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My best friend was a backstabber to my other best friend
Posted Monday February 6 2006, 1:45 pm
Superbowl sunday, my two best friends were at the same party as their crush. They both like the same guy and he doesn't have a good reputation for relationships. (He's made out with girls behind his ex girlfriend's back.) He started making a move on one of my best friends and next thing you know they are making out with each other. My other friend got completely ticked and jealous and afterwards was in tears. Then, afterwards, I went and yelled and lectured at the friend who made out with him and later, she started crying. Now they aren't talking to each other and I'm not choosing sides! They are both very stubborn. What to do?
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Making new friends
Posted Sunday February 5 2006, 6:48 pm
-I have 3 really good friends, but ever since this school year started, they all have changed in ways that I really don't like. So honstly I don't want to be friends with any of them anymore but it's hard to just stop being their friend and then look for new friends. I have some friends in school that I talk to every day, but not very many. I don't hang out with them because our plans never follow through.
-So my question is what should I do about the friends I don't like? I have told my parents about how I don't like the friends I have and they said to make new friends. But going 2 years with a certain group of friends, and then going around to people like "want to be my friend?" is weird because just to all of the sudden ...
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jerk or what?
Posted Sunday February 5 2006, 3:44 pm
ok a month ago i broke up with my boyfriend, and so he was really sad, but i wanted to move on with my life.
So then just a couple of days ago i asked him," hey are you pissed at me or mad or something?
and so he's all like " y" and im like " because after we broke up you said we could be friends, and now you not talking to me at all and your friends are still acting like jerks to me" so then he's like " we'll since you dumped me why should i talk to you and do you like calling my friends jerks"
ok His friends are complete jerks to me..and i never meant to hurt him badly, i still want to be friends, he is just not talking it.
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stupid friend
Posted Sunday February 5 2006, 2:46 pm
I have a terrible friend who thinks shes cool and hates me and my friends. She always hangs out with us and then talks about us behind our backs to US! I got into a fight with her(because Im the only one who will stand up for myself) and I hate having people hate me so i appologized and she just forgave me like that! (She said "I forgive you, HUG!") It bothers me and now were back to her using me and my friends and she thinks shes popular. What should I do?
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friends and boyfriends eh...
Posted Sunday February 5 2006, 12:38 pm
ok i am going out with this kid, i really like him alot. He likes me to but i also think he like my best friend. The first week we were going out my best friend kissed him but i forgave him because that is how much i like him. But do you think that i should ask him to stop flirting with her or dump me?
please help me :'(
confussed luv
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What do I say?
Posted Sunday February 5 2006, 12:30 pm
I had this girl my best friend since iw as in 1st grade. i have 2 other best friends too but i havent known them for as long as i knew this one. i mean i knew them i just wasnt close to them... lately this girl is not being herself really. she would put all these people before me. all she wants to do is try to be popular. all she wears is abercrombie just to get people to notice her. shes dating a guy she hardly even talks to. its jsut not like her. so last night i told her how i felt.. i was just saying that shes never there for me anymore and idks tuff like that. and we just ended up yelling and cursing at each other. it was really bad. i got really upset and i just wnat things to go back to normal. my other friends are saying i should ju...
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A Former Friend Who's Always There
Posted Saturday February 4 2006, 9:28 pm
Two or three years ago, I became very close with two people, we'll call them D, a female, and A, a male. They were very close to each other, and eventually I became very close to them, too.
A and I developed a stronger relationship, and we'd talk for hours on the phone. I... somewhat brought up taking our relationship further, however he didn't -seem- particularly interested in that, I wasn't exactly devastated, and we stayed on friendly terms, becoming perhaps even closer.
As time progressed, he introduced me to his oldest friend, E (male). Eventually, E, A and I were inseperable, and we spent a lot of time together. Eventually E and I found that we liked each other in a more than platonic way, and we star...
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my friend went to a new skool
Posted Saturday February 4 2006, 7:48 pm
i am in 7th grade and i have a friend who i have known even before skool we were always the best of friends but then she moved to a different skool and well we have hip hop together with some other of myfriends and when i am there she never even says a word to me and it really hurts she has always been a good girl and now she is just so caught up in her looks and she she hangs out wit and boys and all my other friends think this to and i dono if i should be angr wit her and all that ir if i should just forget about it cause when i see her and she doesn't even reallt notices me it jind of hurts my feelings please help
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I just want this woman to let me be
Posted Saturday February 4 2006, 4:09 pm
I have a problem with this woman that I used to be good friends with. I ended the friendship two years ago. I had to because she started to try to control me. She also ordered me around like her personal slave, took my kind nature for granted, spread mean gossip about me, broke into my email acount, and threatened to blackmail me if I ever got on her bad side. She was 46 and I was 25. She also acted really wierd and was telling people that she was my mother. She's never had children. I don't think she's mentally all there. Things got so bad that I quit the volunteer job we both worked at and put a block on my phone. She still to this day after 2 years bad mouths me at the center. I have a new paying job and it got back to me that sh...
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"best friends"??
