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Friendship
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Posted Saturday April 15 2006, 6:18 pm

I think my freind is telling this girl (whom I don't really care for) stuff about me and this guy I like. I can I find out if she is spilling the beans?

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Racism?


Posted Saturday April 15 2006, 2:08 pm

I don't know if this counts as racism, but my friend doesn't really care or know about the difference between Orientals such as Koreans, Japanese, Chinese, etc. It's not that she disses the races but she doesn't get who is who and says "Japanese, Korean, whatever" or "Chinese, Korean, same difference." She also calls me a different race than I am and her family always asks me if I get my stuff from China when I buy my stuff here. I was born in the U.S. and the question really irritates me. I think her dad's the only normal one. She's not Oriental herself but she is Asian. (I don't really want to give anything away because it is probably rude, I don't know). How do I teach her about the differences? I am Oriental but I need some help. Thanks in advance!

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meaning of "jks"


Posted Saturday April 15 2006, 1:05 pm

Hey, I was just wondering what "jks" mean, and when you use it..because I can not find the word on urban dictionary.

Does anyone know?

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Are they bullying me?


Posted Saturday April 15 2006, 11:34 am

I think my two best friends are bullying me! They act like my best friend when its just one of them indivally. but when they're both together with me they call me names and then say its a joke and take the piss otta me.
plz help
Madi
xxxxxxxxxxx

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Are they pressuring me?


Posted Saturday April 15 2006, 5:51 am

My two best friends, have started shop lifting and the other week stole £50 in value each I want them to stop because I don't want them to get caught.
I want to go shopping with them but if they're stealing and they'll get caught I will get in trouble to.
I think they're peer pressuing me to they all telling me to join in and its fun but I really dont want to.........
How can I get them to stop?????
Please help I rate high!!!!!!!

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Don't know what to say


Posted Saturday April 15 2006, 3:44 am

Usually when people talk to me, the first thing I think is more like

"Okay", "That's interesting", or
"That's nice to know."

Not much of an opinion or anything. Bleh... and I don't want to say anything stupid.

What can I do to change that? I don't want people to think I am ignoring them when I don't respond quickly or think I'm stupid if I say something wrong.

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Hurtful Things


Posted Saturday April 15 2006, 12:53 am

Alright. Well. I Found Out In The Beginning Of The Year That My One Friend Alicia Said Something Pretty Hurtful About Me To Our Other Friend Jasmine. Well, Alicia Said Something About My Weight && It Was Mean. I Didn't Bring It Up Then Because I Was Too Embarassed && Stuff. But, Should I Just Forget About It? Or Bring It Up Now (Not Like Get Mad, But Ask Her About It)? Or Is It Too Late && I Just Should Let It Go? I'll Rate && Give Feedback. Thanks!

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Can you say drama much?


Posted Friday April 14 2006, 7:47 pm

Lizzie Gracie and Nermonie are in a big fight. Nermonie and Gracie are on the same side. Nermonie got a hold of Lizzie's diary and photocopied the page that had all the guys she'd love to date on it then made flyers with her biggest secrets and that list and handed them out to everyone in our grade. It didn't stop there. Nermonie and Gracie made a rumor that Lizzie and her sister masterbate together and finger each other. Everytime Lizzie walks down the halls all the guys hold up a finger and say " Hey Liz, we worship you, " or something like " Finger your sister latley? " Its gotten way outta hand. I asked gracie what her deal was, and she said " Nothing, Lizzie didnt do anything. I just dont like her" Lizzie ...

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Let her come over or Not?


Posted Friday April 14 2006, 5:38 pm

So this is a last minute kind of deal, but I have a friend who is supposed to come over. My mom went out for a while, but i have no idea when she is coming back, or any way of calling her. Last time I talked to my mom she said if my friend comes over she'll have to get a ride. My friend found a ride, but I don't know whether I should tell her to come over or not. My mom DID say she could come over.

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if you...


Posted Friday April 14 2006, 4:29 pm

if you like someone but have a bf/gf is it considered cheating? jw.

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WELL......


Posted Friday April 14 2006, 4:18 pm

i met this girl on the first day of kindergarten and i'm in 8th grade right now and we have been best friends since then. over the summer, her dad died and since then she has been hanging out with all these other people but not me. it's not that i'm jealous but i still want to be good friends with her. i am not looking forward to an answer saying "move on cuz she's not a good friend" i'm just still upset about the fact that she just like stopped being my best friend overnight. is there any way to get her to like me more so she'll want to hang out with me more other than talking to her? because she's not the type to sit and listen to what i wanna hear. i'll rate high.

