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i can't deal with her
Posted Tuesday August 29 2006, 8:17 pm
OK there is this girl in my choir class that I cannot deal with. I thought she was gonna be in Concert next year and be out of my hair but she's in both classes! I can't deal with her for another year but I don't want to switch out. HELP!!!!
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uh...conversational skills i guess
Posted Tuesday August 29 2006, 6:35 pm
how do you tell someone you don't really hang out anywhere special (your mostly at home) and what you like to do when most of that stuff is at home without him thinking your like a freakish loner? i mean he already thinks im sooooo wierd because i said i don't like music i don't play (no criticism)but wierdos atleast have friends. i do have friends though. just how do i swing the conversation aroud to...anything but me? usually i like to talk about myself but i feel like this guy's interogating me!
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Irritating the crap out of me
Posted Tuesday August 29 2006, 2:32 pm
There's this guy from my clique who likes to irritate me. But anyway, he makes fun of everyone. I'm rather close to him as in like I can talk to him. Both of us belong to the same clique and I guess i can talk to him pretty well as compared to the rest in my clique.
Recently, he kept criticising bout me. Whenever he knows a guy is interested in me, he'd be like "What?! He has really bad taste". There's this other guy who was interested in me and he happens to know that guy as well. So he was telling me "Ya, anyway, he has really bad taste. His favourite girls from the FHM magazine are all not nice."
And he likes to put me down, saying for eg "everyone in our class is quite pretty.. exce...
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my friend she is sooo..
Posted Tuesday August 29 2006, 12:59 pm
(SORRY IT MAYBE LONG, BUT PLEASE HELP)
so ive been friends with this girl since the beginning of this year. when we started being friends we always made these jokes that we call eachother ugly but it was a joke and it still is and yea. but like now she we are like really close friends and im friends with her friends and shes friends with my friends.
they get along fine but say we are hanging out with a group of 4-5 friends i always see this, she is always being so critical of what i say and do but not to the others. she always shuts me down and doesnt let me be happy. but for some reason i know for a fact she isnt doing this on purpose. i also told her 2 times that she is doing this to me and she never said anything t...
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Moody friend.
Posted Tuesday August 29 2006, 3:00 am
I met a new friend a few months ago. He's pretty cool but we are pretty much exact opposites. He can be really moody sometimes and takes things out on other people. He wallows in self pity and always complains about how life isn't worth it. Then he gets irritated by me whenever I have a different opinion and express it.
I've tried talking about this with him and it isn't working.
I really can't afford to lose him as a friend though even though he isn't much of a friend sometimes.
Still, I can't afford to lose him since he knows way too much about me.
And he is really fun to talk to when he's not in one of his moods.
Any advice on how to deal with him? Besides for talking it out, which I've tried numerous times?
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ignoring me
Posted Monday August 28 2006, 8:33 pm
i havent seen my friend all summer so we kinda drifted apart since school ended. i was talking to her online but she was kinda ignoring me and didn't say much. when i asked her what shes been doing lately she just says "nothing" and i was expecting an actual full answer from her. i've been asking her to hang out but she makes up a stupid excuse every day why she can't. and get this, ill ask her to hang out she will say she cant then 2 seconds later her away message is "going to ___'s house" i can't stand it. and it happens all the time too. shes not a busy person and she couldnt find 1 day this whole summer to hang out with me. if i call her she says she has to go within a minute and just hangs up. i've had several conve...
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druggs =[ 14/f
Posted Monday August 28 2006, 8:21 pm
My friend claire and i have been best friends with susan all through 6th & 7th grade, then she moved in the middle of 7th grade and we wrote letters back & forth to each other. but suddenly about 6 monthes ago she stopped writing to us. we were wondering why so cliare went to susans hosue with anotehr friends and we found out she is on weed. cliare doesn't want to do anything about it but i feel like i should do soemthing. susan is VERY poor and doesnt have alot of money. idk what to do, should i call the police? what would happen? and would i have to get involved? PLEASE HELP
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matching
Posted Monday August 28 2006, 7:10 pm
My best friend and I always go shopping at the mall together, but there`s been a problem lately. My friend always wants us to match & it's starting to get annoying because I want my own style. For example: We both were shopping together & saw the same purses. We ended up buying the same one`s but in different colors, and now my friend wants to make a habit of this and buy matching purses for every season like a fall purse, winter purse, etc. This friend & I went to the mall this past Sunday [ Yesterday ] and she saw what I had picked out to buy, it was like a tshirt and a pair of jeans, and then she picked out the same one`s. She DID ask if I was okay with her buying the same thing`s as me and since I was on the spot, I said ye...
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I need a GUYs opinion--PLEASE?
Posted Monday August 28 2006, 6:53 pm
14/f
What do you guys consider as flirting? I'm a girl and I'm a tomboy sorta. I'd rather hang out with guys (because there is way less drama then to hang out with girls) play video games with them, joke with them, and ust basically do things with them rather than girls (keep in mind that this is all rate PG stuff)
And everytime I make a guy friend, they end up wanting to go out with me and I rather just stay friends with them then to go out and ruin the friendship. And so I say no most of the times and I feel bad at the end because I said no (I know I shouldn't) and I've hurt them.
And then when I do want to go out with a guy (that I usually don't hang out with...don't ask why. I just can't do the whol...
