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best friend or not?
Posted Thursday June 1 2006, 3:57 pm
(16/f)
alright so me and this girl have been the best of friends since 1st grade. we were seriously inseperable up until about a month and a half ago. i think she has changed so much. for the first time we started partying and we met some new friends over spring break. well now she has been skipping school..shes failing the 10th grade. she doesnt do any work..she did have a problem with drinking but then she quit drinking as much. she yells at her parents and cusses them out if they ask her to help around the house. well lately its like i cant stand her. at first i like this guy alot and i started talking to him first but then he started liking her cause she was flirting with him constantly and they started hanging out and she made o...
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my so called frends
Posted Thursday June 1 2006, 2:56 pm
well today i went out with 2 of my friends one ive only seen once and another is a long time friend amd i asked others to join me and they said they were busy and had to do stuff at home then my friend got asked to go swimming and they never asked me.....and my friends have been doing this for fucking ages and i cant get new ones cuz they live all the way in town n it costs heaps 2 get into town etc
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What is his problem?
Posted Thursday June 1 2006, 1:51 pm
My ex boyfriend and I dated for almost 2 years, off and on, when he cheated on me back in March. I haven't talked to him since.
He's tried to call me and talk to me but I was too mad and hurt.
Well, on my birthday, he came to my house and gave me a 10 min. long apology. As my gift, he gave me 2 tickets to a concert (Dashboard Confessional--my FAVVV band) and asked me if I would go with him. I told him I'd think about it and call him.
When I got inside, I opened the envelope that the tickets were in and he had written me a note. It said how great I am and that I didn't deserve what he did to me, etc. He said that he knew that the concert doesn't make up for anything but he'...
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Beach.
Posted Thursday June 1 2006, 10:07 am
One of my friends are trying to get her cousin and I together. Well we have met and we talk all the time She tells me that he really likes me. I cant say that i think about him all the time and that i really likke him but hes really nice and i like to hang out with him. Well he asked me to go to the beach with him on sunday. Well sunday i got online about 1230 and he told me that he probly wont go to the beach anymore because he has other plans. So im like alright and i just didnt think any thing of it. Later not even 30 minutes later he put an away message up saying Im going to the beach be back later on. (or something close to that) Yea so he pretty much stood me up and he hasnt said a word to me since. He has been telling his cousin that...
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Best Friend and Drinking
Posted Wednesday May 31 2006, 11:15 pm
I would like to know what you would do in my situation:
My friend M (17) has always been considered straightedge. Well the other day she comes out and says "I WANT TO DRINK. I FEEL THAT I AM MISSING OUT ON MY LIFE." Now she never told me this. I had to find out through the grapevine. Well then monday night she and my boyfriend B (19) and our other friend T (18) decided to get drunk at my boyfriend's house. Now I got really upset about it. I haven't talked to M about it yet, but I know what she will say "Your time will come when you are out of high school with your liscense and you can do this stuff." I really want to know if I am right in feeling mad at her about it all. As I said she always was like "...
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maturity
Posted Wednesday May 31 2006, 7:31 pm
this question is really hard to explain, but just try to understand. when do kids start acting mature? like what grade or age? i don't mean like stop acting like babies, i mean like starting to understand you, "get" more mature jokes, have a more a adult-ish sense of humor, actually help you when your crying or sad. i think i'm mature for my age and i alwayss have to act unlike myself cause all my friends have an immature sense of humor like they think everything is "wrong" like i would say "let me go pick up those balls" and theyre like ew that wrong. and when i'm sad about something they just stare at me and say whats wrong and when i tell em they are like "oh". and i have to make up corny jokes cau...
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love
Posted Wednesday May 31 2006, 6:19 pm
i have this really good freind, maybe a best freind, and well to ALL of my other freinds she says I LOVE YOUUUU, I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. but she never says it to me. like she says it all the time, liek if you didn't know her you may think shes a lezbian.. BUT SHES NOT. why doesn't she say it to me?
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ex friend...
Posted Wednesday May 31 2006, 4:59 pm
Okay, to make a long story short, me and my friend got into a fight with our other friend because we confronted her about blowing us off and shit because she got a new boyfriend. The whole thing was blown way out of proportion. Anyway, she forgave my friend, but not me, because I was meaner (apparently). The girl told me, "Your basically dead to me." She also told me she could never forgive me and that she didn't care what I said or did. This girl was one of my best friends. It's really hard to loose a friend, and never even get a second chance. How do I get over it? (It's definately going to be hard because we have the same group of friends.)
I have also tried having a civil conversation with her as well. She give...
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an ex friend..
Posted Wednesday May 31 2006, 4:50 pm
Okay, to make a long story short, me and my friend got into a fight with our other friend because we confronted her about blowing us off and shit because she got a new boyfriend. The whole thing was blown way out of proportion. Anyway, she forgave my friend, but not me, because I was meaner (apparently). The girl told me, "Your basically dead to me." She also told me she could never forgive me and that she didn't care what I said or did. This girl was one of my best friends. It's really hard to loose a friend, and never even get a second chance. How do I get over it? (It's definately going to be hard because we have the same group of friends.)
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kareoke when I can't sing, how?
Posted Wednesday May 31 2006, 9:44 am
Okey, here's the thing. I can't sing.
