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was my teacher making a pass at me?


Posted Sunday March 5 2006, 12:59 pm

I have been taking guitar lessons from an older married man. Sometimes he says things to me like "look at me when you're playing", but says it in a turned on way. I've also caught him staring inappropriatley at my chest. I got really embarrassed at the last lesson because for no reason at all, while I had two of my fingers on the D chord, he put his hand on top of my hand; wouldnt let go, and slid our hands down the entire guitar all the way from the top to bottom, and very slowly. Now I'm not an idiot, and know this wasnt part of the lesson. I know my face was all red and when I looked up at him, he looked guilty.
Now I don't know what to do, because he had been offering the lessons for free. He's also my friends boss...

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woah. i like himmm


Posted Saturday March 4 2006, 11:33 pm

ok, im almost in love with this guy. not obsessed, but getting close.
he's gorgeous && incredibly sweet.
but there are problems;;
1)i cannot talk to him
2)he likes someone else
3)he's a druggie
now, i know what you're going to say about him doing drugs.. but hey! sometimes, a bad boy is good for a girl..you know??lmao
so what can i do??
should i just sit around && hope he gets over this other girl??
or should i talk to him??..conversation starters???

will rate high ;D
♥ thank yooou


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My Heart Hurts....


Posted Saturday March 4 2006, 10:55 pm

Im really sorry if this is to long. if you dont want to read it i understand.

I used to want to kill myself. ive never tried but those thoughts came to my mind often i just never took it into action. I have/Had this one friend named katie. Honestly ive always thought she was twofaced but i always thought to give her more chances... just because i thought she could get over her ways... well i was wrong. Before i met katie i had this best friend that ive known for 8 yrs. Her name is cortnie. Recently me and her have been in this big arguments and we have said hateful things. i highly doubt me and her will ever be friends again. Well anyways.... Katie has been cortnies friend for 2 yrs now and they have been hanging out and me a...

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Best Friend/Other Friend


Posted Saturday March 4 2006, 10:28 pm

This may be long so...prepare yourself.

I have a best friend and a 2nd best friend. Unfortunately, they hate each other. Last year my best friend and I made fun of my 2nd best friend endlessly. Then she found out...it was a long and terrible time where I realized how rude I had been. Finally she forgave me. But she never forgave my best friend.

My best friend got a boyfriend in September. I realized this meant I wouldnt be spending as much time with her as he went to a different school district so they hung out on the weekends. I only became super upset twice 1) on my 16th birthday weekend she chose to hang out with her boyfriend rather than me (and we did have plans...sadly they also included her boyfriend and...

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friends/harrasment- i will rate high


Posted Saturday March 4 2006, 10:23 pm

so i had a friend who was my best friend for like 6 years. then it was time for middle school and my best friend and i went to the same one but the other people in our group at elementry school went to a different middle school. so everything was good, but in febuary it was my litles brothers party. and my best friend had a little sister the same age but we didnt invite her little sis to the party because my bro doesnt like her. then she got really mad and her whole family did. they took it really ofensively. they sorta harrased us and called us and got mad at us. when i say harased i mean by phone. so she left the school not because of me mainly because financil issues. she kept calling me but my parents didnt want me to be friends with he...

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Dance expectaions


Posted Saturday March 4 2006, 9:52 pm

All my friends are on the competition dance team at my dance studio. I'm always nervous to try out for things so I never do. Last year I finally worked the courage up to try our for soccer, and well it ended and tears and a lost friendship. Dance tryouts are march 18 and all my friends are expection me to be great because they are good friends and want to support me. I have been dancing for 5 years and I guess im okay...just not under pressure and expecially not in front of all the good people! I just need some confidence any tips? I know my friends don't want to hurt me. They keep telling me as loNg as I smile and act peppy ill be fine. AAAAh!!

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She hates me and won't tell me why


Posted Saturday March 4 2006, 3:40 pm

hi guys. Ok, i moved away this summer and wasn't allowed to tell my friends until the last few weeks b/c my parents are well, basically, very private. So I tried to call everyone in that time period but i couldnt get a hold of everyone and had to tell people to spread the word. I felt really bad about it but i had no choice. Then I find out that one of my friends from my old town hates me. I email and try to set things right explaining everything but she refused to believe me and proceeded to cuss me out. She wants nothing to do with me and says she hates me and that i am a fake and a bunch of bad words and told me to **** off. She is also spreading bad rumors about me around my old school and ruining the squeeky clean image i had. ...

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married man admitted to me he views porn


Posted Saturday March 4 2006, 1:06 pm

A married male friend of mine recently told me that although he finds a lot of the pornography out there offensive and that it made him sick; that he still struggled with it. Does this mean that he just admitted to me that he has a sex addiction? And also, does anyone else find it strange that he would be revealing this to me and not his wife?