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i seriously do not know what to do
Posted Monday August 28 2006, 6:24 pm
my friend is in the shittiest situation. her mom is abitch, she fucks random guys, sometimes hits her, calls her fat and ugly, makes her cry, locks her in her room, and has mood swings. i honestly think her mom has some mental disorder or something. she doesnt deserve to have kids because she is a horrible evil bitch and makes my friend feel like shit. now i am the one she calls after she fights with her mom and is sobbing, and i feel so b ad beacause i dont even know what to say half the time. seh cant live with her dad, grandpa/grandma or anyone else. her mom hates me and my mom for no apparent reason and constantly says shit about us. now i do NOT know what to do and im on the verge of crying because i feel so stressed bcause i feel lik...
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my two best friends?!
Posted Monday August 28 2006, 3:10 pm
hi :) 14/f. sorry if its long, but please helpp! okay so i have two best friends, one is a guy and one is a girl. lets call him peter and her jessica. ive been friends with peter since i was like 3 and ive gone to school with him all middle school. this year were going to different highschools because he is going to an all boys school.. but we still see eachother alot. jessica is someone i met at camp like 3 years ago and we live about 20 minutes away. but we hang out so much, you would never guess that we live that far. anyway, one day they both came over and met and they started liking eachother. they hung out a few times with me there (like 6 times in two months) and then he finally asked her out. she realllllly likes him and stuff and h...
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jackass
Posted Monday August 28 2006, 11:21 am
first let me give you some background information..
i have this friend (lets call him..steve). we were really good friends last year. we were going out for like 2 days but thats a whole other story. he was almost like a brother to me and we were really close. i still like him sorta but hes being really mean to me and my friend (lets call her..suzie). since we hadnt seen steve all summer me and suzie went to 3 of his football practices so we could talk to him. well that didnt work out cuz he never even glanced at us when we yelled his name (this was after practice was over). we decided to give up after the third practice. then we saw him at the street fair and were kinda following him for a little to see if he noticed we were ...
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best friend trying to take guy
Posted Monday August 28 2006, 12:57 am
well theres this boy i like and my best friend knew him before me but never talked to him or anything. she said he was ugly but after i said he was cute and that i liked him she said it to and she starts flirting with him and kissin him on the cheek when im standing right there. He wants us to blow him but take turns. Have one of us blow him while the other one makes out with him then switch. my {best} friend is all like "ya lets do it sexy" and stuff like that and im soo freakin mad cuz she knew i liked him alot!! i told her about this and she just said that im makin a big deal out of nothing and that hes mine. what do you guys think am i overreacting or should i be mad? i mean would you want your best friend making out and givin bj's to the boy you like?
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Trashing friends
Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 11:12 pm
I have two friends that dont really like each other. The one is my best friend and the one is my second best friend. Lately I have realized I have a tendency to sort of "talk trash" on one friend when I'm with the other one. I dont really mean to do it, and it isnt anything extremely big, but it just comes natural like if something is bugging me about one I come to the other to vent, and then I realize "oh crap" later. And I'm not talking major trash just little things. But even that feels like I'm stabbing the other in the back. I feel like I do this because I am so close with each that I feel like I can talk about anything with each of them, but then I feel terrible after I realize what I've done! How can I stop this nasty habit!?
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best friends are becoming a burdon
Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 10:22 pm
ive felt kind of lost lately. I love my friends to death, but i dont know, its like every single day we seem to have less and less in common. ive got alot of different groups of friends and my main one ive just seem to be falling out of. 3 of my best friends are in there and i just dont really like hanging with them anymore. they dont do anything wrong we just dont have anything in common anymore and i feel really bad about it because theres like nothing i can do. lately ive been more friends with everyone im in choir with and theyre like my best friends, but i dont want to leave everyone behind. i know they say people change over time but i dont want to change. i feel like if i stay with the friends i have ill be suffocating. like this is ...
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My friend and weed
Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 10:16 pm
My friend just told me she smoked weed. She is 14, and I don't know what to do. I can't get her in troble. She said she only smoked half a bowl. What can I do to get her to quit? I don't want her to fool up her life
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girl who I like but is mad at me
Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 7:36 pm
I like this girl and we were friends and started talkin alot. Then I found out that she liked me too and i told her i liked her and we remained friends. Well then i had to work and jus some girl i met that day changed my voicemail on my phone. Later that day the girl i like called and heard the voicemail and got really pissed. She thought like i was lieing about things and we werent even going out. Now she wont talk to me! what should i do?
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i neeed help
Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 6:14 pm
well there is a girl in my grade that i really like and i dont know if she likes me or not what should i do??
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attitude
Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 2:46 pm
I have this friend, where shes really nice to me one minute and mean to me the next. When she's with her other friends she acts like she doesn't know me or says mean things to me and treats me like I'm her enemy and stuff. When she's alone shes nice and we jhang out and stuff and shes fine. She gets pissed off easily and if you do 1 thing that could make her a tad bit mad, she starts a fight. We had plans to go to movies and then my mom said at the last second I couldn't go, and she got really mad because she said she was so exited and stuff and I said I'm really sorry theres nothing I can do about it and I explained to her why I can't go and shes like fine I'm not going to be your friend anymore. Then a day later she forgets about it and a...
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my sister took my boyfriend
Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 1:02 pm
I was going out with this guy and then i told him i just wanted to b friends for a little while and give it a break .. well then like the next day i talked to him and he said he was goin out with my step sister.. what should i do???because it really makes me mad she done that and i dont think she really likes him she just dont like me very well and she wants too make me mad
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