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Everything is Changing
Posted Friday March 24 2006, 4:42 pm
Hi, I just moved here from another town about 31/2 hours away and at first things were going really well. But now, the people that I first met and considered my first friends are different. My friend, lets call her "s" was this sweet quiet girl. But she started to hang out with this group of girls that changed her. Now she is loud, obnoxious, and mean. Another girl, used to be independent and strong is becoming preppy and again, really mean. It is so hard to make friends in this town, I tried to join clubs, ect but the are all really cliquey. How should I handle this?
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She is talking behind my back
Posted Friday March 24 2006, 4:33 pm
Hello Friends, thank you for reading this. I have a friend, she was actually one of my first friends here, and I just heard that she was saying things about me behind my back to people that are my friends. Should I confront her about what she is saying?
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my friend's parents..
Posted Friday March 24 2006, 1:33 pm
ok so my friend's parents both have cancer.. well actually the mom just got over it and is still feeling pretty bad and her dad just found of he has a tumer. they have to do surgery, radiation, AND chemo. its really hard for her because a while back i found her outside (at my party) crying and she told me what happened. i dont no what to tell her because its so hard for her. what do i do to comfort her through all of this?
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is there any fixing this?
Posted Friday March 24 2006, 6:59 am
I went to a new highschool this year and in the begining, it was wonderful. I made great friends, was doing well and was elected class preseident. Well, now it's march and things have fallen apart. I said some things i shouldn't have to my friends, without realizing it. I was just informed that most of my class thinks i'm a prep who thiniks she's better than everyone else. I don't know what to do.
for starters i'm not going to say anything mean about anyone because i know i deserver to be mean to right now. but i don't know how to apologize. could you give me some tips to get back on my feet?
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Shes changed so much
Posted Friday March 24 2006, 1:10 am
Ok so me and one of my friends used to be so close, we were really good best friends and se used to be a huge prep and she started to hang around these other people who are emo/goth (i have no problem with emos & goths i have alot of friends who are emo/goth/punk) but now she totally changed and shes not herself at all anymore we used to have so much fun and now we almost never hang out and she gets on my nerves like crazy now! i cant stand her anymore i really want to be friends with her again but i dont know what to do and i CANNOT talk to her about her new friends or about the waay she is now because she get huge attitudes and i really am tired of dealing with them so is there anything else i can do?
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My not so bff
Posted Thursday March 23 2006, 9:07 pm
Well recently my best freind told me that she no longer wanted to be my friend just because i wasnt pretty enough and all most everyone has to disagree with that she also told me i didnt have enough money because i could never go out to the mall movies ect.. very often cuz i never had the money. Then she wrote me a note in class today and said you dont have a good enough body to be my friend im only friends with people that weigh less than 103pounds! SO what should i do to prove to her i am a good person even though i dont have as much money to spend as she does? Should i start skipping meals to loose weight? Should i duble my gumnastics classes i mean i go once a week for 3.5 hours and its really expencive so how do i prove it to her? Please help!!!!!
Alyssa/13/f
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Dealing with Subtle Conflicts
Posted Thursday March 23 2006, 8:40 pm
Well, my problem is that my friends and a few other classmates are hurting my feelings is all... You see, (from what I have heard. Stupid people...grr.) I'm the "top" (riiiight.) in my class. My IOWA test result from last year was only an 84 percentile and it jumped to a 96 this year. I also have good grades and I get good test results. But before this guy, Robert, was the best, so they're not very used to me. So, they're jealous. I could tell because they say scathing remarks to me, scowling, etc.
My friends are doing this too. Ashley, when she sees I have a higher score than her, does this and talks back if I write something she thinks she doesn't like. (ex."You have a big ego!" She got that when my tea...
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My friend's dad
Posted Thursday March 23 2006, 5:41 pm
My friend has gone through a lot lately. Her mom had breast cancer and went through kemo. Now her dad has cancer and has to go through kemo. How can I help her and her family?
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awkward silence!!
Posted Thursday March 23 2006, 5:12 pm
so this problem is really hard to explain, but here goes:
whenever i try and talk to new people, not like boys, just anyone, i always am so shy and dont know what to say. theres always awkward silences... really awkward. and i TRY to acttually have a nice conversation but i just end up being boring. like i never feel like aanyone is interested in me or wants to be my friend. how can i find a solution to this problem, i cant even make new friends!
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Posted Wednesday March 22 2006, 10:03 pm
my friends suck and never invite me over. how do i make new ones?
