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I think I have a stalker!!


Posted Wednesday May 24 2006, 4:22 pm

ok, 1st this is going to be very long and for that i am very sorry! but here goes nothing:

Ok my friend (who is a guy, and i am a girl)Always follows me. Right after lunch we have 4th and 5th together.

So in my 4th hour we are doing a lab amd he ask me if i wanted to be his "lab buddy." I said i was sorry and that i already had one. Then we had to dign up for a lab table, me and partern signed upfor table 6, then my "stalker" went from table 4, to table 6. When i say i am so sick of school, he says "don't drop out." Im not dumb, and im not going to. He has to know what is going on inmy life or he gets so mad at me.

In 5th hour me and my friend Shelby and me are a...

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him<3


Posted Wednesday May 24 2006, 2:48 pm

I have this class and there is this guy that i talk to the entire period. Today we were doing something and we sat at a table and i had my hand out on the table and he put his hand on mine like he wanted to hole hands with me. I have a huggeee crush on this guy.

Would this be a sign of anything?

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oops friend fued over something stupid


Posted Wednesday May 24 2006, 2:44 pm

Well long story short--my friend knew I liked this guy..and well she made a move on him..blah blah blah I got mad at her..it's been about two months. REALLY STUPID..I know. But I don't want to be mad anymore..but I can't just all of a sudden talk to her..it'd be weird. Please help. I miss her!

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friends? or no?


Posted Tuesday May 23 2006, 10:46 pm

So I have 2 really close friends (or so I thought...) and well in about late april, they kinda stopped talking to me and stuff so I made a bunch of other friends and it was ok but I was still wanting the 2 back because I didnt think I had totally lost them. So anyway, I ended up smoking pot in early May. I know, not a great choice, but I did it because I wanted to and I know all the consequences. Well word got out at school and stuff and I denied it of course but I ended up telling my 2 friends the truth. Then when I asked them why they wont talk to me, they blame it on the pot and "breaking their trust" even though I never promised i wouldnt. Keep in mind, I never pressured them into stuff like that ever. What should I do now? D...

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my friend hates her life


Posted Tuesday May 23 2006, 9:45 pm

so my friend hates her life and her mom and stuff and idk what to do for her. it seems like theres nothing i can do, you know? so what should i do to kinda get her to appreciate her home-life more, and make her feel better about herself. because shes so pretty and shes always like "i dont think im pretty and i cant get guys" and stuff like that...so yeah, 5's for any help? thanks.

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my friend cant see what i can


Posted Tuesday May 23 2006, 6:36 pm

so my best friend in the entire world likes this big jerk. he's a nice guy sometimes but then he can be a total loser. so when shes mad at him he'll be nice to her and she'll automatically like him again. its so annoying because how can someonebe so mean to you and then you keep liking them? how can i tell her this is happening without actually saying that and hurting her feelings...?

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bff


Posted Tuesday May 23 2006, 6:28 pm

How do yu know when someones your best friend? Your opinon, ill rate yu

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Brother or "Brother" That I Happen To Like


Posted Tuesday May 23 2006, 6:17 pm

O.K. here's the thing, I hooked up my two best friends, one is my cousin (real cuz but bearly found out last year and went to same schools this year)she my homegirl. The other is my homeboy and ive nown him since KINDERGARTEN were best friends, he helps and/or offers help alot to me and me to him. Well, SADLY, I like my homegirl's boyfriend Is this bad? He is my homeboy and practically my brother. She said that if I like him she'll brake up with him. Why would she do that? Oh yeah people who dont know they go out think we go out and they still ask or say that we do go out and/or like eachother becuz we sit by eachother in every class and talk ALOT to eachother. Does he like me?

P.S. She used to know that I liked him but dont...

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party w/o her


Posted Tuesday May 23 2006, 5:12 pm

I am having this after party after my school dance and a lot of people are coming. Except this one girl, she has been so rude and mean and bitchy to me and she NEVER talks to me. But now she expects to be invited. Her two freinds who were invited, (who i'm freinds with) won't come unless she is invited, and I want them to come. My question is, should I invite this girl and be the bigger person? Or not invite her?

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umm my friend is mean


Posted Tuesday May 23 2006, 2:59 pm

hey everone ok well i have this friend and she's mad at me /c i told some people about this guy she told me abuout.. and ya we're not friends nmore.. and she lives across the street from me!!! omg now her friends r making fun of me.. and today one of them wuz making fun of me of how i walk... and ya my mom thinks im friends w/ her still and i can't tell her that we're not friends nemore over some stupid guy!! cuz she'll get really mad at me!! so what should i do? pleese help me!!!

