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Friendship
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frends or boyfrends?


Posted Saturday July 8 2006, 8:02 am

hey my names maddy
my two best frends are guys
one has a girlfriend who im frends with and ones single
ever since i met them, both of them have liked me on and off but they dont know i know that..
i like both of them in that way aswell just not alot and i hav too much of a single life now to drop it all for a boy
what do i do when eventually one of them asks me out? i dont want to loose my best frends.... but then again i like them...


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mad


Posted Saturday July 8 2006, 2:09 am

I really hate my uncle's girlfriend. she isn't nice and i think she's making my whole family treat me wrong. And I'm the one whose wrong when i try to stand up for myself to them or tell them the problem i'm having. how do i deal?

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whats wrong with being emo?


Posted Saturday July 8 2006, 1:29 am

lol..i didnt know wat category to put this under but here it goes... im 14/f & i am emo. people think that emo people are freaks. but we are not! we think of life in a different way. my problem is that people are making fun of me. thay call me a loser & stuff like that. i really dont care what people say but there is this girl that keeps on bugging me. she keeps on telling me that she is gonna jump me & stuff. i already told her that i didnt want to start a fight with her. but she wont listen. she is still bugging me.& its getting too far because she has been threatening me. how can i make her stop? thanks 4 your help. =]

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he won't go out with me!


Posted Saturday July 8 2006, 12:00 am

okay, there's this gorgeous boy I know. He's completely flawless, and I have a big thing for him. One of my friends tells me that he actually likes me. Naturally, I was thirlled, but there's on problem: HE WON'T GO OUT WITH ME!! There's a lot going on with him, I guess. I mean we still flirt, hang out, etc., but does this mean I should lay off him in terms of flirting? the things have nothing to do with me [more-so family], but does that mean I should leave him be for now? thanks <33

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freshmann with no friends.


Posted Friday July 7 2006, 11:00 pm

Okay, so i don't have any friends. frankly alot of people don't like me because of all the drama that went on last year in 8th grade. Now i am really scared to be going into freshman, when almost everybody hates me when i only have about 4 girl friends.. and would've i`m not in any classes with them? well thats not my problem.. my problem is.. the people that don't like me are going to harass me and get everybody to gain up on me.. i`m now a religious christian && not many people know that, except for the people that went to church camp with me. i don't know what i am going to do. what should i say to people who are trying to fight with me.. should i like apologize to them.. so that they don't cause drama for me in 9th? i reall...

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my clothes are missing...i think my friend took them?..


Posted Friday July 7 2006, 1:38 pm

im really mad. lately ive been missing my clothes. i went to my BEST friends cabin with her last weekend and when we got back i realized that i was missing a pair of my pants and then today i go to wear one of my newer tank tops and thats missing and then one of my cami's are missing. i brought all these to the cabin and now theyre gone when i get home? im positive that i didnt leave it at her cabin because we were in the tent together the whole time and i would of seen that i left it in the tent. i kind of think that my friend took it or something because what else could of happened to it? i go to her cabin with all my clothes and now when i come back theyre all missing?..i asked her about my jeans and im like did you take them on acciden...

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RSVP


Posted Thursday July 6 2006, 9:32 pm

If you are sent an invitation to someone's Sweet 16 and the card says RSVP, do you have to call to inform them that you will not be attending?

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Hopeless Situation


Posted Thursday July 6 2006, 6:51 pm

Ok, here is my problem. I have a group of friends. We all were pretty cool with eachother until this year. One girl was acting annoying etc. etc. and making some huge mistakes. My other friends got made at her and talk about her everytime I come over because they are dissappointed and mad at her because she made mistakes, especially a huge one. I agree with them on some topics, but not on others. The friend who makes mistakes is still my friend...but sometimes she goes and makes a white lie to me every now and then and it makes me uncomfortable. I can not side with her or else I'll lose some of my good friends, but I cant side with them either because I do not agree with everything they are doing. I am being used and pestered by the annoyin...

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Kate's moving. How do I deal?!?!?


Posted Thursday July 6 2006, 4:35 pm

Right after I met Kate she was my very best friend. Now, Kate is moving. When I asked her parents why they had to leave, they had such stupid answers, and I'm going to miss her like crazy! I'm so upset that she's leaving me, it feels like the whole world is crashing down. Now what? How will I deal without her?

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Cousin's cleavage


Posted Thursday July 6 2006, 3:55 pm

My cousin is a big person, she's fat and big chested. Some of the clothes she wears are really inappropriate. Yesterday she had on something that looked like her boobs were going to fall out. What should I say to her about the way she dresses? At school she's just a big joke with all the boys. They called he Double D Lottay and stuff. So what should I do?

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friend..