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Posted Saturday March 4 2006, 7:08 am

I have this friend, known her forever. Shes turning out to be really mean, and its gettin me down.

This summer, we spent EVERY DAY together. Never ever missed a day. When we got back to school, she paid no attention to me. I talk to her on the computer these days and she tells me im fat, ugly, slutty, fat,fat,fat,fat,fat!!

And it gets me down, because im not fat. she gets others to hate me

But then.. Im so nice I go back to forgiving her!!


I cant stop myself!! What do I do!?!!?

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Uncaring friend


Posted Friday March 3 2006, 8:49 pm

My bestfriend of 7 years has really annoyed me lately (16/f). A couple weeks ago I was not invited to go get icecream-her idea-with her and two other girls-basically our "group" minus me. And tonight after a tennis tournament (I am on varsity 1 and played yesterday and the other girls played today for varsity 2) they planned on going home, showering and what not and then going out to eat. I was not invited. I saw on one of my friends away message "shower and out to eat with my tennis girls!". I imed my bff (she had an away message of 'in the shower' and i said "Hey when you get out call me! I want icecream! Maybe you me amanda and nadine?" About 20-30 minutes later she calls and says "Hey i got your messag...

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guy friends?


Posted Friday March 3 2006, 4:06 pm

I really would like to make more guy friends. Guys talk to me and stuff, but how do I develop a friendship with them? I'll give all 5's. Thanks <3

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Posted Thursday March 2 2006, 10:39 pm

Can anybody tell me the words to the kid story book chica chica boom boom?

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Hey


Posted Thursday March 2 2006, 9:05 pm

Hey Shammay I added you as a friend. Add me back if you want.

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idontknow


Posted Thursday March 2 2006, 8:59 pm

im 15/f i have many fam problems as well as social. i am really one of the nicest, friendliest people in my school, not excatly popular but i am semi-friends with the popular kids and other people. but i honestly dont have friends besides a couple who barely ever want to go out. i cant deal with this i need friends that will stick with me i hate this town i dont even know what to do with my life everythings wrong, everything. i want to go to a diff school in a diff town.. how can i approach my father telling him

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A SleepOver


Posted Thursday March 2 2006, 8:26 pm

Well, my mom said that I could have a sleepover this weekend starting Friday. There will be about 5 or 6 girls all about 13. What are some fun things we can do? I have Charter television, a trampoline, a nice neighborhood, and a big backyard. My house is fairly small so I'm not sure what we can really do inside. And, what are some things to talk about? We are all really close friends.
Thank you in advance!

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Why does he stop?


Posted Thursday March 2 2006, 5:31 pm

Well I have this friend we have been really close for like 3 years now and we tried dating but it never worked out. Well this year he has a gf and it seems as though he really cares about her but then when he talks to me he tells me he loves me and he cares but he doesn't really show it. I miss our old friendship it was really fun before and I know I love him but it's hard when he has a gf and he talks about her but then talks to me like im the only one.I need help how i can get over him or just get him to understand that i dont want to hear anything about her. And I have tried talking .

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friendless


Posted Thursday March 2 2006, 5:12 pm

i used to have a lot of friends and allt he guys liked me. but this year we went to the new school and everyone hates me and talks about me and i pretty much have no freinds and i didnt even do anything, i even lost my best freind and people only talk to me when certian people are around. It sucks so much what should i do.

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Posted Thursday March 2 2006, 5:07 pm

Hey! Well i have this problem..i LOVE hanging out with my cousin--we are the same age . both 15 and she is pretty much awesome lol we are really close! The only thing is when we hang out we dont really go anywhere..she is a computer (AIM , MYSPACE) addict..im serious. We were suppose to hangout this weekend and at my house we are having this party but like ALL OLD PEOPLE are going to be there..and its boring..and my cousin told me that me her and the kid she liked (mike) and his friend (zack) and this girl brittany were all going to go to a movie so i could meet the guys she likes. Well now i just talked to her a little bit ago shes like GUESS WHAT? i get to drive to your house on saturday because she got her permitt..and i was like ohhh co...

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scary messages


Posted Thursday March 2 2006, 5:02 pm

me and my best friend arent talking and recently ive been getting im's and texts saying how my lifes soon gonna be a living hell and im gonna have no friends and that thres gonna be nasty rumors .. should i tell someone like a teacher that i trust? or should i try to work it out myself?please help!

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best friend?


Posted Thursday March 2 2006, 4:59 pm

ok so over the summer i became best friends with this girl and we did everything togeter. but since we started highschool everything has changed. she wont talk to me and when she does its aways negative. i really cant stand it anymore and my other friends are sick of listeing to me. i come home and go in my room and i dont want to talk to anyone except her and try to work things out. but i do want to talk to some one like one of my favorite teachers who i think could really help because she knows whats going on but i dont know how to approach her and as her about it. someone help!

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