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worst luck ever....two faced friends?
Posted Wednesday March 1 2006, 10:51 pm
i have a bunch of friends. i guess. i only hang out with a select few of them outside of school and most of my friends from soccer arent my friends anymore. i dont know why and it kinda hurts because i was extremley close with one girl on my team. then to add to that almost all my friends at my school are twofaced. the one that i noticed isnt, her mom HATES me for no reason. she doesnt let her daughter do anything. even if its for school. im sorry this is so long but i hate high school and i dont know what to do about my friends. i try to talk to my guy friends about it because they such better friends. i just if i hang out with them outside of school they think im flirting or its a date ; and if i tell them its not it gets weird and someti...
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good friend's dad died
Posted Wednesday March 1 2006, 10:38 pm
I have a friend who's family is a friend of my family and they lost their dad today. The doctors gave him 2 hours-2 days on Monday. He died this afternoon.
My parents are over at their house right now and they told me to come when they call. That sould be in like an hour or so.
Well, I'm not sure what I should talk to my friend about. Should I talk about her dad or not?
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friend troubles......
Posted Wednesday March 1 2006, 9:54 pm
well i moved to where i am at like 3 years ago, and it took me a while to make friends. i was friends with this one girl for a little while, but we kind of just grew apart i guess you could say. im definitely not a "popular girl" but im not a loser either..im kind of just in the middle and i have a bunch of aquaintences (sp) but i feel like i dont really have any friends that go to my school...my best friend moved like 5 states away after she went to my new school for a couple of monthes (we were both new kids) and its just hard!! i mean do i reject people or something? i dont think anything is wrong with me but i always feel sad when i see people walking down the hall with their best friend or something because i dont have one here..idk.
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A little help please!
Posted Wednesday March 1 2006, 9:48 pm
I'm not really an open person by any means. Well, a couple years ago I met a friend who I could trust and tell things too. As with me, it is hard for to trust and open up to people too. But we have this connection that the two of us tell each other our problems. Well she states that she can and that I'm really the only person who she shares this thing about. Well I told her one of my problems and begged her not to say anything to our other friends. She ended up blurting it out to everyone. I forgave her. But the trust issue has dropped because of it. Well she never really tells me anything, she really doesn't. And I'm one of those people who wont open up to you unless you open up to me first. And if I ask her what's wrong she says nothing. ...
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My BFF...sorta
Posted Wednesday March 1 2006, 8:36 pm
srry this is long (i'll rate :)
okay so i have been best friends with this girl for like 5 years, now we are both 13 and in 7th grade, but have totally different lifestyles. My family and I are religous, her and her family aren't. Her dad and mom both have a boyfriend/girlfriend that they live with, but all of them cheat all the time (this is where religion comes in; morals). Her dad drinks and takes steriods and is really stupid, like nobody really likes him (he thinks he's all cool because his girlfriend (who he lives with) owns an awesome exotic house and because of his cowboy hats). My dad thinks her dad hasn't accomplished anything, unlike my dad. Her dad thinks that he can tell my dad what to do, or call him a p*ssy and stuff f...
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worried about friend who never contacts me
Posted Wednesday March 1 2006, 7:07 pm
I guy that I'm friends with and was hoping we'd be an item one day had to move a couple of months ago for a job. He gave me his old computer just before he left so that we could contact each other. This was 4 months ago. Everytime I send him an email it gets returned. I phoned him 2 months ago around Xmas time and asked him about this. He said his internet wasnt hooked up yet. Fair Enough. Then he said he'd phone me later that month. He never did. I still had his cell phone number, and tried phoning him today to find out if his internet was hooked up yet. Well was I ever shocked to learn that his cell phone is now out of service. So now I have no way to contact him.
Does anyone else find this strange? Why would he give ...
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my birthday
Posted Wednesday March 1 2006, 7:05 pm
okay. my birthday is on march 21. which doesn't give me a lot of time to figure out what to do for my birthday. i'll be turning 14 and i'm not totally sure if i even want to have a party. my parents are going to be out of town for my birthday which totally sucks. i just wanted to spend my birthday all alone because so far it is really going to suck. my friends and my boyfriend refuse to let that happen. does anyone have any ideas for a way for me to celebrate my birthday?
