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Friendship
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my friend is a fake


Posted Monday April 3 2006, 9:12 pm

my friend constantly copies everyone, and changes her opinion to match everyone elses. she lies just to be the saem as everyone else. it annoys me SO much, and i hate it. how can i tell her how i feel??

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Which one do I go to


Posted Monday April 3 2006, 7:23 pm

A few weeks ago I told my friend Amy that I would go to a concert with her. It's a battle of the bands and the winner gets a spot on warped tour, and I'm friends with several of the bands who are going to be there. Then today I got an Invitation to my other friend's [Rachel] 16th Birthday party.

When I told Amy that I was planning to go to Rachel's 16th birthday party She got really upset. She wasn't invited and is mad that I would rather go to the party then to the concert.

But Here is my reasoning for going to rachels party:

-She is only going to be 16 once! and I can see these bands anytime
-I didn't even buy the tickets for the concert yet
-I always hang out with amy and I reall...

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my friend wants to go back...


Posted Monday April 3 2006, 5:00 pm

well here is the story..
i met this girl..and she use to go to this school called johnson and thats when i first met her..well she said she might transfer to this school called mounds view where i go. and then i was thinkin ya right like that would EVER happen but guess what it did! she transfered to my school after first quarter..and we are sharing a locker! she is one of my best friends. the only problem is she says she misses johnson and she said her and her family are looking for houses around that area so she can go back there next year since she misses the people and everything. i mean she likes mounds view because me and this other girl are there..and we are her best friends but she still wants to go back to johnson next year....

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Mad friend for NO reason? *i rate


Posted Monday April 3 2006, 4:58 pm

*****I RATE HIGH*****

Hello,
I am a 13 year old girl. I have a Best Friend of 8 years. I love her to death, but she gets mad at me for no reason sometimes. She'll get mad at me, and make me upset in the beginning of the day, and then will talk to other girls about me during the day, then the next morning will act like she didnt do anything to me. Although I am soo hurt inside, and I feel like crumbling up and dieing. She does this constantly. I always try to tell her how I feel about all this but she always yells at me and gets more angry at me. She doesn't know how to except my feelings. She always talks about herself too. Every word from her mouth is about HER HER HER! Everytime I bring something about me, and my li...

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The problem with lumberjacks.


Posted Monday April 3 2006, 3:36 pm

So I have this extremely annoying friend. She always gets into other people's business and just creates more problems. She thinks she is cool and awesome but she's not. She is annoying and pushy. Whenever we whisper something into each others ears she goes insane and asks a hundred times "were you talking about me?" She never shuts up. I really want to ditch her but I feel bad. Like I was extremely close to her in fourth grade but nows she just a nusicance. How can I nicely tell her to leave me and my other friends alone for a while?

P.S- to explain the title she always wears a sweater with a print the lumberjacks wear so my friends call her "Lumberjack Audrey" and "Lumberjack Girl."

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My mums friend.


Posted Monday April 3 2006, 9:58 am

Ok so im 17/f and my mums friend left a message on my phone and i must have told my mum that her friend phoned my fone and then deleted the message and forgot all about it!!Thing is i said to my mums friend ohh no i never got a message because i was ill and i forgot that i gave the message to my mum so i started getting upset about it and crying because i was ill and with her keep shouting accusing me of lieing when i was not it really got to me how shes so loud and in ur face. I got my mum to tell her that i gave the message the thing is she really gets on my nerves shes so demanding and sometimes i feel like shes pulling me away from my mum, What shall i do now i was in the wrong because i got annoyed on the phone to my mums friend and i ...

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Everyone leaves...


Posted Monday April 3 2006, 1:54 am

All my life, every best friend I had has eventually left me. Moving away, losing touch, or a terrible fight has broken us apart. All I've ever wanted was one good friend who would never leave me.

This is my year so far: Met a girl in my new school, became best friends for half a year until she left me for a guy. My old best friend and I fought so he ignored me until we stopped talking. My other best friend became sort of slutty and we stopped talking.

What can I do to find a person I can have a lasting relationship with? How can I tell if our friendship will survive?

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lets be FRIENDS


Posted Monday April 3 2006, 12:54 am

alright i went out with this guy for a month. i was really upset when he broke up with me but im over it now. recentely ive found out he is going out with a girl in middle schhool (were freshman) & for whatever reason that really bothered me. i still sort of talk to him but we had schedule changes. i wanna hang out with him but make sure i dont start liking him again bc itd be more me just wanting someone than wanting him. i know that sounds awful of me but i dont want that to happen. he told me friend that whenever he saw me he was happy so i think he's trying to be a "player" he told my friend that he like a couple girls. how do i keep him as a friend but let him know i dont want anything other than that?

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whats going on w/ him!


Posted Sunday April 2 2006, 9:54 pm

ok so friday my friend tells me my friend who ive known for 3 years likes me. i didnt know what to believer b/c well yea but i mentioned it to my best friend who had been texting w/ him and she asked him if he would go out with me and he said yea but she doesnt like me. so i have choir banquet next month and i decided that i would ask him b/c yea ok i like him and my sister decides to tell his sister and she askes him what he would say if i asked him to choir banquet and my sister gets this text back saying " my dads making him say yes" whats going on! hes told all my friends he likes me and now i hear his dad is making him say yes? can someone please explain this to me? PLEASE!

