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what to say
Posted Tuesday February 21 2006, 3:22 pm
My best friend just found out she has a brain tumor its only 1% cancerous so thats a good thing but I dont know what to tell her I dont want to cry in front of her because Im afraid that will make it worse and I dont want to brush it off and act like I dont care either. Please help me.
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Messed Up With Bestest Friend....
Posted Tuesday February 21 2006, 12:19 pm
Ok, this is a pretty long story so if you are not after long stories dont bother reading on..
First thing is first.. i am 14/m (gonna b 15 in a month or 2)
Basically my best friend is a girl..and i have known her since we were little..then in primary schoool she left and went to another school, since then we did not talk...but in high school we met up again and ended up in same class..we became extremly close over the years....Just about as close os best friends can become...cut a long story short...i ended up faling for her..i told her..at first she did not feel the same but then she told me she did but things were complicated then a few weeks later she told me she feels more comfortable as friends. So i resp...
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how to tell them
Posted Monday February 20 2006, 10:11 pm
i've recently come to terms with the fact that i'm bi. a few of my friends know, but some of my closest ones don't. i think i'm ready to tell them, but i have no idea how to bring it up or how much to tell them. also, the reason they don't know yet is because these are the friends whose reactions i'm having the hardest time predicting (they're girls, by the way). i know that they love me and that if they're as mature as they seem and they realize we're living in the 21st century they should be able to handle it, but i really don't want them to be uncomfortable around me. i really want to be open with them and comfortable with myself and not hide anything, but i'd almost rather not tell them than risk our relationship changing. this is proba...
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fake
Posted Monday February 20 2006, 10:09 pm
i hate fake people. i can't stand them. my freind is kind of shy around people. but when she gets online she talks to everyone. liek to all these guys who she would NEVER talk to in person. and the only way she knows these guys are because of me. she had a myspace and talkd to all these people and acts so fake! how can i get her to stop?
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skimpy?!
Posted Monday February 20 2006, 9:30 pm
ok so I have this friend who is over weight. all of my freinds and I are as skinny as a rail. I'm sure it's hard for her but she doesn't show it. So, the other day her and I went to the mall and we saw these ah-dorable string bikinis. Here is the other thing my freinds and I are all 32 As and 34 As. We don't have big chest so we can wear any bathing suit we want and not look like we are "falling out". Well my freind is a 36 B and she always wears string bikinis. Summer is coming fast and I see people look at her at the pool. She seriously looks like she is falling out and she alwasy crosses her arms over her stomach until we get into the pool. I have talked to my mom about this before but it's embaressing to me and my other freind...
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I know im not a lesbian but.......
Posted Monday February 20 2006, 5:27 pm
okay, so like, this is really weird. I have fantasies about doing things with my best friend...we'll say her name is Sadie... (i am totally sure I am NOT a lesbian), things like kissing and stuff. I really don't know what I should do about it. She already knows, we talked all night about this problem. She says she totally understands and she's not grossed out or anything. Is this normal? She is very pretty, and practically every boy that lays eyes on her is in love with her. I have another friend who is younger than me and actually does this stuff with her friends, but i don't feel comfortable doing anything with her. Everytime I am alone with sadie, I get that urge to want to do something. I have done that stuff tons of times before, but m...
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Best Friend/Boyfriend Issues
Posted Monday February 20 2006, 3:51 pm
Okay, so recently I started a relationship with this guy that I like a lot. Everything is going great and he calls me all the time, but there is one problem. My best friend seems jealous. He's like a brother to her so she isn't jealous of me, she's jealous of him. Everytime he calls, I can't give him my undivided attention because she acts hurt if I don't talk to her at the same time. However, then they are both talking at the same time and I can't understand either of them. I tried speakerphone, but he hates it because of the background noise. And he is getting frustrated because I always have to ask him to repeat himself. I live with my best friend and I spend time with her all the time so I don't know why she is competing with him. I jus...
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friend has cancer
Posted Sunday February 19 2006, 11:35 pm
Last night I found out a friend of mine, whom I haven't really spoken to in awhile, has been diagnosed with cancer and might die. He's left college to live with his parents so he can get treatment and I'd like to write him a letter of support but what do I say? I don't want to make him uncomfortable and I don't want to be morbid, but I do want him to know that I care about him and wish him all the best.
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hey i have question
Posted Sunday February 19 2006, 9:33 pm
i really like this guy and he goes to a differnet school and how can i have relationship with him if he goes to a differnet school. I know he likes me because he already told me and He lives in the same town tho but we never get a chance to see eachother because we go to differnet schools does that affecet our relationship? I need some adivce.
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Posted Saturday February 18 2006, 6:52 pm
hi! well im 15/f
and lately me and my friend have been hangin out with these guys we just met! well not exactly..i mean we know who they are but we just hang out with them for the first time! and i can never tell my parents the truth ..that im hangin out with guys because they like NEVER let me hang out with guys. they are always like how do you know them? and im like school..then they are like well how come we dont know who they are. and i dont do the whole bringing them to the house and meet my parents thing..our family isnt like that! my dad is very protective of me..because im the only girl in the family im his little girl! i have one older brother..and they let him do whatever he wants with whoever he wants! but i dont ever get ...