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odd behavior
Posted Wednesday March 1 2006, 6:59 pm
Alright, I have this guy friend that I met at work, and we started hanging out alot. He would call most evenings and we would either go to eat or hang out at his place, whatever. This went on for a few months, and alot of people at work assumed we were dating since we always were together, and showed up at work together all the time. I liked him alot, but I could never read how he felt towards me. I mean, he wasn't afraid to let other people know he didn't care to hang out with them, so if he didn't want to hang out, he would have definately said so, he is pretty forthright like that. We always had a lot of fun together, and I felt very safe with him. He never let me pay for anything when we went out, so it seemed like they were dates, but ...
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Party
Posted Wednesday March 1 2006, 5:33 pm
Well I randomly heard of a party that is going to go on saturday from my friends. The person having the party is my friend [ or so i thought ]. I just met him this year but hes my friends girlfriend. He told all the other people I hang around with except me. I am wondering if he doesnt want me to go. I asked him if he is having a party for his birthday and he said yes. I said when and where. He replied saturday at my house. But he didnt mention anything like are you going to go or whatever. What should i do?
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Friends treating me like crap :, [
Posted Wednesday March 1 2006, 5:29 pm
Well lately I have been feeling sort of excluded. I have this group of 5 other people that I mainly usually hang out with. Lets name them Lucinda, Sabrina, Ashley, Margie, and Maria. Well were all in 8th grade. Lucinda, Sabrina, Ashley, Maria, and I are all in the same class. But Margie is by herself in the other class. Well lately Lucinda and Sabrina have been hanging out alot, But only when Margie is not around. When Margie is around Lucinda and her are like bffe. When Margie isnt around they are like bffe. So when Margie isnt around I feel like Sabrina is using me because Lucinda sorta ignores everyone else [ me Sabrina Ashley and Maria ] when she is with Margie. Same goes for when Lucinda is with Sabrina. Well Ashley and Maria sorta do ...
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dont kno what to do
Posted Wednesday March 1 2006, 4:40 pm
13/f
sry if this is long :/ ill rate
k, so me and this girl lex were bffs since 2nd grade (were in 7th grade now). last summer this girl shayla moved in across the street. we were immediatly friends. when school started the 3 of us were all friends and did stuff together all the time. but then near the end of 6th grade and this past summer, they started always doing stuff without me all the time and lying to me. and then in sept, shayla imed me and was like, "you're sucha loser i hate you dont talk to me" so i figured lex would back me up, but it turns out she was with her the whole time, going along with it.(shayla told lex i talked about her all the time, which was a COMPLETE lie) soo now im not friends with the...
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left out =[ pls help me ;(
Posted Wednesday March 1 2006, 3:49 pm
sorry if its long - ill rate 5s ?
k so theres this girl that ill call janet well .. during the summer i invited her and my other friend "lisa" down to my beach house and they came. so recently she has been saying to me like ohooh i got a beach house i cant wait to invite you down this summer! maybe i can invite you and lisa down at the same timee and stuff .. and like she mentioned it to me a lot. so then i just found out bc i saw this note she asked me to pass to her friend .. i saw a glimpse of it i didnt read the whole thing but it said that for her party she was gonna invite her and all these others girls and lisa down to her beach house. but my name wasn't on it. idont know hwen they are going but this makes ...
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Posted Tuesday February 28 2006, 9:18 pm
One of my friends and I have are having this argument. She insists on talking about my sexual orientation. It doesn't bother me that she talks about it, with myself or with others, but she insists on labeling me a 'bisexual'.
She says it's just a word everyone understands and I should accept it as a descriptor. I admit it's a pretty accurate description of me but I still don't like the label and I can't identify with all the bullshit and connotations attached to it. It wouldn't bother me so much if I was single, but because I'm with someone people seem to hear bisexual and think 'easy' or that I'm up for a threesome and such stupidity.
