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college visit
Posted Tuesday June 20 2006, 4:43 pm
ok so i'm going on a few college visits in a while, and i invited two friends. the problem is that my mom said we don't really have enough room in the car for both but i've already invited them. so should i tell them that or subtly imply it or what??
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Close to someone
Posted Tuesday June 20 2006, 1:27 pm
I haven't been really close to a someone [as a friend] in about 5-6 years. I was afraid to. [When I was younger, I had a best friend of 5 years and she left me a year before middle school] But now I'm trying to get friends. I'm talking to people now and making plans. Is it supposed to feel weird? I get nervous and everything.. And some of them are going through some emotional problems.. is it normal to feel bad about it? It just feels weird.. usually i dont think or feel like that about people.
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How to be outgoing
Posted Tuesday June 20 2006, 10:14 am
I am starting to hang out with new people, usually I would be outgoing with my firends, no matter who it is, but since my new friends are popular,I"m having trouble. How do I be more outgoing. These girls are very outgoing and if you're to shy you'll not be friends with them any longer!!! HELP!!!
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my birthday is going to be hell, please tell me what to do
Posted Monday June 19 2006, 11:50 pm
(i have asked this question to other people but so far noone has writen back): )
last minute i decided to have a birthday party. everyone i love is getting together to go to this cool club sort of place. My friend, lets call her Orchid, and her boyfriend Tom (now ex) were invited. They broke up bitterly. I think Orchid blamed me, even though i had nothing to do with it. Orchid's friend Bee was also invited. The invite and RSVP was after the breakup. Tom said of course he'll come. Orchid said ok, and so did Bee over the phone. Tom and Orchids parents varified they could come. Bee convieniently said she was out right now and that her mother was working. Then that her mother was sleeping, all of which she said online. Bee kept saying t...
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my birthday is going to be hell, please tell me what to do
Posted Monday June 19 2006, 11:45 pm
last minute i decided to have a birthday party. everyone i love is getting together to go to this cool club sort of place. My friend, lets call her Orchid, and her boyfriend Tom (now ex) were invited. They broke up bitterly. I think Orchid blamed me, even though i had nothing to do with it. Orchid's friend Bee was also invited. The invite and RSVP was after the breakup. Tom said of course he'll come. Orchid said ok, and so did Bee over the phone. Tom and Orchids parents varified they could come. Bee convieniently said she was out right now and that her mother was working. Then that her mother was sleeping, all of which she said online. Bee kept saying that she was worried that Orchid and Tom would fight. I said that both had a choice to say...
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Ditch
Posted Monday June 19 2006, 10:38 pm
well the ppl who i thought were my friends always go put and never bother to call me to ever go but then when they need a ride home they always seem to call me cause i can drive i cant stand it what should i do ? should i get new friends and let them know how i ffeel ....Ill rate!!!
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Friends want to hang out
Posted Monday June 19 2006, 9:42 pm
My friends want to hang out but we don't know what we want to do. Have any ideas??
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Rotten Best friend
Posted Monday June 19 2006, 7:02 pm
Okay my sister told me her problem but i didn't now what to say, so please help.
WHAT MY SISTER TOLD ME :( My bestfriend is so great, we grew up together, and have been bestfriends since like forever, but she is always making me feel bad. For example, once she came over, and like just started saying how a lot of boys liked her. Then she started taking credit for my life, like she asked me who liked you this year? And i told her who, and then she was like, just telling cuzin Clarissa that every boy that likes me liked her first, she even tells others that some of my bfs liked her be4 they liked me. I act all cool and normal, but i really feel sad, i tried talking to her but i dont know wat 2 say. Another thing that makes me fe...
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Who's Right on This One
Posted Monday June 19 2006, 3:56 pm
A little more than 25 years ago, I met a guy who became a friend. About three years after we met, he took my car out one night, got drunk and smashed it up. I had to pay to tow the car away, junk it, and for tickets. Cost me over $1,000 at the time. He never offered to pay me for the damages to my car.
He was doing bad financially at that time and I figured that later on, when he was doing well, over time he would find some way to compensate me because we were still "friends."
Fast forward 25 years. This "friend" is single and doing well, owns house, car, good job, etc. Last year I borrowed $300 from him to buy emergency plane tickets, and told him I'd pay him back when I could. Abo...
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What to do with friends in a boring house
Posted Monday June 19 2006, 10:08 am
Im having a friend come over my small apartment their really is nothing to do and we are spending all day here with no one to drive us anywhere and nothing to do. I was woundering if you could give me ideas for two 16 year olds thank you
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Party
Posted Sunday June 18 2006, 9:28 pm
Hey! I'm about to go to sleepaway camp, and it's going to be one of my best friend's birthdays while we're there. (I'm a 14-year-old girl, he's turning 15.) What can I do to make it special? I can't get any food in, but I really want to do something cool for him. Thanks so much!
