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what is going on
Posted Friday March 17 2006, 7:09 pm
I have a bunch of friends, but I feel like since I am not in the same classes as some of them, we are sort of drifting apart. We don't have that much in common anymore, and honestly I don't always have the best time when I occasionaly do stuff with them (I used to enjoy spending time with them alot). I don't want to deliberatley end any friendships, but I just don't know where they are going. Is it worth doing anything over? Also, I am kind of annoyed because I don't really have a specific group of friends. I know it is good that I am friendly with alot of different people, but I kind of long to have a group of friends like alot of people do. (For instance my sister & her 3 best friends are all 4 really close, and there are alot of othe...
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Oh no.
Posted Thursday March 16 2006, 8:57 pm
One of my best friend's and I got busted for a drug thing. We know not to do it again, but we got busted by someone's paretns who turned it into ou school.
Now, we're not supposed to talk to each other. But she's one of my best friends ever and I don't know what to do.
So please help. How can I be sneaky and stay friends with her? Any other advice would be appreciated? Thanks so much.
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Friends Or Foe?
Posted Thursday March 16 2006, 7:22 pm
female;thirteen
I have this friend, who yelled at my friends & I for drinking her power-ade without her permission. And when she found out that half of it was gone. She began to yell. So I yelled at her back. She ignored me & the others for the rest of the day. I thought she was still made about the whole power-ade thing.
So the next day, I signed on my screen name, and i asked her the specific reason why she was mad at me & the others. She said NOT because of the power-ade, but the fact that my she thought that she was doing a favor for us by not talking to us for the rest of the day, cause she thought we thought she was annoying, which is not true.
I felt bad, cause she told me she ...
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I HATE MY FRIENDS!
Posted Thursday March 16 2006, 7:18 pm
well,i used to have great friends,Liah,Niome,Kayla,and Ali.
latley,they're acting REALLY really not funny.and rude.and thinking "oh im so cool" Niome doesnt act like that,but the rest treat Niome like sh*t.Niome is hard to talk to,were not very close.Kayla,ahh,queen 'b" as people call it . she controls every fight everything and the rest of the girls.She thinks shes "ghetto" because of this stupid trend.Ali - shes cool,just when its just me and her.Liah- always takes Kayla's side.Everyone makes fun of me.what kind of friends are these? i have a different group i could go to,but i dont want them to compleatly hate me. i also have friends in another town that i could turn to also.Have you been in this situation...
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Are we loosing her?
Posted Thursday March 16 2006, 6:15 pm
F/13.... Okay me and my friends have a group called the four of us and we love being together and we have wonderful friends and we all ...were... best friends but it doesnt seem the way anymore... because one of us named Jessica has seemed to replace us with 3 other ppl i mean i dont know if she replaced up because she says she doesnt but she doesnt try and talk or hang out with us.. shes like oh your not loosing me and you have to try to and we are and shes ignoring it and me and my friend morgan dont know what to do and now morgans all like oh well im out of the group because of her blah blah blah and idk i dont wanna loose the friendship all of us had and i just dont know what to say or do to help it at all :[
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Too many whinging people!
Posted Thursday March 16 2006, 5:17 pm
I'v ealways liked to be there for people when they're going through a rough patch but lately it seems as though there has been a rapidly growing number of friends and aquaintances who continually whine and sodding whinge to me about the same problems yet refuse to actually do anything to help themselves.
I'm a nice person, honestly, but i can't take much more of this before I totally snap at someone. I'll be there for them and help them but they need to realise I'm not their emotional sponge there to soak up every little worry and complaint. What do i do?
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This Can't Be Right
Posted Thursday March 16 2006, 4:23 pm
Ok, here's the deal...I'm 13/f and all of the sudden I'm starting to really like my best friend, now I know that's kinda normal but here's the catch. ITS A GIRL! What is wrong with me? This isn't normal or right and I dont want her or my other friends for that matter to hate me, but I just can't make it go away! Should I just stay away from her until this weird feeling goes away? Please, I rate high! Thnx in advance
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Posted Thursday March 16 2006, 2:10 pm
ok so my friend has turned into a complete weirdo.... i was friends with this girl and since the guy she likes has left college she has been so weird we used to be such good friends and now shes all weird. like it all happened when she asked me to go shopping with her and i was coming up the stairs i saw her and a teacher came along and because i had been away ill he came to give me the work so he was talking to me its not like i can ignore him then i turned around and her and another friend had walked out the door. Then i saw her later on that day and she goes im not talking to you, i thought to myself you angry with me i should be angry with you...then i left it several weeks and i phoned her today and joked saying hello weirdo and she go...
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Friend's love??? how?
Posted Wednesday March 15 2006, 11:39 pm
So this isn't really about me..but more a friend thing. So i'm a guy and my friend's a girl. Well she likes another one of my friends who is also her friend...She asked me to call hiim and discreetly find out if he liked her or not..we didn't have a lot of time on the phone..but he said...she's okay..then he had to go..so i couldn't talk to him about it.. But how do I ask him so he doesn't really get it...and if he doesn't like her..how do I break it to her? OH..and supposedly..he has a girlfriend..that cheats on him..but idk a dickhead told us that..but any help is appreciated
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my ex...
Posted Wednesday March 15 2006, 9:07 pm
Okay, so I broke up with this guy (almost 2-year relationship) like...five months ago, or something. I fought with him about three months ago and said I'd give him space. Well I did, and I IM'd him tonight on a whim. It was stupid, I guess. I didn't expect him to be hostile, and I wasn't going to bring up the relationship, or the breakup, or anything, and HE did. He brought it up by asking me basically why the hell I was talking to him. I was worried about him when I broke up with him - I didn't exactly consider him the most emotionally stable at that point, and part of me wanted to know if he was okay, because I was the one who hurt him...so I told him that, and he said I didn't get to know how he was because I wasn't part of his life anym...
