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Posted Sunday June 11 2006, 1:28 pm
I don't want this to be long or panic-y, but I need some advice. My friend and I are 13. There is a 17-year old across the street who is 17 and a juvi. My parents think he is 18, but really isn't. We played basketball with let's call him C, and we got his number. We hung out with him and we lied about out ages and we said we were 15 and 16. We lied about where we go to school and everything, and now we're hanging out with him. I've been lying to my parents about where we going and everything, but here is the main problem. I'm going into 8th grade this fall, and getting on the bus (right in front of my house!) in the morning is no big, but when the bus drops us off, it's 3:50pm. Big problem, because C smokes, and has to go outside and smokes...
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Boyfriend, Best friend. Uhoh.
Posted Sunday June 11 2006, 12:06 pm
Mkay.
I'm dating this guy. Ryan. We have been dating for about three weeks now, Yeah, I know - It's not that long. But this isn't the first time we dated.
My best friend, almost hooked up with the same guy. But we went out one night and she did things with another guy and almost went all the way. Ryan found out and told me about two months ago that he didn't want a girl like that, So we started talking more, My bestfreind hates it with a passion. She claims that she wants him to die and that she hates him and doesn't want anything to do with him ever again, and that she has no feelings left for him what so ever, So I thought - What the heck, I'll date him and give him a chance.
We started dating....
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My friend
Posted Saturday June 10 2006, 11:00 pm
I'm a 16/f and my best friend is gay.
Okay, well, his family is very religious and grounded in "southern" beliefs, and if he comes out to his parents he is afraid he will be kicked out of his house.
He is going to tell his mom first, and THEN his dad, and hasn't told either of them yet. However, he is pretty sure that both of them already know, because of how he acts and things he likes and the fact that most of his friends are girls, and yeah.
He is adament about coming out to them, because he doesn't want to hide who he is, and I don't blame him. Do you think that he, at just 16, should WAIT to come out to them? I dont know what swort of advice I can give him. What should I be doing to help the situation?
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birthday party...
Posted Saturday June 10 2006, 7:33 pm
Hi. I need help BAD. Well I got invited to my friends birthday party and I really want to go. Heres the catch, well me, my mom, my dad, and my moms friend are supposed to go down to the cape that weekend to help out with this bike-riding thing and the birthday party is from friday to saturday and we usuallu leave to go to the cape on friday evenings. I kept telling my mom that we could go down on saturday. She justwont listen and really really want to go to this party. What should I do?
I rate 5's!!!
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copy cat is bugging me!!!
Posted Saturday June 10 2006, 10:16 am
my friend ALWAYS copies me. like if i put something on my profile she puts that up too if i put something on my myspace she does that too. if i buya pair of shorts, she will buy them too. i know people say copying is a way of flattery but sometimes its just annoying. i like to be my own person. should i say something to her? if i should, what should i say?
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My friend is so mean to me!!
Posted Saturday June 10 2006, 5:56 am
My friend is such a liar and sooooooo bossy!!I want peace so I try to talk to her about it.But everytime I try to,she acts so sweet that I can't!She tries to hurt me by trying to take people away from me and lying to me that everyone like her better.She does all sort of mean stuff and when I do something that really isn't meant to be mean,she gets all upset and says lots of mean stuff!!She is just so insensitive about things that she should be sensitive about and very sensitive about things that she shouldn't be sensitive about!!What should I do?And is she really a friend?
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weird.
Posted Friday June 9 2006, 10:30 pm
okay me & this girl we'll call her red. okay well me & red are really close. like best friends. like we tell eachother everything. okay so me and this kid were going out but we broke up & i still really like him & she knows that. so they started hanging out after school like waiting for me for cheerleading to be over but then i noticed that they are talking like a lot more and then i asked her before if she liked him & she said no, never. and then i asked him if he likes her and hes like we're just friends nothing more. but then today i was walking and i seen them two together. and thats how me & him started becoming like in to eachother. so now i think they have a thing. and me & him dont talk as much. like we t...
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Jealous.
Posted Friday June 9 2006, 10:09 pm
Okay, so theres this girl. Lets call her "M" And personally, I don't like her.
M is claiming to be my friend sean's "favorite" according to his profile. And seriously, I'm thinking to myself, "he's YOUR favorite?" and he's been my friend for a while now. that girl is just mezmorising the boy. She can't really like him, he's my friend.
So, the thing is that I get mad&jealous everytime a girl calls him her "favorite" it's not like a like him or anything, because i have a boyfriend and stuff. But these girls need to leave him alone. Maybe I should get over my jealousy. Please help?
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School boundres.
Posted Friday June 9 2006, 5:48 pm
My school just changed its boundres. I am the only one of all my freinds thats going to a different school. this has been the best year of my life cuse my bffs were there and now im never going to see them again. when ever my freinds have moved or something we both said that we would keep in touch. well that never happened. i dont want that to happen to my bffs again. so what should i do? these are my BEST FREINDS IN THE WORLD!!! i dont want to lose them. im 14 and going into 9th grade. thanks for the help.
---> Mandy<---
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Best friend's dad died today...
Posted Thursday June 8 2006, 5:45 pm
I just found out that my best friend's dad passed away today. I knew that he had some kind of cancer and she'd been visiting him in the hospital for some time now, I also know that she did NOT get along with him. I never met him because he lived in SC and her and her mom lived in NC. (they weren't divorced, it's actually kind of confusing) Anyway, I'm just not too sure what to say to her. We've been friends longer than I can remember and I know this must be tough for her. I've had some friends pass away, but the only family I've had pass away was my great grandmother and my sister- I was young when my great grandmother passed away and I wasn't even born yet when my sister passed away, so I don't know everything she's going through.
