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Girlfight; my close friends chosing sides; standing up for m
Posted Tuesday May 9 2006, 10:14 am
ok, in short: I just started highschool, my class hated me but I found a couple of girls that were cool. One in particular, the thing is..she's prettier than me, smarter than me..and yes, better than me. And today we had a fight, and there's no doubt in my mind that everyone will choose her side. Also, going in to the school, I had a couple of close friends from my previous school, that REALLY loved me, I was their little cute friend who they had to protect sort of. Now as soon as I got to the school, she had to make them all like her BETTER. It feels like everyone I know, she has to know BETTER. Everything I do, she has to do BETTER. And the list goes on. So one of my fears after this fight is that all my old friends will side with her sin...
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social skills
Posted Monday May 8 2006, 7:54 pm
ok well i have this problem....well everytiem i go to soccer pratice i always feel left out and like i have no really close friends on the team and i never talk..i may say 2 words..like i dont really feel comforatble around them...but with my school friends im like the loudest person you may ever meet...so im basically asking how can i get more social at soccer...i mean ive tried before but they just like ignore me and go off with there other friends....becuz everytime i go to soccer i get depressed now..so plzzz help me so i can become more social like give me tips or watever please!!
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pop a pill.
Posted Monday May 8 2006, 5:40 pm
my friend told me to "pop a pill." is that a good thing? and what does it mean?
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help, asap!
Posted Monday May 8 2006, 3:59 pm
one of my best friends recently has gotten into the phase where she wishes she could have a boyfriend that will basically love her and live for her. and she took it pretty far where now whenever i try to talk to her, that's all she talks about and when i try to give her advice, she says that she doesn't feel like talking. yesterday, i tried giving her advice. i told her that you are not necessarily going to get the man of your dreams at age 13/14. everything happens for a reason and everyone has a perfect match, they just might not come until later in life. & i also told her that she should really accept her friends giving advice because if she actually took time to read and thought about it, i bet it'd really help. she keeps telling me...
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Posted Monday May 8 2006, 1:35 pm
all my friends are annoying me - they're not different or anything. They're not mean. But for some reason, I suddenly hate them all. I don't want to hang out with them, I hate talking to them. I do everything to avoid them. All of them. I hate my school. Yet I hate being at home. I just hate everything. I hate people. does that sound weird? Like PEOPLE annoy me. I don't want to be alone, but I just really don't want to be with anyone I knwo right now. What can I do to get rid of this feeling? Iäve had it for about 1 month and its pushing all my friends away..
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friends??
Posted Monday May 8 2006, 10:08 am
ok... yea.. i have this friend that i like alot and he knows that i do adn i was told that he said that he dont like anyone at the moment but when ever we go out to lunch and stuff cuz z group of friends and me go out to lunch from school, he like sits next to me and it seems like he flirts with me and stuff.... adn i like him alot but i dont know if he likes me and i want to go out with him.. so what should i do??? by the way im 16 adn female
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confused....
Posted Monday May 8 2006, 8:35 am
me and my husband are trying to have a baby...but my best friend of seven years called my mom behind my back and was telling her that she doesnt want me to get pregnant, and that she doesnt want us to be together and that when she gets home shes gonna do everything in her power to split us up...she even said she was gonna bring a bunch of guys around me and stuff to try and get me to leave him to go with these guys so...i told my husband about it and he got mad and said i shouldnt even talk to her anymore...so i wrote her a letter telling her how i felt...i told her that it was selfish for her to want to split us up when i am happy she should be happy for me so she called me and said that i was selfish because i didnt want to come to missis...
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prom date
Posted Sunday May 7 2006, 10:58 pm
My so called friend only wants to hang out with me when she wants to. She is two-faced and treats me like poo. Her ex boyfriend is taking me to prom and we eventually might be going out. Would that be wrong?
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Im jealous
Posted Sunday May 7 2006, 9:38 pm
My exboyfriend and I broke up wednesday.He went out bowling with some of his friends and one of my best friends. I was talking to her online and she told me that he was flirting with her and I'm jealous. I broke up with him and I cant help but wanna yell at him what can I do?
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wrong?
Posted Sunday May 7 2006, 8:34 pm
Is it wrong that I never tell my "best friends" anything anymore?
Whenever I do tell them something, they end up telling their other really good friend who tells someone else, who then tells other people and the next thing I know, I'm walking into Best Buy and the guy at the register asks me about what I did with who at what party a few weekends ago. True story..that really did happen. Kinda funny but I was pissed as a mofo.
Now that I don't talk to them about anything serious, they get all mad. But why should I tell them things when the rest of the world is just going to find out about it?
I don't want to loose them as friends because they're still fun and every...
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this whole thing got blown way out of proportion.....
Posted Sunday May 7 2006, 7:05 pm
14/f. So my best guy friend is Tyler. We always talk on the phone, and are always talking to each other, and are always with each other. Of coarse, people started rumors that we were either going out or that he liked me/I liked him. They didn't really bug me that much because I knew it wasn't true and just shook it off and continued to talk to him. But when two of my friends asked him if he liked me and had a whole conversation with him about me, he stopped talking to me. He said he needed to think things through and asked me if it was ok if he continued ignoring me for the next two days. I said it was ok, but it was obviously not. I knew the only reason he was not talking to me was because he didn't want people thinking that he liked me. S...
