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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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Friendship fading away?


Posted Saturday August 19 2006, 12:02 am

I have this best friend I've known for 6 years now. She has been with her boyfriend for over a year now and sometimes I start to think I am becoming less important to her since her boyfriend came in the picture.

I tried to tell her how happy I am of her and her boyfriend but sometimes i feel left out of most things her and I used to do. Sometimes I feel like I'm the one crawling to her cause it's ALWAYS me asking her to come over to hang out or to go to the mall.

What bugs me the most is that when she's over my house to spend the night, she's talking to her boyfriend 9 pm til 2 in the morning. I've noticed that whenever I tried to make plans with her she pretty much says "Oh, I can't do anything today"...

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HELP!


Posted Saturday August 19 2006, 12:00 am

14/F
Me and my best friend have been best friends since 4th grade, and now we are in 8th. We heard about the whole blood brothers thing and we want to do it, because we're not related but we're like sisters and we kink of want to make it official, but heres the bad part: She takes marajauna. She's knows it's bad for her but she's addicted. I was wondering if doing the whole blood brothers thing would affect me since she's a stoner. I love her and we want to be sisters I just want to know if her taking drugs would affect me in this.

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Penpal


Posted Friday August 18 2006, 11:01 pm

Does anyone know of any good penpal websites. I'd really like one, I just don't know where to go!

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Posted Friday August 18 2006, 10:13 pm

i told my friend i was afraid to die naked and now she makes fun of me. what should i do? :(

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She laughed at me


Posted Friday August 18 2006, 9:23 pm

Well see... today I went to meet a friend and do something with her (laycieee) so i was like 5 minutes away from my other friends house so i rode there just to say hi. Anyway i wrote this song and i really wanted Lindsay to hear it. Now everyone knows im a HORRIBLE singer but i really loved the lyrics to my song. So I told her to listen to it on my mp3 player. She started and she started laughing uncontrollably in my face. I felt horrible after that. I mean; yes i know im a bad singer but its like with her laughing in my face like that i felt really bad. Then i feelt bad because i felt like later when i met my other frined (laycieee) i was like wicked out of it and idk i dont think i was my self because of what happened with Lindsay earlie...

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my friends are sayin that they got free ipods online


Posted Friday August 18 2006, 8:53 pm

ya i really want a ipod soo bad and my parents said that if i want one i have to buy it myself.. and my friends are sayin that they got their ipods free online with no scams and every site i go to where it says free ipod its always a scam i either have to buy and offer or take a long ass survay and its soo annoying but i want one so bad soo please does anyone know a real non scam site where i just put in my address and name and get a free nano ipod??

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how to gwt them broke up.


Posted Friday August 18 2006, 4:24 pm

Ok one of my friends kathy she is 18. Well she met this boy named joe that is so to say 22. Everybody thinks he looks older than 22 and looks like a child millester and al this. There is not one person that i know of that likes him. Well kathy has been driving his car and she aint got no license. Yet he lets her. He is working at the bowling alley and nmot getting off til 2:00am or something like that on weekends. Well she is out with him all the time and aint at home taking care of her son. He is 15months old. Her mom does have temporary custody of him but still. This week i havent exactly been acting myself due to a real bad feeling bout joe. I havent been myself due to this real bad feeling as far as joe. Tuesday this bad feeling hit me ...

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No friends..Always at Home & on the Computer..


Posted Friday August 18 2006, 3:55 pm

16-female.

i always feel like such a geek. i'll admitt it i dont have THAT many friends but i have my few close ones. but most of them are a year younger than me. and on of my best friends or the one i hangout with alot is my cousin -she turns 16 in october. sometimes i feel embarassed that my cousin is one of my best friends and she doesnt have many friends either? i mean in like 9th grade i would hangout with so many different people and i would never be home and now im going into 11th and i dont hangout with many people especially from my school. i hangout with everyone from a different school (my cousins school) and they're all a year younger than me. my brother is always like wow your a freak what are you and nikki doing...

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What to do when friends come over?


Posted Thursday August 17 2006, 11:02 pm

What to do when u invite a friend over? My house is so boring.



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The Iba dream...


Posted Thursday August 17 2006, 11:01 pm

I'm new to this... anyway. I had a dream about my best guyfriend (me and him had a little dissagreement a week or 2 ago). His name is Iba.
So I looked in Iba's Profile in my dream and it said- STATUS:ENGAGED. (iba isnt really into girls yet but hes NOT GAY and i know it for a fact. We're aged 15/16). I asked him what his profile ment and he said that he met this fantastic girl and stuff. I was shocked that i didnt know about it. He told me how wonderfull she was and then he said to me: "I love her" (Iba has never in real life said he loves anyone... with an acception of religious stuff and family and stuff (We're Muslim)) So when he said that he loved her i lost ALL hope in ever having him as my own. Deep down inside i kne...

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am i jealous?


Posted Thursday August 17 2006, 9:13 pm

ok. so i have this friend who's a boy. we've been friends for about a year now, but if feels as if we've known each other forever. this afternoon, he IMed me and said that he's kind of having girl problems. i was kind of surprised because he's not really the girl-obsessed kind of type. he likes this girl that likes him back. but he can't go out with her because of his parents. i gave him some suggestions, but i don't know if he'll actually consider it. he seemed annoyed. even though i didn't hear his voice, i know him well enough to know when he doesn't feel normal. and i knew this situation is really bugging him. but throughout our conversation, i got really... umm... i don't really know how to explain it... jealous maybe? i guess i kind o...