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Smoking


Posted Friday April 14 2006, 6:58 am

Last night I found out a bunch of my best guy friends smoke, drink, and do weed. I broke down cause you never really think it'll happen to you. Me and some of my other friends want them to get help, before its too late. What could we do; ( Annonymously if possible ) ?

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Bisexual outcast...?


Posted Friday April 14 2006, 12:12 am

None of my friends are very...um... supportive of me. I came out to them about being bisexual and now they're freaked. My own brother even treats me different. I used to be against gay relationships to...until I couldn't get girlfriends. I experimented with some guy friends of mine (not sex, just kissing) and it got me aroused. I've dated some guys and those relationships have been just as good as (or better) than the relationships I've had with girls. Since all of my friends are straight, I feel like I should be too. I want to marry a girl, not a guy, but why do I want to date guys and kiss guys? I've even though about sex with another guy. What should I do? How can I sort out my feelings?

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what could i do


Posted Thursday April 13 2006, 5:54 pm

my bestfriend and her boyfriend broke up they have been together for about a year and 2 months or so.. she's really down about it.. what could i do to cheer her up?

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why won't she just tell me?


Posted Thursday April 13 2006, 5:48 pm

I was at my friends house awhile ago i live right next to her.. well anyways we was sitting there watchin tv then she said she was going to sleep then she kept looking to see if i was still there when she looked asleep I went home and got on here and now she is on the internet like 2 minutes after i get on..Why won't she just tell me she don't wnat me there.. i mean dang it hurts more worst when she just lies to me..

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Posted Thursday April 13 2006, 8:22 am

Okay well I'm 13 and I'm in the 7th grade and I'm worried about my friend. Okay shes pretty much drop-dead gorgeous and could get any guy she wants. Well I mean she's not like a slut or anything (Okay she kissed her ex boyfriend(corey) 4 times he was her first kiss ... and then shes made out with her current boyfriend once. ).

Anyways she has had family problems. She has two little sisters and they get favored and her mom pretty much yells at her 24/7 and ignores her all the time.

Then recently, about 2 weeks ago, she went to her neighbors house(AJ) and Corey was there. Well Corey grabbed her and she was sitting on him ..., hes like really muscular so she couldn't get away, anyways Corey started rubbing her...

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I DONT CARE!!


Posted Tuesday April 11 2006, 9:29 pm

i have this friend named sarah. except i dont think shes my friend anymore and heres why: me and sarah have been friends for quite a few years. but this year theres a problem. all of a sudden sarah becomes literally OBSESSED with this girl named marie. now dont get me wrong, im not one of those girls that gets jelous when my friends have new friendds but... sarah like gives me and my other friend alyssa the details on every moment of marie's life. this is the typical coversation sarah has with us at the lunch table: "OMG, marie is going out with nick! omg i am soo happy! she always liked him! marie is so good at getting boys!" or "MArie calls me up all the time and tells me about nick. oh yeah and we watched a video together ...

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What Does This Mean? (Please Please Help!!!!)


Posted Tuesday April 11 2006, 4:51 pm

Ok, its not that urgent, but I just wanted to ask, ok, I am one of those people who think that dreams are sometimes like, a sighn, or a prediction. Well, latley I have had dreams about my ex-friend. She was nice at first, then she turned into a total brat, and now we hate each other. Anyways, about the dreams, one of them we became like, best friends again, another I called her and tried to appolagize and become friends again, and another she was at my best friends house. I dont know what this means! Please help me out!

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sleepover


Posted Tuesday April 11 2006, 11:43 am

I'm having a sleepover soon, its not a big one or anything, only a couple of friends. Its just, they're new girls at school and i dont know them very well, so i dont want it to be awkward. Does anyone know any good things to do at sleepovers so we wont get bored?

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lost ???


Posted Monday April 10 2006, 10:20 pm

im 13 and ive lived in the same small town all my life.i know everyone.i want something diffrent.i want to move.but then id be leaving my friends and ive asked my parents abput moving and they say there planted here,and why get rid of somthing good.i want to leave and see more things in my life.i feel lost and that im needed somewhere else. i dont know who i am and i think that if i move that ill find what im looking for but i dont know what im looking for.ive lived here and ive done my deeds now someone else needs me.carolyn my friend says that god needs me and if i dont fallow my heart then i wont ecomplish on earth what god put me here for.i dont really know what im feeling and how do i stop it


katie plzzzzzzzzz help me

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