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I'm really worried about my friends health
Posted Sunday May 7 2006, 5:46 pm
okay, so my close friend chelsey has had problems in the past with anorexia/eating disorders of some kind. she went to a treatment center and was fine for about a year, but for the past 4 months, i've noticed that she's been skipping lunch at school, and she told us that she's down to a size 00 and she's about 5'5" so its extremely tiny. her parents weigh her once in awhile just to keep track, but they tell her before they do it, so she goes and drinks tons of water to gain weight. my friend's and i have hinted and written letters to her, saying that we're worried, but we seriously canNOT get it across to her that she is on the verge of relapsing her eating disorder. do you have any advice as to how we could tell her that what she's d...
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her boyfriend
Posted Sunday May 7 2006, 5:41 pm
ok, i have this friend. she's a girl and i'm a guy. we're really close. we kinda flirt with each other but we do it in a friendly way. but she has a bf who thinks that i'm trying to steal her from him. we(me and my friend) keep trying to tell him that we're just friends, but he won't listen. then my friend and i went to a nightclub last night without him. well, the next day he found out that i was dancing with his gf(my friend) and he calls me up and he's like "You better F****ing stop that S**t or else i'm gonna F***ing beat the S**t out of you when i see you!" what i'm wondering is what should i do?
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movies
Posted Sunday May 7 2006, 2:41 pm
what are some good movies that me and my friend could see? we are 14/f if that helps.
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ehh id k what heading to put... sorry =]
Posted Sunday May 7 2006, 11:42 am
so like me kayla brandon and kyle just got back from the movies.okay so me n kyle arent going out but we sorta have a 'thing' i guess for eachother. okay so i was sitting next to kyle.. and i bend down to get my sweatshirt from the floor and he like he put his hand on my booty and like i sora jumped up and like he like pulled me toward him so i was leaning on his shoulder... and his hand was on my ass for the longest time so like i pulled his hand off and like onto my lap and just like held his hand ad he like had a BONAR
i was like ohhh shitttt. l.ol and then he kept like kissing me on the forehead and stuff like tht and just cute little ones on the cheeks and like then at the end he kissed me on the lips... like he tried to get so...
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I need help-so I can help my friends; with a friend of their
Posted Sunday May 7 2006, 10:22 am
Hello :)
Okay, so yesterday I saw one of my friends do something I've heard about for a long time, but never actually seen...lie. Yes, he lied. And it was pretty obvious, and also..pretty scary. You see, pretty much ALL YEAR I've heard one of my tightest friends talk about how he's changed, and lies, and so on..and ofcourse I belived her, but I guess it never really sunk in. Because when I actually experienced it for the first time (him lying straight to my face) it freaked me out. I was sp sworried for him, I wanted to cry. I was about to, but didn't. It hurts to see someone I've looked up to for such a long time lie. They're BIG lies too. And he should know that we can't possibly belive all this, it's crazy. And we basicall...
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dont want to be her friend
Posted Saturday May 6 2006, 11:10 pm
ok so me and my "bestfriend" ashley have been friends for a couple years now and we grew apart so much but she told my friend jen that she doesnt think we grew apart at all but i dont no what to do to let her no that i dont think we should be friends anymore its not that shes mean or i want to pick a fight i just dont have fun with her anymore i get so bored when im at her house so i need to find out how to not hurt her feelings or get in a fight and ill rate 5s as long as you dont say talk to her cause that will hurt her feelings
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Drugs...again?
Posted Saturday May 6 2006, 10:44 pm
I'm 17/f and I've known my best friend, Ryan (well, ex best friend) literally my whole life. Our dad's were best friends in high school and they live next door.
Well, Ryan and I used to be really close. We hung out all the time and were really good friends. We hung out with the same group of people and I thought I knew everything about him. About 2 years ago, I was in his room waiting for him to get out of the shower and I was just looking around when I found LSD tabs and pills that I couldn't identify.
I waited for him to get out and I asked him about it. Turns out that he had some friends that I didn't know about and he had been into drugs and such for a few months. I couldn't believe what he...
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weekends
Posted Friday May 5 2006, 10:56 pm
my friends and i can never think of things to do on the weekends. seeing movies is alright, but once youve seen the one or two good ones its pointless to go again, and the same goes for shopping i mean you can only go so many times and not see the same things and run out of money. what are some things that a bunch of 14 and 15 year old girls can do?
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hey
Posted Friday May 5 2006, 10:45 pm
when i'm with a group of people, i get really shy and i never know what to say. when i'm around just a few people i'm really loud & outgoing. like tonight, after my soccer game we went out to dinner with the team. everyone was laughing and screaming, but i was really shy and not "hyper" as they called it. and those kids are my friends so it's not because i didnt know them. i tried speaking up and being outgoing, but the more i tried to like fit in, the shyer i got. it was so weird. but then again, in school the teachers all yell at me because i never shut up. how come i'm shy around certain people but REALLY loud others? oh, and don't say i don't feel comfortable around them because i do. and how do i step out of my shy zone a...
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