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I just care about myself?


Posted Sunday April 2 2006, 8:45 pm

Ok well i have a friend who I can talk w/ abou my issues. Me and her go through the same stuff, right? Well, I read one of her and my other friends conversation. She was sayign how she htought she could talk to me about the stuff we're going through but she thinks I onyl talk about myself. And I only care abou myself. what can I do to prove her wonrg and show her that i realy care abotu her too? Thank-you

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fakeness


Posted Sunday April 2 2006, 7:14 pm

uggh i dont even know where to begin. thanks for reading this and trying to help but seriously what youre about to read is alot!

ok so i was going out with this guy last year and i got back together with him this year a few months ago.. well i broke up with him because he wasnt acting like my boyfriend but i still wanted to be friends.

my ex best friend (lets call her bob).. ok i got into a fight with her and i really didnt do anything and she ended up turning everyone against me, we made up a long time after but i found out she was pretty much mad at me for no reason she pretty much picked a fight, well.. theres another girl who was my best friend last year (lets call her billy) and i found out that they made...

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I told her not to tell


Posted Sunday April 2 2006, 4:07 pm

OK, so two of my good friends were going out. Then the girl dumped the guy. The guy is on my bus and he was absolutley devastaded. So my other friend and I were trying to make him feel better. Then my other friend called his exgirlfriend a whore. Last night I told his exgirlfriend about it and now she wants to confront my other friend. I told her in confidence and asked her not to but she said she won't use my name. I know she won't but what if my friend finds out I told her? How can I stop the exgirlfriend from telling her?

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jelousy is taking over!


Posted Sunday April 2 2006, 3:45 am

okay so I have known this girl (my best friend) for years we are both 17 and almost 18 and latley she has been totally ditching me, and this guy I have liked for many years just home because he moved for 2 years and now she tells me she likes him, and whenever we hang out she'll say how she got to spend so much time with him or whatever it really bothers me though what should i do, is she jelous? and also when people give me compliments she tries to tell me that they didn't mean it or it isn't true!! HELP.


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Hanging out


Posted Saturday April 1 2006, 10:59 pm

what are some good things to do with myself(15/ f) and my bf, and my friend and his friend.
we have no money either. lol
thx <3

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aim


Posted Saturday April 1 2006, 3:11 pm

does any of you have aim which is aol names if you do tell me please caus i have it LOL thanks

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my friend's problem...


Posted Saturday April 1 2006, 2:03 am

one of my best guy friends constantly smokes. he is only about 13 or 14, which really makes me sad for him. he said he quit, but he hasn't. i really care about him and am concerned, i've tried getting rid of the cigarette while he was using it, and trying to explain to him that i care, but he is not emotional at all (he doesn't cry over relationships, and not even when his brother died). i would appreciate suggestions on how to get him to quit completely. thanks!

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my freinds hate me


Posted Friday March 31 2006, 9:26 pm

ok to start out with i never had alot of freinds. but now i have like 2. all of my old freinds never hang out with me and they always say stuff about me thats not ture. first they say that they will always be my freind and the next they say that they hateme. i've tried to talk to them but them wont say anything and when they do say something its usely somehting hurtful like your to fat or to ugly. now none of that is ture but htey wont stop and all i want to do is see why they hate me so bad so that i might try to fix that in the weeks to come. i even tryed to leave them alone but then they get even madder and say even worse stuff about me. now i dont want to lose the freinds i already have by changing but if i dont then i get hurt. so what do i do?

-->mandy<--

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my best friend


Posted Friday March 31 2006, 8:47 pm

im 13/f
my 2 best friends are like obsessed with their boyfriends. im single and they think that i dont know what its like to have a boyfriend. i do. lately they have been ditching me for their boyfriends and yeah i understand and all but they think they are in love and everything. yeah and i am jealos and it kinda makes me mad that even when they tell me that i come first they never act like it. i know when they break up there boyfriend they are gonna need me and illbe there for them, but they are just gonna ignore me again. i know i should talk to them about it but how?
thankss in advance xo

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Cutting


Posted Friday March 31 2006, 7:32 pm

I realy realy need some help. My friend has been cutting herself, and i don't know what to do to help stop her. She did stop, when she was dating this guy, she said "he made me feel beautful". I realy realy want to help her, but i don't kno how. I tried to get stop, but she won't listen to me. Also she's not afriad of cutting herself, because one of her friends, friend died from cutting herself, and my friend kno's this. I realy realy want to help her stop. But i don't kno how.
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!

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Friend Trouble!


Posted Friday March 31 2006, 4:11 pm

Sometimes, my friend Liv tends to make a huge deal out of things that don't really matter. It's also hard for me to talk to her because she doesn't talk well, she yells and gets mad and is mean. What can I do?

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