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my best friends boyfriend
Posted Wednesday May 3 2006, 6:50 pm
my bestfriends boyfriend is an ok guy i actually used to have a crush on him like a year ago but eversince theve been going out she never has time for me when shes over my house shell talk 2 him on the phone it gets annoying wat should i do HELP!!!
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Friend with many problems...how to help? idk?
Posted Wednesday May 3 2006, 12:10 am
So.. my friend, whom we'll call stacy, and her boyfriend, whom we'll call sean is what this is about i think. Not so much with sean..but i could be wrong. Stacy for the past 2 months, i just found out has been throwing up her food , and lately she can't hold it down..its a natural thing now, and because she does this, she cuts herself, and cutting herself makes her eat..its a vicious cycle. She wants to tell her mom, but her pregnant sister ran away and her mom is under a LOT of stress, so she doesn't want to put that load on top of it. She knows she has a problem, and i want to help her. But i know i can't do it by myself, she's stubborn. Would it be okay to talk to our schools couselor about this? thanx for any thing you can help w/. Oh, ...
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Birthday
Posted Tuesday May 2 2006, 9:25 pm
My friend's birthday is coming up. She'll be 15. I asked her what she wanted and she said she wants me to kiss her (we aren't going out). I only see her once a day at school and we just hug, say hi, and go eat at our different tables. She said she wants me to kiss her on the lips. When and how should I kiss my friend?
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Friend or not?
Posted Tuesday May 2 2006, 5:58 pm
Ok so I've known this girl since like second grade and I feel like she wants to ditch me and hang out with a new group of friends. What should I do? I have other friends, but it seems like if she had the choice to pick them or me, shed pick them. I've tried to talk to her about it but all she says is that I ma her best friend and that they are her friends, sometimes I don't believe it, even though i want to. Please help because this situation has been happening for over two years now and I've just about had it! Will rate 5's if you help!
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a year ago
Posted Tuesday May 2 2006, 5:37 pm
Hi,
I'm 14/f and well...
I am not sure how to start. Let's say my "friend" wink wink, was persuaded to go to her best friends (male/16) house - because he said he 'needed help fixing a computer in his basement'. Her parents were out, and they weren't answering the cell phone. She figured 'Hey, it will only be for a few minutes'. So she rode her bike there (he lived just a few blocks away). Let's also say her friends parents weren't home either.
Well the boy and her had been best friends for about 3 years now, because they had a lot in common. My friend thought she knew him very well, but obviously not. Once they were in the basement, he tried to seduce her. She was not into him, because...
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My friend is a mythomaniac (compulsive liar)!!
Posted Tuesday May 2 2006, 2:46 pm
Hi!
I don't know what to do anymore! I know my friend is lying. I have proof against it! I have confronted him and still he denys it all! We just had a big fight today over it.
I'm just worried because he is loosing friends because of the lies. He has already lost me. I don't trust him anymore. Nobody trusts him!
What should I do??
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Bossy Lady
Posted Monday May 1 2006, 7:58 pm
Well I have a friend who is extremly bossy. I have tried talking to her about this but that didn't work. I have actually talked to her more then once. I noticed she doesn't only boss me around she bosses everyone around. The other day she was bossing her mom around a little even. I don't know how to tell her to stop and still be nice. I don't want to turn this into a fight. I love her but I am not going to be bossed around. I have started not doing anything she "demands" me to. But she still does. Please help!!!!!
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PREGNANT!
Posted Monday May 1 2006, 6:46 pm
my best friend bethany iz 12 and had SEX with a 14 year old and might be pregnant she asked me to help her but i dint know what to do!-H-E-L-P- PLZ
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my bf and bff
Posted Monday May 1 2006, 6:35 pm
my best friend katelyn went out with sam and sam broke up with her to go out with me and she threatend to kill herself but she is over that now and going out with a 15 year old and is only 12 but i am afraid to tell her that me and him are going out she might never talk to me again for lying to her because i told her we were not going out!
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WEIRD friend =/
Posted Monday May 1 2006, 6:28 pm
ok so ive known this one girl, well call her edna, for pretty much my whole life. shes my neighbor and we became friends like just *neighbor friends* not really at school, but in like third or 4th..or 5th grade she started hanging out with my friends and i and everything. it was ok like we all had fun together but in the last couple years shes gotten really weird and annoying and mean. for example, she has this really weird laugh..yeah i sound really mean i think but im not even kidding..ok so her nose goes up and shell be trying to flirt with a guy and theyll like turn away when they hear her laugh and its embarrasing becasye shes like wierd and were friends with her. then shell like dis-include herself..yeah i just made up that word...but...
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real friends?
Posted Monday May 1 2006, 5:32 pm
so theres this girl in my class who used to be my best friend in elementary school. of course im 13 and we're in 7th grade now. so anyways sometimes shes really nice to me and we have a good time together.. but lately shes been hassling me about my clothing? idk probably just becase i dont buy everything from abercrombie. i have some stuff but i have mostly a variety of clothing brands. so today i had this new outfit which was really cute, and she kept giving me this horrible look and asking me questions about it.. and then she was talking about me becuz of my clothes? i have no idea what this girls problem is, but right now i dont know if i should still be her friend or if i should ignore her..