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i like my friends ex boyfriend


Posted Tuesday May 23 2006, 1:01 pm

My friend, who I used to be best friends with, used to go out with this guy that I like now. They had gone out for 7 months. I talked to him, and told him that I like him, and he said he likes me as well. I went to my friend and asked her what she would do if me and her ex went out, and she said that she probably wouldn't be able to be friends with me anymore. Her ex is still friends with her, and doesn't want to hurt her feelings. I kind of feel the same way, but I'm leaning more towards not being her friend anymore anyway because we barely ever get along anymore. I really want to go out with this guy, but I don't know what to do, because I don't want my friend getting hurt, and he doesn't want to hurt her as well. Any suggestions?
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best friends boyfriend..


Posted Tuesday May 23 2006, 12:45 am

My best friends boyfriend is transferring schools and they are going to break up on the last day of school because they think its too hard to stay together.. she is crying sll the time and i really feel so sorry for her, but what should I tell her?

Thanks I rate 5s for everyone.

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Posted Monday May 22 2006, 8:23 pm

Well I have this well ex friend. We hang out with the same people but we don't talk to each other. Now our enemy hangs out with us and she kinda talks to her like the whole time. Anyways sometimes she wants to talk to me and like by the look on her face wants to be friends again,but hasn't said anything, but she ditched me so I don't want to talk to her. Should I just talk to her or ignore her because she treated me pretty bad. help?

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Big Decision!


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 7:10 pm

Heyy My name is Alicia and i go to octavian country day school in Westchester. I am a member of the pretty commitee (our name for the popular clique) which my best friend massie block is head of. I have these friends from dance who i want to hang out with this friday. But every friday massie has her sleepover and its been that way since forever!! i don't want to start her identity, but i wouldn't mind becomig a queen bee. But its risky!! I mean, i could totally loose our friendship. massie would not take this lightly!!should i? xoxoxoxoxo alicia (username-aliciarivera)

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Massie Block


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 5:21 pm

Hola Chicas! My name is Alicia Rivera and i go to octavian country day school in Westchester. I am a member of the pretty commitee (our name for the popular clique) which my best friend massie block is head of. i am thinking of starting my own clique, but it is risky. should i? xoxoxoxoxo alicia (username-aliciarivera)

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Guys


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 5:19 pm

pleeease help! I have a guy friend that is always up on me i use to like him but i like someone else now, so he always flirts with me and has his arm around me and holding me and i dont want to tell him NO GET OFF ME! caus i still wanna be his friend, just not like a couple, what can i do to kinda give him the idea i dont want a boyfriend and what can i say to make him stop putting his hands around me other then no or get off me or your making me uncomfotalble, they all sound so stupid

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these are questions that i would prefer a guy to answer


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 3:40 pm

Why do guys think that they are stronger then women?

Why do guys say this when you like them and confront them about it "i like you and all, but i dont want our brother/sister type relationship to be ruined"?

Why do guys think that they have the power over a women?

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friends stealing your stuff!


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 2:55 pm

ok heres the deal, i went to my friends bat mitzfa with my best friends chelsea and ellen, well we all took this picture and there was this one pic where it turned out perfect and we all didnt get cut out, i grabbed it knowing they would try to snag it, ok well today i brought all the bat mitzfa pics to show my other friends and later that day i saw the picture in my purse was gone!!! ok well i thought this wasnt a big dee because i could have put it in my backpack or something so it was no biggie, but later i went up to chelsea and asked for my calculator back, and i saw the picture in her bookbag i was like "chelsea, by any chance did you maybe take that from my purse by accident?" and she said "no, ellen said she got it an...

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Friends in need


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 2:15 pm

Lately, me and my best friend have been on this "tell each other everything" phase. Shes been telling me things that I never even imagined were going on in her mind. These things include, how she thinks she is insane, but would never accept anyones help (her mother tried sending her to a therepist a few years ago, but it backfired), how she has another world in her mind she sometimes likes to escape to, even sometimes she forgets who she is. Before this talk, she seemed perfectly normal to me. She insists she is fine, and insists nothing can help her, and the best thing that is helping is me just talking to her. We have recently decided not to talk about it so much, and she really does seem fine. I would never disobey her tru...

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Broken down...


Posted Monday May 22 2006, 1:57 pm

I'm 14/f...this year i think i lost all of my friends. I'm a very moody person and I'm always being dramatic about everything and it's not like i'm starving for attention because i'm not! Well I did something and now all of my friends wont talk to me because they think I'm a drama queen and that I'll just keep hurting them. I miss my friends a lot. They're all so happy and it makes me cry to know that I hurt them by just trying to talk to them. How do I fix this, or is it to late? Pls...and thanx

Broken Down

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