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my friend.
Posted Monday April 24 2006, 7:18 pm
sorry if its long. =/
Well my BEST FRIEND moved really far away about 2 years ago. We have still managed to stay very close. We only see each other once or twice a year though. Lately i feel liie she is forgetting about me. I feel like I am being replaced for her frinds down there. I mean i want her to make friends but i still want to be friends with her too. She never calls anymore so I end up calling her and she always says she cant talk and she'll call me back, but never does. So i stopped calling her just to see if she would stop and think that she hasnt talked to me in a while and should call or sumthing. It hasnt happend. I havent talked to her for about a week. So heres my question. Am i being totaly selfish about this? If so ...
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WHY DO I "NEED" TO TALK TO HIM???
Posted Monday April 24 2006, 6:33 pm
14/f. My BEST guy friend is Taylor. We tell each other everything and he is the only guy that I can call up and have a real converstation with. A few days ago he told me that he likes my best friend, Rachael. Ever since then, I've been VERY protective of him. If he's talking to Rachael, for example, I'll pull him away just so that I can talk to him. Or if he's not talking to me for just a second I feel rejected. I know that I don't like him because thats not what I'm feeling. We're just friends but why do I feel like I "NEED" to talk to him all the time?
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really confused
Posted Monday April 24 2006, 6:17 pm
i used to feel so at home when i hung out with friends. i had plenty. but ever since i moved things have really changed and i feel like ive done something wrong and they all hate me, i don't want things to be this way, i really don't know what to do. i feel like i don't have anybody to lean on
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friiend being mad part 2 ..
Posted Monday April 24 2006, 4:44 pm
Do people not liike it when you`re sappy like, "i`m really s0rry, i knoe i was wrong" if they`re mad at you. do they look @ it as sucking up? i asked a question earlier on this site. i`ll rate for g0od answeres. &♥; day`na
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when a friiend`s mad ..
Posted Monday April 24 2006, 4:05 pm
When you`re friend is mad @ you, is it best to say sorry // talk to them online, in person 0r does it matter? also is it best to give them time to cool down so they`re not as mad or what .. i will rate for answers. anything`s useful. thanks! <3 &♥; day`na
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im being kinda left out & hurt.
Posted Monday April 24 2006, 3:10 pm
One of my best friends in school is in my science class. since the beginning of the year whenever we had to do labs we would be partners, and most of the time we get good grades.
Now, my best friend is starting to be friends with another girl -- shes nice & funny and all, but she is always fooling around. My friend is now partnering up with her alot and it kind of bothers me (pure jealosy. i know). We have a project that is due in 6 weeks, we can work alone, or with 1 or 2 other people. i was offered to work with them, but i dont want to work with her because i know if i dont do good on labs & science my grade will drastically drop. i dont think that i can work well with her cause she wont be able to focus.
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Should I forgive, forget, fight och fuck it?
Posted Monday April 24 2006, 3:08 pm
I have this friend...Or I wouldn't call her a friend anymore..and we have had this hudge fight. All because of a guy! Fredrik is his name. He is my friends friend. I liked him, asked my friend if it was okay for me to go out with him. She said she was totally okay with it. But it turned out she liked him too. She didn't tell me though. I found though text messages on Fredriks cellphone. I got so mad. Mostly because she didn't tell me and giving me a hard time when going out with him. She was always the third wheel. It was so annoying!
Then there was this one time she got reallt mad for me hooking up with him, I didn't get why. I did ask her if it was because she likes him, because then I would back off, but she said no. So I keept o...
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Shes really starting to get on my nerves!!!
Posted Monday April 24 2006, 3:03 pm
theres this girl in my class and shes so concited and shes always saying how cute and skinny and pretty she is and the thing is that shes not she's mad ugly and shes not cute and her belly hangs out her shirts and ppl think shes so "hot" what she say... im soooo close to snapping at her and just telling her off and just telling her like it is each day i have to bite my lip not to say n e thing but i know its gonna come out..what would be the best thing to do?
and its hard to ignore it i tried it wont work
help me figure this out before i end up telling her off
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Best Friendship Slipping
Posted Monday April 24 2006, 2:45 pm
I used to be best friends with this girl. I mean we were so tight, knew each other so well, and had so many good times, the kind of times you laugh you hard you are crying and can't breathe. At the same time I was good friends, but not best friends, with other people, especially this one other girl. I guess at the same time I was becoming really close to my now best friend, she was becoming really close to her boyfriend, his best friend (the guy I like), and this other girl. Almost everything was all about them, but I dealt with it for as long as I could knowing that my new best friend was there for me to complain to. While this wasn't the best situation, it worked until one day when I completely snapped. I started yelling at her and callin...
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stuff to do with mates
Posted Monday April 24 2006, 11:46 am
Well, about 3 weeks ago, me and my girl mates met these 4 boys at a fair, and were haning out with them all the time while we were there, they seemed to like us.
The week after we had all arranged to meet in town for lunch and shopping.
Last weekend we went to the cinema with them.
Its good because we're all hanging out together, and beginning to be good mates, it's just I was wondering what else we could do with them? Cos we want to keep hanging out with them and we dont wanna keep on doing the same old same old.
Also, I wondered if we need to hang out with them every weekend to stay mates with them? And i fancy one of them, do you think its good that I hang out with him every weekend?
