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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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PLEASE HELP


Posted Friday April 7 2006, 3:34 pm

my parents wont let me go to my friend's house tonight!!! they wont let me do anything tonight actually!!! they said that i havent been doing my chores... and he's (my friend) having like everyone over and he really really wants me to come! ='( can someone please tell me a way to persuade my parents to let me go? pleaseee i'll rate really high. and the party's tonight... so i need advice quick!

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cutting


Posted Friday April 7 2006, 2:47 pm

I realy realy need some help. My friend has been cutting herself, and i don't know what to do to help stop her. She did stop, when she was dating this guy, she said "he made me feel beautful". I realy realy want to help her, but i don't kno how. I tried to get stop, but she won't listen to me. Also she's not afriad of cutting herself, because one of her friends, friend died from cutting herself, and my friend kno's this. I realy realy want to help her stop. But i don't kno how. I also think that her mom is to blame, because her mom calls her ugly and fat. But my friend isn't, shes really pretty, and weights only 102, and her weight is dropping. So i can't tell her mom, because her mom won't help....


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Cutting :..(


Posted Friday April 7 2006, 2:36 pm

I realy realy need some help. My friend has been cutting herself, and i don't know what to do to help stop her. She did stop, when she was dating this guy, she said "he made me feel beautful". I realy realy want to help her, but i don't kno how. I tried to get stop, but she won't listen to me. Also she's not afriad of cutting herself, because one of her friends, friend died from cutting herself, and my friend kno's this. I realy realy want to help her stop. But i don't kno how. I also think that her mom is to blame, because her mom calls her ugly and fat. But my friend isn't, shes really pretty, and weights only 102, and her weight is dropping. So i can't tell her mom, because her mom won't help....
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!


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How to make a friend


Posted Friday April 7 2006, 1:48 am

theres this kid in school whos "somewhat" popular becuz hes really good looking. I want to become friends with him but i dont want to just go up to him and say "hi i want to be your friend"..how weird is that..what should i do??

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my ex-bf


Posted Thursday April 6 2006, 9:38 am

My ex-bf is like going out with me friend, and whenever i talk to him, cuz were still friends, i kinda just act like im realy happy for him and her. its getting really annoying but wuts like worse is that theyve already broken up and got back together, now my friend is gonna break up with him again, if i tell him he wont believe me and then he will think im jealous, which i kinda am becuz i still like him alot, but i just need advice on how to handle like them and stuff???

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Blabbermouth


Posted Wednesday April 5 2006, 8:18 pm

13/f
A lot has happened to me: parents have cancer, getting a divorce, was rapped (twice), have depression do drugs, smoke and i told my friend alex and he can relate (depression and sorda my supplier) and i told my BEST FRIEND allie and one more person cuz she said she new ppl who are on drugs and i needed some more..and she told.a bunch of people AND the school councilor alex tells me she was trying to help but ive been getting a lot of questioning lately and i hate it.but then again, i wanted an adult to know, but i dunno if i should be mad at her i mean i AM REALLY PISSED!!!!! but still..PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
much love..

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She's going to get herself raped!


Posted Wednesday April 5 2006, 6:14 pm

OK, so I have this friend Jassy. And she is making a huge mistake. She met a guy over the internet and started dating him. He, of course, lives on the other side of the country. And, being the idiot she has always been, is meeting with him over the summer. Now, if you are willing to travel 3,000 miles across country like he is, you are not 14 like he says he is.

Therefore, my friend, Jessica, and I are trying to convince her not to meet him. Jassy thinks she's safe and can trust him but she can't. Jessica felt the same about her neighbor and he molested her. Her neighbor is someone she's always known. Imagine what someone my friend doesn;t even know could do to her. Jassy keeps saying it can't happen to her. She's just being ...

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party problems..help asap please!!!!!


Posted Wednesday April 5 2006, 5:18 pm

well this weekend one of my good friends invited me to this party. and someone from her old school is havin it--this guy. and i told her i would go already since i promised her i would go to the next one with her...but im scared! because i havent been to much parties before and this time im not gonnna know a single person besides my friend and there is gonna be drinking (that dont matter) but i think my friends "crush" is gonna be there and im scared she is gonna leave me to like go makeout with him or somethin then what am i suppose to do? i wont know anyone and i will look stupid standin there by myself. and i already said but you better not be goin off with andrew (her crush) and she didnt say anything about it so now i dont kn...

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GROWING APART?


Posted Wednesday April 5 2006, 1:08 pm

I Am Sixteen, Female. I Feel Like My Best Friend And I Are Growing Apart. She Doesn't Seem Like She Likes Talking To Me Sometimes. And Sometimes We Don't Know What To Talk About. How Can I Bring Us Back Closer? I Will Rate Fives For Good Answers. Thank You So Much!

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Conversation Starters


Posted Wednesday April 5 2006, 1:07 pm

What are some things you can talk about with your friend? Just conversation starters that normal people would talk about. Nothing like the weather, something that 15 year old girls would talk about. I will rate for good answers! Thanks In Advance!