Is she right in using a word just cause it's easily understood by most peopl...
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Ditched
Posted Tuesday February 28 2006, 7:07 pm
Heres my story; I know its long and I'm truly sorry but I could really use some help.
I used to be good friends with bailea and ashley; however about a week ago I stopped sitting with them at lunch and sat with my best friends Holly-Beth and Kaitlyn and that whole crowd. Well HB and Kaitlyn are my best friends and I only have one class with them ( I have ALL my classes with Ash and Bailea) and I really like sitting with HB and Kaitlyn at lunch cause we have so much in common. However Bailea and ashley hate me now; they wont admit it but I know they do. Bailea and I used to share lockers and now she moved outta my locker; she refuses to be my partner in any class; if im in a conversation she'll completley ignore me; and she'l...
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how do i know ... ?
Posted Tuesday February 28 2006, 6:09 pm
ok well a couple weeks ago my best friend and i got into this huge fight .. she was mad at me for almost a week and i dont think she knows but i cried a lot and i am 100% sorry and would never do anything like that agen.
as far as i can tell things are back to normal now but how do i know for sure whether our friendship is really mended? i know it will take a while but how doi show her that she can trust me and i would never do anyhting like that again?
please help me ill rate 5s! <3
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can u get someone to stop loving u ?
Posted Tuesday February 28 2006, 4:25 pm
ok well there is this guy (chad)and he is my older brothers best friend in the world.... and to me...chad is my best friend...and thats all i want.. but he tells me he loves me and he wants to date me and stuff .. chad knows i have a boyfriend(kell) that i been with for about 7 months and our relationship is going great! but chad keeps trying to hit on me and he tells me he is "waiting" for me...he thinks me and kell will brake up and i dont c that any time soon.. but i just want to b friends chad...but ever time i tell him that i dont want to be anything more he tells me that i am hurting him and making him cry...so he makes me fill bad for not wanting to cheat on kell....i have tryed just not talking to him....just treating him ...
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USING? sorry its long, ill rate 5s.
Posted Tuesday February 28 2006, 4:25 pm
ok so i have this friend; we'll call her "jane." well i think she is using me. in english & tech. ed. jane is always like MELISSA MELISSA (melissa's me) BE MY PARTNER! OMG MELISSA I HAVE TO SIT NEXT TO YOU. OMG MELISSA YOU HAVE TO BE IN MY GROUP! so .. in gym she will talk to me sometimes but not that much its really annoying just bc she wants to talk to who she considres "popular" and also like at parties or outside waiting for our buses she wont really talk to me that much. how can i change this? i dont want to talk to her about it .. but i want to mention it somehow to make her think about it. or whatever you think i should do ? thanks ill write 5s!
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lost..
Posted Tuesday February 28 2006, 3:33 pm
im very lost,i lost my self!what are some ways to become original? some how i just dont feel like i am me...
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Outgoing...
Posted Tuesday February 28 2006, 3:27 pm
i dont know why but all the sudden im VERY queit,not outgoing,not noticed,i just hate it!! im not lucky and i say EVERYTHING at the wrong moment.how can i become more outgoing? i need to find my true self! i need to become more outgoing and fun befor i seep into the walls! if this help... 13/f/aries.
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AhHhh Friend/Guy problEms..
Posted Monday February 27 2006, 8:04 pm
Hi! well oookay..i have a problem. I have alot of friends in school..mostly "girl friends" lol and tonight me and my mom and dad had a talk and they are like dont you have a boyfriend or any "boy friends" and i was like umm..and they are like why dont you hang out with any of them? and i was like because you wouldnt let me and they are like have you ever asked and i said no because i was afraid and my dad was like i would let you go out with a boy out to dinner or something. and my mom goes what happened to you? you use to have a lot of friends and hangout with a lot of people and this year you are like a nerd. just to let you know im a sophomore and im 15 turning 16! but this made me really..kinda depressed. i would LOV...
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