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No more sleepover parties...ever!!!
Posted Monday March 13 2006, 1:44 pm
can telll it was bad. i planned so long for it, and then they didnt
wanna play any games, and like they were bein all ******* and not even listen to
me at ALL when they got here (at 6!) they watched mtv music videos (that i didnt
even like) untill 10:30
i called that i was opening gifts twice. like YELLED it. and they all ignored me
because this one girl was crying (i dont even why) and then she called her crush and so
they missed out on me opening the gifts
and they rejected all of my game ideas and i had really good prizes too and it
was so not worth my time im never doin this again. and then finally (today) 30
miuntes before they leave they ask me what i wanted to do...
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my annoyng mate
Posted Monday March 13 2006, 10:54 am
Well, alot of the time, me and my mate get into these conversations about really simple things like whether you should wear moisturiser or not, or whether certain earrings look tarty, and i listen to what she has to say and everything, but she just has to be right all the time! She wont listen to me or my mates views, and it really annoys me, cos i try to talk, to say what i think about something and she says "God, will you stop going on about it" when shes the one whos been talking about it for ages, and if i say "But i'm just trying to say what i think", she cuts me off and starts telling me i'm really stressy! What do you think about it all? Do you think she is competitive, or what? What should i do?
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My friends girl
Posted Monday March 13 2006, 7:13 am
My friend told me that he fell in love with this girl that he has known for 8 years. He asked me to ask her out for him but she said no and i dont know how to tell him. Im 14/m by the way i really need your advice.
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How do I get her back?
Posted Monday March 13 2006, 2:38 am
I met this girl this year, and we quickly became best friends. We ate lunch together every day, saw eachother outside of school, and we had English together so we would always see eachother. Semester 2 began, and she started to eat lunch with the guy she liked and his friends, leaving me all alone. I found a new group of friends while she continued hanging out with her crush and his group of friends. I confronted her about it right after it started and we argued about it so much we didn't talk for 2 weeks. We made up, but things still aren't the same. She says its important that she gets the guy, but I always thought our friendship was more important. It's been a while now, and we still don't talk often (VERY rarely), never see eachother, a...
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upset with my friend for lying
Posted Monday March 13 2006, 2:33 am
A girl that is one of my best friends did something that I thought was pretty childish. Well about 5 months ago we went up to another town to help another one of our friends with her parents 50th anniversary party. We went up for the weekend to help prepare. Well during the weekend I became close to one of the girls; I'll call her "Gina" that was helping out. We ended up talking to each other the whole time and got along really well. I even asked for her email but then didnt get a chance to write it down. Anyways, during the time that me and Gina were getting along I could tell my friend was getting jealous. She kept saying that we were getting really "chummy". Well I hadnt seen this girl in 5 months because sh...
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What do I do about my ex-best friend who knows all my secret
Posted Monday March 13 2006, 2:25 am
My best friend and I are no longer friends after an argument which ended our friendship. She knows everything about me, even my deepest secrets. She has offered to talk to me about things in about a week, and I'd like to bring up the things we have shared with one another. I want to confirm that everything we have said will be kept secret, but I am afraid if I put it the wrong way she will see it as a weakness and threaten me with it. How do I ask her to not tell my secrets while showing that I can be trusted with hers, and am not afraid of her answer?
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RUDE FRIEND
Posted Sunday March 12 2006, 11:59 pm
Hey ok let me in on my problem, i am 18 years old and i am a fulltime nursing assistant at a hospital. my "best firennd" works a part-time job and dont work much and blames us not being able to hang out on my schooling and job. but on the off days that i can hang out if we do, she is constantly on the phone with her boyfriend,(i just broke up with mine). oh yeah and did i mention my ex is her boyfriends best friend. well anyway i tryto tell her that this upsets me but she dont listen she just continues to do it even though i ask her not to and not to mention she is always blowing me off to be with her boyfriend even after me and mine broke up and i needed someone to comfort me what should i do?
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Friend too obsessed? Don't want to hurt her.
Posted Sunday March 12 2006, 11:28 pm
So, I'm a boy, my friend is a girl..her boyfriend has recently gotten back and they are w/ eachother a lot. So they had sex a few times the first week, and it's been like 3 weeks now. They have sex at least once every day(i'm pretty sure) but if not, just about. Well i don't care, because her bf is my friend too..but what DOES actually piss me off is that we were watching a movie, and when her mom went to church, the very second she pulled out of the driveway, they ran to her room to have sex. leavin me there alone..i don't want to piss her off but i want her to know that it bugs me..how do i do it w/out hurting her?
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"best friends ever!"
