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what to do
Posted Saturday July 15 2006, 1:04 pm
sorry this is so long!! in school me and my 5 freinds(amber ashley dara taylor and kyleigh) were really close but we had so much drama!you wouldnt even beleive.but we got through it.but during those bad times some of those friends got me into alot of trouble but i forgave them but my parents didnt.sence the end of school ive lost touch with taylor and kyleigh.in our click is my best friend dara who ive known forever and i still talk to her like every day.my mom just told me i wasnt allowed to talk to amber taylor ashley or kyleigh because they are a bad influence on me and she said my techers said my attitude changed when i started hanging out with them.im really not worried about taylor or...
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thios girl..
Posted Saturday July 15 2006, 12:42 pm
okay im 13/female . and i`ve had this BEST FRIEND [ danielle ] for like 3 years . not that long but we did everything together . we went on vacation and everything . and then my other best friend [zoey ] got mad at me and got all my other friends mad at me [ its been 6 months ] and she still is gettin people mad at me. but she got my best friend mad at me and then we made up ! but whenever zoey found out that danielle was friends with me again she would flip and then tell her that i was spreading rumors and stuff like that about danielle . which really i never did but my friend danielle got mad at me for talking about her [ from what zoey said ] and didnt talk to me for 2 months . and zoey and her friends finally admitted to lying . but do...
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Friend's birthday.
Posted Saturday July 15 2006, 5:03 am
17/f.
My friends birthday is on monday and she's turning 18. They all want to go to a hooka bar. She said you don't have to do it, its just fun going down and watching people do it.
I've never been to a hooka bar so I don't know much about it. I know what it is, but is it bad for you? Also, I don't know if my parents will be up for it so how do I tell them. If I go I probably won't do it anyways but my parents won't believe me probably. And anyways, I'm unsure about going. How old do you have to be to go? How old do you have to be to do it? Is it bad for you? What should I tell my parents?
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Posted Saturday July 15 2006, 2:48 am
I'm a married man. I used to have a group of female friends in high school and they recently contacted me. I want to see them, but my wife would probably not want me to. Should I see them secretly, ask my wife and respect her wishes, or tell my wife and do as I please? We are just friends.
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Travel/Parental Convincing kind of..
Posted Saturday July 15 2006, 1:24 am
OK so I want to go on a trip that is 9 hours away. It would only be two days, MAYBE three. The reason I want to go is because I have some friends there that I care about more than anything and I miss them a lot. My mom told me that if we had an adult come with us me and my friend could take the trip. My friend's mom and little sister agreed to come. Now that that's settled, I told my mom and now she's having second thoughts about me going. She said I'm too young (even though I'm with my best friend, her mother and little sister) and some more excuses. The most positive thing I got was "the answer AS OF RIGHT NOW is no". Is there any way I can convince my mom to let me take the one and only trip I want to this summer? I'm almost 15...
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Should she know?
Posted Friday July 14 2006, 8:54 pm
I'm dating my bestfriends older sisters ex-boyfriend lets just call my bestfriend Kay. I want to tell her, but she might tell her sister lets call her Amanda. Should i tell "Kay" or should I keep it a secret until everyone knows? And what if "Kay" doesn't want to be friends anymore. Oh yeah and i'm the young one in the relationship.
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I need help with my friends
Posted Thursday July 13 2006, 10:47 pm
my friend have been great all year and now that ive moved out of state i feel that they are always talking about me and that will forget about me. I want to know if they are talking about me and if they will always remember me and I dont know how to ask them because they may take it the wrong way. Please help me.
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what was my friend's deal?
Posted Thursday July 13 2006, 10:31 pm
My one friend was being very mean to me on the phone, and I didn't do anything at all! Well this is how it started (sorry this might be long)...
Well my one friend usually calls me about everyday, and I noticed she hadn't called all day yesterday or today, so I thought I'd give her a call. Everything was fine until I asked her if she was gonig to an amusement park for our school or something. She said that her parents would never let her. So I started making these little crying noises because I did want her to go. Then she gets all mean telling me to stop making those squeaking noises. I told her I was just kidding, and she said that it gets annoying sometimes. I couldn't believe that she said that! I mean we're girls! We all...
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goodbi to her!
Posted Thursday July 13 2006, 10:30 pm
Muh bestest friend and me are having lots of fights latley cause her boyfriend is having sex with her, and doing crack and stuff. he's like 14, shes only 12. i'm 13 though. i dont like her being around him but she always sticks up for him, this has been happening lots for almost four monthz, how can i get hur back i miss hur!
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likeable personality
Posted Thursday July 13 2006, 9:59 pm
This is going to be kinda hard to explain, so bare with me. You know how theres certain people that have really nice personalities and you just adore them, well I'm not one of those people. I guess people don't find my personality to be "likeable." I CAN'T bring up conversations with people I don't really know, and if I do, it ends up being an awkward silence. My best friend's brother thinks I'm so boring and then my best friends brother thinks her other friend is really nice and cool and fun to be around. What can I do to make people wanna talk to me more and hang out with me and like my personality? I think I'm boring too. And I know I have to be myself because that's obvious but I need more detail.