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Friendship Got Fried


Posted Wednesday April 5 2006, 7:55 am

Ok... sorry its so long but i really need help.

so I had this really close friend for about 2 years now. But recently I got really mad at her and told her I didn't want to be her friend anymore.

She kept saying I was lying about certain people who were my friends and lying about stuff I did and turing my best friend against me. Then I lied once to her... So i wouldn't hurt her feelings... and she automatically thought that everything I had made her realize weren't lies... really were.

I have never lied to her except that one time... and now my other friend treats me weird cause this mutal friend keeps tellin her stuff about me.

She pisses me off SOOOO bad... I would tell her someth...

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mates, money and copying


Posted Wednesday April 5 2006, 6:42 am

Me and my friend (lets call her ellie) are both 13, we both wanted to get the same job but her mum already knew people who worked there so she got ellie a job and now they dont want any more workers. The thing is, ellie will now get about £25 a week from her job plus 8 quid pocket money and the fact that her parents buy her things all the time. I only get a fiver a week, and although you probably think i'm just jealous, what i get annoyed about is the fact that i'll say i really want something (mostly clothes and accessories) and that i'm gonna save up for it, but after ive said that, she goes and buys it for herself straight away cos shes got the money to do it. Then, once ive saved up, if i buy the top or whatever it always looks like ...

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PROM


Posted Tuesday April 4 2006, 10:03 pm

I am a junior and prom is May 13th...apparently it is getting pretty late to get a date. I don't have a ton of friends who are boys - I have some I am friendly with, but only in school & I am pretty sure none would ask me. I would feel silly asking any of them too, I really don't know them well at all. I just don't know what to do, & don't say ask my friends dates for their, because most of them all have dates already too. What can I do?!?!?!?!?!?!

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My friend is talking about me...


Posted Tuesday April 4 2006, 5:24 pm

I have been sick the last two days and haven't gone to school. I heard from one of my other friends that at lunch my friend Becca was talking about me and not saying very nice things, though he wouldn't say specifically what she said. The thing is, Becca nags on me a lot, and she's kind of hypocritical. She thinks she is a lot better than the rest of us, but I don't think it's a conscious thought. She called me last night, and I talked to her like normal, and she was actually nice, and we were laughing and stuff. I wanted to bring it up, but I hate fights and I don't want to make things awkward when I do go back to school and have to sit next to her at lunch. Now, I won't lie, I've nagged on her a few times too, but it seems like lately she...

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why is she all of a sudden mad?


Posted Tuesday April 4 2006, 12:56 pm

okay so i have been working at this job for 2 years now and one of my managers became like my best friend we talked about everything and hung out all the time, and all of a sudden she started being so mean to me and actually made me cry! she wont help me get days off that i need and she talks behind my back well now i have another job but really need both jobs for the money what should i do thatis reasonable should i ignore it because that always is harder to do!! HELP

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how to talk to shy guy


Posted Tuesday April 4 2006, 2:14 am

I know this ex-colleague of mine but not really that close to him. I think i have a crush on him but i dont really know if he likes me at all.

He's confident, witty and a workaholic.

However, he gets shy/uncomfortable, when i ask him simple personal questions for eg: Do you go for swimming. I think he has a problem of talking about himself to new people or just not that friendly.

So one day, i gave him some sweets via his secretary (i didnt really know him that well at that time in office) and he was quite startled and stared at me and waited for me to say something when i bumped at him at the doorway.
He had those puppy eyes..but didnt say word!.
I pretended not to appear interest...

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how to talk to this shy guy


Posted Tuesday April 4 2006, 1:36 am

I know this ex-colleague of mine but not really that close to him. I think i have a crush on him but i dont really know if he likes me at all.

He's confident, witty and a workaholic.

However, he gets shy/uncomfortable, when i ask him simple personal questions for eg: Do you go for swimming. I think he has a problem of talking about himself to new people or just not that friendly.

So one day, i gave him some sweets via his secretary (i didnt really know him that well at that time in office) and he was quite startled and stared at me and waited for me to say something when i bumped at him at the doorway.
He had those puppy eyes..but didnt say word!.
I pretended not to appear interest...

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friends


Posted Monday April 3 2006, 10:05 pm

I'm worried about my friend, she's involved with a guy that makes a fool out of her every chance he gets. i try to tell her that she should just leave him alone but, she wont listen. should i just let her be and sit back while she's being made a fool of?

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whats going on w/ them!!


Posted Monday April 3 2006, 9:59 pm

ok so my weekend started out w/ my friend liking me then ended up w/ him asking my best friend out. he told all my friends that he would date me then when we were talking about it he was like yea i just want to be friends which is fine b/c i like someone else but he put me through all this andthen asked my best friend out its bugging me sooo much not necessarily them just the fact that relationships never work out with me its never really an option and im tired of always feeling like im forgotten by boys or w/e i just dont like feeling like the world is against me please help!

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best buddies?


Posted Monday April 3 2006, 9:54 pm

me and my best friend have been friends for almost 3 years now. this year though we have been fighting more. im moving in a couple months so its kinda sad that are last year together is like this. how do we stop fighting as much??? 13/f

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