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should i tell her?
Posted Sunday June 18 2006, 8:40 pm
Ok, so I've liked this girl for a long time, and during the beggining of the school year she also liked me (I didn't know it back then). Now, she's going out with one of my friends, but we still talk a lot. She also keeps on asking me who I like (A lot!) Every time she says that though, I just ward it off by saying something else. So my question is...should I tell her that I like her, or keep that secret safe with me?
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People think I'm a stuck-up Goody 2 shoes
Posted Sunday June 18 2006, 5:11 pm
The people that know me think that I'm a nice person, but people who don't, think that I'm stuck up and a goody-goody. It's as if getting good grades is a crime! They assume that I can't have a good time, which is really not true. People won't really come up and speak to me (especially boys) because of this. The problem is, that none of my friends can tell me what it is that makes me appear stuck up at a first glance. How can I appear to be a more friendly and approachable person?
The more answers, the better!
(oh, I'm not really worried about the boys. I have a boyfriend. it's just a detail.)
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She gets everything.
Posted Sunday June 18 2006, 3:12 pm
My best friend is so gorgeous she can get any guy she wants. But she always says how ugly she is. I can't help but get jelous. How can I stop from being jelous or at least hide it better? I'll rate.
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i think im making a mistake.
Posted Sunday June 18 2006, 2:51 am
okay so here's the deal. I'm 16/f and my best friend is a guy. He's attractive but i've never really like thought about doing anything sexual with him. He used to date one of my other friends, and now he's asking me to do stuff with him. I'm sure if I should. I'd feel bad because of my friend, but I want to at the same time because I haven't been with anyone in along time. Considering i've only been with 2 other guys. What should I do? Am i bad person for even considering it?
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Depression over Internet Buddy?
Posted Sunday June 18 2006, 1:57 am
So, I've been rping online for a really long time. I have this one rp buddy that I've had for a year or so, and I've really gotten to know, and have become pretty good friends with. Well, as good of friends as you can become over the internet.
I don't have a infatuation with him (he's gay after all), that isn't my problem. The problem is, that a month or so ago he had told me that he went to the doctor to get a malignant melanoma removed. Then, the other day he told me that he had gone back to the doctor to get tested for a form of tuberculosis that had been going around because he was coughing up blood..
They found out that not only did he have ulcers in his stomach.. but he is in an advanced stage of melano...
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still confused!!!
Posted Sunday June 18 2006, 1:47 am
Okay I got this friend and she's a girl, and she so calls me her bestfriend but I don't too much see the benefits of the friendship. The only thing I know is that she says she loves me(I dont know it she means it) and she jealous of me when around other girls. The other night she says we don't have a normal friendship but a complicated one. And if it can't be a normal friendship then what is a complicated one? I don't even think she cares about me when I'm not around! So should I leave her alone, pay her less attention, or work on the relationship?
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Posted Saturday June 17 2006, 9:54 pm
My "best" friend carrie went out with mark, who is one of my other best friends. They broke up after three days because Carrie thought Mark liked me instead and ever since then she has changed a lot. Slowly, she can began being obsessed with being popular, lying, attention, cheating, cussing, and she gradually pushed away all of her friends. After she had lost four best friends, she came to me. I heard Carrie talking talking to one of my friends about me and I confronted her CALMLY about it on IM that day.
Carrie: hey
Me: hi
Me: how come you said I was fat?
Carrie: what the hell? i never said that.
Me: I heard you say it
Carrie: I DIDNT SAY THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Me: I heard you a...
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confused!!!!
Posted Saturday June 17 2006, 2:48 am
iight I'm a guy and I have this bestfriend which is a girl. And in this friendship is like no other friendship. She gets jealous when I talk to girls and vice versa. We have arguments everyday like we're a real couple. I'm confused, are there hidden feelings or what is going on?
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no friends
Posted Saturday June 17 2006, 1:56 am
I have always had a problem with friends. I used to have some reallygood friends but we had a huge fight and we aren't friends anymore. Right now I have only like 7 friends but only two really close ones. My question is how can I make some more close friends? I am going to be in highschool there and people keep telling me well you can make more friends in highschool and stuff. There is one problem though...I live in a small town with only one junior high that goes into te highschool. I basically already know everyone.Where do you think I could meet friends outside of school?
Thanks in advance
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