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a friend
Posted Wednesday March 22 2006, 7:30 pm
Someone who sits next to me in one of my classes ONLY talks about herself. ALWAYS! She'll ask how I am and stuff, and even if I say "Not so good.." she'll say "Oh my gosh! I was crying all last night because Andrew (bf) said he can't trust me and idk what to do." It annoys me so much. And it's all dramatic stuff. One day she's bragging about her huge basket of valentine candy and the next she has red eyes from crying all night.
She came in class one day and said "Omg someone told me to leave and I asked why and they said because I always bring drama to the group and I don't!" How do I deal with this?
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Drifting
Posted Wednesday March 22 2006, 7:17 pm
I have a group of friends at school that I have been hanging out with since Semptember. I have known one of them since last year. We all became very close very fast and I liked that. Lately, however, I have been feeling as if I am drifting father away from them. I don't want this. I want to be close to them again. They went up to one of my friend's cottage without and they spend a lot of time together without me. They have so many inside jokes. I feel really inferior. Does it sound like I am being paranoid? Should I talk to them about it or just leave it alone? How can I become closer with them agian?
Thanks, I will rate high for good answers.
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un healthy freind
Posted Wednesday March 22 2006, 5:49 pm
My freind is on an un-healthy diet. She hasn't told my freinds and I but at lunch she only eats and apple AND she on this website she said she was on a diet. We are worried that she is not eating much. What should we say to her? Should we talk to her?
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How to say it
Posted Wednesday March 22 2006, 5:42 pm
I have this friend who is overweight. She asked a question to me on this website about how to loose weight. The main thing was, she said that her freinds (me and my 2 BFs) always talk about her weight and it hurts her and how should she bring it up with them. Well, I found out it was her. The thing is, we have NEVER EVER EVER talked about her weight. We all knew she was bigger but... well we are going to talk to her about it. What should we say? She said she felt like that had to wear bikinis cause my freind and I did. Basically, what should we say to her?
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I feel ugly because my mate is so pretty
Posted Wednesday March 22 2006, 2:20 pm
My friend is always complaining about her figure and looks and it annoys me because she is one of those girls who have perfect looks skin and figure. I am overweight, not the best looking girl with bad skin and am seriosuly over my age height. I want to make her feel good about herself but she never does and everytime she starts it makes me feel bad about myself. I want her to feel better but when I reassure her she doesnt believe me. I know its wrong but I am scared I will end up like her. I used to like myself but now I have started feeling really depressed about it. Any advice on shutting her up and getting myself back how I was before? I hate the NEW me
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My friend is a different person around men
Posted Wednesday March 22 2006, 5:47 am
My friend and I are both 23 so I wouldnt think this would still be a problem, makes me think of more a problem with teens. But anywhooo. Im married with three kids and my best friends sence 1st grade is still single.
When we go to bars or etc she turns into a total different person. She acts like a ditz and does nothing but through herself at men. Even if they ignore her she still insists that they really do like her. So often she goes home with men she just met and when they dont call her she keeps calling them over and over. Ive tried to tell her the that those kind of men only want one thing and shes wrong for believing differntly. She tells me sence Im married I have no idea what it feels like to be single and looking.
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small breasts
Posted Wednesday March 22 2006, 1:14 am
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my bestfriend sandra has a big problem and my friends and i dont nkow what to do well shes turning 14 she has small boobs she wants them to grow but she dosnt want plasctic surgery everyn 1 teases her tells her omg go get a breasty surgery she wanst them to grow really bad what can she do to grow them because i feel really upset whn she crys :(:(
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Posted Tuesday March 21 2006, 4:53 pm
villy i love ur hair how do you do it like that?its always perfect and i like it what do to it
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"jealous" friend
Posted Tuesday March 21 2006, 2:17 am
well i have this friend, and like most people ive made new best friends. and whenever i talk to them and not him, he "feels left out" i told him that there are a lot of other people that hang around with us, who you can talk to. but he says "he feels left out" of the conversation im in. i mean, i cant stop talking to them just so he's happy. nor can i run around making sure he doesn't feel left out, or make him be involved in the conversation's. if he feels that way, he should involve him self right? well i told him that, and he just isn't having it.
thank you, please give advice, need it badly
p.s then when he feels like that, he goes and tells everyone so that i look bad.
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Copying
Posted Monday March 20 2006, 10:49 pm
I got a friend that copies me and now i think she likes the boy i like.
-Amber
What should i do about the copying and then boy liking? I'm not flattered about it either i shouldn't be.
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