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Posted Wednesday July 12 2006, 7:39 pm
my friend thinks she might be pregnate shes only 14. how can you tell if you are or not without buying a test?
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Sleepover
Posted Wednesday July 12 2006, 7:00 pm
My best friend is spending the night and we don't know what to do. We are going to the mall and we will be there untill 10:30, but what else should we do for the rest of the night? Keep in mind that we are 16, so no stuff like prank-calling or truth or dare. And we can't do anything that involves loud noise or leaving my bedroom. Or anything that makes a mess. Sorry so picky.
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Turning a friendship to something more?
Posted Wednesday July 12 2006, 2:22 pm
A good friend of mine recently just told me that he has feeling for me that go beyond our friendship. I had to turn him down and tell him that I couldn't be more than just friends with him. Not because he's not a good guy, don't get me wrong, he's pretty hott, funny, fun, sweet; he's a great guy. I just can't see myself in a relationship with him since we're such good friends. And not only him, but anyone of my male friends (I'm a girl by the way, if you haven't caught on--16).
It's like, once a guy reaches the "friend zone" with me, thats it, I can't date him. I mean, I tell my best frineds (guys and girls) everything from guys I've dated and done things sexual with to why my sister and I got into a fight. ...
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my mom doesn't trust me!!!
Posted Wednesday July 12 2006, 2:01 pm
hey everyone... well i need help... well my mom doesn't trust me at all anymore!!! its because i lie to her alot!!! i've tried to stop!!! but its rea;;y hard... && i do things behind her back like talk to guys... and she doesn't want me doing that either!!! so how should i get her trust back?
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my friend is bi!
Posted Wednesday July 12 2006, 1:53 am
my best friend just told me shes bi. i always kind of thought that because she always tries stuff with me and our friends. it makes us uncomfortable and we always tell her to stop. but now she told me that me and another one of our friends turned her bi...and its creeping me out. i dont want to be a bad friend and stop talking to her, especially because we have to spend the next week together at camp, but after that i'm probably going to hang out with her less. i'm not trying to be rude and judge her, but that just really freaks me out. please dont tell me i am being a bad friend, because thats not what im asking. i need to no how i can make it seem less weird when im around her for the next week at camp, and how i can not talk to her as mu...
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Big problems with losing friends.
Posted Wednesday July 12 2006, 1:05 am
I've been going thru a rough time with losing almost all of my best friends to drugs, sex, and alcohol these past few weeks. Losing them has been so terrible, we've just found the end to our 5 year friendship between the six of us.
I've developed several large cold sores with horrible swelling above my lip. I'm also getting a sty under my eye, and my eye twitches alot too. Big headaches and stomach aches are also becoming a problem. My doctor confirmed these are just stress problems with losing my friends, but what should I do? I honestly cannot name two friends I have right now, nor am I ready to start school again alone.
What should I do? Not having friends has also resulted in loss of appetite, me and these ...
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Meeting new people.. it seems hopeless.
Posted Wednesday July 12 2006, 12:59 am
15/Female
I guess I am really lonely/bored. I am "popular" and friends with a lot of different people but they always seem to be busy, working or on vacation.
I know I'm feeling desperate but I have been invited to some big parties but haven't gone since I don't feel like lying to my parents (even if I didn't drink or blaze I can't go home smelling like that). I'm afraid that I will get bored enough of sitting at home doing nothing that I will go to the party and get myself into a lot of trouble.
I guess I'm asking what I can do to meet new people if I can't sign up for camp halfway through summer, no sports teams are running, I can't get a ride anywhere to volunteer, I'm home alone all...
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a drift?
Posted Tuesday July 11 2006, 11:07 pm
okay. me and my friend where best friends with this guy for 2 years. and ever since we introduced one of our friends to him. its been like just them 2. leaving the 2 of us in the dust.
today we all hung out. and we realized how much he changed. and he doesn't even realize like we do.
this would have been the 4rd year and it was like nothing. just kinda dead the past 6 months.
were trying to tell him what we noticed.
does anyone know any good songs that fit this situation of friend moving to emo'ness while we are getting sick of emo's. and were just ourselves. not wanting a label.
thanks.
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Best Friends Moved!!
Posted Tuesday July 11 2006, 9:52 pm
Hi,
My best friends moved away last year and when they came to visit for the first time ever I kinda cried whenever they had to leave! I miss them so much! What should I do to get them to come over more and to stop missing them so much?? Thanks!
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"my buddy" 2
Posted Tuesday July 11 2006, 8:32 pm
I'm the same person who is having trouble with her friend ditching her and all that. Well I took some of ya'll's advice about doing it back to her... well now unfortunatly she hates me. So now I don't know what to do... should I say "screw you" or try and still be her friend. She like deleted me from her myspace and stuff and it's pretty gay. I told her that I wasn't going to her b-day party because she ditched me after she already said that she was going to go with us somewhere on Sunday. So I said that I wasn't going to her b-ay party on Saturday and my bro isn't going either (who she has a crush on). Well... now should I be like Screw her or should I keep tryin to be friends with her... Here is the link to the other question:
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Our moms object, but we wanna be together.