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hey i need help
Posted Saturday February 18 2006, 6:33 pm
ok i have a friend from school that have lied to me and she told me the truth like yesterday and shes my best friend i don't want to loose her if she keeps lying to me. What should i do?
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is he guilty of slandering me?
Posted Saturday February 18 2006, 2:01 pm
I was planning on hosting a hockey pool party at my appartment but decided to cancel because it got back to me from one of my friends in the pool that two of the people in our pool had been backstabbing me and saying some really mean things about me behind my back. One of the things was that I was a flirt and deserved to be raped, or something mean like that. My friend wouldnt lie to me, so I confronted one of the guys that was saying this about me. I went into the restaurant he works in as a cook. I confronted him, first by saying, "I'm Cancelling My Hockey Pool Party". He wanted to know why, and then I said "because I'm tired of all the backstabbing". I also glared at him when I said this. Well this is how he r...
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hey
Posted Saturday February 18 2006, 12:49 pm
hey i like this guy and hes my best friend too and i wrote him a nice letter. in the letter it siad what things made me mad at him is that a bad thing to put in the letter because all my friends read it and they said you shouldn't put the things that makes you mad about him and i don't want to rewrite the whole thing aigan its very laid out tho what should i do?
-Thanks
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Gift
Posted Saturday February 18 2006, 1:33 am
My friend is a senior who plays basketball and today was their last game. The school they played against was really good and needless to say, they lost.
Something really annoyed me during that game. My friend made several fouls and had to sit out. The part that annoyed me was that a large group of guys from the other school started chanting his name and making fun of him. It really pissed me off, but i couldn't really do anything about it.
My point is, i want to give him a gift. Kind of 'cheer him up' gift or something, because he was also disappointed about the fact that i was the only one from our circle of friends who bothered going [even though the school is like 30 minutes away]. So any suggestions of what kind o...
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my friends a whore .. sorta
Posted Friday February 17 2006, 11:48 pm
okay well my friend.. we can say sarah.. well we are pretty close. i love hanging out with her whenever its just me and her or me and her and some of our other friends that are girls. okay but heres the problem. everytime shes with boys they are constinantly grabbing her but she like flirts and acts like she wants it so they do it and then just like ignors me when they are around.. i tried to talk to her about it tonight and she got really mad.. then we got into an arguement and she told her other friend and now that girl doesnt like me now either.. i dunno what to do to make her stop being like that and to get her other friend not to hate me no more.. please help <3
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theif.
Posted Friday February 17 2006, 11:24 pm
alright well me and my friend got into some trouble at the mall cause she convinced me to steal a shirt and i did and got caught and they asked her if she had anything and she did but she lied and said no then they asked her if she had anything to do with me and she lied and said no so i got into trouble for her. and ever since then which was on Tuesday - last week, we have been fighting but like i made this modeling thing and we were talking about it and i kinda miss being friends with her. but i promised my mom and my friends not to be friends with her because she got me into trouble. i need help. i dont know whether to not fight with her and have people dissapointed in me or to just give up on her.. ahh please help =[
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This girl
Posted Friday February 17 2006, 8:31 pm
Im 13 & female. I have this friend "Jackie" and shes really cool in my grade, and were semi close good friends. We made plans for this sunday, to go to a mall together. And my mom is driving, and her dad/mom (i dont know exactly which) But she told me she couldnt go to this other mall beacause her parents are a little racists but shes not & i know shes not. But i feel a little uncortable with the whole idea, Im the same skin color as them (white) but im 100% against racism. and i've NEVER been in a converstation with somebody "like that". I know the subject wont come up, is there anyway you can help me see through and not be so shyish around them.
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Is this a normal thing...he forgets me!
Posted Friday February 17 2006, 6:42 pm
There is this boy who I have had a crush on for like 5-6 years. One night I found out he had a 'thing' for me and I was so surprised that well I thought it would last forever but then it faded so distant and now he barely talks to me. He never texts me back, never ims me, never calls me...he completely forgets I'm alive. My friends who knows him as we went to the same schools, tell me to move on and just live life, with or without a guy. I've been trying but every friday wen he's online I feel so sick to my stomach because I have no idea what's wrong with me; do i have a sign on my head, did i hurt him, what did i do?
Last night though he talked to me...just a few words and somehow I think it's because my friend asked him why he's ...
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Friend or More?
Posted Friday February 17 2006, 6:02 pm
I really like this girl at school but she is my best friend. I'm scared that if I tell her and she says yes, I know we'll break up. Everyone knows that if you break up with someone you basically aren't friends anymore. Does anyone know what I should do? HELP ME!!!
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Help!!! I FEEL LIKE A SECERTARY!!!!!!!!!!
Posted Friday February 17 2006, 5:24 pm
ok my friend and i been best friends for 4 years and i dont wanna ruin our friendship but now in middle school shes waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay popular and im not....and i feel like her secertary because people treat me like it eeryday "oh where is ____" or "hows _____?" never a how r u to me and she hardly spends time with me shes always with her popular friends and i feel left out i hav other friends but shes my BEST i feel like im jealouse.. plz help!!!
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