Posted Saturday February 4 2006, 3:54 pm
I'm not quite sure what to do. My "best friend" from last year is changing. We used to tell eachother EVERYTHING!! But this year she cheated on her boyfriend, broke up with him, and went back out with him and didn't even tell me. I had to find out from someone else. And she doesn't know about the guy I REALLY REALLY like. Its because she doens't take the time to find out. Every weekend I invite her to the mall, and EVERY time she says she busy and then calls me telling me how bored she is.. Also when ever I hang out with ehr myy grades drop. I dont know if I should stay "best friends" with her or not? Please help
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liers
Posted Saturday February 4 2006, 2:03 pm
Well, I like this guy and one of my "friends" told him, but she said she didnt. I heard from about 6 people that she did but she keeps lying to my face about it. I'm not even mad that she told him just that she lyed to me. I even told her that I thought someone said they heard her telling him and she said "Well obviously this person doesnt want us to be friends if they're telling you this." What should I do?
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Best Guy Friend
Posted Saturday February 4 2006, 1:26 pm
I know this seems like a classic, but I'm in love with my best guy friend. We're both 16 and I don't mean puppy love. We tell each other that we love one another, but he is the kind of guy who wants to date you, but is afraid to. He flirts with me all the time. (e.g. holding hands, telling me that he loves me, hugging) I know he's a guy and all, but he is constantly starring at my breast. One time when he was giving me a hug, he "accidently" grabbed my butt. I know you're thinking that is is just a "accident," however; I though most people can tell the difference between your butt and your back. Anyways, I really love him and he knows that, but what can I do to get him?
~!Thanks!~
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I like my best friend
Posted Saturday February 4 2006, 11:15 am
Hi, I'm a 13 year old girl. I have a best friend named Dylan. We have been close for three years. I like him alot, but he doesn't feel the same way. I am really miserable and depressed, but I want him to be happy. What should I do? Should I move on and stay friends?
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my ex best friend...i think...
Posted Friday February 3 2006, 5:36 pm
This is long...sorry...but if you read this and answer I promise to rate you a 5 and I will be so greatful! thanks in advance for reading this. I have this friend named nicole (fake name) and she has been my best friend for about 2 years. She gets really annoying and is pretty stupid, and my family doesn't like her very much. She doesn't have a lot of money and her parents are completely uninvolved in her life. My parents do everything for her and we get nothing in return. She never really does anything to show she appreciates it and I really don't like that and neither does my family. So recently she's been pretty rude to me. She ditched me twice. At lunch I sit with nicole and kelly (fake also) and 3 other girls who im kinda barely friend...
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My bffe is copying me...
Posted Thursday February 2 2006, 9:23 pm
hey, i'm 14/f and i have a bffe, just like any other girl. But the problem with my best friend is everything i do, she must follow along. Its as if she doesn't have her own life to take after.She basically copys everything i do and if i come up with a new saying she starts saying it like 1 day latter ALL the time. And i even said a few things the other day just to see if she did it, and she did! i said i hate chocolate candys lately, so she took hers and threw them out! i couldn't believe how right i was that she copys but then again i can't help then feel bad. I mean, how do i get her to stop copying me, or even better how in the world do i tell her that she's doing it without making her upset? i told her once in 7th grade, and she didnt t...
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pushover
Posted Thursday February 2 2006, 9:00 pm
OK so theres this guy and I've been friends with him for like, 9 years. He is a really good friend, and i'll admit at times i think maybe I have a crush on him. But the problem is that sometimes he can be really mean and unfair to me. I will get all mad in my head, but then when i talk to him or see him again, everything just goes away, and im nice to him. So, am i a pushover? It seems like i am. I mean i really value our friendship and when i try to stick up for myself, he gets mad at me. Hes super stubborn, so it takes A LOT to get him to forgive you. idk, what do you all think? am i being a pushover? what should i do?
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my effin friend
Posted Thursday February 2 2006, 7:13 pm
me and my friend from my old town are in a huge fight... i feel bad cuz i forgot her birthday but she FLIPPED OUT ON ME!! so she was like your fucking hockey messed my whole life up! but hockye is important to me but so is she.. i wanna take my life somewhere with my hockey..... help!
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Is she a real friend?
Posted Thursday February 2 2006, 2:47 pm
There is a girl I've known for a good long while, and recently I made the effort to get back in touch with her and be friends again. I assumed it was going pretty well, we talk online and go out shopping and stuff sometimes. I do like her, but recently I've got the feeling she is just using me to take her places (into town, to see bands) b/c she's not allowed on her own. If I suggest just hanging out or something, she'll always just brush away the suggestion. If we do see each other we get on well though. I'm pretty much her only friend as well, and it sounds really mean, but I thought she'd be kind of pleased to have some friends.
So what should I do?
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me & my best friend...
Posted Thursday February 2 2006, 1:37 pm
okay...well theres this guy that i have been dating for about 3 weeks and theres this other gay that i really like...but my best friend likes the guy im not dating but i was thinking about going out with him !! what should i do??
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did my friends reaction to my joke mean anything?
Posted Thursday February 2 2006, 1:13 am
I was at a restaurant having a couple of drinks with some friends of mine. Two of them were single, and the other were a married couple. I am also single. Well my one single friend asked me to talk about my uncle and his crazy wife for some entertainment. None of them know my uncle and wife, or have ever met them. They live in another state so I didnt feel bad making a joke about them. They ARE crazy (in my opinion). I wanted to make them laugh so I told them how last Xmas my uncle said infront of the whole family that if you saw his wife naked you would need therapy. Everyone laughed. Then I said in front of the group" well uncle jim if you hate your wife so much, why don't you divorce her"? His response was that he &qu...
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