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Shy Sista
Posted Wednesday July 26 2006, 9:19 am
Only one way to say it: I AM SUPER SHY!!! when someone i don't know comse up to me and says hi (kid or adult) if they older than me, I freeze up. If they are younger, i don't. I guess thats because I'm older......
Even older people (people in their 60's) make me shy, really shy.
Some things though, like the cashier at a resturaunt, im not shy at all. I doin't get it.
NOw, to the question:
Are there any ways I can help myself be less shy around new friends/people?
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how to meet people
Posted Wednesday July 26 2006, 3:04 am
can you give me a few ways to start conversation?
-starting it
how can you talk to someone thats walking?
[i see people i would like to talk to but they're walking =\]
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Okay this is a question i cant figure out
Posted Wednesday July 26 2006, 12:21 am
well, theres this girl. she is in my piano class, i think that by having small talk every class i could get closer and closer to the point where we're friends
am i doing the right thing? if not tell up please =D
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Is it worth it!!!
Posted Tuesday July 25 2006, 11:44 pm
WEll i dont understand what i do wrong but everytime i do something i piss another one of my friends off and then they wont talk to me and now i feel like i have no one to relie on to even talk to all i hear is things being said behind my back and my so called best friends lieing cause they dont trust me and now i just dont want to deal and i would love to do something to myself but i just cant and then i would lose the only true friend i had ---God! Any help so i dont do something dumb!1
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Friends?
Posted Tuesday July 25 2006, 9:37 pm
ohk well, i have an older guy friend [ older by a year and a few days :)] and i realllllllllly realllllllllllly love him. but well, he knows i like him, straight from my mouth. and, he doesnt like me the same way and he has a girlfriend and stuff. well, when i told him, it was over the phone and i hadnt seen him in a while, and we were planning on hanging out soon, and like, i dont know, i felt so stupid and i was like, fighting myself? if that makes sense to you.. but he told me that he still wants to chill soon, and that he really cares about me.
could that mean that theres a possibility that he
might have sort of mixed feelings? i dont know, i dont get him at alll, haha.
also, we were deep in talking, and he ...
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odd one out
Posted Tuesday July 25 2006, 9:25 pm
14/f
all of my friends drink and ive never even tried or got drunk. they all want me too and everything but im afaird and i dont know if i should.. and if it really is that bad..i know soooooo many people who have drank and they seem alright. but just scared and i need advice !
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Scared Dork?
Posted Tuesday July 25 2006, 8:06 pm
I'm 14, female.
I've never drank, smoked, or done drugs.
I feel like a loser, ALL my friends do stuff like this, cause in my town, everyone just does. I don't want to risk getting in trouble so I don't. I don't cuss, do sexual things other then making out, and I'm afraid to do crazy things with my friends. I won't sneak out with them, or like steal road signs. I just feel retarded and immature around all of them, everyone treats me like a baby, I've even been threatened a few times for being too "good." What should I do? I'm friends with almost everybody in my small town, so theres no one to go to.
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a friend like a sister.
Posted Tuesday July 25 2006, 4:36 pm
ok i have a friend and were like sisters we walk talk and eat at the same time we even finish each others sentences. i love her to death but she stayed over at my house for a month how do i tell her she is getting on my nerves with out hurting my feelings ?? Plz give me advice
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She talks a lot of crap about me...
Posted Tuesday July 25 2006, 4:20 pm
I used to be best friends with this guy, Mike, who is two years older than me. He had a HUGE crush on me, but I never felt the same way about him... so we never actually went out. Now, he has a girlfriend who is 15, while he is 18, and she hates me. She talks a lot of crap about me and calls me names. I have tried talking to both of them about it. Mike said he would talk to her, but it hasnt helped. Its now getting to the point where she is harassing me and saying really mean, hurtful, embarassing stuff. I dont know what else to do, and Im not sure why she is saying all this about me. I have never talked to the girl, and i have never talked about her... but for some reason she thinks i have. I told both her and Mike that I didnt. What else can I do?
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ugh friends
Posted Tuesday July 25 2006, 2:47 pm
sorry if this is long.
ok so you see me and this girl were like soo close for the past 2 years.. like insepratable. like s4l's . but last year we got in a big fight, well actually we didnt even fight. we just werent friends anymore. it was so weird how it happened. but i went to sit at a different lunch table and next thingi know we arent friends anymore. she said it was cuz she got close with this other girl. but i was thinking " why would i wanna be friends with someone if they just would leave me for someone else" and than like everyone started to not like her. but a lil bit ago. she became friends with my best friend well one of them and my vfriend use to hate her too. but liek the sad part is. i really miss my ...
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Emo.