Or would he prefer ...
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go with a friend and potentially upset another friend?
Posted Sunday April 23 2006, 11:32 pm
Ok, this is a pretty unique situation, I doubt someone's been in it before, but here we go:
my friends G (a boy) and K (a girl) are friends from college, who I hang out with occasionally and we always hang out in between classes and stuff because we all have the same major. So we are not best friends, but we are pretty good friends.
well, G and K had a thing for each other... they have been very good friends for about a year and a half, and officially dated for about a week... lol although they acted like a couple the whole time they've known each other (minus the physical stuff). The reason they didn't actually date is because G (the guy) changed his mind and decided to keep the friendship. Well since then, th...
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A friend who copies constantly
Posted Sunday April 23 2006, 10:17 pm
I've been friends with this girl since the beginning of 8th grade - we're in 9th now. She's friends with most of the same people as me and we're pretty close. Last year she did what she wanted to do and didn't really care what others thought. Now, she's started copying my sayings, my interests, all of my music, my books, absolutely EVERYTHING. And also, one of our other friends got her hair cut short a bit ago and the copying girl just went out and chopped all of her hair off too. This annoyed both me and the girl who got her hair chopped off first.
I've tried everything - ignoring it, not talking about my interests, asking people for advice - but nothing works. I need to make her realize that she needs her own identity...
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Friends
Posted Sunday April 23 2006, 6:19 pm
I started at a highschool with no friends going with me. I have some great new friends, but sometimes i feel like they dont really like me as much as other times. I try to to stuff with them, and sometimes they will say that they're busy, and other times i'm not invieted to do stuff with them that i know is a group thing not just 2 people. What should i do to see whether they really like me and how should i try to be more included. ps i am a 14 year old girl
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just confused!!!
Posted Sunday April 23 2006, 3:47 pm
Okay this boy i've asked him if he liked me he said yea kind of that sort of thing so i asked would you ever go out with me he said oh sure yes but he said u can't or something because of his friends but what i don't get is he went out with this girl who was way shy and quiet and im very energetic and stuff so could his friends be an excuse to him not going out with me????
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BFF vs. BF
Posted Sunday April 23 2006, 2:28 pm
My best friend is a guy. We have no feelings for eachother & we're really close. The guy I'm dating, gets extremely jealous. He says that we secretly like eachother and it's hard for him to accept me being best friends with another guy. Also, they absolutely hate eachother. How do I work this out? I can't just sit them both down and talk, that will in no way workout. Is there a way I can atleast make them tolerate eachother for my sake?
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night turns into trouble
Posted Sunday April 23 2006, 10:44 am
last night i was with my friend. my best friend. i mean me and her are like really tight.. anyway, she has a boyfriend and we met some guys the night before and they invited us to the movies. so we went and last night her and this one guy are like making out. you know its making out, so whatever. but then he started feeling on her and then they got to third base! she hardly even knows this guy.. and i guess im kind of jealous. but hardly. i mean the guy was pretty hot.. and i wouldnt mind being with him but i wouldnt let him finger me! i mean she has a boyfriend!! and like it kind of makes her seem like a whore.. but me and her boyfriend are pretty good friends and i know if i had a boyfriend and he cheated on me i would've been pissed. now...
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Friend problems. Not sure how to talk to them sometimes
Posted Saturday April 22 2006, 5:55 pm
Here's the story. I'm 13/F and I am like the only girl in my school who isn't obsessed with guys. Like, I get crushes and things but I'm not obsessed with guy watching or finding a boyfriend, or getting my first kiss. I feel like it's better to let things just happen instead of pressuring yourself to have it happen because then you might go after just about anyone. I'm also not into make-up and clothes. I don't wear any make-up, except cover up under my eyes to cover dark circles. And don't get me wrong, I like shopping, but I don't love it, and I think talking about clothes and make-up is pretty frivolous and unimportant, and a bit annoying. My weight is the next problem. Alot of my friends are always concerened about their weight and they...
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I Hate Social Life....
Posted Saturday April 22 2006, 5:01 pm
I have no friends i sit at home day after day doing nothing...i cant make anyfriends because there is literally nobody to make friends becasue i live in a extremely small town with an extremly small school and they all already have there own clicks and wont allow anyone in:S and all my people i hang out with are rude and take advantage of me...what should i do!
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Posted Saturday April 22 2006, 4:18 pm
So this girl who was suposed to be my BESTFRIEND ratted on meh and my closest friends for drinking. Now I lost my best guy friend in the world and im never aloud to talk or see him again. my parents have a restraining order on him and Its killing me because I love him so much and would do anything for him..
Im not sure weather I should forgive my so called "bestfriend" or not...
what do yu think i should do?
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I hate her crush!
Posted Saturday April 22 2006, 12:55 pm
My best freind likes this kid. He likes her back. Well, me and him argue about stupid things alot and he bugs the heck out of me! He's just so annoying and will yell at me online and stuff. He's a year younger then us. He is considered "gay" in his grade. Well, I also think he is two timing her for this girl in his grade. There was this dance last night and he was with her dancing with her the whole time! My freind likes him so much though. Should I talk to her about it or should I talk to the guy about it.. but I know he will tell my freind. Should I keep it to myself?? Plese help!
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