5's for any answers =]
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bragging friend
Posted Monday May 1 2006, 4:37 pm
one of my bff has been getting on my nerves recently. she is a c-cup and im an a-cup. i could really care a less about boob size tho. but shes always bragging about how big her boobs are and how skinny she is. like if a girl gets hit in the chest area it hurts no matter what, but if in gym or something i get hit there she'll be like "what boobs." and she always brags about her "perfect" figure. personally i dont think she has the perfect figure or good looks but why does she brag so much? i told her a million times that lifes not about boobs and when me and her hang out the boys are all over me not her.
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big fight
Posted Sunday April 30 2006, 10:28 pm
oaky well me and my bff just got into a huge fight. she asked my one friend if he was Catholic and he said *no im Christian* and she got really upset and called him an effing prejudice. i asked her why and everything escalated and now we arent talking. we got into this big fight about stereotyping and religion. i guess i blew the fight a little bit out of proportion but so did she. now i dont know what to do, i want to keep on tlaking to her but i think its gonna be awkward and we said some mean things, ahh what should i do?
im not going to apologize first bc i didnt really start it.
thanks
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Barn Snobs, Or Just Snobs In General
Posted Sunday April 30 2006, 5:21 pm
Well, I'm a horseback rider and I'm at the barn AT LEAST 3 days a week. Most of my barn "family" are the coolest people in the world, but there's one girl who I can't stand. A while ago, we were both at a show and I gave my mare on her lead rope to my mom so I could go get a brush. At the time, this girl's mare was no where near mine, but she had to get ready for her class so she led her towards mine. My mom didn't see the girl's mare and let my mare back up. Well, my mare kicks and she kicked this girl's mare hard. Luckily, her mare was fine, but my mare had a cut. My friend and I tended to it and everything was fine, but this girl won't let me live it down, even though I wasn't even there when it happened. The other day at the b...
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Should I try to forget her? or should i try to stay friends?
Posted Saturday April 29 2006, 12:48 pm
Im 16 years old , grade 11, ive known a gurl named teshia for 3 months , met her thru a mutual friend, she was goin out witta guy cory for 9 months, and i thot she was very pretty, and seemed nice, we started saying hi once in a while, then we started calling eachother, soon enuf we were best friends and talkd for hours atta time evry nite and went out to a bunch of places, i made her the happiest shes bin in her life 4 times in those 3 months, but for the last month i really started to fall for her, i loved her, her and cory didnt havva good relationship,he ignored her lots, called her once a week, did sumthing with her twice a month,they fought alot bout me because shed say oh aj does this for me why cant you , i hated cory because he mad...
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my best friend.. sorry its long
Posted Saturday April 29 2006, 11:39 am
I am mad at my best friend. I don’t want to be but I am. She has a new friend that I don’t know I guess I like her and I’m fine that they are friends and all. But lately shes been ditching me for her other friend. We were supposed to hang out and she ditched me. she has ditched me twice in the last week for her. Now she is doing cheerleading with her, and before she started being friends with her new friend she used to tell me how she would never do it. shes changing a lot. I know I cant live without her because she has always been there for me and she knows more about me then I know about myself and vise versa. we are “not friends anymore” and its killing me. to tell you the truth all I really want from her is an apology and I gu...
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She likes the guy I like.
Posted Saturday April 29 2006, 10:30 am
Okay, so there's this guy, he is SO cute, we've been friends all this year. And I fell in love with our friendship.
Silly as it sounds. But I like him, ALOT! He sometimes calls me at night, and one time, he wanted to meet me at the mall and watch a movie. (May I add, he doesn't know I like him.)
Okay, during school, my very close friend, talks about my crush ALL THE TIME. It kind of bothers me cause she says all this stuff like, "Oh, he keeps poking me in the arm, and told me it was a 'Love Tap'" I got pretty sad when she told me this. (Also, may I add, I told her I liked him before she even told me this.)
Last night, she told me that she 'kind of' likes my crush! To be honest, I wasn't...
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so called "best" friends
Posted Friday April 28 2006, 11:12 pm
all of my best friends have boyfriends and theyre always so busy with them that i get left out of everything. theyve stopped being such good friends we dont really talk much and when i do they dont listen. its really stressful and i dunno im not jealous of them im happy they have someone but shouldnt they still care about me? they dont know what its like to be in my situation and when i try to explain it to them they just shut me out. what do i do?
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4 WEEKS!
Posted Friday April 28 2006, 5:05 pm
Well, one of my really, really good friends is in the hospital. Actually, right now he's in a program because they think he did what he did to himself so he would die. Obviously, that alone hurts so much. He's been in there for almost an entire month and for that entire time, I've talked to him, but just on the phone. I know I'm going to see him soon, but it's not like I can go everyday (he's about an hour away). Today, my best friend, his girlfriend, told me that he's going to be gone for another 4 weeks! After that, we only have 3 weeks left of school! I know I have a right to be like sad about it, but how do I keep myself from being too depressed and going crazy?
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Talking Behind Back .. Fives For All!
Posted Friday April 28 2006, 4:33 pm
My bff (L) told me that my other bff (S) was talking about me. L tells me a lot when S is talking about me, and L told me I can't tell anyone, especially S that she told me or that I know. I know if I did tell S, L would get really mad at me and I don't need that right now. I don't want to loose her trust. So, my question is, what should I do? I'm tired of S acting all goody goody like shes the greatest friend in the world to me when she's not. Should I act differently toward her, or, mainly, how can I hint at what I know? Like say, "I HAAATE when people talk about me," hinting to her, but something better than that. Fives for answers. Thanks.
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