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does anyone else think this was out of line?
Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 1:05 am
I have a male friend who is 39 and has told me that he never wants to get married or have kids. That is fine- for him. But I've told him how someday I want to be in a proper marriage and have children. Well we were talking today and I told him how a medium had read my palm several weeks ago, and told me that I would be having 3 children, (one set of fraternal twins, and a girl). Well this is what my friend said "well you better get started right away, and you'll need to find a husband".
I thought this was a very vindictive thing for him to say. I am only 27 and told him I still have a lot of time before my clock stops ticking. I have a theory on his attitude: two years ago he told me he wanted to sleep with me. I t...
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I lost a friend (or 3) because of a guy.
Posted Wednesday January 25 2006, 11:56 pm
I have this friend, who told me that she thought she might like this guy, and added him to her 'list' of guys. There were maybe 3 guys that were on her list of people she could potentially like. I knew all of them, and found out that one of the guys was in my homeroom and one of my classes. I was supportive of my friend's feelings for all the guys on her list, and kept away from them, but I found myself sort of attracted to this one guy. I started to like him, and my friend found out. I felt (and still feel) horrible, and apologized in person, over aim, over the phone and i wrote a really long letter, but she ignored me every time. She also brought a bunch of my other friends into it and they took her side, and pretty much stopped talking t...
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SHES BECOMING A WHORE!
Posted Wednesday January 25 2006, 11:10 pm
my best friend. my dear best friend has always been one of those people who was a little OVER horney. but shes twelve. last weekened. she gave head to her ex-boyfriend 4 times gave him a bunch of hand jobs let him eat her out. and attempted to have sex 3 times. also hes fingered her and theyve made out. i know its her buisness but honestly. SHES DONE ALOT OF THAT STUFF BESIDES SEX WITHOUT A CONDOM. im deeply concerded about her health. not only that. but her emotional place as well. see. this guy went out with her. fingered her then broke up with her because he wanted to be able to have fun over the break. this broke her heart. and after that he talked a bunch of shit about her and now theyre doing all this stuff and he honestly in my opioi...
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my "best friend"
Posted Wednesday January 25 2006, 9:16 pm
My best friend Shianne has now screwed me over 2 times. It seems every time I tell her I like a guy, she offers to "help me with them" and she always ends up giving them her number, and dating them behind me back!! But she doesn't even tell me until the day after they start dating!
She did it with a guy named Steven, and now Brandon. Then whenever she breaks up with them, she expects me to not like them anymore, and to not want to date them because "friends ex boyfriends are off limits to other friends."
What do i do?!?
Should I really consider her my BEST friend if she's done this to me two times already?
Should I wait to see if she does it again?
I hon...
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We both like the same guy!
Posted Wednesday January 25 2006, 3:39 pm
I am 13 and a girl,I like this guy and hes soooo nice. then my friend gets to sit next to him is history. then she tells me"I like the same guy as you" i want this guy to ask me out, but i wouldn't have the guts to say yes. How do i think this out?
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friends or not friends THATS the question
Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 10:34 pm
just to let you guys knwo im not using the real peoples names but still the situation that is going on.
ok at the beginning of the year i was really close with three other girls (Jessica, Lisa, and Natalie) we were all really close and kind of had a little clique thing. we told each other everythin but i was kind of closer to Lisa and Jessica and Natlaie were close together.
as the year went on it kind of split off into me and lisa and jessica and natalie.
we always had stupid fights which ALWAYS ended up being misunderstandings. like me and lisa thought they were ignoring us and they thought we were ignoring them. whatever. so these problems kept on happening
eventually me and ...
