex-boyfriend. They were going out for 2 monthes and she broke up with him but she may still have some feelings for him. I hooked up with him the other night. Should I tell her? I don't want to risk losing her as a friend since she is really close but I don't want her to find out from someone else if other people happen to find out. Please help! thanks
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So i miss her
Posted Monday January 16 2006, 1:47 pm
I Had this friend Taylor, we met eachother when in the fourth grade. Taylor is really fun to be around, and really pretty. I always felt bad being around her, but our friendship was always so great. Will when middle school came my parents divorced, and i had to go to another school then the one Taylor's gone too. We were friends into the 6th grade the whole year we talked everynight, we had a few sleepovers. Her parents ending up divorcing too, and that it made it harder to have sleepovers, but we Always talked on the phone, always. Then i got into the 7th grade, (would be the grade im currently in) we were friends, for awhile.. then around halloween last year (still in 7th grade) we stopped talking, she blew me off for our halloween plans ...
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bad friends
Posted Monday January 16 2006, 12:43 pm
I have been best friends with this girl since second grade and now we're in ninth. but lately, shes been acting really jealous of me and she's not being a good friend. she has done a lot of things to betray my trust and she has been super jealous of me. my birthday is on wednesday. i'm turning fifteen and i'm cuban so it's a really big deal. she noes that i'm going to have a quinces and that it's going to be really special.. but instead of being happy for me about the good things coming my way, she's being super jealous. i can't talk to her about it because she would take it all personal and stuff... but what else could i do to show her because it's really bothering me how she is like calling every boy that likes me and talking about everyt...
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herpes
Posted Monday January 16 2006, 8:05 am
ok i have a friend who has a bf with herpes and he supposively hasnt had any breakouts for a while now and she gives him oral and she thinks shes not gonna get herpes because of him not having any breakouts...is that true?..if its not then i'll tell her to go get tested....im really worried about her
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Best Friend Doesn't Look So Good
Posted Monday January 16 2006, 12:37 am
Ok, I'm going to go through all of this and try to not sound vain or concieted. I'm just going to be totally honest because I am the 'advisor' of our group and I am totally killing myself trying to help her.
So my friend Angela and I were fat geeks two years ago. I was the one with the sense of fashion though. Last summer, she went on vacation and came back totally transformed and in shape. She has a really nice body now. I passed on all my advice to her and she started wearing designer labels and boots and pretty much copying my "style". I didn't mind though, like it's flattering to me that she would take whatever I said to heed.
Over the last two years, I got thinner too but I a little overweight and not nearly as ...
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valentines day
Posted Sunday January 15 2006, 11:49 pm
14/f. valentine's day is coming up and i want to get this boy taylor something. i don't know what to get him because we generally don't exchange gifts, just decorated notes. but he's been really great to me this year. and i think he is the most amazing person in the world. i don't have any feelings for him. he's almost like a brother to me, he's a best friend.
so i need to know what to get him. something that's not cliche, so that he doesn't think that i have feelings for him.
any ideas? please & thanks;
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Posted Sunday January 15 2006, 11:25 pm
hiii! me and this girl like just became good friends ..well i knew her but we just started hangin out alot a little bit ago i mean she is one of my best friends and she is awesome! she is also very gorgeous..and im very jealous of her..because everytime we like go on the computer or something about a million guys will all i/m her and be like hey beautiful and they all wanna hang out with her and stuff and i dont talk to like any guys!! i wish i did.but im so shy and she like only talks to guys. i mean when we go places all the guys only look at her..and they're always like oh my gosh you looked so hott..they say that to her and i just feel so low about myself when im around her!! because i know everyone thinks she is so pretty..but they don...
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friend
Posted Sunday January 15 2006, 10:52 pm
ok i have a friend thats been through a lot & i dont wanna be friends with him anymore. hes always threatening to kill himself & pushes things on me & if i juss ignore him he'll do something really stupid & i'd feel guilty. i don't know what to do. please give me some ideas.
thanks
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