|
Viewing QuestionsFriendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.
Backstabber?
Posted Friday March 10 2006, 5:24 pm
I really really like one of my best friends ex's. If he asks me out idk what to say! Cause I love my best friend but I really like him too!
And if this helps, my best friend decided to like the same guy I used liked right after I told her I liked him. ( I like her EX now ) And I was really hurt cause she started flirting with him constantly and won him over and now they're going out so she took a guy away from me, would it be wrong to go out with her old ex?!
[ Answer Question | View Answers (9) ]
Party
Posted Friday March 10 2006, 10:52 am
Hey guys. I'm 15 years old (female) and I'm going to my first party where there's alcohol tonight. I've never done it before, but I've made sure I know exactly how to get home, every other drink is gonna be a glass of water and so on, I've tried to make sure I'm as safe as possible tonight. My question is, what do you wear? From your experiences, what should I NOT wear, and why? Any good tips or advice?
Thank you if you answer this with honest advice and try not to preach.
[ Answer Question | View Answers (5) ]
annoying friend
Posted Friday March 10 2006, 1:33 am
I have a friend who is a very nice person. I almost feel bad for writing this, but it's been an ongoing issue.
The problem is that she calls me WAY too much. She phones me on average about 6 or 7 times a day. She also is one of those people that phones and wants to talk for an hour even though she has absolutely nothing to talk about. If I wasnt the one to always end the conversation she would probably talk all day. I do have other friends and interests and I really feel she is monopolizing my time.
She doesnt have a job or go to school and I know is always bored. But I DO have a job. Other times I'll be expecting an important call, and she will phone me twice within the hour. A lot of times I'll tell her that I'll phon...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]
I like my best friend, fuck
Posted Thursday March 9 2006, 11:40 pm
I have a crush on my best friend. She knows and it just has made things weird, especially now that she has a boyfriend. I don't mind her boyfriend so much as the look of pity and the feeling of paranoia as she avoids things in conversation. I feel stupid and I know that nobody will know the answer, but can someone tell me how I can stop having a this major crush on her but stillbe friends? And please don't just tell me "time" or "find God" those are truly useless to me. I am looking for a cure. Either you have or you don't, I don't need comforting pats on the shoulder, I need a vaccination.
15/m
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
I really dont know
Posted Thursday March 9 2006, 8:57 pm
I dont know wahts wrong with me. I have been getting very depressed latley. Like it just bounces around, one second im happy then further through the school say i get really really depressed. After school I just come home and go right to sleep. I feel like people just dont care about me and I dont wanna wake up. I really get depressed during school when I think how I have hardly any guy friends and like mostly girl friends. It pisses me off and I dont know why.I pretty much do more things with girls than boys and it makes me depresseed. I want guy friends but the guys in my school are ass holes most of the time. But I dont know, i just get so depressed taht i wanna sleep and never wake up. I start to feel like no one in the world really u...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (5) ]
friend
Posted Thursday March 9 2006, 7:52 pm
okay i need really good advice for this. my friend, he has some problems from the past dealing with family and friends. that's understandable, but he's really controlling. he used to cut and now threatens to kill himself. would he go through with it? probably not, but there's always that chance one day he might just break, ya know? well he doesn't like people i hang around with like my bf, friends, etc etc. he's very very controlling and today he asked me to choose my friends or him. well i obviously want to be with my friends, but i'm afraid he's going to do something stupid like he says. i really need help. everyone says "you shouldn't be friends with him if he treats you this way" but if you were in my situation (maybe some of ...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (5) ]
depressed?
Posted Wednesday March 8 2006, 10:40 pm
15/f
ive always been the type of out going person that you ever saw frown. i was the type of person that got along with EVERYONE. but that kinda changed when i started hanging out with my new best friend for the past 2 years. she is sorta well emo i guess you can say shes always depress and stuff now depresses me easy i wish i could be like i used to but i feel like im turning more into my friend and i wanna be the old me again. idk if i need to stop talking to her or what. i mean lately i havnt been talking to her as much just because she like always gets on my case about grammer in stuff and im like wow your not my teacher your my friend geese but yah beside the point i was jus wondering what you all would do about this. i want to ...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
party
Posted Wednesday March 8 2006, 7:05 pm
ok, well here's the story. i'm having my 14th b-day party and i am not having a big thing, all my frends r from skewl but 3 of them kno each other and the other on doesn't rele kno the other one. i'm thinking about a slumber party but i dont want to make the last girl feel left out. wut do i do???? help plz!!!
[ Answer Question | View Answers (5) ]
boyfriend and best friend
Posted Wednesday March 8 2006, 6:02 pm
well heres the deal...
my best friend always goes out with my boyfriends after we break up. its the second time in a row and to tell you the truth it is starting o get to me. i feel like a bad friend if i tell her not to go out with them but then again, is it really fair to me that shes taking my "leftovers" is she being a good friend because it doesnt seem so to me. but maybe i might be wrong. i need some advice. also she is walking all over my other best friend and i want it to stop. should we top being friends all together or else how sohuld i work this whole problem out?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
a friend problem and i rate high
Posted Wednesday March 8 2006, 5:35 pm
I have a huge problem! theres this girl, beka, who i cannot stand. She had a stroke before she was born and her arm and leg are paralized, but shes not in a weelchair. I dont judge her about her physical abilities. She takes a shower maybe once or twice a week, she never brushes her hair, and most disgustingly, she has bloody noses alot and she just lets it like dry up and sit there all over her nose!
the worst part is that she (voluntarily)sits with us at lunch and i can barely eat! We used to be friends (sort of... I never really liked her that much) a few years ago. Now she is kinda mean and just real weird. She cries alot when she doesnt get her way, and were in seventh grade! When im around her sometimes she is really rude to ot...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
Good friend-bad friend... I need help?!