Posted Thursday July 6 2006, 12:45 pm

so theres this girl and we were friends for a long time since 5th grade .. but this year we kinda stopped talking.. idk why but the people who we hated in september now shes BEST friends with them.. and it made me mad in the begining but now it doesnt bug me.. so we made plans sometime in december when we were close and we had a great time and lauging and everything and then the next day we went to the mall and had fun again.. but then after that we started talking less and less everyday.. we were in the same math class and lunch table and we hardly talked to eachother..i felt like we werent hanging out and talking much so i decided to try to become better friends with her again by asking her to go to this carnival by my house and she said ...

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shopping


Posted Thursday July 6 2006, 12:11 pm

ok me and my friends wanna go shopping. but my friends dad is at work, so someone needs to be there with us. we have cell phones, but i dont know. how can we still go, and get a ride home, and have someone with us.

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Going off to college


Posted Wednesday July 5 2006, 5:29 pm

So my friends and I are going to college this fall as freshman and even though I'm really exciting and I know I'll meet new people and such, I don't know how often I'm going to be able to see them. I live in Texas and 2 of my very good friends and I are going to UT, others are going to be scattered across Texas and others in different states. My best friend is going to a design school in New York, and my brother (he just graduated college and is going to law school now) is going with her to New York but he's going to be at Colombia. So I was just wondering, from your experiences, how often did you get to see your old friends after you went off to college?

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New Friend.


Posted Wednesday July 5 2006, 2:44 pm

I'm really tired of my current friend group. They are all fake, not trustworthy,inconsiderate, they always talk about their friends behind their back...they probablly even talk about me. I've talked to them about this problem but they just ignore it, and continue.

I started talking to a new girl at school this year, and we really got along well. We never hung out or anything because she has her own friend group so i was afraid to...

I want to invite her over this summer though and hang out with her. The problem is im really shy and it's kind-of hard for me to talk to new people that i want to like me...and i really really want her to like me.

My question is how should i invite her over, what shou...

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my guy friend


Posted Wednesday July 5 2006, 1:38 pm

13, female

i have a friend (guy) and we're keeping in close touch over the summer -- emailing, phone.

i guess this isn't that important, but i still want some advice. well, in his emails he always wants me to call him. and i do.

sometimes i say things like 'im free to talk over the weekend.. call!' but he insists for me to call. no big deal, but he hasnt ever called my house or cell since we've started talking over the phone. and when im constantly the one calling his house, it makes me sound kind of desperate.

i dont want to be rude to point it out to him because maybe he wont call at all on purpose. why do some guys not like calling girls? and what are some harmless clues to get...

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me and my friend fighting


Posted Wednesday July 5 2006, 2:54 am

my friend and i are recently getting in fight and they are mostly about her bf(im 14/f by the way)her bf said some really mean stuff to me and my friend was mad at him about it for like 5 min and then forgave him.she always does that when hes mean to me or her. Should her and i stay friends or should we go our seperate ways?

thanks

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Communication!


Posted Tuesday July 4 2006, 10:36 pm

i get alll shy and stuff when around a guy i like and i can talk over msn and the ohone fine but when face to face i get all shy and i just want to runn away from them help ! how can i solve this problem does this mean im insacure about my body immage im 16 f

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My friend might do weed tonight


Posted Tuesday July 4 2006, 6:45 pm

Hey, my friend is going to go to a july 4th party tonight and theres gonna be weed and alcohol there... she said she doenst want to go, or smoke, but she says she'll drink though. She says she has to go because she promised her friends... im just worried about her.. what can i say to her?? I just dont want her to go.
Thanks so much.

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Id like a guys advise on this 1. only if you like girls for


Posted Tuesday July 4 2006, 5:27 pm

I love this boy so bad he is hot to me but everyone says ewwwwwww.... you like him......... that's just gross... ewwwwwwwww. Some how the grade under me found out and now this one gross kid who likes me was like whats up with you and {let's just call him C}. And we went out for maybe... about a month. But then I guess his mom found out and for a whole month he kept saying "you know where just friends, right?" and I'd say "ya" but then I'd be like what the heck!!! So now i've been planing to talk to him and at the end say well we can start going out now and no one has to know... but should I? And how?

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My Friend Is Mad At Me Over Something Dumb


Posted Tuesday July 4 2006, 10:00 am

Yesterday my friend wanted me to sleep over her house another day but I cou ldn't because I had a bbq to go to and she wanted to come. So I called my parents asking if they could ask my aunt so they did but she said no. Then she got pissed at me because I wanted to go even if she couldn't go. I think it is really dumb but I don't know what to do. Last week she got mad because she couldn't sleep over my house. What should I do? How should I talk to her because I want her to stop getting mad at me over stupid things.

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