Posted Tuesday July 25 2006, 2:01 am
People make fun of me and my friends and call us "emo" just because we wear black.
They say stuff like hey emo go run home to your mommy! Its so annoying! What do I do?
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Sick of her ragging on me.
Posted Monday July 24 2006, 8:51 pm
My friend Taylor, *of 7 years* always tries to make her look better then me. She always tells people I'm having a bad hair day, I'm breaking out, my parents are strict *even though HER parents are the super strict ones, deff. Not mine!* she'll tell them my families having money problems, I complain to much, or that my legs are a little hairy or something, especially around popular people and hotties.
She ALWAYS does this, I hate going places with her. She thinks she totally cool, but shes not. After two hott guys chose me over her, she's been like this. I'm not trying to compete against her, she just auotmaticly does this. I've tried talking to her, didn't work. What should I do?
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sfdf
Posted Monday July 24 2006, 7:15 pm
should i shave ... down under.. or trim.. friends tell me to shave it all off.. other tell me not to .. WHAT DO I DO
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=o
Posted Monday July 24 2006, 6:21 pm
ok so like i have this best friend and shes like clsoe with this other girl . and like my best friend ditched me for this girl before and the thing is i hate the other girl so its not like we all can hang out and when eveer im with my best friend she talks about the girl real bad and than the next day shes like best friends with her. and like i just wanna be like ur so fake how r you gonna tlak about her but call her ur best friend . but everytime i talk to her i just cant be mad at her.. its like weird. its liek impiossible to tell her. and i dont know why. and i dont know what i should do. if i should like be mad and tell her .. or let it go cause its not that big of a deal
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party music
Posted Monday July 24 2006, 4:36 pm
im putting together a dance party mix.
what songs can i include? also, how do you dance to those songs-is instruction included(like in dance slide it tells you what to do. except the cha cha is like random dancing, I think)
thakns peeps!
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My friends ruined my party
Posted Monday July 24 2006, 12:27 pm
Sorry it's so long!
I had my birthday party the other day and my friends acted completely horrible. We were at a restarant and "Sally" told "Cynthia" that she didn't want to be friends with her anymore, for no apparent reason. Then Sally started crying like she was the victim or something. So my mom realized what was going on and told them to either get over it or go home. So they finally got over there little fight and came back to the table. As soon as they were back they put on Cynthia's iPod and started singing along (which made me and everyone else at the table feel completely left out!). When I was opening my presents they didn't even watch the just sat there joking and laughing with eachother. They ...
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I messed up a party invitation; I want to make amends
Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 11:45 pm
I invited a new friend and his daughter to attend the 5th birthday celebration of my daughter. This was in part because I was returning the favor, and in part because this new friend is someone I have found to be a great guy who I like hanging out with.
Unfortunately, I messed up the invitation, and told him to show up two hours late. I didn't realize what I'd done until the party had already started and it was too late for him to come. I called him and apologized profusely, and he said he understood. What I feel worst about is that I'm sure his daughter was very disappointed (we held the party at a popular kid's restaurant, and of course she missed out).
I would like to get my family together with his so t...
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new 'bfffff<3'
Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 10:17 pm
a friend of mine was recently telling me that 'im his bffff<3' and things. and how he really cares about me and wants to be able to talk to me about his problems and stuff. and he's a great guy. but ive known him for a while, and he's a bit of a big mouth. & i dont want to tell him things if the next day he tells everyone. how can i find out if hes trustworthy?
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so many guys, so little time
Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 9:24 pm
i was at this thing w/ my friend and there were 2 guys there. she flirted with one the first 2 days and the other the second 2 and it got on my nerves b/c i dont want to flirt w/ anyone my friend likes b/c shes been my best friend since we were 2. she says she only likes one of them but it still frustrates me b/c shes got a boyfriend, 2 of her friends like her, and now this guy does too. i just think she needs to get her priorities straight. i want to tell her but i dont know how to in a "nice" way. is it wrong for me to express my concern? one of the guys she likes and likes her is one of my friends and i dont want to see him get hurt. the other guy and i are getting really close and it bugs me so much that she flirts w/ him. what should i do? thanks!
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She is getting on my nerves.
Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 6:41 pm
So I have a best friend,
but she really is getting on my nerves.
Everytime I make plans with someone,
she either invites herself, or says that the friend I had plans with invited her, OR talks to the friend I had plans with and talks her into inviting her.
I'm getting so sick of it,
now she acts like its okay,
and tells me if I dont want her to come
then I can tell her. But Everytime I tell her,
she gets all upset and gets mad at me.
But I mean come on, what can I do?
I'm so sick of her doing this!
Thanks!!!
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