Posted Tuesday July 11 2006, 5:42 pm
I'm 14 year old gurl. okay to my question..I like my moms bestfriends son, my mom and his mom have been friends since highschool and there now around 40 years old. Anyways I like her son and he likes me too..we have discussed dating eachother, and really want to but our parents won't let us because their afraid if we break up that it will destroy their friendship, I just really want to date and be with him but dont want my mom and his to hatte me for it.
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looseing friends
Posted Tuesday July 11 2006, 2:26 pm
well, i'v lost many friends lately. But it seems like i'v lost all of them because of my boyfriend. eithier one of my friends tryed to do stuff with my boyfriend or they went back n told him something i didnt want them too.Now this really isnt the problem i just have a hard time gaining friends, im a shy person once you meet me n i just need advice on how to be more open to people so i could make new friends. Thanx to any1 who helps
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My 2 best friends
Posted Tuesday July 11 2006, 11:11 am
Ok, this might be long, so yeahh..
Well I'm going to be a freshman in high school. I have 2 best friends, let's call them Marissa and Erica. I can be my complete self around them, tell them anything, etc. I'm shy when you first meet me, so I don't have that many friends, I mean I have these 2, and a few others [but it's different with the others] and that's it. It's hard for me to make new friends. But now, I feel like this friendship between me, Marissa and Erica is slowly falling apart.
Let me give you a little background here. Marissa's parents are very protective of her. She is almost a year younger than Erica and I, being born in August, me and Erica in November and December.. Anyway. 8th grade, she was hardly all...
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Flyleaf Concert
Posted Tuesday July 11 2006, 9:56 am
Okay, just to start things off, in the youth group I am in, there is absolutely NO DATING allowed. [and don't worry, it makes sense]
Well, i was talking on AIM last night to one of really good friends and his cousin in a chat room. They invited me to a Flyleaf concert at the end of the month, just out of the blue. I don't know, it just would kind of seem awkward...But I reallllllly wanna go because they are both my friends and such. I think that some of the girls in our youth group might be jealous [they are good looking].
and, I think my mom will be a little freaked out if I said, "Hey, can I go with two 16-17 year old guys to a flyleaf concert?"
My mom doesn't know either of them, but she kno...
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Posted Monday July 10 2006, 10:45 pm
ive been friends with lisa sinc freshman year. she moved lasts umemr but we were together like everyday last summer. we chilled a couple times over the year but still remained close. she started going out with this kid. he seemed really nice but he was really creepy. he hit on me and christina (lisas bestfriends) multiple times. hes over in texas right now for training and hes just such an asshole to her, i know he must be nervous but hes so mean. hes parranoid and always calls her names and assumes shes cheating but she doesnt even give any hints that she is. he called my phone over 9 times one night and i didnt answer cuz i dont want to deal with him shit to her. he left a voice mail saying mean stuff about lisa. first off.. no one messes...
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why the competition?
Posted Monday July 10 2006, 8:26 pm
me and my group of friends about 9 of us always hang out together. theres 5 girls and they are each different. i noticed that they are competitive. because 1 of them im really good friends with and she tells me everything. she tells me about what the other girls say about her and how they said things to make her feel bad, because 2 of them liked my other friend rob.
it's a big mess, but now the other girls started to tell me stuff too. you kno what they all said? not to tell any1 anything they told me. so now almost all of them tell me things about how they dont like 1 or 2 of them because of things they said to them or said to other people. its confusing and they are trying to out-do the other just for my friend, and just t...
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my friend needs help
Posted Monday July 10 2006, 4:58 pm
i love my best friend to death and I REALLY dont want to disobey her trust. see a while ago she told me all this stuff about how she has another world she can escape 2 and sometimes she feels like she doesnt know who she is. she sometimes even, she says, forgets her name. shes already tried talking to her parents and a therapist, and her parents have tried giving her pills. all of it, she says, just make her feel worse, like shes insane. she has a lot of friends, gets good grades, in whole leads a very normal life and acts perfectly normal. we didn't mention this for a while, but over the weekend i went down with her family to the beach. saturday night she started randomly dancing in the sand, running and spazzing randomly all over the plac...
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My friend is taking all my stuff!
Posted Monday July 10 2006, 4:57 pm
I'm 13/f.My friend is 13/f too.Here's what happened:
I bought some new clothes for school.I showed my friend while she was at my house.She said my clothes were ugly.She then proceeded to go to my closet.Needless to say,she got my into giving her some pants,a nice leather jacket,a hat,and some make-up.I don't know how she does it!She just begs me for it.So,when I ask to borrow her lipgloss,she says no.I give her all this stuff(unwillingly),and she won't even let me borrow her lipgloss.and,she insults me too.She says I have no style.I want to start out fresh next year.So:Should I dump her because of this,or still be her friend?
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friends that are girls
Posted Monday July 10 2006, 4:14 pm
I'm a guy and when I talk to my guy friends I can really express myself but when I talk to a friend thats a girl I act all different and shy....now I know when people say guys act different around girls
I need help just expressing myself and I usually and talk about anything but im having some trouble. O if anyone could give me some advice and some topics to talk about to my friends that are girls please tell me.
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Drugs.
Posted Monday July 10 2006, 3:59 pm
My friend is doing drugs a lot. She smokes weed every day and does ecstacy a few times a week. I have talked to her about it a lot, and she's not going to change. I don't know if I should tell her mom or do something else. So what should I do?
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