Posted Sunday March 12 2006, 8:43 pm
I brought my friend to church with me, becuase i talk about all these people, my "best friends" at church, so i wanted her to meet them. When we walk in, all of my "best friends ever" completly ignore us, even while im introducing them. It takes the friend that i brought to come up to me and say "did i do something wrong?!" before i completly loose it. I start crying and just break down. then, my "best friends" get all concerned, and even more concerned when i ignore them. what do you think i should do about them?
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a confused happy peanut.
Posted Sunday March 12 2006, 6:14 pm
Ok, I'm a 13/F and I'm happy like 24-7. I mean everyone always comes up to me and asks me how I could be so happy all the time. I mean everyone knows me as the "happy peanut" (school nickname don't ask lol) And I mean I am. And I'm always the friend people come to if they have a problem or if they need someone's shoulder to cry on or anything. But I mean lately everything in my life's been going wrong. My dad's left my family, a kid who was like my brother just died. and I mean I don't know how to talk to anyone about it because they always come to me. And like no one else. And I just want to like SCREAM!! I don't know what to do. It's like I've lost controle of my own life and can't get it back together again. I just want someone...
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Best Friends and Boyfriends
Posted Sunday March 12 2006, 3:36 pm
One of my best friends likes the same guy as me. Well my and my crush (Ross) have been talking alot latley and he told me he likes me. I don't know how to tell her that he likes me. I don't wanna sound like I'm trying to rub it in her face, but I don't want her to find out from like gossip or something so I want her to know so she doesn't get her heart broken, but what should I say?
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She keeps putting me down.
Posted Sunday March 12 2006, 2:48 pm
Right, my best friend is usually really nice, but recently she keeps putting me down, mostly about things that arent even true. She keeps pointing out people and saying they're taller than me and teasing me about my 'frizzy' hair. Shes even started being mean about the things i like. Like my big eyes she says are weird and the other day she said "I like my tummy better than yours" and i really like my toned tummy. Even though most of it isnt true, its really getting me down. What should i do? Please do not tell me to talk to her about it because she would just tell me i'm being stressy.
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jealousy
Posted Sunday March 12 2006, 8:29 am
How can yu get past being jealous? My best friend just got a bf and hes super awesome, and im jealous cus ive never had a bf. Im happy for her, i really am. How can I get my mind off it, and stop being jealous?
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I HATE HER
Posted Saturday March 11 2006, 6:58 pm
I HATE my best friend. She just gets on my nerves. She NEVER listens to me and she crys alot and she says I make a big deal out of everything. But honestly its her.
What should I do?
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help
Posted Saturday March 11 2006, 2:08 pm
my best friend stole my boyfriend what should I do?
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I need advice!
Posted Saturday March 11 2006, 1:20 pm
my friend trina keeps borrowing money from me and my other friends all the time and i've tried telling her I can't keep loanining her money all the time if she dosn't pay me back,but she won't listen to me.How can I get her to listen to me?
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How Can I Help?
Posted Saturday March 11 2006, 12:40 pm
My friend (20 F) called me in tears this morning. She was at a bar last night, and, in a state of extreme intoxication, went home with a near-stranger. I (18 F) tried to console her as best I could, and recommended that she go to a walk-in clinic to be tested for STDs. What else can I do to help her out? She feels really guilty, I don't know what to do.
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my friend is taking things im saying the wrong way
Posted Saturday March 11 2006, 12:06 pm
okay so my friend is mad at me and shes using all these things ive said to her or other people out of context b/c when u hear them yea they sound bad but if u think about why i said them and what was going on it all makes sense. she wont listen to me tho i keep trying to explain to her why i said the things i did but she just wont let me say it. i dont want her to be mad at me or anyone else but how do i get them to listen?
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3rd wheel
Posted Saturday March 11 2006, 12:03 pm
okay so i have two best friends. and lately its seemed like they have been leaving me out. of everything. one of them, lets call her A, ive known since 3rd grade and shes been my best friend since. now im in 8th. the other, V, has been my best frined since 6th grade. and i like intoduced them to eachother in 6th grade. its always been us three. we have even gotten the name as "triple threat" around our school and such. but now it seems like its them, and then me. they talk on the phone everynight for hours on end, and everytime they see eachother they run up and hug each other for what seems like an hour. and im lucky if i even get like a hi sometimes. it may be that im jealous.. but i still want a hug. you know? they have been ge...
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hey there
Posted Friday March 10 2006, 6:39 pm
hey okay i got kind of a problem here well i was supposed to see a guy that i like who is 14/m who will be turning 15 soon and iam f/16 and i wrote him a letter and stuff put it in envpole and now i can't give it to him because i can't see him on monday because i have soccer. Iam really pissed i've always wanted him to have that letter and i talked to my mom about it and she siad if i don't get a chance seeing him agian i should send the letter through e-mail and i don't know thats right or not because iam like getting all pissed and don't know what to do!!
Thanks Lo
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