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ever feel all alone...
Posted Wednesday March 15 2006, 7:54 pm
Ok. So im a sohpmore at my high school and ive been going there since i was a freshmen but this year I dont know I just feel all alone, like I have friends but yet I feel that they've all abonded -speeling i think- me idk I'll be standing in the hallway with them and I'll just feel like they dont see me or im not even there. I get this feeling of emptyness and its so hard it feels like I have no one to turn to I feel like I can be there for my friends but they cant for me its so hard at time I just I feel like I could run away and no one would even notice IDk I guess im asking for advice that I dont even know I can get but any bit of encouagement could help..Id appreciate it thanx!
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quotes please!!!
Posted Wednesday March 15 2006, 7:37 pm
Ok so im 15/f and my gets on my nerves alot. She is always flirting with my boyfriend. Her boyfriend moved about a month ago. But when her bf was here she was always yelling at me because i was so called flirting with her boyfriend. My other friends ask me if it seems like my friend is trying to "steal" my boyfriend. So i was wondering if there are any quotes that you guys could give me on just basically telling her to stop flirting and stuff and it gets me mad. So if there are any quotes please let me know.
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More Than Friends?
Posted Wednesday March 15 2006, 5:40 pm
Okay so i really like this friend of mine...I mean I have fallen hard...but the problem is...I am completely unsure as to if he likes me...I mean he acts like he does...but then again he is kinda flirting well..not exactly flirting...but messing with other girls while i'm right there...I just act like i dont care and laugh with him...but anyways...back to the issue...i really like him..and i want to know if he likes me..but i dont want to ask him straight up...is there anything he might do that would let me know he's into me? or is there any way i can get him to confess he likes me without being to obvious? I dont want to ask him straight up because i dont want to hurt our friendship...any ideas?? Thanks sooooo much in advance to any answers!
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I cant take anymore!!
Posted Wednesday March 15 2006, 2:58 pm
OK i was friends with this girl for over 11 years. We did everything together.She practically lived with me. We told everybody we were sisters well a few months back we got into it BIG time. And we've tried to be friends but it doesnt work she always goes and starts something new. Well i have alot more friends now and i love my "new" life. But everytime everything starts working out for me she comes back in the picture. She will text me and start bein all nice and i try to be nice back and then a few hours later she tries to start again. I cant get her to leave me alone. I dont want to be her enemy but i also dont want to be friend anymore. I cant take much more of her crap. She always wants to fight and when i actually say ok she...
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is a convo like this?
Posted Tuesday March 14 2006, 11:22 pm
i had this convo with my bestfriend and i feel like if my bf knew i said those things with my bestfriend that he would be mad... do you think that i was wrong to talk to my bestfriend like that even if it was joking. (the whole fuck thing is an inside joke with him) btw my bestfriend is a guy.
me: loserface
him: fuck you
me: fuck you better/more! HA!
him: haha
him: got me
me: of course i did
him: fuck you harder/faster
me: ugh. fuck you longer/hotter? haha
him: sounds good.
me: you know it!
him: you dont know nothing about sex.
me: maybe not.
him: haha you dont
me: is that bad?!?!?!?
him: yes
him: duh
him: these da...
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A friend or a stalker?
Posted Tuesday March 14 2006, 9:48 pm
I have this friend who I met a few months ago. We became almost like best friends (emphasis on almost) until I noticed something..she follows me. If I don't show up for lunch one day she looks around the school for me. If I don't show up to meet with her and our "possy" in the morning one day, she goes everywhere to find me, and this just creeps me out. On top of that, she ALWAYS needs my help with math homework. Always. Whenever I help her, she just says "I don't know how to do it" and when I show her, she scoots so close to me and it makes me feel like punching her. I was doing my homework this morning and said I was busy so she sat there looking at me while I did it.
Anyways, I told another friend about...
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BESTFRiENDLESS.
Posted Monday March 13 2006, 7:46 pm
Alright. So for about three years i had the same best friend. We were really close and nothing ever got in between us. After three years though, i met another girl who kinda took her place. We were best friends for about a year and a half, but then i met ANOTHER girl who also took the place of my other best friend. After a very short time, me and that girl got too much of each other. I really dont know what to do. It's like i can't have a best friend but i always have at least 5 really great ones. Can anyone relate or give advice on how to get used to my best friend's flaws?
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penpal
Posted Monday March 13 2006, 7:24 pm
I was wondering were i could find a penpal (to like talk to through email or aim)
or if any GIRL who types nice would like to be my penpal
(even though the word penpal is pretty stupid more like friend.)
and im 13/f by the way.
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younger guy
Posted Monday March 13 2006, 5:57 pm
eugh
i kow this younger guy (hes nearly 16, im 17)its just so obvious, we are in the same band and he just stares at me and its grosse (sp?)
how can i get him to not like me? i dont wanna tell him to his face cos i think hes got it big :S so yeah any suggestions.
(ps ive tried to distance my self from him but he keeps talkin to me, and we dont go to the same school either)
thank-you x
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bad for her
Posted Monday March 13 2006, 4:44 pm
I have a friend that is going out with a guy who is really bad for her. He has hurt her before. He has sprained my wrist purposely and he is a drug dealer. He deals hardcore stuff; cocaine, crystal meth, heroin, etc. She has done coke in the past and she was beginning to develop a dependancy, but my friends and I helped her to kick it. We think that she has started using again and has probably started with other drugs, too. We've tried talking to her, but she won't seem to listen. Is there any way we can get her away from him? Thanks.
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