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Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 8:31 pm
GoSh im having really bad luck with guys lately. all of the people i think are sooo hott and stuff dont think im hot but ive started hangin out with this girl..i mean she is like one of my best friends and she is absolutely gorgeous!! all of the people i thought were hott saw my friend and they're all like oh my gosh she is soo hot! and im really jealous of my friend ..i admitt im jealous but i dont know what to do! and this other kid that i kinda like i mean i cant like him because i dont know him but he is just soo cute but he goes to a different school..so i dont even get to see him only once in a while..and i havent even talked to him yet! ahhh i dont know how to tho my cousin kind of talks to him but they switched quarters and now she ...
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Best friend turned slut
Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 7:12 pm
My ex-best friend Hana and I used to be really close, but ever since she went down to visit her cousin (who is pretty slutty herself) she's been acting like the only thing that matters in the world is how good she looks. It was really starting to piss me off, so I told her. She blew it off like it was nothing, which made me angrier. So, now she's started hanging out with two other girls that are known as sluts at our school, and they've really been annoying me. She pretty much dropped me for them, which made me sad. Now since she's found out that her only friends are the other two sluts, she's been trying to be friends with me again. I don't know if I should accept her friendship or not because it really made me angry how she dropped ...
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Odd friend...
Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 7:02 pm
One of my friends has been acting really weird lately. Like, for example, (yesterday our school had a half day) and my sister and I had planned to hang out with a different friend (not the one I think has been acting weird). But somehow our friend (who has been acting weird) thought we were going to hang out with her. So, she was calling like everywhere looking for us, and at night (after we had already gotten home) my sister listened to the messages on our cell phone and 2 were from the weird acting friend. But when we asked her about it she denyed it and told us that it was her sister that had called, but in the message it had said some mean stuff that had happened almost a year ago. Please help me!!! I don't know what to do!!!
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Backstabbing New Girl.
Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 4:42 pm
Theres a new girl at my school; Lizzie.
She seemed really sweet and over the past 2 weeks we've become [ or so i thought ] great friends.
The first day she got here, she asked me like who are good people to hang around, who to trust/not trust, who the populars are, who would get you in trouble, and what our school is like.
I told her in my school you can't trust anyone. I told her about a girl on our Team that is so stuck up and self-concieted and thinks she popular [ and shes deff. not ]And I told her my opionion about other people too. Well Lizzie ran off and told all those people what I had said about them and how not to trust me. This made me mad cause she specificly asked about these people then sta...
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Forgive and Forget?
Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 4:37 pm
Today, I found out that my freind told this girl that I don't really know all this stuff. Here it is, my best freind(Jane) told this girl (Jess) that she didn't want this one boy (matt) to like me. See, Jess and Matt used to go out. And since they broke up I have been flirting with him a lot and he has been flirting back. We have a great connection and this Friday we are going ice skating together. Well, my freind Jane, and other freinds are coming and Matt is bringing his freinds. So, Jane told Jess to go prob. so I wouldn't flirt wiht Matt so much. But she also said that she didn't want Matt to like me and that I always flirt with him and he flirts wiht me. AND I guess in one class she had to tell her something that was very important and...
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i cant sort out all these plans!
Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 1:59 pm
ok so heres the deal.
i have been trying to set up my friends kiwi and josh for like a month...and i havnt seen my best friend houston in like 9 months... so this weekend houston asked me to go bowling with him and some friends and was like this is the only time ill be able to see you until october so i HAVE to go...so thats saturday night. and friday i promised my friend kiwi that she could spend the night with me... and that saturday during the day that me and my bf would double with her and josh. so i went to tell my bf the plans... and he told me that he wanted me to double with his mom and one of her friends thats going out of town for awhile. so now i have to choose between my best friends and my boyfriends mom! he was like no ...
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I don't know to do now...
Posted Tuesday January 24 2006, 3:45 am
Well I'm 13 and a female. My friend told me that my bestfriend has said bad things about me behind my back. We've been best friends for 4 years. My best friend and I had this huge fight about talking behind each other behind our backs. Her cousin told me that she didn't say anything about me behind my back and said, "why wouldn't you believe your best friend". Well it's true but my friend told me this real bad family secret of hers so I thought if she can trust me this I'll trust her about the best friend thing. Then I tried sorting out things with my best friend but I don't think she really doesn't want too. But the thing is I don't know if I want to either now. I don't know what to do? So what am I suppose to do? Should I ask my...