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Friends
Posted Thursday July 13 2006, 7:57 pm
I have a lot of friends. But I have fights with a lot of them a lot. They don't have a lot of fights with their other friends. I know how to be a friend but still... I am not acting like a good friend and I really need help on that. Also how can I make people like me so I can make more friends? The other thing is how can I determine who is really my true friend and who is not? Please help!
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gossip
Posted Thursday July 13 2006, 7:44 pm
What do you do when a friend for 9 years gets upset because they were told that you said something supposedly They won't talk about it. They say that they are upset and won't tell you what was said so that you can deny or explain
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my friend
Posted Thursday July 13 2006, 7:02 pm
so about two months ago i found out that my best friend basically was talking about me behind my back, so i told her off and we both got really pissed and just stopped talking. last week she apologized and it seemed like she meant it so i told her it was ok. so the other day she was at my house and she was on advicenators.com, and i guess she forgot to log out because today i came onto this site and clicked on "your questions" and saw that they werent mine so i was confused and i clicked on one. in it she basically bashed our whole group of six friends, she said only herself and my two other friends were pretty and she said one of them was only pretty "sometimes". then she continued to talk about another friend (who even...
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Boys And Friend
Posted Thursday July 13 2006, 6:01 pm
My friend Tracee has had a couple boys this past year. I have not really, but I am not jealous. I don't try to get guys to like me because I haven't really found anyone I really like this past year. Thing is, I've heard that she's been saying stuff behind my back about it. That supposedly like no boys like me and I have no "expierence" and I don't know guys at al she supposedly said to my one friend. Like, if I don't care about it, why does she? Should I say something or let it go?
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best friend saying mean things
Posted Thursday July 13 2006, 5:48 pm
my one friend just told me that my best friend has said really mean stuff behind my back - like im not pretty, fat, boys dont like me, i try too hard, etc. i dont know how to bring it up with her because its kind of embarassing and really hurts my feelings because she's my best friend. this girl who told me said i'm not aloud to tell her but i think i might have to ... i dont want it hurting our friendhsip, she said these things earlier in the year so should i just forget about it or bring it up somehow? i dont wanna get in a fight but at the same time i think about it and im like why would she say that even if it was earlier in the year? i dont think she would say something like that now, because i think we were annoyed at each other when...
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Gonna Be Bored
Posted Thursday July 13 2006, 1:50 pm
Okay so im going to my best friend's house today. Normally i would never have to ask this question, because we have so much fun together, but she just moved, so she doesnt have any T.V., internet, or anything like that right now. So its going to be WICKED boring..so i was wondering what would be something fun to do?? like something involving, maybe paper, like the game MASH..does anyone know any games like MASH that we could play, or like something like truth or dare (but not nessacarily truth or dare..its just an example.) by the way we're both 14/f.
thanks ANYTHING will help
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i guess this is kind of a stupid question but
Posted Thursday July 13 2006, 1:46 am
This is kind of long, so sorry in advance.
one of my friends did a chat room on AIM with his friends and me. one of his friends was the only other person there my age and we talked for a bit. a few weeks later he IMed me again and we talked a little more and i enjoyed talking to him (not sure about him). We have a lot of similar interests. I met him once at youth group but we didnt talk much and now we hardly talk on AIm either.
I want to be friends with him, but i can't really figure out a way to do that if he doesnt really talk to me anymore and the idea of just asking him "will you be my friend" sounds really retarded, even in my mind. He goes to a different school and i only know him throug...
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ex-friend (kinda long)
Posted Wednesday July 12 2006, 8:06 pm
ok well at the beginning of summer my best friend Anna and another one of our friends, Katie got drunk at some party and decided later that night that they didnt want to be friends with any of my friends anymore..but i talked to my Anna about it and she said that she only really wants to be friends with me and none of my other friends, but Katie didnt like that..katie and anna were best friends before and she was always mad that me and anna were best friends for like 3 years after that. anyways now katie has been saying bad things about me that arnt true and she is trying to get anna to not talk to me anymore and i think anna is listening to her..i really dont want to deal with anymore of this never ending drama, its really bugging me! anot...
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In a bad situation....
Posted Wednesday July 12 2006, 7:45 pm
Okay...So sorry if it's terribly long.
Anyways...My best friend and I found out that we weren't invited to one of our friend's parties. Let's call her Mandi. So, that kinda got us mad. Over aim, Mandi, who was having her party had up on her away message,"The fab. 5 are over!" And so, I just imed Mandi and I asked her "Who are the fab. 5?" and she replies, "Not you!" In a mean way. So we get in this huge fight. And Mandi's best friend was over there, and we shall call her Alise. So, my best friend and I are talking, "Okay, 2 of our really great friends are over there, and they aren't even trying to stand up for us, or tell Mandi and Alise that this isn't right." So we got pretty u...
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should i go to my friends party??
Posted Wednesday July 12 2006, 7:39 pm
ok well my friend jason invited me to his party. i already told him YES!
but now i dont want to go. should i cancel on him?? what should i say??
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