No really, not that I don't sing GOOD, it's just that I sing...really bad. Like, really.
It sounds awful. Not that I think anyone would make fun of me..but still, I need to ask this question.
I've always been the shy quiete girl. And I don't want to be anymore. I want to be seen as a happy & loud person! So my class is doing this kareoke thing, and I want to be happy 6 up for anything 6 justa fun loving girl..but I can't sing!
So is there any fun or cool way of saying no to singing in front of the class? If I just say no everyones going to be all "c'mon, don't be like that.." not that they're gonna pressure me, but I'm going to feel like the boring girl who does...
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Bestfriend VS. Bestfriend
Posted Tuesday May 30 2006, 11:12 pm
So I have two really great friends. At one time we were all friends together. But last year, I was stuck in the middle, and my two friends stopped being friends. But I was still friends with each of them. Both of my friends have different 'groups' of friends, whom im in both groups. I'm having a party this Summer, and I want to invite all of my friends. (Which are my two friends, and BOTH of their groups.) I'm really stuck between who to invite, cause I love them both, but I know some fighting drama will most likely go down if they both come, and it'll all just be ruined. I really love both of them, and I feel if i don't invite one or the other, someone's feelings will get hurt. What should I do?
(PS - I can't have two diffe...
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TO ALL CLIQUE READERS
Posted Tuesday May 30 2006, 8:35 pm
heyy its alicia! do you think i should try to get back into ocd or go to the public school or a boarding school? thanx dolls! xoxoxo-username aliciarivera
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Friend's mom + friends = corruption
Posted Tuesday May 30 2006, 6:23 pm
Ok, I'm having problems with my neighbor/really really really good friend. We've been friends since about 2004. Things went great until the beginning of this year. He just started not coming over anymore. He used to sleep over at our house every week but not anymore. His mom has talked to mom and has had problems before. She's really mentally messed up, she just clings to every single little thing she can find wrong with people. For example: One night he called (His name's Kevin) to see if we could play late Saturday night, but we already had some other people over so we told him we couldn't play. So his mom got together everyone in the neighborhood and did some picture-taking outside our lawn (our lawn) just to show he had friends too. xD<...
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best friend moving.
Posted Tuesday May 30 2006, 10:35 am
my best best best friend is moving to eather London or Dubai! im really upset and most days of the week i end up crying at night. theres absolutaly nothing i can do about it. its a definate and i only have one more month with her. who knew our 7 year friend ship would come to a end. im so upset. please help
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CoNfUsEd
Posted Monday May 29 2006, 6:17 pm
13/f.
I met this guy in like beg of october last year at a campground ((family campground)) and we like have so much funn together and we like kissed and well i have been talking to him like online and over myspace ever since and in december he got a girlfriend, and this past weekend we both went camping again, ((he still has the same gf)) and well a few days before she went onto his myspace and was like 'back off he doesnt miss you' and all this shit, so once i got to the campground i tryed avoiding him but him and his friends approached me and my friend and you know he asked if we could like do stuff but keep it from his gf. and i was like yeah. so we like did, and he called me beautiful and told me he loved me more than his gf. an...
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Inviting Guys To A Party
Posted Monday May 29 2006, 5:36 pm
Okay, so I'm having a party for the end of the school year and I want to invite guys. Here;s the problem, the ratio of my close guy friends to close girl friends is about 5:15 or 1:3. Thats'a going to be a realy awakrd gap for the guys because some of them aren't great friends with the others, but I still want to invite the guys. Should I add at the bottom of the invitation, "Invite some of your guy friends, or it will be uneven numbers, but tell me whose coming."?
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ummmm
Posted Monday May 29 2006, 4:01 pm
ny friend is a little weird
she is kinda braggy about everything
like at school...she'll have a book and be like "oh your so jealous of my book" and shes kidding around but its still really annoying cuz she does it all the time
also she kinda gossips about my other friends and i tell her that i dont like talking about my friends, and she still tries to gossip about them
what should i do? i dont want to be mean
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i like this friend of mine
Posted Sunday May 28 2006, 10:54 pm
i told one of my friends a year ago that i liked him. he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship, but i think he said that he didn't like me like that. now we are really good friends and i went over to his house the other day and he's this great guy and i wish i was with him. but it's so hard for me to think of him as just my friend. this crush is still lurking. he's going off to college in NY and i guess there isn't anything i can do, except just stay good friends, right?
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my frind hates me now that i stole her boyfrind
Posted Sunday May 28 2006, 9:50 pm
my friend and i and her boyfrind went to the movies the other night and we were having fun,until those to got in a fight and she hit him,he ended up having a bad cut and then me and him went to my apartment to clean it up the n we started to hookup and then we got so in to it clothes were takin off and then she walked in on us!!i am trying to apoligize to her but she wont take my calls or anything!What shall i do?
Boyfriend stealer/backstabber :'(
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Sudden Change
Posted Sunday May 28 2006, 9:48 pm
This friend I used to be really close with all of a sudden treats me like I'm a stranger. When I talk to them, they respond briefly then turn away. It's worse than being a stranger, cuz my friend's can be pretty friendly with strangers, not cold and distant like lately. I try talking to them about this recent change but they get all defensive, so what am I supposed to do? I don't want to lose a friend =\
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