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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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A girl who lied about someone.


Posted Saturday April 22 2006, 11:52 am

I know this girl who asked someone out..but he said no. She got all mad and started telling lies about him. When we asked her why she did that she said she was jk but we all new she was lying. she told almost EVERYONE. None of us no what to do about her..And when we try to talk to her..she ignores us then walks away and doesnt talk to us. what should we doo!??

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is she really my friend??


Posted Saturday April 22 2006, 10:17 am

well i had this friend lets call her L for a long time and she really used to be my best friend untill this other girl lets call her G came along! then she became my best friend cause L left me for a nother girl lets call her S anyways and why should i be all alone then? and me and L still were friends but she started lieing to me all the time like once i had this crush on a guy named M and than L told me that M told her something about me that she cant tell me! and now 2 years later she told me she was just kidding! and then she told me a guy named H told her he loved me and that was also a lie and she told me that 2 month later! and then there is this other guy named J and L told me that he was looking at me all the time when he was looki...

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Pathetically petty


Posted Saturday April 22 2006, 9:00 am

Yet, I still find myself caring.

I used to go to language school early last year with this guy I met there and we spoke a bit then I left and we spoke sometimes on MSN. Well tonight we were talking and he basically joked "What's a hot sexy girl like you doing alone" and I asked if he really meant that, and he said then I wasn't hot and sexy at all, and I would be if I wore a bit more makeup. I felt very upset by this comment and got mad at him and called him a whole lot of names, and said I was only nice to him because I felt sorry for him, blah blah blah. I didn't mean a word I said.
Well he just emailed me, not apologizing or anything, but saying he was upset by what I said, and that its true i wasn't the ...

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more than friends???HELP!


Posted Saturday April 22 2006, 4:08 am

well i like this boy but he has been telling people were going out and ive been ok but he kissed me should i stay or leave? help?!

FEMALE

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Did I do the right thing?


Posted Friday April 21 2006, 10:48 pm

My best friend has been kind of mad at me for a while now. Not like angry pissed off and doesn't talk to me; just kind of like hurt, upset, can't talk to me. I asked him to tell me what I did and he wouldn't. He's been kind of mean to me (well I think he's being mean but I know it's just because of whatever I did) and I really couldn't stand it. I've known him almost all my life and I can't have him act this way towards me and not tell me why.


So today I went to his house and told him that I'm sure he has a good reason and whenever he wants to talk to me about it I'll be there but until then, I don't think I can be friends with him. He told me that he just couldn't talk to me about it just yet and that he understood t...

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He got dumped


Posted Friday April 21 2006, 6:11 pm

One of my best boy mates (lets call him adam) was going out with this girl (lets call her Tia). I had known Tia for a long time before Adam met her, but she asked him out, and they were inseperable.
What I hadn't told Adam was that Tia seems to use boys a bit, as soon as someone else comes along, she dumps her current boyfriend. I couldn't just go and tell him, they were so happy together and I didn't want to spoil anything.
Recently, Tia met this other guy (lets call him sean), and dumped Adam straight away. I can't believe it, cos Adam is so sweet and kind, i suppose he can easily get walked over though.
He treated her better than any other guy did.
Its just, he's so devestated, and I want to know how to make him cheer up. So, anyone got any ideas?

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is it possible to get pregnency on oral sex


Posted Friday April 21 2006, 2:18 pm

I had oral sex with my bf where he has played on with his figers, and it now i have missed out my periods the last time i had periods is on 3/04/06.
what i am worried about is i had an injuction by which i must get the periods in one hour after i had but its already 38 hours. i am very tensed on that help me out plz

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my friends


Posted Friday April 21 2006, 2:11 pm

I'm 14 & a girl in the 8th grade. And like this year i've lost A TON of my friendships w/ the girls in my grade. I get like excluded out of alot of things.. but i kind of did it to myself. Last year all the girls in my grade annoyed me SO MUCH i couldnt take it, i started becoming good friends w/ the guys, and the kids in the grade above me. If i needed any help in school or in anything i would call my guy friends, and if i wanted to hang out w/ someone i would call the girls in the grade above me. over the summer i barly hung out w/ the girls in my grade. i lost all of their trust after they started talking behind my back and stuff the year before. So i kind of didnt care. Then this year. I was even more annoyed w/ them & hung out ...

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Friends who think they are cool.


Posted Friday April 21 2006, 12:38 pm

My 2 best friends [who arent even that good of friends with each other] went out last night with a few guys and this girl who are considered cool. My friend invited me to go, but I didnt want to because i wasnt exactly invited by the others. So my best friend went and asked my other friend, and they went and had a BLAST. they then had a sleepover afterwards and couldnt stop repeating how FUN it was. It got me pretty pissed, and they left a message on my fone saying that they didnt think we could be friends anymore because we get in to many fights? Im not sure if they were kidding but I dont know what to do. My friend is really not that social, but over AIM last nite she basically told me that she was sooo cool becuase she is friends with them and im not. what do i do. i need advice.

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Ex's New Relationship


Posted Friday April 21 2006, 9:06 am

I am over my ex, and I have fallen hard for another guy. We have been broken up for over 4 months, (we were together for almost 3 mons., and saw each other all the time at school+outside) but it doesn't feel like it has been that long ago since we have broken up. Even though I'm over him, is it normal to want to avoid watching him move on? I haven't started dating anyone yet so that may be one reason. Plus, it's not really the girl he has moved on with even though she is completely different from me. I just want to know if anyone has felt this way too, and how to deal with it. Why is it hard to watch him date someone else when I'm over him and I know I have no future with him (nor do I want to)? Plus the fact that I have fallen for someone else. 17/f

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best guy friend


Posted Thursday April 20 2006, 8:14 pm

15/f. my best guy friend recently admitted to me that he has a major crush on me. however, i see him as a brother (and he has remarked that he still sees me as somebody that he can talk to). he and i have talked about how we're always going to stay friends, even if we have feelings for one another because we have a really good friendship. he also asked me if i'd like to go with him to a banquet next year as friends, and i said yes. my only concern is that now things are going to be awkward between us. how can i let him know that it's perfectly fine with me if he likes me, and how would you feel if you were in his position?