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WHAT A BITCH!!!!!!
Posted Thursday June 8 2006, 1:58 pm
she's such a bitch! ever since like 8th grade, she's been the worst friend ever!
she leaves every summer on vacation and she actually planned a suprise party for herself.. but she didn't want anybody to know that she planned a suprise party for herself so she got my cell phone and started text messaging everyone telling them that I planned the suprise party.. and i was fine w/ that because i could understand that she doesn't want to tell anyone she planned it for herself. it wasnt actually a party party but it was like going to dinner and movies with a whole bunch of people. but, i got bitten by a red ant and i'm SUPER allergic so my foot looks like a big red balloon and i couldn't go because i had to go to the doctor and i was under...
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backstabber!
Posted Thursday June 8 2006, 9:17 am
There's this girl,(lets call her B) who's been saying mean stuff about me on her blog, like how i'm annoying and blahblahblah. Some of our friends(we both know the same people)read her blog,and my crush knows her pretty well.I'm worried that B will tell my crush bad stuff about me,and he'll get a horrible first impression of me. Also, I don't want B to go around telling everyone how she finds me irritating etc. What should I do ?
thanks*
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best friend that's a guy
Posted Wednesday June 7 2006, 8:50 pm
i've been friends with my best friend thats a guy, since i was in intermediate school..and all of this year we'd always talk and flirt and all that stuff well a week ago he stopped talking to me..and i had no idea why, his friend had told me that he told him that he hated me bc of all the crap ive done to him this year. my best friend well old best friend wont even talk to him about it but i dont know what i did, how do i get him to talk to me about it bc i dont want to lose him as a friend
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wtf did i do?
Posted Wednesday June 7 2006, 4:31 pm
ok i have a bf but i also like this other guy and my friend new it so she talkes 2 him 2.....and she waz sayin all this shit and was totlally glowing about what she would say if he asked her out my friend came over and was talking to him when i waz buessy(away)she told him i got mad at him for doin that...later on after she left he told me what they said and he waz also talking to her she got pissed ang totally lied about what i said (witch i never said that at all) and now she is compleetly ignoring me because he wont go out with eather of us(i wasnt gonna cheet on my bf)but she is hella pissed and i did appologize but...i dont no what to do plz help me thanxz
-trisha
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A friend who was once a crush
Posted Wednesday June 7 2006, 4:17 pm
I have a friend who I have known for a couple years now. She lives far enough away so that it would be hard for me to go and see her. Though lately I've talked to her on the phone and IM. I enjoy talking to her and remembering the good times that we had, but there's one problem: she was one of my biggest crushes ever. I have a girlfriend now, and I am VERY happy with her, in fact, happier than I've ever been in my life. But when I talk to my friend, the memories of good times come back, as well as the memories of how much I liked her and the memories of being rejected by her.
Now she tells me that she wants me to come visit sometime, yet I know that there are other guys that she's interested in, so I don't think that she want...
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did my married friend want to have an affair with me?
Posted Wednesday June 7 2006, 3:04 am
I've been friends with a married man for about 3 years and we have never crossed the line. I knew him and his wife before they moved last year. I thought of him as one of my closest friends- he was someone I could always talk to. Well yesterday we got into a big fight on MSN messenger. I told him that I missed him (because I harldy get to see him since he moved) and then he made a comment "I'm a married man". Then I said "I know- just friends". I was upset and told him I didnt think we should talk anymore. He wanted to know why. I told him that his comment " I'm a married man" made it sound like I wanted an affair with him. I assured him I was not like that. I said I would never cheat with a married m...
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my head is playing tricks on me
Posted Tuesday June 6 2006, 6:15 pm
hey i have a really big problem, my best friend and my sister in christ broke up with her boyfriend and well, honestly i cant stop thinking about her, shes always on my mind, ive known her for 3 years and we are closer than i have ever been with anyone, ever, we spend so much time together and i cant help it but im always thinking about her and well, i think my head is either messing with me or this is gods way of telling me she is the one. I love her so much as a best friend and a sister in christ, but well, i dunno, please advice, i dont know wat to do anymore its driving me completely insane!!!
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totally pissed off
Posted Tuesday June 6 2006, 4:25 pm
omg i am sooo fucking pissed off at my friend. she won't stop talking about my boyfriend and it's really starting to get me pissed off. Cause she even admitted to still liking him since they went out like during the summer but all i hear from her is what they did the first day they went out and how good of a kisser he is. what should i do i don't want her to get mad at me??!!!!
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special codes
Posted Tuesday June 6 2006, 12:02 pm
hey i was tlkin to my friend on aim last night and he said klk wat the heck does that mean? lol thnx
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friend
Posted Monday June 5 2006, 10:13 pm
my friend is mad at me because of a misunderstanding. i have tried everything, but no matter what i do she refuses to be my friend. I have told her i was sorry more times than i can count. i was literally in tears before because her friendship means a lot to me. i even told her this. she has blocked me on aim and wont answer her phone because my name shows on the caller id... and she wont talk to me at school. there is no way i can get through to her that it was a misunderstanding. i feel awful and i don't know what to do....please help.
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