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are they really friends?
Posted Monday January 23 2006, 9:13 pm
Ok well I am 15/f and I am "friends" with my neighbors. Ok, their are these two stepsisters and they are really cool to hang out with considering they are 13 and 14. Also, their is another girl that is 14 that is really cool too. Well, us four are like really good friends...over the summer. But it's like once school starts...I don't even exsist! Those three go to school together and the two 14 year olds are like always together!! I don't want to sound jealous, but I have to admit sometimes I am. It's like I want to be friends, and hang out with them all the time...not just the summer. Sometimes it feels like they just use me for my pool. Cause I have this inground pool outside, and it's goes about 10 feet I think, and lik...
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Posted Monday January 23 2006, 6:54 pm
Okay, this is pretty much a friendship question. My best friend likes this guy. Who really really likes ME, but I have a boyfriend. I told him plenty of times that I`m taken and not looking for another boyfriend, but he told me he can't get me out of his head. My friend doesn't know, though. I think I should tell her, but wait. This happened before. And she got so mad at me. She started saying "Why does everyone like you, You're not perfect! Why can't anyone like me." But it was just a fact that people do like her, she just doesn't like them. I don't know what to do.
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whyisshemadatme..
Posted Monday January 23 2006, 6:30 pm
sheisnotmyfriend.
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Can't get over losing best friend
Posted Monday January 23 2006, 5:08 am
First of all I'll give a little background. I met my friend almost 10 years ago, we were both teenagers at the time and instantly clicked for some reason. We had little inside jokes and shared everything. I felt like she was the sister I never had. We talked about dating and as we grew older we discussed our marriages. She had a baby boy while I went through infertility and a miscarriage. That put a strain on our friendship because I was jealous and she didn't understand why i found it hard to be around her baby. We didn't speak for about 6 months and I finally wrote her a letter of apology. Then she moved away, we kept in contact and after a year she moved back and everything was just like it was before. By the way we were each other's mai...
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Do You Think I'm Fat?
Posted Monday January 23 2006, 2:55 am
My friend, Austin, used to be overweight and lost a bunch of weight two summers ago. I lost a lot of weight too but not as much as her.
The thing that bothers me is that she calls everyone fat, if someone has an inch of flab -anywhere-, she'll call them a cow. Especially is she's mad at them.
She also thinks that anyone who is overweight is disgusting and lazy. She won't even consider -looking- at a guy who is a pound overweight.
She's not exactly skinny. She worries about her "gut" which is like a pound of flesh on her tummy (it's tiny) and I'm not fat but I'm bigger than some of the girls she makes fun of. I am more understanding though and I wouldn't secretly pick on people because of their weight.
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Im confused.
Posted Monday January 23 2006, 1:28 am
There's this girl that I dated almost before kind of. She really likes me but I dont like her. I really like this other girl. Im not sure if she likes me though. I keep thinking about her though. Yet this all is confusing but I told both of them that I was gay. Which I thought I was for along time.Yet now I think that I really like the girl. I dont know even know what to say to either of them. What do you think I should say to both of them? I really need some advice.
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MY BEST FRIEND!
Posted Sunday January 22 2006, 11:39 pm
OKay Im 13 female.. and my best friend is .. 12 male .. im serious he iS MY BEST FRIEND!
Well i accused my best friend of someting and ive been totally killing him and he just looks at me an f rowns.. and i cussed him out.. then i found out he didnt tell my secret.. someone else did.. and he told me wen i accused him HE WUD NEVER TELL anything about his BEST FRIEND and he said he loved me.. what do i do to apollogize.. and he tried to kiss me on the cheek and hug me.. and i turned around ! WUT DO I DO!!?!/
I WILL RATE 5!!
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