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It's my party and I'll invite someone else if I want to!


Posted Thursday August 17 2006, 5:04 pm

Well, my birthday is in 3 days. I'm turning 14.

My friend Jessica is supposed to come along with my 4 other friends. Jessica hasn't contacted me in 2 days and she didn't even mention my party. I invited her and she said she can most likely come!

But now I want to invite my friend Anne, but I'm not so sure I should because Jessica will get rather mad at me! I'm afraid she'll show up or call if I invited Anne, and I don't want her getting mad because I invited someone else because she didn't call me about it. That's the only reason I would have invited Anne, because Jessica hasn't contacted me in any way.

What should I do!?

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boyfriends new best friend


Posted Thursday August 17 2006, 11:53 am

hey, well my boyfriend used to have a bestfriend named marc. i used to be friends with marc too. like me, my boyfriend, marc, and lucy could hang out together. even any combination of people. but then marc went away. so to replace marc for being his bestfriend he made bestfriends with this kid named eric. now eric was from his football team and i dont know eric at all. but now my boyfriend is with eric every single day like no lie and has no time for me anymore. and its not like we can all hang out because i dont know eric. also my boyfriend has mentioned to me that eric doesnt like me, but what i dont get is i never even met him before. a month ago we broke up because we never saw each other, but that time it was my my moms fault because s...

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regarding developinga relationship


Posted Thursday August 17 2006, 12:04 am

hello sir/mam i needed some advice regarding a friend ...this person a girl in the library looked at me for 15 -20 days in the library where i studied i could make out that she will come and talk and she came asked my name and i started wishing her than i had some family problem in the meantime i could see that she was moving out with a guy one of her batchmates so even though i wanted to talk i stayed away as i did not want to interfere..than one day she came and sat just in front of me looking at me that day i put a letter on her car saying that it will be nice to know you and i gave my tel no.. and i heard her telling her friends about this than i sent her 4 e-mails and wished her best of luck fot her exam by sending an sms and told ...

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I swear I'm going to scream at her the next time I see her.


Posted Wednesday August 16 2006, 7:10 pm

This girl named Leah lives in my neighborhood and goes to my school.

We used to be best friends sadly, until I kind of tried to keep my distance from her. The reason why I wanted to keep my distance from her is because she acted like total jerk to me for no reason (I'm not gonna list what all she did to me) and then went and cried to me telling her to forgive her. All of my friends were attacking me, so I forgave her and I really wish I didn't do that.

She's is an effing stalker and I'm not kidding. She copies EVERYTHING my friend and I do (Yeah, it's supossed to flattery. Well, it's driving me crazy) All she does is talk about my other friends and when I'm not around all she does is talk about ME behind MY bac...

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Posted Wednesday August 16 2006, 12:51 pm

In the past, my best friend, used to ditch me alot. We had a big discussion on it. I said how it really hurt my feelings & all this stuff. So then she told me, she didn't mean to do it, & she was very sorry, & would never do it again. She promised & everything.

Then, just yesterday, she did it.
I went to this beach, like I don't know a week or two ago? & thats basically, all I've been talking about. & I kept saying I'm gonna invite you ok? & shes like ok, I can't wait. So I was all excited right? & then I'm like.. "I think were gonna go down there tomorrow. I was wondering if you can go?" & shes like "Yeah!" & so then.. around 6ish that day, I went to the park...

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friends


Posted Wednesday August 16 2006, 5:32 am

well my "friends" Audrey and Emily got involved with a teacher harrasing them and he only said he wants to have sex with me. Well this guy Nelson told everyone about the harasing thing and some a couple of people came up to me and asked me if I got harrased and i said "He just said some things to me but it was mostly Audrey and Emily" but the people are telling my friends that i spread the thing about the teacher and they are saying i said I was the one mostly involved but i didnt say that. so now all my friends think i am a liar and stuff but i didnt lie. and they wont believe me, and they dont want to talk to me..
How can i make them believe me? i basically have no one to hang out with at lunch now because they...

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How do I deal with life?


Posted Wednesday August 16 2006, 2:36 am

ugh.. i don't know what to do! there's so many things that go wrong in my life, i just don't know how to handle it all..
first off my friends are making me feel like poop, just because i've messed up. they call me a slut and stuff too.. when i don't see how i am..
then there's this guy i like, and he just acts so mean to me, even though he knows i like him, and he told me that he doesnt want to be like all the other dick face guys that just use girls and be mean to them
also, there's this guy that i've had tiny feelings for since last year, and i just recently got over him, because he was so mean to me, and just used me. and then this girl told me that he never liked me and stuff.. but he's being so nice to me, and i'm ...

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69


Posted Tuesday August 15 2006, 11:09 pm

okay, i am completely informed about stuff like sex, i mean, i go to a school where thats all everybody thinks about almost. but, i still dont know what 69 is??!! i probably dont wanna know, but i feel kind of stupid when my 60 year old english teacher even knows what it means!! lol its kinda funny, but somebody please just tell me!!

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summer break


Posted Tuesday August 15 2006, 7:59 pm

okay, well, tomorrow is my last day of summer break. i have to stay at home all day by myself. i have a computer, tv, drums, 2 guitars, keyboard, stereo, ipod, and thats about all i have to keep myself entertained. any ideas of how i can spend my last day??!!

ps i live out in the country so i can go to friends houses....i cant drive yet.

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