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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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Best Friend?


Posted Wednesday June 14 2006, 12:06 am


So..there's this gurl & i guess we're " best friends" well like 1 min. she'll be fine w/ you and then the next she goes crazy and talks behind ur back and says all this crap about you that's not true!

I don't know what to do because i thought we were friends...?

Confused.

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I don't know what to dooooo.


Posted Tuesday June 13 2006, 7:43 pm

My friend is going to kill herself next Friday.

She seems happy about it.

I've tried to change her mind, but that didn't work.

She doesn't eat, she's an insomniac, and she is very stressed.

She's been to shrinks but she says that they were a waste of her time.

She hates her parents because she can never talk to them, I guess.

I don't know what to do.

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Best friends


Posted Tuesday June 13 2006, 3:50 pm

My best friend, Hillary, all the sudden likes Mike. They are now going out, Mike is a bad kid. No joke, he's only 12, [shes thirteen] and he's already had sex with another girl, cheated on 3 of his girlfriends, he smokes, drinks, and is on drugs. Hillary knows all this, but doesn't care. I can't pull her away from him, and even since they started going out, its like, shes trying to ignore me, ditch me, and just forget about me. I've tried calling her, IMing her, talking to her, but she won't listen, I don't want anything bad to happen to her, what should I do? x3

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Am I right to be suspicious?


Posted Tuesday June 13 2006, 3:46 pm

Okay, last night I attended a party at my friend's house (I'll call him "Bill"). Anyways, Bill is very upset because one of his roomates (I'll call her "Jill") recently turned him down after Bill asked her out...Bill also invited one of his best friends over last night. (I'll call him Dan) Later on in the evening, Dan and I were kinda' flirting and he told me something about how he liked to be touched in a certain area (I'm very sorry, I know that's very innapropriate, but trust me, it matters later)...and after a while, he went downstairs to Jill's room...he was gone for a very very long time, so I went down to check on them...but before I got completely downstairs, I heard Dan telling Jill the SAME thing about how he ...

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canniving bestfriend


Posted Tuesday June 13 2006, 3:44 pm

14/f
well, theres this girl and shes suposeed to be my "bestfriend." but shes everything but that. she lies to me all the time, she strives to be the center of attention, she tries to get in the way of me and my boyfriend. Also she embaresses me infront of all my friends/boyfriend and always leaves me out of plans. But shes always like omg i love you!! bestfriendsforever! but its all bs. but if i try to confront her with it, she turned all my friends againest me for two weeks! i dont know what to do anymore. i dont have any other friends besides that group of friends, and i cant take it. please help me!

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Friendship


Posted Tuesday June 13 2006, 2:14 pm

Okay so im friends with these 3 gerls that are friends with this kid.and this kid "raped" my friend and i dont know if i really believe her only cause this kid is wicked nice and like i dont think that he can hurt anyone cuz he is soo sweet. I hung out with him last friday and i like him as a friend and i think he increadibly niice. and i dont knoe if i should keep hanging out with him or if i shouldnt.. i dont want to loose my friend cuz she will find out sooner or later that i hung out with him and then she'll be even more mad and i dont want to tell her that i hung out with him..What should i do..
Should i tell her or should i keep it a secret and should i be firends with him or not/?

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holding in to much!!!!!!!


Posted Monday June 12 2006, 7:27 pm

see i have a big problem im good at talking to people about there problems and they like talking to me but im not really good at talking about my feelings when they get really badn i mean talking baout boys is ok and things like that. but i found out recently my friend has cancer and isnt going to be alive much longer this persons haveing a really hard time and it jurts me so much i think about this person everynight and i cry to myself at night the person kinda had a heart attack the other day adn i feel that its a warning that this person wont be with me much longer they thought about ending there life and there was nothing i could do i was up all night in tears afraid that when i woke up they wouldnt be there anymore and this person mean...

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best friend?


Posted Monday June 12 2006, 7:26 pm

Im goig to a new school next year with my best friend, she is great and ive known her forever, but im a fraid that if i hang out w/ her alot that, i wont make alot of new friends. plz help!!!

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Does he like me for more than a friend?


Posted Monday June 12 2006, 5:26 pm

14/f here.
ok here is the deal. one of my stepmoms employes has a really cute son. the problem is he is 16. we hang out in 4-h and when he comes over to my dads house, but thats just about it. i really like him too. i really want to go out with him. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

p.s. the kid i likes little brother is in my grade and we arent exactly friends... would it be weird if i started to date his older brother

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popularity down the drain?


Posted Monday June 12 2006, 4:44 pm

I used to be more of the popular type, I was always out with friends. But latley, I can barely name 5 or 6 friends that I'm actually friends with still! All of my old friends went like .. emo, I'm sad to label them, but I can't hang out with them anymore, cause they just won't give me a chance. When I became captain of the cheerleading squad, they shut me out. I can't find anyone else at my school, who I can go shopping with, and just be true buddies. Please help, I'm so lonley!