Posted Wednesday March 8 2006, 5:12 pm
okay... I have this friend (lets say her name is Kelley) and shes really cool and stuff. I have another friend, (lets say her name is Jen) who I used to be really good friends with. Now Jen is a lot more "popular" than me and kelley, but she was pretty nice to us up until a few months ago. First, we had always sat at the same table together, and now she is sitting with the kids who are really mean. She didnt say anything to us or anything, and she just sort of ditched us. I was okay with that, maybe she just wanted to meet new people or something. So anyways, Now we have to do a community project for school. Kelley and I are making blankets for children in a homeless shelter and jen wants to deliver bears to the hospital. Shes all...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (6) ]
friend and bad person
Posted Wednesday March 8 2006, 12:29 am
My friend is hanging out with my old friend. my old friend is into bad things like sex and stuff. I don't want my friend to be around those kind of people.
[ Answer Question | View Answers (8) ]
taking advantage of me
Posted Tuesday March 7 2006, 3:50 pm
my friends are constantly making me feel bad or blaming me for something. and i always end up feeling bad and apoligizing even tohugh half the time it isnt my fault...any advice?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (11) ]
FCK.
Posted Monday March 6 2006, 10:22 pm
<small>
how can i tell what people in the world are honest and good?
and why is everything always about sex lately?
its so fckd up.
i rate high. :]
</small>
[ Answer Question | View Answers (8) ]
why does he stay with his abusive wife?
Posted Monday March 6 2006, 9:39 pm
What are some reasons why a man would stay in a bad marriage? A friend of mine is married to an older woman who is mentally and financially abusive to him. She tries to control his friendships and won't let him talk on his phone to some of his friends. She has also isolated him from his family. She is a very bitter, jealous, vindictive woman. She is extremely unnatrractive because she's been smoking since she was 12. Her teeth are stained and her face is all wrinkled. She looks 20 years older than her real age (54). That part shouldnt matter except her personality is just as ugly. They have no children together, but she has two grown kids from her first marriage. They are both heroin addicts, and have stolen in total 6000 dollars...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]
Posted Monday March 6 2006, 9:23 pm
Okayy i wrote a letter to my best friend who is 14/m and iam 16/f and i've known him for about a year and i'm kinda starting to fell in love with him but i have that funny feeling in my somtuch when you get the "butterfilies" thats mean you are in love right? But anways i wrote him a letter and in the letter it really expressed my feelings and the way i like him and i wondered if i give him the letter do you think he would ask me out? But i have a funny feeling if we do but the problem is that we never hang out we live close to eother but we go to differnet schools its hard tho i really need to spend time with him but the only time we spend time together is on feild trips which it happends often not alot it kinda bugs me. But when...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]
guy thing! lol
Posted Monday March 6 2006, 3:48 pm
oakyy whats better tell me in your own expernice what is better reading the note or give it to the guy? Because the guy that iam going to see in a couple of weeks i wrote him a letter and i like him and we have known eother long enough so . So i was wondering maybe you can give me ideas what should i do because first of all the place we are going to be at is going to be alot of people there and plus i don't know should i read it or not because i don't want other people hearing it you know? So i want ideas how do it so i won't have to feel like an idot. If you mind giving your ideas or thinking that would be great..Thanks for your help!!
Lauren
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
Kiss and Tell
Posted Monday March 6 2006, 11:59 am
OK so, right before Christmas my freind broke up wtih her boyfreiend. They had only been seeing eachother for 2 weeks. She then told me sometimes in January that if me or any of my freinds went out with him she would be mad. Well, we aren't really freinds and more and over the weekend I kissed her ex. I don't know if I should tell her or just keep it to myself. Like, if someone else told her would it be worse? I like him and have liked him since January.
[ Answer Question | View Answers (6) ]
Lost my best friend
Posted Sunday March 5 2006, 10:27 pm
Alright So..
Me and Alexis have been best friends since 5th grade. And all of a sudden this year shes changed.(we're in 8th grade now) . Like she hangs out with Seniors(Um Ew?. Thats like hanging out with my brother) And she has smoked and drank. And it bugs me. Like we still do sleepovers sometimes and talk at school but its all differant. And now Alexis, my friend Karie, and my friend Holi have this thing called "KAH" which stands for their names and they think their the shit. it pisses me off.. and now i feel like i dont have a best friend..
please help <3
[ Answer Question | View Answers (5) ]
No Trust!
Posted Sunday March 5 2006, 4:19 pm
Sorry this is so long...
There is this girl "A" and she and I used to be pretty good friends. Well, last summer she like my best friend "L". This whole time A has been writing L letters behind her boyfriend's back. a mutual friend, "B", of A and L Went and told A's boyfriend,"K" that L had letters that A had written him. Understand that, L and K used to be best friends. So, L gave K the letters. By now, nobody trusts anyody. Well I went on this other girls myspace and left a comment that was and inside joke betwwen me and her. at some point, A read this and thought it was and attack on her. It wasn't and now she is amd at me. What should I say to A to make her understand I didnt mean fro ti to be that way.
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
|