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Dance :]


Posted Thursday April 20 2006, 7:16 pm

Ok as corny and stupid as this may sound.
I have a banquet on Saturday where we dress in formal and afterwards we dance.

Ok here's my problem, I can't dance. And I especially do not know how to ask my best guy friend to dance without it being akward. :|

Any ideas?


[Sorry if this is in the wrong category]

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friday nightt ):


Posted Thursday April 20 2006, 5:15 pm

ok so.. theres this school dance tm which i kinda told my friend "Lucy" that i would go to. but i don't want to go anymoree. it's going to be so lame, no one's going and she'll just be w/ this other girl the whole time anyway. the reason she wanted to go was bc of this guy, and now he's prob not even giong. the same night is this dance at an all boys school that would be SO much more fun to go to (if you have tickets) or i would just rather hang outt. the dance is going to suck though i think - what should i say to lucy? should i just suck it up and go (would it be to mean for me not to)? or should i tell her ... ? thanks ill rate 5s. <3

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whats wrong? am i WEIRD?


Posted Thursday April 20 2006, 2:44 am

well i have asked a question on how i can be more outgoing cause its affecting my ability to be able to make friends. well i try to be interesting but no one seems to like me. like i see people in the halls at school saying "want to come over my house" or "Want to go bike riding" no one ever asks me that, is it because i'm boring? what can i do to make people want me as their friend? and how can i keep friend? i am really desperate for help. :( i have like one kind of best friend and she never even asks me to do stuff! she doesnt even invite me to her parties! and please dont say "why dont you ask THEM"

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friend who cuts


Posted Thursday April 20 2006, 2:04 am

im 13/f and ive been getting really close with this guy in my grade, like friend ship close. and hes been opening up to me and told me he cuts and i cut to. so weve been talking and im really afraid and i want to stop him from cutting but i dont know what to do.. any suggestions??

oo and theres another problem with this guy.. people have been telling me that we should go out because we talk on the phone for hours and we know each other inside and out, but hes hung up on this one girl like really really hung up on her but shes totally wrong for him and we both know that. is there any way i can help him get over her?

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I don't know where it's going from here.


Posted Thursday April 20 2006, 12:43 am

My best friend, we can call her H, just told me she was bi, and now has a girlfriend. Now don't get me wrong, i have no problem with her being bi, it's just i'm soo weirded out, because 2 months ago, she was grossed out about people being Bi, and said she'd never be it. Now yesterday she was confused if she was bi or not, and today shes "sure" she is and she has a girlfriend.

I'm just so weirded out by it, and i don't know why.

Any ideas what could be my problem, it's kind of sad i don't even know what i'm feeling, maybe this situation was the same with someone else? if so, please help. Thanks.

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my best friend drives me insaine!


Posted Thursday April 20 2006, 12:32 am

ok i have this friend named Gen.i've been friends with her for about 4 years. we use to do everything together because my parents were literlly gone or to busy for me. anyways, she says i get angry over everything. i let her read a poem of mine and she said " i dont like it." i got upset but didnt say anything then shes like" you always told me to give truthfull anwsers" i then ignored her afraid to say something i'd regret. then today i was in a hurry, i got my lunch and she was standing their and because my hands were full i asked her to sign me out so i could finish a project. she said "no" i asked "why?" she said it wasnt her job. and when ever i ask a question she ignores me, but she says she did...

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Hurt.


Posted Wednesday April 19 2006, 11:26 pm

Okay, me and this girl W used to go to the park by my house all the time. Then she gotta boyfriend so yeah. I gotta new friend, V, and we go all the time now. Now there's boys at the park, and one of them told me they all don't like V. And he said why don't I start taking W with me again. I asked why and he said cause they all like her more & she's more fun. Now, I don't know if I'm overreacting but I was so hurt by this. It's like they're using me to get to W. Seriously, now me and W look pretty much the same, both chubby, I'm bigger though. I'm way prettier than her though, I don't care if I sound conceited. I'm just hurt that they like used me as a friend to get me to bring her to see them. Wtf is that. And I told one of them, "...

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Cuttin


Posted Wednesday April 19 2006, 10:16 pm

i gotta cutting problem im 15 and a gurl and a few of my friends are getting mad at me for it. ITs so hard not to cut though like when im cuttin i dont even care cuz im so mad and its gotton really bad. Like im afraid that one of these times im gonna get so madd im gonna end up killing myself cuz its like i just dont care but the next day i really regret doin it. I'v tried everything i could think of to stop but nothing works. SO my question is does anybody know ways to stop cutting

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my best friends are complete weirdness right now


Posted Wednesday April 19 2006, 9:36 pm

14/f. jonathon, my best guy friend, has been acting like a jerk to me the past few weeks. i got mad about it, and we kind of stayed away from each other for a few days. he and i were really close before then and told each other everything. as soon as jonathon and i quit talking for awhile, sarah, my other best friend, started hanging around him and he apparently "replaced" me with her in the sense that he began to tell her everything and stuff (his "depressing" life story and the big part that i played in it). so last night jonathon and i resolved our issues, and he told me that there's no excuse for the way he's been treating me, but the only reason that he's been weird is that he has a major crush on me and kind o...

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