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What is going on


Posted Monday June 12 2006, 4:19 pm

I'm friends with benefits with this guy. I used to have a crush on him.
We agreed to just be friends with benefits.
We don't hang out alot and fullfill the friends with benefits but lately he's been calling alot just to talk and stuff. He comes over every now and again and we just talk.
He has never called me for a booty call. But lately there has been alot of chemistry going on between us, alot of flirting and such.
We aren't really friends (as in normal friends you know) so it confuses me as to why he calls so much to just talk. I know what friends with benefits is, and that's not what we are. I'm not sure what to do? He sends mixed signles. What is going on with us

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MOVING!!


Posted Monday June 12 2006, 3:09 pm

A really close friend of mine is moving! i am really sad and even a little nervous. has anyone ever heard of the North Shore? I guess its the area of suburbs around chicago. She's moving to Winnetka and i want to learn about it? Does it have a rep? What are the people like? thanx!!

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Wrong For Telling?


Posted Monday June 12 2006, 11:33 am

Okay so my best friend (of 10 years) was going out with 2 guys (wesley and rafi) and rafi had a feeling my friend liked someone else..so i told rafi that my friend was cheating on him with wesley...am i wrong for doing that? i dont think i am because it's not like she was going to marry wesley or rafi so i dont know why she is getting all worked up over it...but what do yall think? did i do the wrong thing?

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I lost my friends trust!!`


Posted Monday June 12 2006, 1:26 am

I have been really good friends witht this chick for a long time but then she got drunk and something happened one night and she did something that i thought would never happen, she flashed me. I didnt care cause we were too good of friends but i told her what she did and then another one of her best friends told her that it never happened and now she believes them and has forgot about me and wont talk to me...however it really did happen and i have no idea what to do about it..how do i convince her it was true and it did happen? Then if i cant convince her how do i gain her trust back? Thanks!

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Posted Monday June 12 2006, 1:19 am

I have a best friend whom I've known since the 7th grade, and one of the things we promised each other in our ring of friends is that "Friends come first always before boyfriends." However, I feel that this best friend of mine is not keeping this promise. Besides being close friends with me, she also had this really close guy-friend since the 7th grade, who has now become her boyfriend. I know that I should understand that its okay for her to be closer to him because they were close before, and are now in a relationship together, but I feel hurt that its against what we promised... Like, she would always, always stress it to to us that friends are always first, but this now seems hypocritical... We rarely talk on the phone anymore...

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I cant belive she did this!


Posted Sunday June 11 2006, 8:51 pm

14/f

Well my best friend went out with my ex-boyfriend 2 days after i broke up with him, even though i wish i hadent. I only broke up with him because he lived to far away.. But it just bugs me that she did that, and i dont know what to do. I told her that i didnt care because i dont want to let some guy (no offence) get between me and her- but it is! Any help would be great, and i do rate.

-cj

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best friend and high schoool


Posted Sunday June 11 2006, 8:37 pm

I have some best friends, and I have a very best friend. Well we are goin to high school next year. Do you think theres a good chance we will stay best bets friends? JW for your opinon. Tanks i will rate ya!

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OMG PLEASE ANSWER IF YOU KNOW!


Posted Sunday June 11 2006, 7:46 pm

please please please please help me! how can you email pictures from a phone to a computer?? i have verison, razr and i desperately need to know this before tomorrow. i need details too!!!

if thats not possible, how can i get pics on my phone w/o buying software??????

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no friends


Posted Sunday June 11 2006, 3:00 pm

This sounds kind of cliche, but I don't have any friends. I have acquatences (sp?) at school and really only one friend who goes to another school and she is going to another country in the summer. Its not that I'm unable to make friends. Most people that I meet like me and I like them, I'm quite friendly. I just never seem to become close with any of them. I used to be with a group of friends, but we're not in touch anymore. I don't want to be alone all summer, I was wondering of anyone could tell me where to meet new people that I could become friends with and stay in touch with. Any help along the lines of getting friends and keeping them would be very much appreciated. I'll rate high.

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My friends think Im mental


Posted Sunday June 11 2006, 1:45 pm

My friends really think I've got mental problems! Not seriously, but it's getting out of hand. I have always been like a kid--- i still love cartoons, video games and i still talk like a kid when im not nervous; like if around my friends, Im completely myself. And thats always been a problem because whem Im myself, Im crazy and hyper. So lately, my friends and people i hardly know from my school are saying that I have a mental problem. I know it sounds dumb, but I hate it!
I told my friend that there is nothing wrong, and they all say they are just joking around when they say i have ADD or OCD, but the other people at my school dont know this. Sure, school is almost over, but I really dont want to continue with this stupid rumor! And...

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